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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?"

Maybe its your username that attracts them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?"

I'm going to presume you must send an excellent first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?"

Maybe your not fussy about who you meet

Fancy a shag

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

I'm going to presume you must send an excellent first message."

I read the profiles and send polite messages, I think it's positive attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

Maybe your not fussy about who you meet

Fancy a shag "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?"

you just need to keep it all in perspective....and not the perspective on your profile pic either

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

Maybe your not fussy about who you meet

Fancy a shag "

Nice tatts and go on then you've twisted my arm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

Maybe your not fussy about who you meet

Fancy a shag

Nice tatts and go on then you've twisted my arm x"

What with your huge to do list, you sure you can squeeze me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because itsawhopper obviously!

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

good to see something positive for a change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?"

No idea but whatever you are doing, just keep doing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

Maybe your not fussy about who you meet

Fancy a shag

Nice tatts and go on then you've twisted my arm x

What with your huge to do list, you sure you can squeeze me in "

Well now you mention squeezing something in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?"

Decent profile - though too many cock pics - so a lot must come down to the way you approach people. The first message is crucial so you must get it right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because itsawhopper obviously! "

And I thought it was my dazzling personality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

Decent profile - though too many cock pics - so a lot must come down to the way you approach people. The first message is crucial so you must get it right."

Your probably right about too many cock pics, I just try to be friendly and have a laugh seems to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.

"

No they wont lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and your body is nice as well. so long as you're easy to chat to then you probably already got their interest by being physically in demand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.

No they wont lol

"

he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.

No they wont lol

he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also."

I know, just messing

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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago

St Peter Port

Obviously it's because you cycle! Simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

Maybe your not fussy about who you meet

Fancy a shag "
I'll have a go

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

My money's on the classic cock next to remote avatar.

Never fails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.

No they wont lol

he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also.

I know, just messing "

i'm gullible, stop that. lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

Maybe your not fussy about who you meet

Fancy a shag

I'll have a go "

Now, I'm just checking, are you talking to me or him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent sky remote comparison profile picture

Why oh why do guys do this?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.

No they wont lol

he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also.

I know, just messing

i'm gullible, stop that. lmao"

Really, do you want to see a pic of my 12 inch penis, I know it only looks 6 but that's just the camera angle, honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excellent sky remote comparison profile picture

Why oh why do guys do this?!"

Because he hasn't got free view

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"Excellent sky remote comparison profile picture

Why oh why do guys do this?!"

My remote is bigger than his, but I only show it in private....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.

"

I wouldn't

He has to be fit and young and good looking as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.

No they wont lol

he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also.

I know, just messing

i'm gullible, stop that. lmao

Really, do you want to see a pic of my 12 inch penis, I know it only looks 6 but that's just the camera angle, honest "

i have been tricked this way before.

how i thought 3 inches was 8 i will never know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.

No they wont lol

he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also.

I know, just messing

i'm gullible, stop that. lmao

Really, do you want to see a pic of my 12 inch penis, I know it only looks 6 but that's just the camera angle, honest

i have been tricked this way before.

how i thought 3 inches was 8 i will never know."

Dam not that gullible after all,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

I'm going to presume you must send an excellent first message.

I read the profiles and send polite messages, I think it's positive attitude "

Must be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.

No they wont lol

he has pics up so people can check him out. that will help also.

I know, just messing

i'm gullible, stop that. lmao

Really, do you want to see a pic of my 12 inch penis, I know it only looks 6 but that's just the camera angle, honest

i have been tricked this way before.

how i thought 3 inches was 8 i will never know.

Dam not that gullible after all, "

used to be, not any more. i'm a quick learned luckily.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Excellent sky remote comparison profile picture

Why oh why do guys do this?!"

It's an accurate measuring device

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"you're 6ft 2, plenty of people will meet a guy just because he's tall.

I wouldn't

He has to be fit and young and good looking as well "

I can do the tall bit, the young and good looking I'm struggling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excellent sky remote comparison profile picture

Why oh why do guys do this?!

My remote is bigger than his, but I only show it in private...."

Hmmm I suspect depth perception plays a part with that pic

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Excellent sky remote comparison profile picture

Why oh why do guys do this?!

My remote is bigger than his, but I only show it in private....

Hmmm I suspect depth perception plays a part with that pic "

Sssh don't tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?"

Because, apart from the height, your description fits me exactly. I had the same trouble as you on my previous profile...racked up too many meets, had to bat them away.

Came off for a little break. Back on and now keeping a low profile...but still meeting with a select few...between a now regular FB who keeps her profile hidden from others.

There is no big secret...it is just being honest, ordinary, genuine and polite.

Like you I often fail to understand the fuss some guys make about "the problems with fab" rather than looking at their own approach.

Refreshing post OP.....well in there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excellent sky remote comparison profile picture

Why oh why do guys do this?!

My remote is bigger than his, but I only show it in private....

Hmmm I suspect depth perception plays a part with that pic

Sssh don't tell"

Oops, sorry, I'll rephrase...

My that great big cock of yours makes that sky remote look abnormally and suspiciously tiny!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

Because, apart from the height, your description fits me exactly. I had the same trouble as you on my previous profile...racked up too many meets, had to bat them away.

Came off for a little break. Back on and now keeping a low profile...but still meeting with a select few...between a now regular FB who keeps her profile hidden from others.

There is no big secret...it is just being honest, ordinary, genuine and polite.

Like you I often fail to understand the fuss some guys make about "the problems with fab" rather than looking at their own approach.

Refreshing post OP.....well in there!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So why complain???

You should be enjoying

Don't try and analyse.... Just have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My money's on the classic cock next to remote avatar.

Never fails. "

It's clearly working for him , so good on him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

have we worked out why yet?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So why complain???

You should be enjoying

Don't try and analyse.... Just have fun!"

??? I think you missed the point, I'm having a great time, no complaints from me, just poking fun at the blokes moaning they don't get meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"have we worked out why yet?"

Not a clue, no idea???

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

*shrugs*

I don't know but whatever it is you're doing, keep doing it. It's obviously working for you.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

Maybe your not fussy about who you meet

Fancy a shag "

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Send me a face pic and I'l tell you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

might give the cock as an avi a go...

no wait i already did

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*shrugs*

I don't know but whatever it is you're doing, keep doing it. It's obviously working for you.

"

I'm getting worn out doing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Send me a face pic and I'l tell you lol"

Be warned I look like a bull frog

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Apparently size does matter

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"*shrugs*

I don't know but whatever it is you're doing, keep doing it. It's obviously working for you.

I'm getting worn out doing it"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My money's on the classic cock next to remote avatar.

Never fails. "

I always laugh at the one's where the remote is still bigger!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be your modesty ?

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By *ustusboth2013Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Excellent sky remote comparison profile picture

Why oh why do guys do this?!"

Probably bragging that they pay for sky. Much cheaper deals with Virgin (plus a slightly larger remote control)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have three meetings a day Mon to Fri but I don't brag about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well that passed a couple of hours at work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can beat that. 8 meets in 5 weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send me a face pic and I'l tell you lol

Be warned I look like a bull frog"

Rabbit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well that passed a couple of hours at work "

Who said I work

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By *icplshropsCouple
over a year ago

Rock

Maybe it's because its a small remote!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?"

Good on ya that you do. Id love to know the secret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?"
not fussy about who you meet most likely

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

Good on ya that you do. Id love to know the secret. "

I keep giving the secret away and it is simply this: "Don't be a dickhead". This just seems to be an issue for so many....

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By *o fuss gentMan
over a year ago

York

Whatever you're doing, bottle it and sell it, you'd be an overnight millionaire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?

I'm going to presume you must send an excellent first message.

I read the profiles and send polite messages, I think it's positive attitude "

That's bollocks!

I'm sure that there are hundreds of guys out there, genuine, polite , who do all the right things and still don't get a message let alone a meet. You're just lucky, there is no science or explanation behind it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been on here about 4-5 months now, I'm polite, friendly and read profiles before I message. I hardly ever get a reply and am still yet to get a meet.. It's really frustrating

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've been on here about 4-5 months now, I'm polite, friendly and read profiles before I message. I hardly ever get a reply and am still yet to get a meet.. It's really frustrating "

Your profile and pics look ok, maybe write a bit more on there, offer social meets, try and have a laugh with people and dont take it too seriously. Try using the forums everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been on here about 4-5 months now, I'm polite, friendly and read profiles before I message. I hardly ever get a reply and am still yet to get a meet.. It's really frustrating

Your profile and pics look ok, maybe write a bit more on there, offer social meets, try and have a laugh with people and dont take it too seriously. Try using the forums everyday"

Cheers mate, thanks for the advice

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

It's obvious. Blokes are always told no dick pics or just one on their profile. We have been giving dodgy advise.

The more dick pics, the more meets you get

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By *TFSeventyMan
over a year ago

Weybridge

Reckon it's because you have a sky remote picture lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*shrugs*

I don't know but whatever it is you're doing, keep doing it. It's obviously working for you.

I'm getting worn out doing it"

6 shags in 5 weeks is wearing you out?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*shrugs*

I don't know but whatever it is you're doing, keep doing it. It's obviously working for you.

I'm getting worn out doing it

6 shags in 5 weeks is wearing you out? "

Lol, fabs not the only place a single bloke can get some fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your cock size must help a little I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*shrugs*

I don't know but whatever it is you're doing, keep doing it. It's obviously working for you.

I'm getting worn out doing it

6 shags in 5 weeks is wearing you out?

Lol, fabs not the only place a single bloke can get some fun x"

POF I know loads of men do well on that site as well

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By *ust4fun555Man
over a year ago

city centre

Ahh yes, but do you get repeat meets... That my friend imho is the real question

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By *etleyBitterMan
over a year ago

wakefield

omg send odd 1 my way all i get talkin 2 r idiots then they block u or dissapear off site wots all that about

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By *etleyBitterMan
over a year ago

wakefield

omg persian princess u gorra b jokin av been on pof 5years&been on 1date that wo disaster

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahh yes, but do you get repeat meets... That my friend imho is the real question "

Read the veri's, still meeting friends from previous profiles and not always got the time to meet new people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"*shrugs*

I don't know but whatever it is you're doing, keep doing it. It's obviously working for you.

I'm getting worn out doing it

6 shags in 5 weeks is wearing you out?

Lol, fabs not the only place a single bloke can get some fun x

POF I know loads of men do well on that site as well "

Yep and I tell the women I swing, was surprised how many are interested, it gets me more meets than fab. Have had hardly any negative comments about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your cock size must help a little I guess "

Maybe a bit but Ive been turned down because of it so not always a bonus. Each to there own

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By *lackMetalMan
over a year ago

Centre

Maybe it's cos you have the latest Sky remote (not the old one) next to your cock!

That must be doing the trick! Can't think of anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having had a look at your profile, I really couldn't answer that my lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excellent sky remote comparison profile picture

Why oh why do guys do this?!"

If feel sorry for the virgin remotes they get over looked far to easily

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your doing better then me. I will be rewriting my profile and ill be more proactive!

Fingers crossed!

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By *insbury Park FabberMan
over a year ago

London

I'm absolutely bemused by this thread. Starting a look-at-me thread solely in order to boast and mock others by 'poking fun at the blokes moaning they don't get meets' is not behaviour I'd expect to be approved of on Fab. But so many responses, especially from women, have been congratulatory or admiring. Why??

OP, there are plenty of lovely single guys on this site who have done exactly as you say you have in reading profiles and sending positive, polite messages and have had little or no joy. Anyone who has had any measure of success over time will tell you that there is a lot of luck involved. It's very nice that you've had a good start on the site, but it is nothing more than that, there is nothing to be learned from it and you should have the good grace simply to be thankful. Luck can turn, you know, and in both ways.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on and off here for years .

Ive never found meets hard to come by . I always thought it's because I don't act desperate and can hold a conversation without it turning to sex in the first 5 messages ..

Guys who can't get meets need to look at yourself and your behaviours when chatting to the ladies .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that a sky remote from a dolls house.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is that a sky remote from a dolls house. "

I shrunk it in the wash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is that a sky remote from a dolls house.

I shrunk it in the wash"

xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm absolutely bemused by this thread. Starting a look-at-me thread solely in order to boast and mock others by 'poking fun at the blokes moaning they don't get meets' is not behaviour I'd expect to be approved of on Fab. But so many responses, especially from women, have been congratulatory or admiring. Why??

OP, there are plenty of lovely single guys on this site who have done exactly as you say you have in reading profiles and sending positive, polite messages and have had little or no joy. Anyone who has had any measure of success over time will tell you that there is a lot of luck involved. It's very nice that you've had a good start on the site, but it is nothing more than that, there is nothing to be learned from it and you should have the good grace simply to be thankful. Luck can turn, you know, and in both ways."

I think you have missed the point but hey ho maybe thats why I do well (soh). Ive been on and off here for 4 years nothing to do with beginners luck. And if you read through my post you will see im also laughing at myself as well. Don't take things so seriously do you not have banter with your mates? No-one is getting there feelings hurt, It's not directed at any individual, I'm just simply bored of the whinging whining blokes and put a positve attitude out there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive been on and off here for years .

Ive never found meets hard to come by . I always thought it's because I don't act desperate and can hold a conversation without it turning to sex in the first 5 messages ..

Guys who can't get meets need to look at yourself and your behaviours when chatting to the ladies . "

100% correct mate, don't take ot too seriously, try and have a laugh, treat all people with respect, don't chase sex, it's not hard is it

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"I'm absolutely bemused by this thread. Starting a look-at-me thread solely in order to boast and mock others by 'poking fun at the blokes moaning they don't get meets' is not behaviour I'd expect to be approved of on Fab. But so many responses, especially from women, have been congratulatory or admiring. Why??

OP, there are plenty of lovely single guys on this site who have done exactly as you say you have in reading profiles and sending positive, polite messages and have had little or no joy. Anyone who has had any measure of success over time will tell you that there is a lot of luck involved. It's very nice that you've had a good start on the site, but it is nothing more than that, there is nothing to be learned from it and you should have the good grace simply to be thankful. Luck can turn, you know, and in both ways."

Does the fact women are congratulatory, not speak volumes to you, why this guy is doing something right and getting the meets - attitude

He's trying to point out it can be done, not mock just give something positive instead of the whingeing that goes on

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By *insbury Park FabberMan
over a year ago

London

You'll have to forgive me if I've misunderstood your kerr-azy sense of humour, OP. There are I'm afraid people whose idea of fun involves having a pop at some other group of people they feel superior to, whilst loudly insisting that they're 'only joking'...I'm relieved to hear that you're not, in fact, one of them.

To return to your original post, then: you keep seeing 'why don't I get meets' posts simply because, generally, it's tough for single guys on Fab to get meets. Yes, some do themselves no favours with their profile, messages, attitude or behaviour, but for many others this is not the case. There are always different variables at play: I suspect that if you were proclaiming an average sized penis and lived in London, you'd be doing less well. And (did I mention this before?) you've been lucky. Quite possibly very, very lucky.

Smug, self-satisfied posts (even 'tongue in cheek' ones) that insist that all that is needed is politeness, respect and a sense of humour are not helpful - because they are not true. You've been (I may have mentioned this before...) very lucky. Try and have some humility about it, rather than thinking you know it all and doing your best to demoralise other guys. Some of them may actually be even more polite, more respectful - and perhaps even funnier, hard as you might find that to believe - than you, you know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'll have to forgive me if I've misunderstood your kerr-azy sense of humour, OP. There are I'm afraid people whose idea of fun involves having a pop at some other group of people they feel superior to, whilst loudly insisting that they're 'only joking'...I'm relieved to hear that you're not, in fact, one of them.

To return to your original post, then: you keep seeing 'why don't I get meets' posts simply because, generally, it's tough for single guys on Fab to get meets. Yes, some do themselves no favours with their profile, messages, attitude or behaviour, but for many others this is not the case. There are always different variables at play: I suspect that if you were proclaiming an average sized penis and lived in London, you'd be doing less well. And (did I mention this before?) you've been lucky. Quite possibly very, very lucky.

Smug, self-satisfied posts (even 'tongue in cheek' ones) that insist that all that is needed is politeness, respect and a sense of humour are not helpful - because they are not true. You've been (I may have mentioned this before...) very lucky. Try and have some humility about it, rather than thinking you know it all and doing your best to demoralise other guys. Some of them may actually be even more polite, more respectful - and perhaps even funnier, hard as you might find that to believe - than you, you know."

Get off your high horse and feel free to go forth and multiply mate, your posts are far more rude and offensive than any of mine because they are directed at me personally. As the lovely lady above says can you not see your opinion is not shared by the large majority of other people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive seen a few of these threads where it leads to the op being mocked or seen as gloating. It just depends on the day if its taken kindly or gonna turn nasty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Play nice children or you might look a little silly

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Bit of fun, tongue in cheek thread, I had a laugh with a lot of people so thanks to all who did appreciate the humour.

Love and respect to all x

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By *insbury Park FabberMan
over a year ago

London


"You'll have to forgive me if I've misunderstood your kerr-azy sense of humour, OP. There are I'm afraid people whose idea of fun involves having a pop at some other group of people they feel superior to, whilst loudly insisting that they're 'only joking'...I'm relieved to hear that you're not, in fact, one of them.

To return to your original post, then: you keep seeing 'why don't I get meets' posts simply because, generally, it's tough for single guys on Fab to get meets. Yes, some do themselves no favours with their profile, messages, attitude or behaviour, but for many others this is not the case. There are always different variables at play: I suspect that if you were proclaiming an average sized penis and lived in London, you'd be doing less well. And (did I mention this before?) you've been lucky. Quite possibly very, very lucky.

Smug, self-satisfied posts (even 'tongue in cheek' ones) that insist that all that is needed is politeness, respect and a sense of humour are not helpful - because they are not true. You've been (I may have mentioned this before...) very lucky. Try and have some humility about it, rather than thinking you know it all and doing your best to demoralise other guys. Some of them may actually be even more polite, more respectful - and perhaps even funnier, hard as you might find that to believe - than you, you know.

Get off your high horse and feel free to go forth and multiply mate, your posts are far more rude and offensive than any of mine because they are directed at me personally. As the lovely lady above says can you not see your opinion is not shared by the large majority of other people. "

My posts weren't intended to be rude, I'm genuinely sorry if you or anybody else feels that they were. They are personal about you only in as much as it's your comments to which I'm responding. They were intended to make serious, relevant points. I'm very sorry that you've taken them in a different spirit to that in which they were intended.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'll have to forgive me if I've misunderstood your kerr-azy sense of humour, OP. There are I'm afraid people whose idea of fun involves having a pop at some other group of people they feel superior to, whilst loudly insisting that they're 'only joking'...I'm relieved to hear that you're not, in fact, one of them.

To return to your original post, then: you keep seeing 'why don't I get meets' posts simply because, generally, it's tough for single guys on Fab to get meets. Yes, some do themselves no favours with their profile, messages, attitude or behaviour, but for many others this is not the case. There are always different variables at play: I suspect that if you were proclaiming an average sized penis and lived in London, you'd be doing less well. And (did I mention this before?) you've been lucky. Quite possibly very, very lucky.

Smug, self-satisfied posts (even 'tongue in cheek' ones) that insist that all that is needed is politeness, respect and a sense of humour are not helpful - because they are not true. You've been (I may have mentioned this before...) very lucky. Try and have some humility about it, rather than thinking you know it all and doing your best to demoralise other guys. Some of them may actually be even more polite, more respectful - and perhaps even funnier, hard as you might find that to believe - than you, you know.

Get off your high horse and feel free to go forth and multiply mate, your posts are far more rude and offensive than any of mine because they are directed at me personally. As the lovely lady above says can you not see your opinion is not shared by the large majority of other people.

My posts weren't intended to be rude, I'm genuinely sorry if you or anybody else feels that they were. They are personal about you only in as much as it's your comments to which I'm responding. They were intended to make serious, relevant points. I'm very sorry that you've taken them in a different spirit to that in which they were intended."

Yawn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll have to forgive me if I've misunderstood your kerr-azy sense of humour, OP. There are I'm afraid people whose idea of fun involves having a pop at some other group of people they feel superior to, whilst loudly insisting that they're 'only joking'...I'm relieved to hear that you're not, in fact, one of them.

To return to your original post, then: you keep seeing 'why don't I get meets' posts simply because, generally, it's tough for single guys on Fab to get meets. Yes, some do themselves no favours with their profile, messages, attitude or behaviour, but for many others this is not the case. There are always different variables at play: I suspect that if you were proclaiming an average sized penis and lived in London, you'd be doing less well. And (did I mention this before?) you've been lucky. Quite possibly very, very lucky.

Smug, self-satisfied posts (even 'tongue in cheek' ones) that insist that all that is needed is politeness, respect and a sense of humour are not helpful - because they are not true. You've been (I may have mentioned this before...) very lucky. Try and have some humility about it, rather than thinking you know it all and doing your best to demoralise other guys. Some of them may actually be even more polite, more respectful - and perhaps even funnier, hard as you might find that to believe - than you, you know.

Get off your high horse and feel free to go forth and multiply mate, your posts are far more rude and offensive than any of mine because they are directed at me personally. As the lovely lady above says can you not see your opinion is not shared by the large majority of other people.

My posts weren't intended to be rude, I'm genuinely sorry if you or anybody else feels that they were. They are personal about you only in as much as it's your comments to which I'm responding. They were intended to make serious, relevant points. I'm very sorry that you've taken them in a different spirit to that in which they were intended.

Yawn"

Good attitude

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By *r.GenuineMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?"

Well done mate, showing the majority of males how it's done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You'll have to forgive me if I've misunderstood your kerr-azy sense of humour, OP. There are I'm afraid people whose idea of fun involves having a pop at some other group of people they feel superior to, whilst loudly insisting that they're 'only joking'...I'm relieved to hear that you're not, in fact, one of them.

To return to your original post, then: you keep seeing 'why don't I get meets' posts simply because, generally, it's tough for single guys on Fab to get meets. Yes, some do themselves no favours with their profile, messages, attitude or behaviour, but for many others this is not the case. There are always different variables at play: I suspect that if you were proclaiming an average sized penis and lived in London, you'd be doing less well. And (did I mention this before?) you've been lucky. Quite possibly very, very lucky.

Smug, self-satisfied posts (even 'tongue in cheek' ones) that insist that all that is needed is politeness, respect and a sense of humour are not helpful - because they are not true. You've been (I may have mentioned this before...) very lucky. Try and have some humility about it, rather than thinking you know it all and doing your best to demoralise other guys. Some of them may actually be even more polite, more respectful - and perhaps even funnier, hard as you might find that to believe - than you, you know.

Get off your high horse and feel free to go forth and multiply mate, your posts are far more rude and offensive than any of mine because they are directed at me personally. As the lovely lady above says can you not see your opinion is not shared by the large majority of other people.

My posts weren't intended to be rude, I'm genuinely sorry if you or anybody else feels that they were. They are personal about you only in as much as it's your comments to which I'm responding. They were intended to make serious, relevant points. I'm very sorry that you've taken them in a different spirit to that in which they were intended."
I wouldn't waste my time on him, hes obviously superior to everyone else on here

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By *onguepleasurexxxMan
over a year ago

barrow

Could also be the area on where people live could there be more swingers in certain areas than others just a thought

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By *onguepleasurexxxMan
over a year ago

barrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite possible that since the OP has been here before some - if not all - of his verifications could come from people he already knew.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's quite possible that since the OP has been here before some - if not all - of his verifications could come from people he already knew."

The latest veri is from a couple I met on a previous profile so that is partly true, having been here before I have a good idea how to write my profile and how to write a first message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty, I have no idea how I get meets either it's a mysterious source of nature that always has confused me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could also be the area on where people live could there be more swingers in certain areas than others just a thought "

There isn't a huge amount round here but it's a good point, Ive been on and off here for 4 years, Ive worked at it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In all honesty, I have no idea how I get meets either it's a mysterious source of nature that always has confused me"

good things happen to good people? I don't know either, just trying to have a laugh and enjoy my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In all honesty, I have no idea how I get meets either it's a mysterious source of nature that always has confused me

good things happen to good people? I don't know either, just trying to have a laugh and enjoy my life"

As a fellow balding male, I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?"

You have a really good profile apart from the bit about "is there Any point filling this in" well apparently there is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's quite possible that since the OP has been here before some - if not all - of his verifications could come from people he already knew.

The latest veri is from a couple I met on a previous profile so that is partly true, having been here before I have a good idea how to write my profile and how to write a first message."
its a load of bollox really lol I get meets galore a lot more than I can handle its down to how how easy a fuck u are period

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Keep seeing the why don't I get meets question

I've had 6 meets in 5 weeks, missed out on another 5 because I was working, have 1 lined up for Friday night and 1 lined up for Monday night.

I'm 45, bit bald, bit grey and bit of a middle age spread.

So why do I get meets?"

You're 6' 2", white, under 50, have a big cock, straight, can accommodate, can communicate coherently with the written word...That combination is why you are so successful compared to many others.

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