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Being Sexually Dominant

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A lady friend asked me to explain to her what I meant when I said I was naturally sexually dominant - about what being sexually dominant means to me, to what extent, and what I enjoy about it.

No body had actually asked me this before, so I was a little surprised. But I thought I would share my answer here with you lovely people.

So here's my attempt at an answer -

Well, it is difficult to explain, but I have always liked to be the one leading in bed.

I love the power play of it, I love a woman to do what I want, and I love a woman to give up herself to me.

To offer me her body, to use sexually how I want to.

I really enjoy rough sex; holding a girl down and just fucking the living daylights out of her hehe.

However, I am not into pain, not real pain anyways; giving or receiving. I like spanking, quite like slapping my cock across a girls face too. I like grabbing her hair, I love fucking her mouth, watching her gag on my cock when I push it deep down into her throat.

And I love tying a woman up, and blindfolding her and using her as my play thing.

But... I totally respect women. I don't think of women as less than men or myself, probably the opposite in fact.

I think it's more to do with the mental side of it, the fact that she is giving herself to me, and she is at my mercy.

- Just my personal thoughts.

If there are any people who enjoy being dominant or submissive, I would love to hear your thoughts on why you are they way you are, and what you like about it.

I would love to get other points of view.

Please Note - This is not a question asking if you approve of people being Dominant or Submissive. Or a question asking your opinion of people who are naturally sexually dom or sub.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think everyone is different when it comes to this role. I'm very sub but not a push over and will say no if it not for me. Others are totally powerless it all depends on preferance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

am very dom and love to have the control over a man love to tie him to the bed and abuse his body for his sins lol ........love to take control and suck his cock till he shoots his load and take him to heaven and back like to be sub at times though and enjoy the relaxation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it is about the power and control, but for me it's a certain type of man I like to control. I had a 27 year old today who couldn't understand that no matter how good looking he was or how big his cock was never in a million years would I want to play with him: he'd do nothing for me. Where's the power in playing with a boy younger than my own kids?

Knowing a man is an alpha male away from me, but totally in my power, for me to do as I wish with is a major turn on.

There's also something humbling that about someone giving themselves over to you.

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