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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! Yep both verified and non ... A fair few just vanish in a puff of smoke " You're meeting the wrong guys, I would never do that to you | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! Yep both verified and non ... A fair few just vanish in a puff of smoke You're meeting the wrong guys, I would never do that to you " I probably hold the fab record for stand ups in the amount of time I've been on here haha. | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! " Yup, I can only say that 'ladies' suddenly disappear when things get close to that first social meet!!? Maybe I'm a cynic but I suspect alot of 'school' boys skipping their homework and wanking themselves through their floor boards over leading some poor sod well and truly up the garden path!! | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! Yep both verified and non ... A fair few just vanish in a puff of smoke You're meeting the wrong guys, I would never do that to you I probably hold the fab record for stand ups in the amount of time I've been on here haha. " Well, my cancelled meet percentage is 100. So you can't be doing worse than me . | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! Yep both verified and non ... A fair few just vanish in a puff of smoke You're meeting the wrong guys, I would never do that to you I probably hold the fab record for stand ups in the amount of time I've been on here haha. Well, my cancelled meet percentage is 100. So you can't be doing worse than me ." True ... at least I have a verification for what's it's worth lol | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! Yep both verified and non ... A fair few just vanish in a puff of smoke You're meeting the wrong guys, I would never do that to you I probably hold the fab record for stand ups in the amount of time I've been on here haha. Well, my cancelled meet percentage is 100. So you can't be doing worse than me . True ... at least I have a verification for what's it's worth lol " Hey, I'm already on the ground. No need to kick me any further, with the verifications | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! " Yes I've had afew just like that recently | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! " Happens on dating sites too from women ive spoken too...im sure men on them a just as guilty lol You just lose momentum in giving any effort in finding anyone. | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! " everyone is messing around!! What's the point I really don't know! Try being a single guy on a dating site that will fry your brain | |||
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"Yes lots of women !" the ones who chat forever but never meet | |||
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"Yes lots of women ! the ones who chat forever but never meet " Well I can safely say I'm not one of those, most are lucky to get three messages out of me | |||
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"Most will do it due to getting a better offer. Thats a fact of life " I've had that the funny thing is the guy actually told me he had cancelled because he was meeting somebody else now 10 out of 10 for honestly anyway | |||
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"Most will do it due to getting a better offer. Thats a fact of life I've had that the funny thing is the guy actually told me he had cancelled because he was meeting somebody else now 10 out of 10 for honestly anyway " What a shame if he got let down | |||
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"Not guys but plenty of women " Pfffft how would you know | |||
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"Most will do it due to getting a better offer. Thats a fact of life I've had that the funny thing is the guy actually told me he had cancelled because he was meeting somebody else now 10 out of 10 for honestly anyway What a shame if he got let down " He did he mailed me about two hours later asking if I still wanted to meet apparently she was a time waster Irony | |||
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"I've heard a lot about these so-called 'timewasters', but I've never even come close to meeting one. Then again, I have a very well-developed selection process, and I also use the tools the site gives me, when thinking about who to meet. If anyone finds that someone has arranged a meet and then fails to turn up (without prior warning) then report the profiles, and let the site admins take a look at it." It has happened to us on more than a few times! Okay, we are getting better at spotting the fakers and the so-named timewasters, but it still wrankles! Yes we have reported deliberate no-shows and we know other couples who have suffered att he hands of the same "profile"... They reported them too, but the profile is still there on the site... | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! " Aliens xxx | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! Aliens xxx" Aliens took our bog roll? Sorry couldn't resist | |||
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"Lots of women do it too lol" I should image lots of every group does it, when I used to meet couples I had a few let me down and a no show from a couple It's not just guys | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! Yup, I can only say that 'ladies' suddenly disappear when things get close to that first social meet!!? Maybe I'm a cynic but I suspect alot of 'school' boys skipping their homework and wanking themselves through their floor boards over leading some poor sod well and truly up the garden path!!" If you're arranging meets, even social ones, without talking on the phone first then you deserve to get led up the garden path by school boys. Speaking on the phone won't stop people cancelling, but it'll certainly stop you getting taken in by someone who isn't the gender they purport to be. | |||
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"My experience is actually not with guys who have stood me up but with two guys who have met me previously and been keen to meet again and arranged a place and date then decided not to phone and finalise the arrangement, also with guys who chat a lot with and then for some reason don't ever get back!" Exactly this for me too!! Thought I was the only one!! Was beginning to think there's something seriously wrong with me. | |||
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"Fakes everywhere these days! Name and shame " Problem with naming and shaming is people abuse it They use it to get back at people who really don't deserve it For example I mail you and you mail me back saying sorry your not my type but good luck and happy swinging, I get pissed off at this, your a single guy how dare you turn me down so i name you as a time waster, say we arranged a meet and you was a no show.....your word against mine | |||
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"Fakes everywhere these days! Name and shame Problem with naming and shaming is people abuse it They use it to get back at people who really don't deserve it For example I mail you and you mail me back saying sorry your not my type but good luck and happy swinging, I get pissed off at this, your a single guy how dare you turn me down so i name you as a time waster, say we arranged a meet and you was a no show.....your word against mine " yes I do see your point with that | |||
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"Lots of women do it too lol I should image lots of every group does it, when I used to meet couples I had a few let me down and a no show from a couple It's not just guys " That is right and yeah it is not just with one group, but with all of them. | |||
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"Fakes everywhere these days! Name and shame " you cant name n shame cos the site seems to protect them | |||
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"I've heard a lot about these so-called 'timewasters', but I've never even come close to meeting one." They wouldn't be time-wasters if you met them! | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! " Yes had one last week, strangly enough after I deleted him he has text me and today messaged me on here. Was ill apparently - this stopped him from responding to me messaging if he was still meeting but didn't stop him from logging onto fab constantly. All a load of bull and won't be getting a second chance after leaving me standing like a wally! X | |||
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" A fair few just vanish in a puff of smoke " Obviously we need to avoid the smokers . . . Personally, we've never had a problem. Cal | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! " Guess your picking the wrong guys | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! Guess your picking the wrong guys " Problem is you don't know who are the wrong or right guys till you arrange a meet and they do or don't cancel or meet/stand you up Sadly the only way you can know if somebody is a time waster is by having your time wasted by them | |||
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"The woman are as bad for mucking men about. Traveled 100 mile round trip for a no show. " 100 mile!! I would of hunted her down and put her in the boot and took her home | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! " I've had 14 no shows!!! | |||
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"I would NEVER let anyone down..... Fix a meet and I will be there. " i hear those words a lot ..usually from guys that dont show up.. | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! " Women are as bad | |||
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"I would NEVER let anyone down..... Fix a meet and I will be there. i hear those words a lot ..usually from guys that dont show up.." Can't speak for others but that is the way I do things.... | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! Yep both verified and non ... A fair few just vanish in a puff of smok You're meeting the wrong guys, I would never do that to you I probably hold the fab record for stand ups in the amount of time I've been on here haha. " To be fair, you live in a far away kingdom. Probably need a good bedtime story, a nap and a dream to get there! So they bottle out cos it's too much hassle | |||
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"The woman are as bad for mucking men about. Traveled 100 mile round trip for a no show. " 100 miles?! I won't even go north of the river! | |||
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" Exactly this for me too!! Thought I was the only one!! Was beginning to think there's something seriously wrong with me. " I think that you are probably right! Maybe you should lay down on the couch and I will massage all your tensions away? xxxx Polly xxx | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! " I wouldnt know about the blokes but I stick to well verified people mostly and have never been let down yet | |||
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"We go to clubs so we don't have to deal with endless ping pong mails, no shows, turned off phones and general bullshitters. Whoever is there is (potentially) available for us to play with. We go to the odd party if we feel it will be worth it but we just don't bother with private meets anymore." Spot on | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! Yep both verified and non ... A fair few just vanish in a puff of smoke You're meeting the wrong guys, I would never do that to you I probably hold the fab record for stand ups in the amount of time I've been on here haha. To be fair, you live in a far away kingdom. Probably need a good bedtime story, a nap and a dream to get there! So they bottle out cos it's too much hassle " Tbf I do tell a very good bedtime story | |||
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"Anyone experienced this with guys who seem be happy to muck people about....ie..make plans to meet and mysteriously vanish off the face of the earth??! Yep both verified and non ... A fair few just vanish in a puff of smoke You're meeting the wrong guys, I would never do that to you I probably hold the fab record for stand ups in the amount of time I've been on here haha. To be fair, you live in a far away kingdom. Probably need a good bedtime story, a nap and a dream to get there! So they bottle out cos it's too much hassle Tbf I do tell a very good bedtime story " To be fair, not sure it's what the guys are here for. Unless it's someone fetish but that's one I haven't come across yet. | |||
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