FabSwingers.com forum: Messages too far away?

By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I often get messages from some lovely hot sexy guys.......who live the other end of the country to me!!!

Much as I am flattered, I can't see why they bother as the chances of us meeting is very slim...right?

Or do some of you travel long distances for a meet? I guess if you travel all over the country for work then it probably isn't an issue but otherwise. ...would you make the effort?

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Blimey! It's quiet in here! I must live near far away from myself! I'll move!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the person and the meet for me. I'm not going to travel 3 hours for someone who is into quickes or something along the lines.

But to answer your question I wouldn't travel more than 4 hours each way regardless. Unless it's for the entire weekend

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Depends on the person and the meet for me. I'm not going to travel 3 hours for someone who is into quickes or something along the lines.

But to answer your question I wouldn't travel more than 4 hours each way regardless. Unless it's for the entire weekend

Now that's just greedy! Lol

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By *oppy40Woman
over a year ago

Exeter

Happens to me all the time ! Even have in my profile local meets please. With so many time wasters Im surprised if people do travel so far but hay maybe !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often get messages from some lovely hot sexy guys.......who live the other end of the country to me!!!

Much as I am flattered, I can't see why they bother as the chances of us meeting is very slim...right?

Or do some of you travel long distances for a meet? I guess if you travel all over the country for work then it probably isn't an issue but otherwise. ...would you make the effort?"

Always the way I'm afraid. Not sure why they do message ... its like being shown a beautiful bottle of cristal that you can never pop the cork on

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

"I often get messages from some lovely hot sexy guys.......who live the other end of the country to me!!!

Much as I am flattered, I can't see why they bother as the chances of us meeting is very slim...right?

Or do some of you travel long distances for a meet? I guess if you travel all over the country for work then it probably isn't an issue but otherwise. ...would you make the effort?"
I have flown up to glasgow to spend weekend with a lovely couple . 2 planes there , 2 planes back . Unfortunately , I get fucked about so much , that I have to travel for meets .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the person and the meet for me. I'm not going to travel 3 hours for someone who is into quickes or something along the lines.

But to answer your question I wouldn't travel more than 4 hours each way regardless. Unless it's for the entire weekend

Now that's just greedy! Lol"

Hey its a 4 hour trip, and there better be dinner waiting for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd travel quite far for the right person. But the only people I've spoken to over message who are far away is because of the forums.

I tend not to message people to far away as it seems pointless as most are looking for local merts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Meets

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I wouldn't travel 'miles' for a meet but would definitely arrange a meet in an area where I was travelling to.

Rough rule of thumb would be about 30 miles but not set in stone.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I have travelled 3 hours each way for a good meet. My wife booked a flight to Edinburgh to meet a guy who then backed out the day before. If arranged in advance, travel can be quite inexpensive. So why not, for those of us who do travel?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

The majority of my messages are from guys who live miles away which is a bummer as I'm not keen on hotels!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the messages I get and offers are miles away, usually in north england and wales and no I dont travel as I want to keep it local or in london.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We only seem to get messages from ppl in London or Ireland.. May have to plan some weekends away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky in that I travel a lot. Live in Scotland but often in London, Surrey/Berks and around the north of England. And, to boot, I love a cosy hotel room to play in. Come and join me

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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We have given several who live far away the opportunity to meet socially first as that's what we always like to do and it's been a mixed bag really, but we have met and been able to play at a later date with the majority that took our fancy. X

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

living where i live, i have to travel over an hour and a half to get to the first clubs...so its normal for me to travel..hell, ive even flown to america to meet someone. world is a small place.

im other countries they dont think twice about travelling 5-6 hours even 8 hours to visit people...for me its just about timing and finances x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a previous profile I had a woman do a 100 mile round trip to my house, she contacted me first, when she arrived she moaned about the drive and generally had the hump the whole time she was here?

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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"living where i live, i have to travel over an hour and a half to get to the first clubs...so its normal for me to travel..hell, ive even flown to america to meet someone. world is a small place.

im other countries they dont think twice about travelling 5-6 hours even 8 hours to visit people...for me its just about timing and finances x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's worth it who cares how far you travel

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

I think some messages we get a just because they want to perve the rest of our pics, and think mailing us will somehow mean that we accept a friends request lol!

Some are genuine, and we might plan a trip to visit those that are verified, but the rest... well there's plenty of free porn for them on the net lol!

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

I think it's still possible to meet those hotties from afar. I was lucky recently when a guy who lives 130 miles came down for work. And we had been speaking for months. I was a lucky girl indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah that is true. Everyone that usually ticks my boxes and take my fancy have always been out of London. As strange as it may sound. Don't really like the mentality of many on my 'local' feed. Really puts me off. Many of who I got along with live outside of London.

I have travelled for meets. And I actually like that to be honest. Gives me an opportunity to travel around the UK and meet new people. My meets have usually been all day or all nighters/weekend so it's been worth it.

I know many may find that strange. But, I'm not really travelling for sex. I'm travelling to meet people I've become friends with. I can get the sex from those in London off the site but that's more of a 'vanilla' nature.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

I get a lot offering to travel from all over this country and others!?

I politely decline

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By *UCKY 69Man
over a year ago

norwich

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only ever traveled to meet one person but he was more than worth it, and it was always for an overnight stay ...

Previously I have had people travel up from Devon (for a weekend) and one man did a round trip from Milton Keynes just for lunch... With extras

IMO distance is immaterial if the chemistry is there... And it's always worth taking that chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I often get messages from some lovely hot sexy guys.......who live the other end of the country to me!!!

Much as I am flattered, I can't see why they bother as the chances of us meeting is very slim...right?

Or do some of you travel long distances for a meet? I guess if you travel all over the country for work then it probably isn't an issue but otherwise. ...would you make the effort?"
For you Subby I would x

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I appreciate that some people don't want to travel and don't want their potential playmates to travel....but some of us are perfectly happy to travel for a good meet and sometimes I write to a woman or couple who are 2-3 hours away. Providing, of course, that there is nothing in their profile indicating that they would prefer a local man.

I suppose messages from guys 100+ miles away who "cannot travel" would be rather pointless.

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