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By *izzabelle and well hung OP   Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.

If you are a guy that sings well.....amateur operatics is the way to go. You will not be short of keen women. What other things could men and women do to meet new people?

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Learning to dance. Learning anything together is a fun way to break the ice, but the closeness of dancing with a partner goes further. I haven't done it myself, but just seeing the relationships develope on Strictly is proof enough.

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest


"If you are a guy that sings well.....amateur operatics is the way to go. You will not be short of keen women. What other things could men and women do to meet new people?"

Amateur operatics is also a good place to meet gay and bi men.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"If you are a guy that sings well.....amateur operatics is the way to go. You will not be short of keen women. What other things could men and women do to meet new people?"

I don't particularly choose hobbies which mean I will meet people, I choose them because I enjoy them. Watching football is my favourite and I meet lots of people through that, but I would still watch it, irrespective of others. Lots of the time I am so focused on the game, I tune out everything and everyone else around me.

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By *ndonmaleMan
over a year ago

Preston

A sex addicts meeting might be a good place to meet people with the same interests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon if I started playing women's footy I'd meet a few women

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London


"I reckon if I started playing women's footy I'd meet a few women "

You could try watching it?

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

Banbridge and Dublin

I've previously taken ballroom lessons and I was surprised how few chaps were interested.... the stats were definately in my favour.

Another couple of clubs I previously attended were running for fitness.... and a scuba diving club. Scuba was perhaps the most fun as the vast majority of the club I supported were professionals in their 20 to 30's who saught fun and new experiences.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Mate of mine goes to salsa dancing classes, he loves it as it's touchy feely and you have to get up and touch body's

I think he's just a dirty old man lol

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By *0tt0nSu3Woman
over a year ago

London

Tango.

Not enough men go to classes, and if you go to any milonghas (sp?) or tango dance sessions,the men are there at the side of the hall,watching your techniques seeing how well you dance. And if you're a crap dancer be prepared to sit there for the whole night.

I'm not kidding.

Nerve wracking experience for a woman. I've sweated bricks under that microscope. Literally.

Nice style of dance of the senses, which can turn into a very sexual thing. It can depend on the man, how well he leads, and of course, chemistry.

Tango can be quite technical and difficult to pick up at first, especially for the man. But stick at it. I've known one person who purposely found a partner through a tango class. A beautiful dancer he was too, but he will not attend another dance class cos he found his woman. (His woman still goes though).

I've never seen a male tango without a woman. Get skills as a tango dancer.

The birds will be flocking..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trainspotting is a good way to meet sexy men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll tell you that it doesn't seem to be writing.

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By *layer oneMan
over a year ago

mirfield

Telling them your a life long Star Wars fan gets you nowhere

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest


"Telling them your a life long Star Wars fan gets you nowhere "

Telling them you have every episode of Juliet Bravo on tape also gives the wrong impression. Mad. Like, really mad! (Vince from Queer As Folk).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The local Meetup Groups!

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By *ola.Woman
over a year ago

Just where I need to be.

Go to a yoga class if you are a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go to a yoga class if you are a man. "

Was about to suggest pilates but you beat me to it.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

years ago I used to go line dancing , the ods were fantastic between 60-100 women and just a few men it was rare I went home alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had horses. Always plenty of young ladies to mix with and a roll in the hay.

I (mr) often went riding alone to a local country pub. I would always catch the attention of some young lady who wanted to talk about my steed. The subject of riding always came up with the obvious innuendos.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Being a gynaecologist is a good way to meet women. You don't need to flatter them and get them d*unk to persuade them to show you their foo-foos.

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"Being a gynaecologist is a good way to meet women. You don't need to flatter them and get them d*unk to persuade them to show you their foo-foos."

but that is like the pizza delivery boy

you can both smell the goodies but are never going to taste them

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Being a gynaecologist is a good way to meet women. You don't need to flatter them and get them d*unk to persuade them to show you their foo-foos.

but that is like the pizza delivery boy

you can both smell the goodies but are never going to taste them "

Not true. I've seen pizza delivery boys fucking their clients in porn clips and everyone knows porn is based on real life.

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Yoga hot yoga classes are brilliant there is one hottie who is gorgeous. Very curvy a size 14

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

Naked leapfrog works for me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women builders whistling at hunky men looking at trouser bulges ,would go down well .

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

Yoga hot yoga classes are brilliant there is one hottie who is gorgeous. Very curvy a size 14

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Being a gynaecologist is a good way to meet women. You don't need to flatter them and get them d*unk to persuade them to show you their foo-foos."

Ewwww not great, sick infact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creative writing classes are a great place to meet women - not so popular with mem.

There used to be a website where you could develop friendships with female prisoners is the US. The most ominous field was the one labelled 'expected release date'

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By *umpleteazerWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Massage courses are always very female heavy. So are reflexology and aromatherapy courses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years ago I used to go line dancing , the ods were fantastic between 60-100 women and just a few men it was rare I went home alone "

REALLY??!! Please tell us more?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a non-swinging friend who took up ballroom dancing after his divorce he found he had a bit of a talent for it so kept it up and he now has no end of lady suitors from a wide age spectrum

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Knitting

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By *rishsteveMan
over a year ago

carlow

Join a dog( not dogging) training club.

I used to instruct at two clubs and had several affairs with different ladies.

I think its the raw horny atmosphere that gets them randy.

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By *errysMan
over a year ago

milton keynes and kent

I have a number of hobbies.

I have a yacht.

a motorcycle.

A caravan.

I'm single

my hobbies don't work.

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts

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By *ames6ft5Man
over a year ago

North London / Herts


"Go to a yoga class if you are a man. "

Have you seen my tree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are a guy that sings well.....amateur operatics is the way to go. You will not be short of keen women. What other things could men and women do to meet new people?"

I saw the title of the thread and opening it aiming to suggest this....beat me to it as you are correct. Ration usually 3 or 4 to 1 women:men in these things.

I found a good trick when I was at uni.....if you went to a disco....3-4 men: 1 women.

However....Barn Dance (don't laugh) was usually the opposite way round....easy pickings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"years ago I used to go line dancing , the ods were fantastic between 60-100 women and just a few men it was rare I went home alone

REALLY??!! Please tell us more? "

Similar to barn dances.......line dancing is in fact a barn dance designed for a corridor!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny you should mention that. I am theatrically trained in singing

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"Being a gynaecologist is a good way to meet women. You don't need to flatter them and get them d*unk to persuade them to show you their foo-foos.

Ewwww not great, sick infact"

Yep, totally sick and totally serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love football and have found I receive more messages when I post a football topic on my updates!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv played guitar for 24 years and teach in my spare time. Thats how I met my oh. She came for a lesson and the story began

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my not too long ago past I had a hobby that turned into a lot more than I expected ,I became a semi pro motorbike racer. I didn't go into it to " meet " other people but I will say that it did seem to put me into situations of meeting women who liked the same thing , don't know if it was the danger factor or the tight leathers , personally I thought I looked better when my helmet was on with a darkened visor lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jogging.... With a puppy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am dram. You don't even have to sing. Wish I had discovered it years ago!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I reckon if I started playing women's footy I'd meet a few women "

Or mens football for that matter! Footballers are the biggest girls!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Male stripper

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover


"I have a number of hobbies.

I have a yacht.

a motorcycle.

A caravan.

I'm single

my hobbies don't work."

That'l be the caravan, that will.

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"I have a number of hobbies.

I have a yacht.

a motorcycle.

A caravan.

I'm single

my hobbies don't work.

That'l be the caravan, that will. "

PMSL...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dog walking - always end up chatting to loads of people.

A Triathlon club.

Road cycling club.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the idea that guys might take up hobbies just to hit on someone.

Just do things you enjoy. If you meet someone organically - great! If you don't, then you're still doing something you enjoy.

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By *allipygousMan
over a year ago

Leicester


"I hate the idea that guys might take up hobbies just to hit on someone."

Don't think about it then.

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By *olarfoxMan
over a year ago

North Cambs


"If you are a guy that sings well.....amateur operatics is the way to go. You will not be short of keen women. What other things could men and women do to meet new people?"

I find the gym and other sports related clubs or attending classes at the gym a fantastic way of meeting people. Often I then go out in town and when more relaxed, women and girls come up to me and say hi, because they recognise me from the gym . Its all about putting yourself out there really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people say dog walking

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By *ice guy 44Man
over a year ago

wrexham


"If you are a guy that sings well.....amateur operatics is the way to go. You will not be short of keen women. What other things could men and women do to meet new people?"

yes I do horse riding and meets lots of women in that some good to lol

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By *izzabelle and well hung OP   Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh.


"I hate the idea that guys might take up hobbies just to hit on someone.

Just do things you enjoy. If you meet someone organically - great! If you don't, then you're still doing something you enjoy."

I think if they were just creeps any organisation would soon shift them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the idea that guys might take up hobbies just to hit on someone.

Just do things you enjoy. If you meet someone organically - great! If you don't, then you're still doing something you enjoy.

I think if they were just creeps any organisation would soon shift them. "

It is pretty creepy just to take up a hobby to meet women.

But as someone who has run a few photography groups in my time - it's almost impossible to stop people coming to groups just because they're a creep. (You can imagine that it's like in photography when many people take it up just to photograph young naked women.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you are a guy that sings well.....amateur operatics is the way to go. You will not be short of keen women. What other things could men and women do to meet new people?"

Doesn't have to be operatic.... local choir near me has 120 women and 3 blokes..... I'm thinking of joining. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woodworking, cycling, as I always seem to meet a beautiful nurse in A&E when I injure myself.

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Swinging?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dancing a great way to meet people. Strange how chemistry can develop when you are in close hold.

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex


"Go to a yoga class if you are a man. "

The last yoga class I went to, for about the first 3 weeks, I was the only male. There was me wondering if other students might feel uncomfortable but actually me and the the guys who joined later were welcomed.

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Anything to do with environmental conservation is another good way to enjoy mixed company. National Trust and BTCV. Local wildlife charities etc. are all looking for volunteers.

...And it's good exercise

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Wing walking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the idea that guys might take up hobbies just to hit on someone.

Just do things you enjoy. If you meet someone organically - great! If you don't, then you're still doing something you enjoy."

If you're single and looking to meet someone though... is there really any better way of doing it? Or have times changed to the point where online dating is considered less creepy than going out trying to meet someone in real life!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very much a geeky guy, so I tend to meet some really cute girls at Comic Cons and we're always in cosplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the idea that guys might take up hobbies just to hit on someone.

Just do things you enjoy. If you meet someone organically - great! If you don't, then you're still doing something you enjoy.

If you're single and looking to meet someone though... is there really any better way of doing it? Or have times changed to the point where online dating is considered less creepy than going out trying to meet someone in real life!?"

I think it's always been a bit weird and creepy to take up a new hobby expressly to meet someone. It just seems fake and shallow at best.

Just do the things you love doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the idea that guys might take up hobbies just to hit on someone.

Just do things you enjoy. If you meet someone organically - great! If you don't, then you're still doing something you enjoy.

If you're single and looking to meet someone though... is there really any better way of doing it? Or have times changed to the point where online dating is considered less creepy than going out trying to meet someone in real life!?

I think it's always been a bit weird and creepy to take up a new hobby expressly to meet someone. It just seems fake and shallow at best.

Just do the things you love doing. "

Well in my case that's pool so I'm pretty much condemned to a life alone then am I?

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By *reakish DesireCouple
over a year ago

Bisexuals

*They silently start taking notes"

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I hate the idea that guys might take up hobbies just to hit on someone....

I think it's always been a bit weird and creepy to take up a new hobby expressly to meet someone. It just seems fake and shallow at best.

Just do the things you love doing. "

Yes indeed do something real and deep like post messages on forums and wait for a reply?!?!?!?!?!?

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