FabSwingers.com forum: gum

By *andy muncher OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

gum clinic have you been would you go if need be and if asked how many sexual partners would you be truthfull and would you say you were a swinger ?????

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Every three months, yes and yes

Why bother to lie?

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

No I wouldn't go if need be... I go regardless on a regular basis. I tell them I have had various sexual partners, if I have been to a swinging club and anything else which may help them decide what tests I should have.

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

Oh and for males there is no invasive penis test any more.. They now do it in the bloods so no breath in deeply and here comes the long cotton bud...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I wouldn't go if need be... I go regardless on a regular basis. I tell them I have had various sexual partners, if I have been to a swinging club and anything else which may help them decide what tests I should have."

At the risk of pedantry.

Everyone ought to go on a regular basis but that shouldn't stop anyone going when need be eg if a symptom appears between regular check-ups.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes I do go regularly, yes they know I am a swinger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes yes yes and yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes yes yes and yes"

Ditto

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

yep, went 2 weeks ago, all fine

and if you say you are a swinger you get lots of free condoms lol

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By *andy muncher OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

"yep, went 2 weeks ago, all fine

and if you say you are a swinger you get lots of free condoms lol"

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By *ollie_JCouple
over a year ago

London

In fact spotted a fellow member of this siite in the meeting room at the local GUM about two weeks ago..

During the visit the nurse said to me , mr new, "This may make you gag as" she put a long swab down my throat to take a sample

At which point I said. "Oh I doubt it very much..."

Que one blushing nurse...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In fact spotted a fellow member of this siite in the meeting room at the local GUM about two weeks ago..

During the visit the nurse said to me , mr new, "This may make you gag as" she put a long swab down my throat to take a sample

At which point I said. "Oh I doubt it very much..."

Que one blushing nurse..."

Pmsl brilliant. We have both just been following recent forum posts about this and thinking yes we really should. Takes a bit of getting used to but once you've decided to go no point in lying , they're there to help.

The nurse that I had was hot as well lol - mrs notts !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, yes and yes!

Always found the nurses lovely and friendly, and non judgemental.

plus they never hurt ya when taking swabs

(Unlike the local doctors practice when having a smear!)

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usaly go every 4 mnths and yes and yes I always tell them everything as you cant shock these people as they have seen it all at these clinics lol

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

I go to Boots in my lunch break. So easy to do, everyone who swings should consider testing.

I told them I was a swinger and they also offered me the Hep B jab and various different condoms/femidoms to try.

I always ask for latex free though so no excuses from guys about latex intollerence (heard all the excuses before!)

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Every 3 months,yes they know i swing.

It is the only sensible thing to do,and i only play safe.

They see all sorts,a swinger is the least of their worries.

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By *andy muncher OP Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

why so far is only girls and cpls were are the guys i myself go every 3 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes every three months depending on how much I have played and always be honest they have heard it all before.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

"why so far is only girls and cpls were are the guys i myself go every 3 months

Very interesting observation Big Lad!

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

yes, regularly as I value my health. It's a must for everybody involved in this lifestyle.

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

I go every 3 months and must admit that I take pleasure in making them fill all the boxes in, until they have a light bulb moment and ask what I do.

Last check up the doctor gave me a talking to about HIV and infection rates. More fun giving him some fact and figures back with regards to the recent Vienna Conference on the said subject.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And how many get oral swab too next time you at clinic if they dont offer one then ask for it.

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By *DD1EMan
over a year ago

sea

Yes I go to get checked up but at the moment it's only oncce every six months, I should really go that extra to get it done twic more each year.

Interesting though, whan I was in Devon and Cornwall, most of the nurses I saw at the hospital were swingers and a lot of swingers were nurses, we just said hello and got on with the business in hand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and for males there is no invasive penis test any more.. They now do it in the bloods so no breath in deeply and here comes the long cotton bud..."

Oh yes they do!

I had it done on wednesday. Not a nice feeling.

Me and A came out with a goodie bag of lube, condoms and dams. The swinging subject was mentioned. But it makes no difference to them.

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

I was walking passed a G.U.M clinic at the hospital yesterday and I said to the wife what does G.U.M whena nurse came out ask if i would like to know more. i did not know how fast to run.

Tomorrow i got walk past g.u.m. clinic as am on the next ward down.

So should i go or not ?

Ian

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

"I was walking passed a G.U.M clinic at the hospital yesterday and I said to the wife what does G.U.M whena nurse came out ask if i would like to know more. i did not know how fast to run.

Tomorrow i got walk past g.u.m. clinic as am on the next ward down.

So should i go or not ?

Ian"

After reading this thread do u really need to ask?

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

"I was walking passed a G.U.M clinic at the hospital yesterday and I said to the wife what does G.U.M whena nurse came out ask if i would like to know more. i did not know how fast to run.

Tomorrow i got walk past g.u.m. clinic as am on the next ward down.

So should i go or not ?

Ian

After reading this thread do u really need to ask?

true

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By *rumalexMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

i get tested regularly always have done for the last 5 years after a split condom incident.

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By *ohjaneCouple
over a year ago

south staffs

Hmmm, the number of times I have had comments from, mostly, new'ish, young'ish guys on here, like : "No-one is going to shove things down my jap's eye" and " I aim to never visit the GUM clinic" and " I have only ever been in long term relationships" and " I have not started swinging yet"!

It seems to me that some people would rather bury their heads in the sand than take reasonable care of themselves.

I wish there was a section, easily found by new people registering on Fab, which outlined the facts and risks of multiple-partner-sex so they realise that check-ups should be part of the life style.

Jane x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I go every month to the one at chameleons club, its held on the third mondays of the month and as I go most mondays anyway I just go a little earlier the week its on, and as its held in a swingers club they know what your upto anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hmmm, the number of times I have had comments from, mostly, new'ish, young'ish guys on here, like : "No-one is going to shove things down my jap's eye" and " I aim to never visit the GUM clinic" and " I have only ever been in long term relationships" and " I have not started swinging yet"!

It seems to me that some people would rather bury their heads in the sand than take reasonable care of themselves.

I wish there was a section, easily found by new people registering on Fab, which outlined the facts and risks of multiple-partner-sex so they realise that check-ups should be part of the life style.

Jane x"

Thats a very good idea!

But sometimes theres a lot of it will never happen to me attitude!

Is there a FAQ part of the site?

If there is we haven't seen it.

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

Here's some information that was presented at the Vienna Conference last year.

HIV - The over-50s infection rate in England, Wales and Northern Ireland more than doubled in under a decade - from 299 new cases in 2000 to 710 in 2007.

In 2008 there were 7,382 new diagnoses - 8% of these were in the over-50s, says the Health Protection Agency. Experts say the figures are a stark reminder of the importance of practising safe sex, whatever your age.

Other sexually transmitted infections have shown a similar doubling in under a decade among the same age group, and have been rising at a faster rate than in the young.

Lisa Power, of the HIV charity the Terrence Higgins Trust, said their own research had found the over-50s were now the fastest growing group of people with HIV in the UK.

Made very interesting reading, and just shows the importance of taking your sexual health seriously.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here's some information that was presented at the Vienna Conference last year.

HIV - The over-50s infection rate in England, Wales and Northern Ireland more than doubled in under a decade - from 299 new cases in 2000 to 710 in 2007.

Other sexually transmitted infections have shown a similar doubling in under a decade among the same age group, and have been rising at a faster rate than in the young.

Lisa Power, of the HIV charity the Terrence Higgins Trust, said their own research had found the over-50s were now the fastest growing group of people with HIV in the UK.

Made very interesting reading, and just shows the importance of taking your sexual health seriously."

Are those figures broken down anywhere by sexuality?

I suppose it's on the web somewhere but it'd be interesting to know how much of the increase is amongst the male homosexual and bi-sexual communities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"gum clinic have you been would you go if need be and if asked how many sexual partners would you be truthfull and would you say you were a swinger ?????"

yes i go every 3 months ad they know i swing

i know i have safe sex but stilllike to be tested x

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By *uby In StockingsTV/TS
over a year ago

Cheadle

intersting to know???, you wouldn't be looking for someone to blame by any chance would you???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"intersting to know???, you wouldn't be looking for someone to blame by any chance would you???

I think I know exactly who to blame if someone gets an STI or HIV or whatever.

The paragraph "Other sexually transmitted infections have shown a similar doubling in under a decade among the same age group, and have been rising at a faster rate than in the young." is worthy of investigation too.

Doubling could mean just about anything from 1 case doubling to 2 or 1,000,000 cases doubling to 2,000,000 or worse.

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

If you wish to read the key findings of the report presented go to:

www.library.nhs.uk/INFECTIONS/ViewResource.aspx?resID=331512&tabID=290

A brief breakdown for HIV is

New diagnoses among men who have sex with men (MSM) remained high (2,760); four out of five probably acquired their infection in the UK.

Of the people newly diagnosed in 2009, 1,130 probably acquired their infection heterosexually within the UK, accounting for a third of heterosexuals diagnosed.

One in six MSM, and one in sixteen heterosexuals newly diagnosed with HIV had acquired their infection within the previous 4-5 months before diagnosis.

I'll see if I can find the report with regards to the other sexually transmitted infections.

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By *edhotminxWoman
over a year ago

Turn left at the Singing Ringing Tree

the other reports are on the Health Protection Agency website - www.hpa.org.uk/

if you put sti in the search engine it will bring up a whole host of information to read and data.

Also an article on BBC News news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/7974297.stm

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