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A quick question for anyone who is bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For the past year or so I have been VERY curious. I really want to meet a guy and "explore" (I really want to wank someone, and give oral) but I'm really finding it hard to find the right person

to do it with. I'm really nervous and shy even when sending messages on Fab.

Was anyone else like this while they was curious? X

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Try changing your preferences and filters. Sort out your profile.

Post some meet requests. Starting threads like this is probably not a bad thing.

I dunno.

I did all this before the internet, it was a while ago. I just fucked some guy in my bedroom while his girlfriend was downstairs. Never looked back

If you're curious go do it.

If you're desparate, look on Craigslist.

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Feel free to ask... it's what being curious is...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely not desperate lol.

I get guys messaging me and I message guys. It's just I'm struggling to find someone who is willing to let me explore.

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By *i Lady Next DoorWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Would it be less shy got you to meet a couple (male bi) and all play together rather than one on one ? Easier to go with the flow then xx

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

Bi MMF is a great way to start

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

No, I missed the chance of being bicurious. I went from straight to bisexual overnight after an unexpected mmf with a guy who turned out to be bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would it be less shy got you to meet a couple (male bi) and all play together rather than one on one ? Easier to go with the flow then xx "

This is what I did with a regular partner and a new man who both wanted to experience another man. I was mediator,so to speak,and made sure the new man felt comfortable with us. They were both nervous and excited but it went really well.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We play mmf, just say I'm not experienced with guys. To be honest most guys we have met will play with another guy with a female there. I think its great to see. X

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough


"Would it be less shy got you to meet a couple (male bi) and all play together rather than one on one ? Easier to go with the flow then xx

This is what I did with a regular partner and a new man who both wanted to experience another man. I was mediator,so to speak,and made sure the new man felt comfortable with us. They were both nervous and excited but it went really well. "

That's a great way to get both guys through their nerves and help ensure no "stage fright"

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By *ee42Man
over a year ago

Grimsby

I found my bi side with a couple but don't mind the odd one on one for wank and suck fun.just a case of relaxing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the past year or so I have been VERY curious. I really want to meet a guy and "explore" (I really want to wank someone, and give oral) but I'm really finding it hard to find the right person

to do it with. I'm really nervous and shy even when sending messages on Fab.

Was anyone else like this while they was curious? X

"

Having straight on your profile does not help

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For the past year or so I have been VERY curious. I really want to meet a guy and "explore" (I really want to wank someone, and give oral) but I'm really finding it hard to find the right person

to do it with. I'm really nervous and shy even when sending messages on Fab.

Was anyone else like this while they was curious? X

Having straight on your profile does not help"

Having "straight" doesn't do anything to my profile. I get plenty of messages of guys regardless. The reason it's set to straight is becuase a couple of my friends are on here and I'm not too sure that I want people to know yet.

Thank you guys. I am trying to find a couple as that does seem to be lot better with the female there as well

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ahhhh yes the my friends are on here ploy

Head to a club bi night, plenty of them about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ahhhh yes the my friends are on here ploy

Head to a club bi night, plenty of them about."

Haha, I'm actually serious. I'll just block them them and change it.

Thanks but I don't think clubs are my thing .

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By *cd and scruffCouple
over a year ago

Rochester

Hope they don't read the forums then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They don't use the forums

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By *bi_scotlandTV/TS
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes, I was very nervous, and excited at my frst meet. I actually felt kinda embarrassed when it was over but I soon got over that (thankfully)

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln


"For the past year or so I have been VERY curious. I really want to meet a guy and "explore" (I really want to wank someone, and give oral) but I'm really finding it hard to find the right person

to do it with. I'm really nervous and shy even when sending messages on Fab.

Was anyone else like this while they was curious? X

Having straight on your profile does not help

Having "straight" doesn't do anything to my profile. I get plenty of messages of guys regardless. The reason it's set to straight is becuase a couple of my friends are on here and I'm not too sure that I want people to know yet.

Thank you guys. I am trying to find a couple as that does seem to be lot better with the female there as well

Thank you x"

We live near you we can arrange a social and go from there . He is only orally bi so I could teach you how to suck a cock if you like depending of course your our type

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *revaunanceCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

The first thing I would recommend is to change your profile from straight to curious. At least that way if someone was to search for a curious guy then your name will come up.

Secondly I'd like to reiterate the advice given by a previous poster, to look to meet with a couple. It would be far more relaxing for you, and if your not sure then you focus on the woman instead.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The first thing I would recommend is to change your profile from straight to curious. At least that way if someone was to search for a curious guy then your name will come up.

Secondly I'd like to reiterate the advice given by a previous poster, to look to meet with a couple. It would be far more relaxing for you, and if your not sure then you focus on the woman instead."

Yes that's what I'm doing thankyou and also changing my setting to "curious " as well.

Thanks

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