FabSwingers.com forum: I have to bite the bullet

By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Having not had a meet for a LONG time and sensing I am headed for the convent if I don't take action , I need to summon up the courage and find my longlost mojo soon and actually agree to meet someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't believe you haven't had offers so I will assume you have very high standards.

If you ever decide to lower those standards to, oh I don't know lets just say gutter level

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By *ouple4biMMFCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Yep just get on and do it,go for a social first with no pressure to play

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Your last meet was 2 days ago!

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Your last meet was 2 days ago!

Oh no it wasn't! That is an old friend who kindly wrote a nice verification for me. X

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Your last meet was 2 days ago!

Oh no it wasn't! That is an old friend who kindly wrote a nice verification for me. X"

See the assumptions about verifications and dates they were written? Doesn't tally with date that fun was had!

which in that parricular case was 2 years ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be down but I'm too young and too far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear ya OP. My mojo disappeared for a few months. Slowly creeping back in though, never fear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having not had a meet for a LONG time and sensing I am headed for the convent if I don't take action , I need to summon up the courage and find my longlost mojo soon and actually agree to meet someone!

Why don't you just take it nice and slow with a no pressure social in a public place. See how you feel then

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

If you don't mind me asking....what is actually stopping you from meeting ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get yourself up North lass, we'll sort yer out up 'ere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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We can't help, despite being local, as you seem to have us blocked, though we have never been in contact with you to our knowledge.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Well if you fancy a social, I drop my little ladies off about 7:30 tomorrow evening , I'd be free from about 8 .. you'd have to make your way to Leeds though. We always make folk very welcome

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

We can't help, despite being local, as you seem to have us blocked, though we have never been in contact with you to our knowledge.

Do I? I have no idea how that happened so apologies although with respect, I am only interested in single guys but thankyou x

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Get yourself up North lass, we'll sort yer out up 'ere

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Got me thinking. ..this thread probably sounds like one of those 'look at me' thread but wasn't actually intended that way. I was really just thinking what has happened to me!!! Lol! !!! I have been out tonight and the hottest guy was coming on strong to me. I mean.....waaaaaaaay out of my league and OMG what a body!!!!! and I was thinking WTF is he doing chatting me up????? But I still bottled it!!!!!!! Can you believe the idiot I am???? Even my mates couldn't get their head around it!

Still...... he was SERIOUS eye candy for all us girlies in the bar! Fuck knows why he liked me!!!

Is there any medication I can take to sort my STUPID head out??,

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Well if you fancy a social, I drop my little ladies off about 7:30 tomorrow evening , I'd be free from about 8 .. you'd have to make your way to Leeds though. We always make folk very welcome

Ah thankyou for the generous offer lol! Quite a journey for me though lol

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

It isn't that I lack the opportunity but I seem unable to just ....go for it!

Hmmmmm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly until you shake the monkey off your back there's no a lot that anyone can do for you. If you're not feeling it then you need to take a break. The best thing is to get yourself in a no pressure situation and just go from there

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By *izzabelle and well hungCouple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

It has to feel right.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Why not go out with some mates and pull like old times. You'll have the advantage of seeing them first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It isn't that I lack the opportunity but I seem unable to just ....go for it!

Hmmmmm. "

I've read your profile and it seems you're very specific in what you're looking for which is great, you should get out of this site what you want not what someone else wants. Are you looking for too specific a thing though? Is it a case of trying to make fantasy a reality? Fantasies are great but reality rarely matches what you have in your mind's eye.

Maybe change your profile text to something simple like 'looking for fun'. Then view the next five realistic messages from a male with an open mind and see where it takes you. Just a thought that may or may not help x

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

I'm a fab Virgin lol xx join the club

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Sadly until you shake the monkey off your back there's no a lot that anyone can do for you. If you're not feeling it then you need to take a break. The best thing is to get yourself in a no pressure situation and just go from there"

There is a monkey on my back????? Well why didn't anyone tell me! How long has he been there???

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"It isn't that I lack the opportunity but I seem unable to just ....go for it!

Hmmmmm.

I am not having any problems finding the guys lol!!! It's a confidence issue. That's all. Anyway the sun has come out. I will run up the street naked and see what happens

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

While I enjoyed reading ur profile it's very specific and the hot guy chatting u up last night but u bolted gives me the idea u have become complacent about sex maybe just a Fuck me now mail to one of ur previous meets will remind u what ur missing

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"While I enjoyed reading ur profile it's very specific and the hot guy chatting u up last night but u bolted gives me the idea u have become complacent about sex maybe just a Fuck me now mail to one of ur previous meets will remind u what ur missing "

The hot guy chatting me up? I bolted??? What? ??? I haven't bolted! Lol! I did go out... I did sleep. ... don't follow you there or the point about complacency. .. but not getting into specifics as that's not fair on me or others.

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

"It isn't that I lack the opportunity but I seem unable to just ....go for it!

Hmmmmm. "

It'll,er, come, when you feel (like)it..

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Not worried at all that my profile is specific. I am fussy. If I wasn't attracting those guys then I might re-consider. .. but I am.

No that isn't the issue. The issue is purely me. Getting over the confidence issue to make the jump. Nothing to do with my profile as I am not having any problems with finding compatible guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure there is plenty of attention you receive, and you look fine to me, like you say it's just a case of breaking your habits and getting out there. Maybe your mojo just needs to be woken up and the right guy can help you get to the right space for meeting?

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Think I will go shopping to my local mall and invite all the guys that have offered and who I like for a coffee.... Lol!!!! Could be an interesting meet!

Still going shopping though! Bit of retail therapy is required!

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By *obluvs2playMan
over a year ago

redcar

Have you not got any leaky bits need looking at

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Have you not got any leaky bits need looking at

LOL. ..always! That's part of the problem! Lol

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By *obluvs2playMan
over a year ago

redcar

"Have you not got any leaky bits need looking at

LOL. ..always! That's part of the problem! Lol"

Lol well in that case sounds like you need a plumber

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