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By *inkyguy81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Oxford

so i'm struggling with this site. my cam won't work in the chat rooms so people cant see me. although im verified by others.

this makes getting meets difficult. but whats worse than time wasters and bad tech is people who dont verify after a meet!

I drove to Newbury on sunday night at 12:30am for a very last minute meet, drove home at 2:30am and didnt get given feedback. its a great shame we're not allowed to 'out' these types of selfish members.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ouch only polite to leave feed back even in negative up to person to add it or not to there profile .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

probably as i dont really read veris but would much rather make up my own mind up about someone i do tend to say to meets i am not bothered about a veri from you but if you like i will do 1 for you and have a lot say do you know what no its not a problem ,i now have mets that i meet regularly that we have never bothered to veri each other but thats just me

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

And here was me thinking I had heard it all on here already!

Folk moan they don't get meets

Folk moan about timewasters

And now

Folk DO get a meet but then moan because they don't get a verification after it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And here was me thinking I had heard it all on here already!

Folk moan they don't get meets

Folk moan about timewasters

And now

Folk DO get a meet but then moan because they don't get a verification after it

"

loves a good moan especially during sex

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish

people don't HAVE to give you a verification...maybe they did not enjoy the evening as much as you did and do not want to leave one...or maybe they just had not got round to writing one yet...and after seeing this in forums may not...people are not obliged to write one just because you met.I have had meets that did not get one...did I whine about it?no as it really isn't a big deal at the end of the day is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so i'm struggling with this site. my cam won't work in the chat rooms so people cant see me. although im verified by others.

this makes getting meets difficult. but whats worse than time wasters and bad tech is people who dont verify after a meet!

I drove to Newbury on sunday night at 12:30am for a very last minute meet, drove home at 2:30am and didnt get given feedback. its a great shame we're not allowed to 'out' these types of selfish members."

im going to have a real good moan now you have veris and havnt got them up to see now how bad must those ppl feel knowing they given you a veri and you not showing it what a waste of their time to do it for you

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"so i'm struggling with this site. my cam won't work in the chat rooms so people cant see me. although im verified by others.

this makes getting meets difficult. but whats worse than time wasters and bad tech is people who dont verify after a meet!

I drove to Newbury on sunday night at 12:30am for a very last minute meet, drove home at 2:30am and didnt get given feedback. its a great shame we're not allowed to 'out' these types of selfish members.

im going to have a real good moan now you have veris and havnt got them up to see now how bad must those ppl feel knowing they given you a veri and you not showing it what a waste of their time to do it for you "

lol you beat me to it..just looked at the profile and wondered what does it matter as you don't show them anyway...

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

And here was me thinking I had heard it all on here already!

Folk moan they don't get meets

Folk moan about timewasters

And now

Folk DO get a meet but then moan because they don't get a verification after it

"

To be fair, a single man needs all the help they can get on this site to be able to meet people, so if I was a single male I might be pissed off that I had had a meet and no one verified me.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"so i'm struggling with this site. my cam won't work in the chat rooms so people cant see me. although im verified by others.

this makes getting meets difficult. but whats worse than time wasters and bad tech is people who dont verify after a meet!

I drove to Newbury on sunday night at 12:30am for a very last minute meet, drove home at 2:30am and didnt get given feedback. its a great shame we're not allowed to 'out' these types of selfish members."

Have you asked them can they verify you? Maybe they havn't had a chance to post one yet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

u know what it pisses me off so much on here that people have to be so abuse when there is forums to post how u feel and what you want so why the fuck is it moaning ????????????

ffs we here to have laugh as adults and make r say but dnt have to be negitive cos people voice how they feel ....think if u meet its only reet to veify people or why be on and meet ffs ???????

fucking hell not site where ya sit in corner say fuck all is it ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

And here was me thinking I had heard it all on here already!

Folk moan they don't get meets

Folk moan about timewasters

And now

Folk DO get a meet but then moan because they don't get a verification after it

To be fair, a single man needs all the help they can get on this site to be able to meet people, so if I was a single male I might be pissed off that I had had a meet and no one verified me."
..... what you said indeed

* gEtS bAcK iN CoFfiN *

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"u know what it pisses me off so much on here that people have to be so abuse when there is forums to post how u feel and what you want so why the fuck is it moaning ????????????

ffs we here to have laugh as adults and make r say but dnt have to be negitive cos people voice how they feel ....think if u meet its only reet to veify people or why be on and meet ffs ???????

fucking hell not site where ya sit in corner say fuck all is it ?????"

whoah, calm down , think of your blood pressure !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oops rugby sorry i know blood pressure mental start with haha but makes me so mad .......so many pain in the asses and up there own asses on here lol

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"

And here was me thinking I had heard it all on here already!

Folk moan they don't get meets

Folk moan about timewasters

And now

Folk DO get a meet but then moan because they don't get a verification after it

To be fair, a single man needs all the help they can get on this site to be able to meet people, so if I was a single male I might be pissed off that I had had a meet and no one verified me."

I agreee to a certain degree, but he is verified already and chooses not to show them, so maybe the others choose not to verify people they meet or doesn't believe the meet was worth a verification or just haven't got around to sending a verification yet or any other reason in between.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

dis it have it in black and white you have to show verification even if you dnt want to ?????? belive its you choice to do it ???or am i wrong ??????and at end day still respect at end innit if you meet some one to verify them yes maybe they aint been on had time to do it give benefit the dought

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"dis it have it in black and white you have to show verification even if you dnt want to ?????? belive its you choice to do it ???or am i wrong ??????and at end day still respect at end innit if you meet some one to verify them yes maybe they aint been on had time to do it give benefit the dought "

That will be why I said "chooses"

Right, off to work here before my own blood pressure rises above a safe level!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"u know what it pisses me off so much on here that people have to be so abuse when there is forums to post how u feel and what you want so why the fuck is it moaning ????????????

ffs we here to have laugh as adults and make r say but dnt have to be negitive cos people voice how they feel ....think if u meet its only reet to veify people or why be on and meet ffs ???????

fucking hell not site where ya sit in corner say fuck all is it ?????"

and that is the best thing about the site we are all allowed to have our own opinion on things you have yours being that every meet should have a veri i have mine in that i really couldnt care 1 way or the other neither of which is wrong is it

the op came on to say he thinks that ppl who dont veri are timewasters but has he thought about what the ppl he meets opinion of veris is they could possible think that veris are a waste of time in their opinion

maybe imo the op should ask his meets if they going to veri him before he meets so that if they say no then he could choose if he wants to meet them or not

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

You don't have to show verifications to come up in a search of a person who meets. People can be as private as they like then, so yeah, he may have his veri hidden, but maybe that wasn't a meet one and he was hoping to get a meet one so he comes up in searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"u know what it pisses me off so much on here that people have to be so abuse when there is forums to post how u feel and what you want so why the fuck is it moaning ????????????

ffs we here to have laugh as adults and make r say but dnt have to be negitive cos people voice how they feel ....think if u meet its only reet to veify people or why be on and meet ffs ???????

fucking hell not site where ya sit in corner say fuck all is it ?????

and that is the best thing about the site we are all allowed to have our own opinion on things you have yours being that every meet should have a veri i have mine in that i really couldnt care 1 way or the other neither of which is wrong is it

the op came on to say he thinks that ppl who dont veri are timewasters but has he thought about what the ppl he meets opinion of veris is they could possible think that veris are a waste of time in their opinion

maybe imo the op should ask his meets if they going to veri him before he meets so that if they say no then he could choose if he wants to meet them or not "

sorry worse than timewasters

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Have you checked your "manage verifications" page to see if the veri is sat in there but never appeared in the "you have new verifications" thing?

That can happen sometimes.

I had a meet a few weeks back as part of my MM profile, and I was left a veri on both profiles, but I was never notified of one of them, I only found out I had it when I looked on the manage verifications page.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't have to show verifications to come up in a search of a person who meets. People can be as private as they like then, so yeah, he may have his veri hidden, but maybe that wasn't a meet one and he was hoping to get a meet one so he comes up in searches.

"

had def got me blonde head on now cos im confused as to what that means sorry

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By *o Peep n WoodyCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

reminds me of ebay after you just sold that old crap that was in the loft, you going after the buyers to give u positive feedback

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Maybe they thought you were not up to scratch and not worthy of a verification?

After all it's not compulsory to leave verifications and until it is made so then members can pick and choose if they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you be thinking about this in 5 years time ......how about 6 months time ....probally not ...get some perspective and dont sweat the small stuff!...let go and move on ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just goes to highlight how different we all are. I meet people for loads of kinky fun. Do I ask for or give verifications? No I don't. The only time I verify anyone is if they aren't verified.

To become apoplectic because someone hasn't verified you before the throbbing in their nether regions has subsided is honestly beyond me.

Oh well....vive le difference!

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"Maybe they thought you were not up to scratch and not worthy of a verification?

After all it's not compulsory to leave verifications and until it is made so then members can pick and choose if they do"

My thoughts exactly,also i have only left one verification unasked,and that was for my Master.I would not assume someone wanted one,and would not leave one unless asked.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I agree with the OP... people who meet you and have sex with you but are too selfish to verify you are far worse than the people who don't show up at all.

The bloomin' cheek of some people! They invite you over, give you the correct location, play with you and then can't be bothered to tell the feckin' world about it!

I agree they should be outed! It's a flaming liberty!

There should be a list somewhere warning people... "These people will meet you and not tell anyone about it!"

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

throwing a hissy fit just due to someone not verifying you (for what ever reason) isnt going to show you in a very posative light is it ? no where on the site does it state YOU HAVE TO VERIFY EVERY MEET .people can choose to how to set up their profile ,choose to verify or not ect. also did you state before hand your exspection to be verified ? if its THAT bigger issue maybe that should be made a point of .even then theres no garentees people would verify !thats the beauty of having freedome of choice lol!

personally id have thought the fact you are already verified and getting meets youd see you are already wayyy ahead of most guys on here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's too early for this lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't really give a flying fuck about whether verifications are left for us.

We always ask new meets if they'd like us to verify them because not everyone feels as we do, which is evident from this thread.

Verifications really don't mean anything anyway. Just because someone turned up to meet someone else, it doesn't guarantee that they'll turn up for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't really give a flying fuck about whether verifications are left for us.

We always ask new meets if they'd like us to verify them because not everyone feels as we do, which is evident from this thread.

Verifications really don't mean anything anyway. Just because someone turned up to meet someone else, it doesn't guarantee that they'll turn up for you. "

Oh don't be ridiculous!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they thought you were not up to scratch and not worthy of a verification?"

My Mum always said "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything"

But seriously, in my opinion, verifications aren't important. I would only leave a verification for someone a) if they were unverified, or b) if they asked (and I felt I could say something nice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do verifications really matter? I meet guys without them doesn't put me off I can't see what the fuss is about. I'm happy to leave someone a verifcation it doesn't matter if he doesn't back. As most my meets are not one offs so proves he liked what he saw I don't need a verification to prove that.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"

And here was me thinking I had heard it all on here already!

Folk moan they don't get meets

Folk moan about timewasters

And now

Folk DO get a meet but then moan because they don't get a verification after it

To be fair, a single man needs all the help they can get on this site to be able to meet people, so if I was a single male I might be pissed off that I had had a meet and no one verified me."

okay... that last bit set alarm bells ringing here rugby... sorry....

so i'll ask you this as a hypothetical..

"say the meet wasn't as good for the other couple... they could send him a bad verification... he never need show it but he then gets the mythical "green tick"..."

would that be right?

maybe the couple aren't verified so they can't....

maybe he is so pissed off that he never got one that he didn't bother to check that.. and never sent them one...

maybe they haven't gotten round to it yet.... and if it was me after reading that I certainly wouldn't now.

there could be a multitude of reasons.. all we will never know in a one sided story

I'll know what it looks like to me so far and i am not going to say because it's not good....

so does that mean every people I have met in a social situation should now verify men, after all they have met me "in person"... of course not!

so much for being thankful for getting a meet.... jeez....

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Maybe they dont send verifications because they dont want to publicise who they are meeting with, because they think it is their business and no-one elses...

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

And here was me thinking I had heard it all on here already!

Folk moan they don't get meets

Folk moan about timewasters

And now

Folk DO get a meet but then moan because they don't get a verification after it

To be fair, a single man needs all the help they can get on this site to be able to meet people, so if I was a single male I might be pissed off that I had had a meet and no one verified me.

okay... that last bit set alarm bells ringing here rugby... sorry....

so i'll ask you this as a hypothetical..

"say the meet wasn't as good for the other couple... they could send him a bad verification... he never need show it but he then gets the mythical "green tick"..."

would that be right?

maybe the couple aren't verified so they can't....

maybe he is so pissed off that he never got one that he didn't bother to check that.. and never sent them one...

maybe they haven't gotten round to it yet.... and if it was me after reading that I certainly wouldn't now.

there could be a multitude of reasons.. all we will never know in a one sided story

I'll know what it looks like to me so far and i am not going to say because it's not good....

so does that mean every people I have met in a social situation should now verify men, after all they have met me "in person"... of course not!

so much for being thankful for getting a meet.... jeez....

"

I will rephrase.

To be fair, a single man needs all the help they can get on this site to be able to meet people, so if I was a single male and the meet went well or I though it did ( I am not not talking about this man as I said A SINGLE man )I might be pissed off that I had had a meet and no one verified me.

Not once did I say everyone SHOULD give a verification, I said if I was in that situation I might moan too.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"You don't have to show verifications to come up in a search of a person who meets. People can be as private as they like then, so yeah, he may have his veri hidden, but maybe that wasn't a meet one and he was hoping to get a meet one so he comes up in searches.

had def got me blonde head on now cos im confused as to what that means sorry "

sorry Debs, I forgot to quote the person I was answering, it just happened that I posted after you. x

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By *irtyGirlWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I don't do verifications either. There's a bit of me that thinks actually it's a little selfish but that's just too bad. I don't show verifications, I don't offer them and I've given out three in the time I've been here.

It's not that I didn't have a good time or that it wasn't fun or that they weren't nice people I've met, I just don't want everyone and their pals knowing who I've played with. It's really very simple.

I certainly wouldn't verify someone who came in the forums and moaned about that fact!

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

okay... rugby.. i will agree with you the day the site makes ALL verifications be shown... the good ones AND the bad ones...

but until that day happens, which will be 5 past never cause the shit will hit the fan, and people can pick and choose what is shown to make themselves look good , then shouldn't people have the CHOICE to leave one or not......

I think people should be thankful for meets... be they singles or couples, so for someone to go off on one for something as petty as a non left verification I think says for me a lot about that person....

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"okay... rugby.. i will agree with you the day the site makes ALL verifications be shown... the good ones AND the bad ones...

but until that day happens, which will be 5 past never cause the shit will hit the fan, and people can pick and choose what is shown to make themselves look good , then shouldn't people have the CHOICE to leave one or not......

I think people should be thankful for meets... be they singles or couples, so for someone to go off on one for something as petty as a non left verification I think says for me a lot about that person....

"

I do yes, I think everyone should have the choice wether they give /show/not give/not show verifications.

They also have a choice of saying ah damn, I was hoping to get a veri and didn't get one and that was what I was answering

I don't think people should be thankful of getting meets so should shut up and be grateful though, if something pissed me off I would say so, probably not on the forums though, but we are not all the same.

I just think there is enough people who do think verifications are important. We see plenty of threads where the subject of people not having veri's and how others won't meet people without, and yet now, someone is saying he was hoping for a veri and he is told to not be so demanding.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always leave feedback never had to leave negative feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so i'm struggling with this site. my cam won't work in the chat rooms so people cant see me. although im verified by others.

this makes getting meets difficult. but whats worse than time wasters and bad tech is people who dont verify after a meet!

I drove to Newbury on sunday night at 12:30am for a very last minute meet, drove home at 2:30am and didnt get given feedback. its a great shame we're not allowed to 'out' these types of selfish members."

do verifications matter to u that much

i never read them much

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By *ouple1234Couple
over a year ago

BELFAST UK


"oops rugby sorry i know blood pressure mental start with haha but makes me so mad .......so many pain in the asses and up there own asses on here lol "

i agree 100% and they stand out like a bad sore, near every topic its same old people running people down etc

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By *hi-John69Man
over a year ago

chichester


"I agree with the OP... people who meet you and have sex with you but are too selfish to verify you are far worse than the people who don't show up at all.

The bloomin' cheek of some people! They invite you over, give you the correct location, play with you and then can't be bothered to tell the feckin' world about it!

I agree they should be outed! It's a flaming liberty!

There should be a list somewhere warning people... "These people will meet you and not tell anyone about it!""

hey where is this list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Verifications put me off a lot of men

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"

I just think there is enough people who do think verifications are important. We see plenty of threads where the subject of people not having veri's and how others won't meet people without, and yet now, someone is saying he was hoping for a veri and he is told to not be so demanding. "

That's not quite all of what he is saying though is it?

He's said people such as whoever it was he met (can't tell who it was as they haven't verified him - ooops) are 'selfish' and should be outed and named and shamed because they are worse than timewasters.

No matter how important someone thinks a verification is... is it more important than actually meeting someone?

Is meeting someone and not verifying them really worse than arranging to meet them and not turning up at all?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

I just think there is enough people who do think verifications are important. We see plenty of threads where the subject of people not having veri's and how others won't meet people without, and yet now, someone is saying he was hoping for a veri and he is told to not be so demanding.

That's not quite all of what he is saying though is it?

He's said people such as whoever it was he met (can't tell who it was as they haven't verified him - ooops) are 'selfish' and should be outed and named and shamed because they are worse than timewasters.

No matter how important someone thinks a verification is... is it more important than actually meeting someone?

Is meeting someone and not verifying them really worse than arranging to meet them and not turning up at all?"

I think the point was missed of WHAT I was answering.

I was answering BB430 who said people moaned about blah blah and now they are moaning about this.

I am not sure where anyone got to me saying verfications are compulsory or that I commented on his post.

I will now comment on his post and also answer your questions.

No I don't think people are timewasters if they don't verify someone.

No I don't think people HAVE to verify someone.

No I don't think people should name and shame anyone for not verifying after a meet.

To your questions ( although I am not sure why I am being asked them )

Yes, most people are here for meets and that is obviously the most important thing.

For US, no, verifications are not important, but they are to some people, and for the single males of this site it seems to be a must for a lot of people otherwise they are not considered....so for this male, he may see them as important even if they are not as important as actually meeting and I can understand why he would want them.

No, I don't think not verifying someone after a meet is as bad as not meeting at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its rude if you asked them to leave you feedback and they aint bothered too it takes 2 mins to do

i had one meet like that i tend to have my laptop with me at meets (as all my meets are in hotels and its easy to have a laptop there ~)

so i just ask guys now to log in b4 they leave and write something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Now at the risk of being a little cynical I'll pose a question, purely hypothetically of course.

If a person wasn't verified and wished people to think that he/she was...what would be a good way of bypassing the system and 'verifying' themselves?

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"i think its rude if you asked them to leave you feedback and they aint bothered too it takes 2 mins to do

i had one meet like that i tend to have my laptop with me at meets (as all my meets are in hotels and its easy to have a laptop there ~)

so i just ask guys now to log in b4 they leave and write something

"

Can't tell you how funny I found this (please don't take offence) I likened this to a guest book they ask you to sign at seaside bed and breakfasts before you leave....

Have to ask....what would you do if they wrote something negative....in front of you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol i thought u wud find it funny haha

im not sure what i wud do lol

have a full on hissy fit i expect lol

and demand a bottle of wine to make me feel better haha

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"i think its rude if you asked them to leave you feedback and they aint bothered too it takes 2 mins to do

i had one meet like that i tend to have my laptop with me at meets (as all my meets are in hotels and its easy to have a laptop there ~)

so i just ask guys now to log in b4 they leave and write something

"

wow... okay.... nothing like lots of pressure....

so if they had put "not bad... wouldn't meet again!" or something a lot worse... would you then show it??? its an honest question?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this topic just shows that some people will meet anyone to get a verification thus getting themselves on the swinging 'ladder'.

Its like working the graveyard shift in order to get promoted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im a bloddy good shag lol so i neva get bad feedback lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think its rude if you asked them to leave you feedback and they aint bothered too it takes 2 mins to do

i had one meet like that i tend to have my laptop with me at meets (as all my meets are in hotels and its easy to have a laptop there ~)

so i just ask guys now to log in b4 they leave and write something

"
..... log in to there fab acounts on your laptop ??? oops tutut

* gEtS bAcK iN CoFfiN *

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think its rude if you asked them to leave you feedback and they aint bothered too it takes 2 mins to do

i had one meet like that i tend to have my laptop with me at meets (as all my meets are in hotels and its easy to have a laptop there ~)

so i just ask guys now to log in b4 they leave and write something

"

Wow! Really? Hot...damn! Talk about pressure! Just when I thought I'd heard it all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hows it pressure all i am doing is asking them to log in and say yes she turned up and looks like her pics ect and then what eva they want to add

then when they get home they can do a longer one if they want too

i think most guys i meet can handle presure or they wudnt be meeting me haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously the verification system needs to be made like a job referencing form, asking probing questions like:

Would you shag her again?

and

Did you do her up the bum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you were not upto their expectations and they thought it better to give no feedback rather than be negative

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

Should have stood over them and refused to leave until they verified you.

Are you expecting people to have a positive opinion of you, after slagging off a couple you met on here? just because they have not told everyone what a super guy you are?

worse than a kid!

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"i think its rude if you asked them to leave you feedback and they aint bothered too it takes 2 mins to do

i had one meet like that i tend to have my laptop with me at meets (as all my meets are in hotels and its easy to have a laptop there ~)

so i just ask guys now to log in b4 they leave and write something

"

Wow, that some pressure.

We would say no thanks to that.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"I think this topic just shows that some people will meet anyone to get a verification thus getting themselves on the swinging 'ladder'.

Its like working the graveyard shift in order to get promoted!"

I am not sure this thread does show that at all.

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

damn, i got it wrong again. I thought this site was about meeting likeminded people for sex. Turns out it's a mutual appreciation society. Who'd have thought it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The verification process had to start somewhere so the first person to give a verification had to have been verified first ..... so who started it all? I have to go with creationalism on this one - the big bang came later!! I wonder if the first two can be traced back? Sort of like Adam and Eve lol. Or was it Adam and Adam or Eve and Eve! Anybody want to form a time team to discover trace back we could call it "Shags Reunited"!!!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

We would have been in real trouble if they had refused to verify them.....then where would we be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pressuring someone to give you a verification. If someone wants to give you one they will if they don't they won't. Doesn't mean your less special for it. It's defo that Thursday feeling on here today.

I will hold gun to your head until you write I'm a good shag, who fucking cares? Not me

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

If someone plonked their laptop down in front of me and asked me to enter MY passwords on their machine…. “fuck off” would be the polite answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a social meet wasnt all that, i dont verify, i do verify sex meets even if they werent, i just dont enthuse so much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think its rude if you asked them to leave you feedback and they aint bothered too it takes 2 mins to do

i had one meet like that i tend to have my laptop with me at meets (as all my meets are in hotels and its easy to have a laptop there ~)

so i just ask guys now to log in b4 they leave and write something

"

i dont mean to be rude, but that is just plain weird!! If a guy did that to me just after playing, i would run a mile!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not believe one has to give verification after a meet.

It would nice if peeps do, however, I shan't get wound up if they don't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before punching him I'd leave an awful verifcation

Here goes...

He turned up on time. Nice smile but don't get too close his breath stinks. His cock was very small and to clench my ass cheeks to feel it.

He was that tight he wouldn't cum on me he was saving it for a sperm bank.

I would recommend him if your blind and dumb and like BO and bad breath.

Hope not to see you ever again

Janelle xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think its rude if you asked them to leave you feedback and they aint bothered too it takes 2 mins to do

i had one meet like that i tend to have my laptop with me at meets (as all my meets are in hotels and its easy to have a laptop there ~)

so i just ask guys now to log in b4 they leave and write something

Wow, that some pressure.

We would say no thanks to that."

Somebody did try to say to say no thanks to that.... they were kept in the hotel room for a fortnight

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

did not realise it was compulsory to leave feedback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"did not realise it was compulsory to leave feedback."

.

It isn't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"did not realise it was compulsory to leave feedback."

Reading some of these comments you'd think it was written in stone lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"did not realise it was compulsory to leave feedback.

.

It isn't! "

Isn't it?

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures

Perhaps the guy that you met also has his sexual preferences set to straight and doesn't want to show up on a verification for another "straight" guy?

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By *erendipityWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire


"so i'm struggling with this site. my cam won't work in the chat rooms so people cant see me. although im verified by others.

this makes getting meets difficult. but whats worse than time wasters and bad tech is people who dont verify after a meet!

I drove to Newbury on sunday night at 12:30am for a very last minute meet, drove home at 2:30am and didnt get given feedback. its a great shame we're not allowed to 'out' these types of selfish members."

Do you agree up front that writing a verification is a condition of meeting you to swing? If it's this important to you, I'd suggest you do that in future

Contract based swinging...mmmm sexy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the guy that you met also has his sexual preferences set to straight and doesn't want to show up on a verification for another "straight" guy?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the guy that you met also has his sexual preferences set to straight and doesn't want to show up on a verification for another "straight" guy? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i think its rude if you asked them to leave you feedback and they aint bothered too it takes 2 mins to do

i had one meet like that i tend to have my laptop with me at meets (as all my meets are in hotels and its easy to have a laptop there ~)

so i just ask guys now to log in b4 they leave and write something

It took your 2nd verifier a couple of weeks to post something!!! Was that a tough negotiating process?

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mite not of been worth verifieing?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"Perhaps the guy that you met also has his sexual preferences set to straight and doesn't want to show up on a verification for another "straight" guy?"

Is that to the OP can I ask? as I don't think he mentioned what gender he met.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"

Is that to the OP can I ask? as I don't think he mentioned what gender he met."

Note to self:

Don't forget to leave a smiley when leaving sarcky comments

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

[Removed by poster at 05/03/11 17:55:41]

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo


"

Is that to the OP can I ask? as I don't think he mentioned what gender he met.

Note to self:

Don't forget to leave a smiley when leaving sarcky comments"

Note to self.

Remind myself that banter/sarcasm can be fun...but sarcasm without the banter just comes across as nasty...smileys included or not.

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"

Is that to the OP can I ask? as I don't think he mentioned what gender he met.

Note to self:

Don't forget to leave a smiley when leaving sarcky comments

Note to self.

Remind myself that banter/sarcasm can be fun...but sarcasm without the banter just comes across as nasty...smileys included or not."

Can I do a bit of sarcasm/banter just now and say that the first 2 version were just as good as this one

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Yeah but they had bad typoes in, and you know I have to correct my typoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so i'm struggling with this site. my cam won't work in the chat rooms so people cant see me. although im verified by others.

this makes getting meets difficult. but whats worse than time wasters and bad tech is people who dont verify after a meet!

I drove to Newbury on sunday night at 12:30am for a very last minute meet, drove home at 2:30am and didnt get given feedback. its a great shame we're not allowed to 'out' these types of selfish members.

Have you asked them can they verify you? Maybe they havn't had a chance to post one yet?"

ah logic, at last.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there is NOTHING worse than timewasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is NOTHING worse than timewasters."
notice a few that just join when you mail an get no response

an it get deleted tried again

your block whats all that about

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside


"there is NOTHING worse than timewasters.notice a few that just join when you mail an get no response

an it get deleted tried again

your block whats all that about"

It getting deleted without a reply to you first time should tell you all you need to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is NOTHING worse than timewasters.notice a few that just join when you mail an get no response

an it get deleted tried again

your block whats all that about

It getting deleted without a reply to you first time should tell you all you need to know "
personally think am going block all new comers most are time waster from them who join

in what i have notice they dont hang around

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"If someone plonked their laptop down in front of me and asked me to enter MY passwords on their machine…. “fuck off” would be the polite answer. "

And i would be even less polite than you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is NOTHING worse than timewasters.notice a few that just join when you mail an get no response

an it get deleted tried again

your block whats all that about"

we took the option of blocking singles as we had too much mail from them and although we do sometimes invite singles to our group fun we are looking to play with couples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is NOTHING worse than timewasters.notice a few that just join when you mail an get no response

an it get deleted tried again

your block whats all that about

It getting deleted without a reply to you first time should tell you all you need to know personally think am going block all new comers most are time waster from them who join

in what i have notice they dont hang around"

yes we find it best to wait a bit as newcomers are sometimes unreliable and as you say often withdraw from the site after a short time. We go for verified peeps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a bloddy good shag lol so i neva get bad feedback lol "

Firstly I am sure you are a bloody good shag. But is there not a part of you that says that if you are making someone give you a verification, with you standing behind them watching them type, that there is no pressure on them to write a good verification. If this is the case, could people argue the point that your verifications werent completely genuine, ie; pressure being put on to give a good verification.

I think you are joking though, I dont really believe anyone could possibly go that far as to make someone log into a laptop and leave a verification in that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im a bloddy good shag lol so i neva get bad feedback lol

Firstly I am sure you are a bloody good shag. But is there not a part of you that says that if you are making someone give you a verification, with you standing behind them watching them type, that there is no pressure on them to write a good verification. If this is the case, could people argue the point that your verifications werent completely genuine, ie; pressure being put on to give a good verification.

I think you are joking though, I dont really believe anyone could possibly go that far as to make someone log into a laptop and leave a verification in that way. "

I think she's serious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup! unfortunately i too think she's serious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yup! unfortunately i too think she's serious! "

I'm not convinced after reading them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah...nobody is ever serious about anything here

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West


"u know what it pisses me off so much on here that people have to be so abuse when there is forums to post how u feel and what you want so why the fuck is it moaning ????????????

ffs we here to have laugh as adults and make r say but dnt have to be negitive cos people voice how they feel ....think if u meet its only reet to veify people or why be on and meet ffs ???????

fucking hell not site where ya sit in corner say fuck all is it ?????"

Exactly right...we notice this a lot people (normally new to the site) have a grumble and the only reaction is 'bad luck'..'get over it and move on' 'tough' 'so what'...

Note to original poster...moaning is only allowed if your one of 'the clique' on here..then youll find everyone will agree and sympathise..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kind of agree with the OP,the guy has travelled and turned up,people moan on here about timewasters and its usually aimed at single guys,the OP has shown he is reliable to the couple.

Ok,we dont know the reasons why they didnt verify him but if it was us then we would have left a veri saying yes we met yes he turned up.a lot of people on here wont meet guys if they are not verified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear me ! maybe he thought you were a shit shag and left no feedback as opposed to a negative ?

Besides that, bigger fool you for leaving your house at 12:30am ... smacks of desperation ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so i'm struggling with this site. my cam won't work in the chat rooms so people cant see me. although im verified by others.

this makes getting meets difficult. but whats worse than time wasters and bad tech is people who dont verify after a meet!

I drove to Newbury on sunday night at 12:30am for a very last minute meet, drove home at 2:30am and didnt get given feedback. its a great shame we're not allowed to 'out' these types of selfish members."

your verifications are hidden anyway

im really struggling here to understand what your moaning at, your saying that people you meet who dont leave you a verification that your not showing anyway is worse than someone not turning uop for a meet?

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton


"I kind of agree with the OP,the guy has travelled and turned up,people moan on here about timewasters and its usually aimed at single guys,the OP has shown he is reliable to the couple.

Ok,we dont know the reasons why they didnt verify him but if it was us then we would have left a veri saying yes we met yes he turned up.a lot of people on here wont meet guys if they are not verified."

firstly the guy is verified genuine already . secondly wouldnt matter one jot of the meet said he was the shag of the century and hung like a horse as he doesnt show verifications anyway lol !!! so there is absolutely no difference if verification was left or not ,the ops no beter or no worse off .

what we have to remember just as it was everyones own choice how they set up profiles arrange meets ect its also everyones own choice if they wish to leave a verification or not .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear me ! maybe he thought you were a shit shag and left no feedback as opposed to a negative ?

Besides that, bigger fool you for leaving your house at 12:30am ... smacks of desperation ...

"

Do the math: he leaves home at 12.30. I don't know how far Newbury is from Banbury but he's on his way back by 2.30!

Just saying...!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh dear me ! maybe he thought you were a shit shag and left no feedback as opposed to a negative ?

Besides that, bigger fool you for leaving your house at 12:30am ... smacks of desperation ...

Do the math: he leaves home at 12.30. I don't know how far Newbury is from Banbury but he's on his way back by 2.30!

Just saying...!!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guy gets a free quickie - should just count self lucky. We don't add that many singles to veris (would be full and don't want to sound like a slapper lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think it matters what time people leave their homes to have meets and how long they stay. Its got nothing to do with any of us how long someone elses meets last for. Or why they decided on a short meet.

I would leave a verification, especially to single guys, and the guys Ive met have all been lovely and ive had a good time. I like to show my appreciation by leaving a verification. But its my choice on whether I do so and its their choice whether they leave me one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is frustrating, when I was a member previously it took me several meetings before I found myself verified... this time around I have had one meet since rejoining, unfortunatly that person is also not verified so neither of us can verify each other

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i'll tell you whats worse than timewasters, it's those bloody people who turn up thats what. You book a room not knowing if anyone will actually come, then you get the confirmation text so you know damn well they wont. On the appointed evening you settle into the room, put the telly on and settle down for a 'me' evening and what happens? Theres a bloody knock on the door and there stands a couple expecting sex from you. There goes yer nice relaxing evening and you have to expend all your energy messing YOUR bed for the night up all for her pleasure and satisfaction. Bloody unbelievable.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"i'll tell you whats worse than timewasters, it's those bloody people who turn up thats what. You book a room not knowing if anyone will actually come, then you get the confirmation text so you know damn well they wont. On the appointed evening you settle into the room, put the telly on and settle down for a 'me' evening and what happens? Theres a bloody knock on the door and there stands a couple expecting sex from you. There goes yer nice relaxing evening and you have to expend all your energy messing YOUR bed for the night up all for her pleasure and satisfaction. Bloody unbelievable."

No worse than that the ones who text you are you free and youve just got in bed or having nice bath and i was planning have chilled out evening its not fair but thats what us single are here for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy for meets and no feedback! Let my cock do the talking! Chill and it will be fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont think it matters what time people leave their homes to have meets and how long they stay. Its got nothing to do with any of us how long someone elses meets last for. Or why they decided on a short meet.

I would leave a verification, especially to single guys, and the guys Ive met have all been lovely and ive had a good time. I like to show my appreciation by leaving a verification. But its my choice on whether I do so and its their choice whether they leave me one. "

Of course it matters, that's why the OP mentioned it! Seems to be a spate of threads where the OP's mention time they left, miles they travelled and disappointed with the evening.

If you're going to travel 200 miles or leave your home at ungodly hours and not meet Heidi Klume or left a glowing verification outlining how within an hour you had the lady gushing a tsunami and walking like John Wayne AND feel the need to share on an OPEN forum, then I'm going to comment.

So many people vying to take the place of Ruggers and HPC these days!

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By *londieddWoman
over a year ago

fife

guess you never left a lasting impression, weve all been there, move on to yr next meet!!!!!!!!! there are much more interesting things to look at on this site than yr own verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guy gets a free quickie - should just count self lucky. We don't add that many singles to veris (would be full and don't want to sound like a slapper lol) "

hold on...is every bugger else charging?!

why was i not told this?

how do i apply for back-payment?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single guy gets a free quickie - should just count self lucky. We don't add that many singles to veris (would be full and don't want to sound like a slapper lol)

hold on...is every bugger else charging?!

why was i not told this?

how do i apply for back-payment?!!"

*Giggles*

Looks like I've been missing a trick too giving it away!

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