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"I had a couple tell me they new me even have me my full name but completely refused to tell me who they were witch I didn't think was fair. That just sounds creepy " Yes I was creeped out they must either know me or got the info off fb. | |||
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"I had a couple tell me they new me even have me my full name but completely refused to tell me who they were witch I didn't think was fair. That just sounds creepy Yes I was creeped out they must either know me or got the info off fb. " Well I haven't seen anyone I know on here yet but if I did I would at lest tell them who I am or say nothing at all. | |||
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"I had a couple tell me they new me even have me my full name but completely refused to tell me who they were witch I didn't think was fair. That just sounds creepy Yes I was creeped out they must either know me or got the info off fb. Well I haven't seen anyone I know on here yet but if I did I would at lest tell them who I am or say nothing at all." Odd isn't it. I ain't got anything to hide. Maybe they have..... | |||
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"I had a couple tell me they new me even have me my full name but completely refused to tell me who they were witch I didn't think was fair. That just sounds creepy Yes I was creeped out they must either know me or got the info off fb. Well I haven't seen anyone I know on here yet but if I did I would at lest tell them who I am or say nothing at all. Odd isn't it. I ain't got anything to hide. Maybe they have....." You maybe right | |||
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"I've had people recognise me off here from face pics and also my description...I get messages off ppl saying I was driving thru town and thought it was you lol There aren't too many 6ft tall women with very long red hair knocking about in my town " Yep the hair would be a give away, but looks sexy thou | |||
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"Yeah when I had this avatar in public pictures I had a message off someone using my full real name yet they didn't have public pictures and wouldn't say who they were, just said they wouldn't breath a word but still makes me feel uncomfortable not knowing who it is. " The exact same thing happened to me last year. She named me and said she'd been in my year at school but wouldn't tell me who she was. It totally freaked me out and resulted in my closing my old prof and then creating this one and immediately blocking her. | |||
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"I had a couple tell me they new me even have me my full name but completely refused to tell me who they were witch I didn't think was fair. That just sounds creepy Yes I was creeped out they must either know me or got the info off fb. " FB? Is that for Facebook or Fuck buddy? Just curious p.s. either way stil creepy | |||
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"I had a couple tell me they new me even have me my full name but completely refused to tell me who they were witch I didn't think was fair. That just sounds creepy Yes I was creeped out they must either know me or got the info off fb. FB? Is that for Facebook or Fuck buddy? Just curious p.s. either way stil creepy " The former xxx | |||
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"I got pointed at and smiled at in Tesco once. I have no clue if it was recognising me from here, or if I had my dinner all over my face or something? No clue why and the couple went off half laughing. Maybe it was the dinner thing. I am a messy eater..." | |||
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"We've recognised people from their face pictures several times. One particular lady was bent naked over a sofa looking back into the camera...we recognised her walking demurely along the seafront obviously we just walked past." Obviously pahaha | |||
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"Yeah when I had this avatar in public pictures I had a message off someone using my full real name yet they didn't have public pictures and wouldn't say who they were, just said they wouldn't breath a word but still makes me feel uncomfortable not knowing who it is. The exact same thing happened to me last year. She named me and said she'd been in my year at school but wouldn't tell me who she was. It totally freaked me out and resulted in my closing my old prof and then creating this one and immediately blocking her. " she was probably very interested in meeting up with you | |||
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"If you have no ties I don't see that you should worry to be honest! If someone did know you you would have to ask why THEY were on fab!" | |||
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"I've recognised others in clubs, but would never ever say anything outside of that setting, discretion is king." Exactly this, I take care to make sure that my identity is kept secret, I have a young family who really don't need to know about what I do | |||
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"What happens in swinging stays in swinging as far as we care concerned...." It really doesn't. People will blab it all over town. Great gossip for the masses. | |||
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"What happens in swinging stays in swinging as far as we care concerned.... It really doesn't. People will blab it all over town. Great gossip for the masses. " Quite right and the only way to tackle it is to take it head on. My sister found out and I told her yes, I swing and fuck men left right and center and love it ! She was shocked (probably still is) but her and her husband still talk to me ! x | |||
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" Turns me on so much having them on my profile, the thought that someone could recognise me makes me so horny.... BUT if someone actually did, id be mortified lol anyone ever been caught out? Bonnie xx " nah,,im out,,who cares | |||
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" Turns me on so much having them on my profile, the thought that someone could recognise me makes me so horny.... BUT if someone actually did, id be mortified lol anyone ever been caught out? Bonnie xx " John is that you? I do recognise you now | |||
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"If you have no ties I don't see that you should worry to be honest! If someone did know you you would have to ask why THEY were on fab!" Say the woman with headless pics lol | |||
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"We never learn. Face pic just been uploaded " Blimey! If I saw you in the street I'd just be drooling! | |||
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"We've been caught out, and the sorry tale is at the bottom of our profile if any one wants to read." What utter, utter arseholes... | |||
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"I had a couple tell me they new me even have me my full name but completely refused to tell me who they were witch I didn't think was fair. " I've had exactly the same. Had my full name and where I work but never let me know who they were | |||
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"We've been caught out, and the sorry tale is at the bottom of our profile if any one wants to read." Erm.. Just to point out: discrete = individually separate and distinct I think you mean discreet in your profile | |||
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" Turns me on so much having them on my profile, the thought that someone could recognise me makes me so horny.... BUT if someone actually did, id be mortified lol anyone ever been caught out? Bonnie xx " I've been recognised many times! If it's in clubs people will come say hello - which is obviously fine! I've also arrived home with my shopping several times to a message saying I was spotted in tesco - to which I've thanked them for their discretion in not approaching me - but told them I'm fine for them to come and say hi in future if I'm not with the kids/anyone else! To me it's all just a great way of meeting lots of nice people! | |||
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"We never learn. Face pic just been uploaded Blimey! If I saw you in the street I'd just be drooling!" I'd come wipe you up | |||
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"We never learn. Face pic just been uploaded Blimey! If I saw you in the street I'd just be drooling! I'd come wipe you up" | |||
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"We've been caught out, and the sorry tale is at the bottom of our profile if any one wants to read." I just had a peek...that's awful!!!! Hope you stood with heads held high ...he's the one that should be ashamed!!! | |||
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"We've been caught out, and the sorry tale is at the bottom of our profile if any one wants to read." Wow. That story is horrible. What an utter utter arsehole. I know you're not supposed to encourage this, but you almost feel like you should name and shame him in return. Not cool. | |||
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"I had a couple tell me they new me even have me my full name but completely refused to tell me who they were witch I didn't think was fair. I've had exactly the same. Had my full name and where I work but never let me know who they were" This, though?? We can't be the only people that think this is out of order? If you recognise someone and you're not willing to fess up and declare who you are or how you know that person, THEN DON'T SAY ANYTHING?!? Otherwise, what's the point?!? It's really childish. What do they gain from it?? Other than the knowledge that they've creeped you out a bit!!? | |||
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"Been recognised 100s of times. Had hi Tiger shouted at me across shopping centre. Get lots of messages saw you today wearing ... Think the one that made me jump the most was when I was using a cash machine and a guy tapped me on the shoulder " scary | |||
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" Turns me on so much having them on my profile, the thought that someone could recognise me makes me so horny.... BUT if someone actually did, id be mortified lol anyone ever been caught out? Bonnie xx " I didn't even recognise the OH when we had our first meet as singles. He is much better looking in the flesh .... now, let's go shopping .... | |||
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"Yeah when I had this avatar in public pictures I had a message off someone using my full real name yet they didn't have public pictures and wouldn't say who they were, just said they wouldn't breath a word but still makes me feel uncomfortable not knowing who it is. " This happened to me and recognised me by my eyes . | |||
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". This happened to me and recognised me by my eyes . " cracking pair....... oh and nice eyes as well.... | |||
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"I managed to get spotted even without pics. I was on a train and had recently walked through the carriages. Sat down to find a message from a guy asking 'did you just walk past me on the train?'. Being tall I stick out like a sore thumb apparently " I think we actually take the same train in the mornings | |||
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"My friend only pic is a face pic, still abut nervous about being recognised, I think in time I will set it to public. " Yeah, pretty big step... but just remember people have to explain why they recognize you... | |||
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"I've been recognised a few times and recognised others. It doesnt bother me really, I would never approach someone in the real world if I was them out with family or friends " You may not but others would. | |||
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"I think what goes on here stays on here .and nobody should come up to u in a shop ect and ask if ur on here ..privacy" | |||
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"forgot to hide my profile this week, went out tuesday night and been seen and messaged about it. " If you don't mind me asking, does that turn you on or turn you off? I appreciate that you probably don't want guys to approach you in public | |||
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"I had a couple tell me they new me even have me my full name but completely refused to tell me who they were witch I didn't think was fair. " Hate that as that's just childish. Had someone say they recognised me and would tell me who they are or even show a picture | |||
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"forgot to hide my profile this week, went out tuesday night and been seen and messaged about it. If you don't mind me asking, does that turn you on or turn you off? I appreciate that you probably don't want guys to approach you in public " i didn't fancy him so it didn't turn me on. and yeah i was with family so do appreciate he didn't approach me. | |||
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