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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, I need some advice. I've been off and on with my girlfriend for a year. Well for the first few months we would argue because she would say something too detailed about one of her ex bf or getting fucked before we met, and I would get jealous and tell her that I don't care to hear that shit. Well she said the reason she kept slipping up and saying stuff was because it didn't bother her if i gave details about me fucking another girl from the past, she actually thought it was hot and turned her on.. So, recently here, I have constantly been fantasizing about watching her getting fucked by another guy. I almost told her the other day, and backed out, so she knows there is something I want to tell her. I jus don't have ANYTHING clue how she's going to react! Any advice?

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

If you're already a jealous guy involving others will make things worse, unless she's just going to be a fb. Have you swung together, does she know you're on fab ?

If it turns her on, hearing your former exploits, why not tell her you and a previous partner had a mmf 3sum and see how she reacts. If she likes the sound of it, you can say we can try it out if you want. Or do a little role playing or blindfold her and whisper in her ear we've got someone watching us and he's dying to touch you see how she reacts. Or say do you think you'd be able to tell the difference between mine and his cock....... Use it as a game, let us know how you get on. The brains the biggest sexual organ, use yours to seduce hers

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich


"If you're already a jealous guy involving others will make things worse, "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah, the jealous in the beginning crossed my mind, but it seemed like every time she would slip up over and over, it went from caring less about it each time to eventually I would start imagining her getting bent over looking at me and getting pounded from the back, and it gets me rock hard thinking about it.

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By *biNerdMan
over a year ago

Doncaster DN8

Perhaps pose this as a theoretical question. If the answer is positive then proceed with a couples profile, something you can vet together. This way at least you get to know the potential candidate without it being a surprise for you. The jealous feelings and the horny feelings you get: focus on melding these two. Horny should be the focus and as always her safety and pleasure come first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry, but if you are constantly arguing, then why are you with her? It's not healthy

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"Ok, I need some advice. I've been off and on with my girlfriend for a year. Well for the first few months we would argue because she would say something too detailed about one of her ex bf or getting fucked before we met, and I would get jealous and tell her that I don't care to hear that shit. Well she said the reason she kept slipping up and saying stuff was because it didn't bother her if i gave details about me fucking another girl from the past, she actually thought it was hot and turned her on.. So, recently here, I have constantly been fantasizing about watching her getting fucked by another guy. I almost told her the other day, and backed out, so she knows there is something I want to tell her. I jus don't have ANYTHING clue how she's going to react! Any advice? "

You're jealous, a hypocrite and in an unhealthy relationship and want to compound things by wanting to watch the woman you're constantly arguing with and jealous off be fucked by other blokes?!!

Yeah...I can see that working!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad idea to actually do it.

Maybe try what me and an ex did, we tried to come up with realistic sounding sex stories of someone we fucked. Maybe someone we both knew or some random person. Can be quite horny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, I need some advice. I've been off and on with my girlfriend for a year. Well for the first few months we would argue because she would say something too detailed about one of her ex bf or getting fucked before we met, and I would get jealous and tell her that I don't care to hear that shit. Well she said the reason she kept slipping up and saying stuff was because it didn't bother her if i gave details about me fucking another girl from the past, she actually thought it was hot and turned her on.. So, recently here, I have constantly been fantasizing about watching her getting fucked by another guy. I almost told her the other day, and backed out, so she knows there is something I want to tell her. I jus don't have ANYTHING clue how she's going to react! Any advice? "

You are joking of course. You are jealous and on a swinging site. But you want a guy to fuck her. She'll probably go berserk.You are so two faced its unreal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her you're on here. See what her response is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you're going to get burned, playing with fire.

I think you need to work out if you want to continue the relationship with her 1st. If you do then you could start by watching porn re the scenario you've described & see what she thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your having some horny fun with her, in the heat of the moment just say ... U would luv to watch another man pleasing her

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend


"When your having some horny fun with her, in the heat of the moment just say ... U would luv to watch another man pleasing her"
this .. Among other naughty stuff

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Jelous - no way should you swing, plus you are on here !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, I need some advice. I've been off and on with my girlfriend for a year. Well for the first few months we would argue because she would say something too detailed about one of her ex bf or getting fucked before we met, and I would get jealous and tell her that I don't care to hear that shit. Well she said the reason she kept slipping up and saying stuff was because it didn't bother her if i gave details about me fucking another girl from the past, she actually thought it was hot and turned her on.. So, recently here, I have constantly been fantasizing about watching her getting fucked by another guy. I almost told her the other day, and backed out, so she knows there is something I want to tell her. I jus don't have ANYTHING clue how she's going to react! Any advice? "

Does she know that you are on here? Add in that you presumably are looking to cheat to the fact that you are jealous and in a less then solid relationship, ueah what could possibly go wrong?

If you can't deal with the fact that she had sex with other people before you met do yiu really thinkyou can cope with seeing her fuck another man?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Just tell her.

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