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What stops you meeting ??

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By *eminiman61 OP   Man
over a year ago

mansfield

This week I've been offered the chance to meet 2 couples, 1 local and 1 about a 2hour bus ride away. Both wanted me to drop everything and go at the drop of an hat. 1 of the couples have got a car but they wanted me to jump on a bus and go to them. I said I'd love to join them today or tomorrow, have a shave and get something together etc etc....... Their profile said they were 1670 miles away, sounded a set up to me

I'll bareback with my partner when I'm with someone, other couples have blocked me because I won't join lots of other men and bareback her. I said I'd fuck her..... with a condom on and then shoot my load anywhere she likes. I like being STD/STI free.

Plus I like intimacy when I meet I don't like a cold fuck and go. Maybe I'm too fussy ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This week I've been offered the chance to meet 2 couples, 1 local and 1 about a 2hour bus ride away. Both wanted me to drop everything and go at the drop of an hat. 1 of the couples have got a car but they wanted me to jump on a bus and go to them. I said I'd love to join them today or tomorrow, have a shave and get something together etc etc....... Their profile said they were 1670 miles away, sounded a set up to me

I'll bareback with my partner when I'm with someone, other couples have blocked me because I won't join lots of other men and bareback her. I said I'd fuck her..... with a condom on and then shoot my load anywhere she likes. I like being STD/STI free.

Plus I like intimacy when I meet I don't like a cold fuck and go. Maybe I'm too fussy ??"
Or don't like buses ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would never go bareback with anyone except each other - it's not worth the risk

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

1670 miles away that's a long bus ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1670 miles away that's a long bus ride "
it does stop twice for a wee and refreshments break though. So not a bad journey

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By *eminiman61 OP   Man
over a year ago

mansfield

The buses in Turkey are amazing and cheap, they feed you and give you drinks (all in the price) and stop regular too. Free WiFi screens built into the seat in front of you with free games films and music etc

If their profile said 25 miles away I'd have gone, but like I said I think it was a wind up. I was sat on the seafront with friends having a few cold beers and enjoying the sun

I'd rather meet for sober fun

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham


"1670 miles away that's a long bus ride it does stop twice for a wee and refreshments break though. So not a bad journey"

Not one of them mega bus deals then ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1670 miles away that's a long bus ride it does stop twice for a wee and refreshments break though. So not a bad journey

Not one of them mega bus deals then ? "
No they only go 1769 miles then you get on a train the other mile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry that's gone past there house. That should of been 1669 miles

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Have to get the green line bus the other way then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only thing that seems to stop us meeting atm is the people who are interested aren't really for us. Bit of a dry spell atm.

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham


"The only thing that seems to stop us meeting atm is the people who are interested aren't really for us. Bit of a dry spell atm. "

Glad it's not just us then seams to go a lot like that on fab but suppose everyone has there own tastes etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing that seems to stop us meeting atm is the people who are interested aren't really for us. Bit of a dry spell atm.

Glad it's not just us then seams to go a lot like that on fab but suppose everyone has there own tastes etc "

Meets 9n here are like buses. There's either none or you don't know which one to jump on

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham


"The only thing that seems to stop us meeting atm is the people who are interested aren't really for us. Bit of a dry spell atm.

Glad it's not just us then seams to go a lot like that on fab but suppose everyone has there own tastes etc

Meets 9n here are like buses. There's either none or you don't know which one to jump on "

Buses seams to be order of the day on this thread :

-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The only thing that seems to stop us meeting atm is the people who are interested aren't really for us. Bit of a dry spell atm.

Glad it's not just us then seams to go a lot like that on fab but suppose everyone has there own tastes etc

Meets 9n here are like buses. There's either none or you don't know which one to jump on

Buses seams to be order of the day on this thread :

-) "

They do. You may aswell just jump on one up to Newcastle then lol

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham


"The only thing that seems to stop us meeting atm is the people who are interested aren't really for us. Bit of a dry spell atm.

Glad it's not just us then seams to go a lot like that on fab but suppose everyone has there own tastes etc

Meets 9n here are like buses. There's either none or you don't know which one to jump on

Buses seams to be order of the day on this thread :

-)

They do. You may aswell just jump on one up to Newcastle then lol "

For you guys we jump on a plane more play time

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By *eminiman61 OP   Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I've jumped on a few planes to meet someone, I was seeing a girl from Redcar. Either I'd go back to the UK to be with her or she'd come here. I'd often drive 118 upto hers

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

A couple who wanted to meet there and then? Already sounds suspicious to me.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

To be fair on the couple, they may not have noticed that you are currently in Turkey. Your location states Mansfield.

There are many things that stop me from meeting but at the mo its mainly that I cannot be bothered. I don't accommodate and most of the 'single' guys in York can't either. I'm not rich enough to book a hotel in York at short notice so nothing ever comes of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it's home meets we actually prefer Fuck and go meets (with single men anyway), when we want to socialise with playmates we go to a club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be fussy. I don't see the point in having meets that you know you wouldn't enjoy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1670 miles away that's a long bus ride it does stop twice for a wee and refreshments break though. So not a bad journey

Not one of them mega bus deals then ? No they only go 1769 miles then you get on a train the other mile "

This made me laugh! Being a coach driver and having to do rail replacement I know how you lot feel... if only the trains were working!!! Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What stops me meeting....

1. BB - I respect the choices people make, I hope they respect mine. No BB

2. No connection - conversation has been dull (this is often my fault, see 3.)

3. Not attracted - Sometimes even I have preferences...

4. Text speak......

5. Location - There is one part of Devon I will not go

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

what stops me meeting..a car that costs to make it move...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what stops me meeting..a car that costs to make it move... "

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=picfzpEC4KU

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"what stops me meeting..a car that costs to make it move...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=picfzpEC4KU"
beautiful..thank you xx and the bank will let me travel more (fingers crossed) from the autumn x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pain (although tonight I have explained that it is bad and my legs will not be going over my head,and he can't lean on me), my babysitting duties that change frequency and crop up unexpectedly,distance/time/location logistics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when they dont show

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

When it's the chauffer's night off and it's too much effort to decide whether to take the Bentley, Porsche, Rolls Royce or Lamborghini out of the garage and then to choose which colour. Charles usually does all that, so that when James has dressed me in the clothes he has prepared, the evening can be more relaxed.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Lack of respectful men in my area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me stops me meeting.

I have anxiety n often over think things so if I'm given time to over think I end up cancelling.

Spontaneous meets would work better but i dont like doing these either. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me stops me meeting.

I have anxiety n often over think things so if I'm given time to over think I end up cancelling.

Spontaneous meets would work better but i dont like doing these either. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lately it's only been female wanting to meet. Not much fun going to on your own to play.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Feeling comfortable enough with someone to want to meet them, if I can't be relaxed when messaging them I won't be relaxed enough to enjoy being with them.

Also getting fed up of feeling like I had been used, that has also stopped me from meeting.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

for me it's a huge turn off if the person has fucked loads and loads of people off the site. yes it's a sex site but scary when u see some profiles and they have 60/70/80+ meets. I always think they can't be that good if they don't get repeat performers and since I like filthy sex I limit the amount I meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bareback for us only - and no youre not too fussy - your boundaries - your sex - do what you want not others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing stops us from meeting .

We just keep rolling along like an express train , racking up the meets .

It's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me it's a huge turn off if the person has fucked loads and loads of people off the site. yes it's a sex site but scary when u see some profiles and they have 60/70/80+ meets. I always think they can't be that good if they don't get repeat performers and since I like filthy sex I limit the amount I meet."

What a load of tosh !

We get repeat meets , Infact, we are constantly turning repeat meets down .

We like filthy sex too , and see no reason why the 60 plus meets would be scary .

Perhaps it's more that you feel, by meeting people with lots of meets that you wouldn't be seen as very special ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to meet older men off here, and one situation that put me off meeting a particular user who's 20 years older than me was when he started talking about school girl uniforms...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster


"for me it's a huge turn off if the person has fucked loads and loads of people off the site. yes it's a sex site but scary when u see some profiles and they have 60/70/80+ meets. I always think they can't be that good if they don't get repeat performers and since I like filthy sex I limit the amount I meet."

you do realise verifications are an exact figure for the number of people they've shagged there are other means to get laid other than fab, there are such things as socials/clubs where you can get many verifications in one go not just from fucking people, and of course the abundance of meets they could have had that didn't verify them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"for me it's a huge turn off if the person has fucked loads and loads of people off the site. yes it's a sex site but scary when u see some profiles and they have 60/70/80+ meets. I always think they can't be that good if they don't get repeat performers and since I like filthy sex I limit the amount I meet."

Some people don't always verify repeat meets though, so even if you only see one veri don't assume they've only met once.

And try to not be a hypocrite by "slut shaming" when you're only here for what the rest of us are here for.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

To answer the op

Childcare issues are the reason I rarely meet not that I mind, yes meeting more frequently would be nic but my kids come first and I own a vibrator

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