Join us FREE, we're FREE to use
Web's largest swingers site since 2006.
Already registered?
Login here
Back to forum list |
Back to Swingers Chat |
Jump to newest |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Oh absolutely adore black guns xx " Oops Guys Not guns . | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Pssst OP....use reply and Quote then we know who's comment you are referring to" Ahaha you can tell I use the forums often lol | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Does it count if I get a spray tan lol " Are you asking if the black and white minstrels count as black? | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up " Not a fetish for me, mrs, as we are a couple. We both love interracial and TVs ..... Mr is Bi and black. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up " pfff | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up pfff " Is there a problem?!? | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up pfff Is there a problem?!? " Fetishsing skin colour is something that's a little crass. You're promoting it as something that's never seen or done, never tried or even taboo. I don't like inequalities yet you are actively promoting it - for your own ends. I thought we had moved past this. Great thinking OP and good luck. Judging by the thread responses, no doubt you'll get a lot out of it. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up pfff Is there a problem?!? Fetishsing skin colour is something that's a little crass. You're promoting it as something that's never seen or done, never tried or even taboo. I don't like inequalities yet you are actively promoting it - for your own ends. I thought we had moved past this. Great thinking OP and good luck. Judging by the thread responses, no doubt you'll get a lot out of it. " If you don't like it don't get involved,keep your neb out,your opinion wasn't asked for. I'm sure all that have answered the op see it for what it is,some harmless fantasist fun.No racial.prejudice,just something a bit different.you are the one making it out to be crass. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up pfff Is there a problem?!? Fetishsing skin colour is something that's a little crass. You're promoting it as something that's never seen or done, never tried or even taboo. I don't like inequalities yet you are actively promoting it - for your own ends. I thought we had moved past this. Great thinking OP and good luck. Judging by the thread responses, no doubt you'll get a lot out of it. If you don't like it don't get involved,keep your neb out,your opinion wasn't asked for. I'm sure all that have answered the op see it for what it is,some harmless fantasist fun.No racial.prejudice,just something a bit different.you are the one making it out to be crass. " Pmsl And, I'll no doubt take that on board and not listen to a word of it. Your opinion is yours and mine still stands. If you don't agree with it I might say the same back to you, though in a less nobby way | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up pfff Is there a problem?!? Fetishsing skin colour is something that's a little crass. You're promoting it as something that's never seen or done, never tried or even taboo. I don't like inequalities yet you are actively promoting it - for your own ends. I thought we had moved past this. Great thinking OP and good luck. Judging by the thread responses, no doubt you'll get a lot out of it. " With all due respect I have always been brought up by respecting people of all races regardless of skin colour. People have preference and fantasies and I'm just one to share those view with whoever I like. I believe everyone as an opinion whether rightly or constructive however I feel your opinion is not. Feels like an attack in which is not welcomed. If you haven't got something positive to say then may I suggest you don't say it and keep your personal opinions to yourself. Thank you | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up pfff Is there a problem?!? Fetishsing skin colour is something that's a little crass. You're promoting it as something that's never seen or done, never tried or even taboo. I don't like inequalities yet you are actively promoting it - for your own ends. I thought we had moved past this. Great thinking OP and good luck. Judging by the thread responses, no doubt you'll get a lot out of it. If you don't like it don't get involved,keep your neb out,your opinion wasn't asked for. I'm sure all that have answered the op see it for what it is,some harmless fantasist fun.No racial.prejudice,just something a bit different.you are the one making it out to be crass. Pmsl And, I'll no doubt take that on board and not listen to a word of it. Your opinion is yours and mine still stands. If you don't agree with it I might say the same back to you, though in a less nobby way " But I was answering the op,you weren't,you were sticking your oar in where it wasn't needed. The op didn't ask for those that DIDN'T have a fetish for interracial relationships or love of black men.he asked for those that DID. But then some people like yourself feel the need to get involved in every post wether your opinion is asked for or not. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up pfff Is there a problem?!? Fetishsing skin colour is something that's a little crass. You're promoting it as something that's never seen or done, never tried or even taboo. I don't like inequalities yet you are actively promoting it - for your own ends. I thought we had moved past this. Great thinking OP and good luck. Judging by the thread responses, no doubt you'll get a lot out of it. " This is fantasy. I don't use the term bbw because I don't want to be a fetish. That's my choice. It would be arrogant of me to call others crass who are happy to identify as such. Likewise, whilst bbc isn't something I seek, if consenting adults are happy with the label etc, who am I to look down on them? As long as people approach on an individual basis ie not assume every black guy wants to be seen as a fetish/mandingo experience, then hey, each to their own! | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up pfff Is there a problem?!? Fetishsing skin colour is something that's a little crass. You're promoting it as something that's never seen or done, never tried or even taboo. I don't like inequalities yet you are actively promoting it - for your own ends. I thought we had moved past this. Great thinking OP and good luck. Judging by the thread responses, no doubt you'll get a lot out of it. With all due respect I have always been brought up by respecting people of all races regardless of skin colour. People have preference and fantasies and I'm just one to share those view with whoever I like. I believe everyone as an opinion whether rightly or constructive however I feel your opinion is not. Feels like an attack in which is not welcomed. If you haven't got something positive to say then may I suggest you don't say it and keep your personal opinions to yourself. Thank you " You've posted on an open forum. You will not, or should expect everyone to agree with you. Therefore, it's churlish telling someone to keep their opinions to themselves. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up pfff Is there a problem?!? Fetishsing skin colour is something that's a little crass. You're promoting it as something that's never seen or done, never tried or even taboo. I don't like inequalities yet you are actively promoting it - for your own ends. I thought we had moved past this. Great thinking OP and good luck. Judging by the thread responses, no doubt you'll get a lot out of it. With all due respect I have always been brought up by respecting people of all races regardless of skin colour. People have preference and fantasies and I'm just one to share those view with whoever I like. I believe everyone as an opinion whether rightly or constructive however I feel your opinion is not. Feels like an attack in which is not welcomed. If you haven't got something positive to say then may I suggest you don't say it and keep your personal opinions to yourself. Thank you " I can see how you might not welcome my comment but you did ask what I meant. You are the one who posted a thread on a fetish for black men so as it's an open forum for response, it is called constructive criticism. Simply because the response wasn't one that you wanted, i.e 'hands up I wanna fuck you BBC', doesn't mean it isn't a constructive one OP. For you to call it an attack is quite lame really as there are plenty of black men that don't exploit their skin colour to get meets or fetishise themselves or even promote BBC. As I say, things have moved on; inter racial is no longer taboo! If a white guy would have posted a thread with this wording he would have been shot. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up pfff Is there a problem?!? Fetishsing skin colour is something that's a little crass. You're promoting it as something that's never seen or done, never tried or even taboo. I don't like inequalities yet you are actively promoting it - for your own ends. I thought we had moved past this. Great thinking OP and good luck. Judging by the thread responses, no doubt you'll get a lot out of it. With all due respect I have always been brought up by respecting people of all races regardless of skin colour. People have preference and fantasies and I'm just one to share those view with whoever I like. I believe everyone as an opinion whether rightly or constructive however I feel your opinion is not. Feels like an attack in which is not welcomed. If you haven't got something positive to say then may I suggest you don't say it and keep your personal opinions to yourself. Thank you You've posted on an open forum. You will not, or should expect everyone to agree with you. Therefore, it's churlish telling someone to keep their opinions to themselves." The op didn't ask for an opinion He asked to bring together those that share the same fantasy,not those that disagree with it.read the opening post again. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
" But I was answering the op,you weren't,you were sticking your oar in where it wasn't needed. The op didn't ask for those that DIDN'T have a fetish for interracial relationships or love of black men.he asked for those that DID. But then some people like yourself feel the need to get involved in every post wether your opinion is asked for or not." Though the OP asked me what I meant and I was answering. You telling me to keep my 'neb' out is a laughable response. I could post an answer on pink Giraffes if I wanted, I can still reply to whatever I want mine heir. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up pfff Is there a problem?!? Fetishsing skin colour is something that's a little crass. You're promoting it as something that's never seen or done, never tried or even taboo. I don't like inequalities yet you are actively promoting it - for your own ends. I thought we had moved past this. Great thinking OP and good luck. Judging by the thread responses, no doubt you'll get a lot out of it. With all due respect I have always been brought up by respecting people of all races regardless of skin colour. People have preference and fantasies and I'm just one to share those view with whoever I like. I believe everyone as an opinion whether rightly or constructive however I feel your opinion is not. Feels like an attack in which is not welcomed. If you haven't got something positive to say then may I suggest you don't say it and keep your personal opinions to yourself. Thank you I can see how you might not welcome my comment but you did ask what I meant. You are the one who posted a thread on a fetish for black men so as it's an open forum for response, it is called constructive criticism. Simply because the response wasn't one that you wanted, i.e 'hands up I wanna fuck you BBC', doesn't mean it isn't a constructive one OP. For you to call it an attack is quite lame really as there are plenty of black men that don't exploit their skin colour to get meets or fetishise themselves or even promote BBC. As I say, things have moved on; inter racial is no longer taboo! If a white guy would have posted a thread with this wording he would have been shot. " | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"This is to all, this post was intended to share fetishes of course there is gonna be difference in a opinion. Why does there's have to be a debate there this is concern it's just friendly talk about people who like the same things I didn't ask for this. So in gonna carry sharing with those who want to say positive things " Glad you no longer feel attacked OP. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"This is to all, this post was intended to share fetishes of course there is gonna be difference in a opinion. Why does there's have to be a debate there this is concern it's just friendly talk about people who like the same things I didn't ask for this. So in gonna carry sharing with those who want to say positive things Glad you no longer feel attacked OP. " I'm just carrying and ignoring whatever further things you have to say I no longer have interest | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"It would be great if there was a regular social event where couples could go to meet black guys " There's lots there a BMFC night you can attend they have parties in London Birmingham and Manchester. There a website in which I can't post on here | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Why does everyone take things so seriously Anyway now to big myself up " Thank you!! Was never intended like that | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"We enjoy the skin contrast when Frisky plays with a black guy/s..." Agreed!! Likewise the other way round | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Hello from a far away corner " Good afternoon | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
"Just popping in to say hi " Good afternoon sir!!! | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Would I call it a fetish that I like to see Ginger having fun with a black guy as love the colour contrast, it's more of a turn on then seeing her with a white guy. She gets turned on by being with a black guy knowing how it's going to affect me especially if we're indulging in our cuckold fetish. Does it have anything to do with being taboo etc? Don't know and don't care it's the way we're wired and as long as everyone involved does it matter?" | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Would I call it a fetish that I like to see Ginger having fun with a black guy as love the colour contrast, it's more of a turn on then seeing her with a white guy. She gets turned on by being with a black guy knowing how it's going to affect me especially if we're indulging in our cuckold fetish. Does it have anything to do with being taboo etc? Don't know and don't care it's the way we're wired and as long as everyone involved does it matter?" Well said | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Hello op ...well Ive had some interesting and sexy meets with black guys. ...and white guys come to think of it " Don't I know it as well!! Fair play X | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Hello op ...well Ive had some interesting and sexy meets with black guys. ...and white guys come to think of it " thanks for sharing | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
"Would I call it a fetish that I like to see Ginger having fun with a black guy as love the colour contrast, it's more of a turn on then seeing her with a white guy. She gets turned on by being with a black guy knowing how it's going to affect me especially if we're indulging in our cuckold fetish. Does it have anything to do with being taboo etc? Don't know and don't care it's the way we're wired and as long as everyone involved does it matter?" Well said. Similar for us but I'm not a cuck. I just enjoy sharing Frisky and she enjoys it too... | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
"How about white men for black girls or black girls for white men? I had an interesting chat with a black girl who thought black guys are more in to white women, although not a rule. " start a thread see if there's interest and take it from there | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Hello op ...well Ive had some interesting and sexy meets with black guys. ...and white guys come to think of it thanks for sharing " wooo hoo. ..helloooo | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"I'm addicted x" Well!!!? | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"How about white men for black girls or black girls for white men? I had an interesting chat with a black girl who thought black guys are more in to white women, although not a rule. " I think the fact that because there is a lot more Men on fab you will always find BBC threads/appreciation more common then the other way around | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Hello op ...well Ive had some interesting and sexy meets with black guys. ...and white guys come to think of it thanks for sharing wooo hoo. ..helloooo " Oh hello indeed | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"How about white men for black girls or black girls for white men? I had an interesting chat with a black girl who thought black guys are more in to white women, although not a rule. I think the fact that because there is a lot more Men on fab you will always find BBC threads/appreciation more common then the other way around " May be.. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"How about white men for black girls or black girls for white men? I had an interesting chat with a black girl who thought black guys are more in to white women, although not a rule. I think the fact that because there is a lot more Men on fab you will always find BBC threads/appreciation more common then the other way around " Agreed!!! Nothing nothing wrong with exploring the other way round!! Like other guy said start a thread and see what happened I appear to be getting more inboxed as we speak lol | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"The good lady Jane adores the attentions of BBC and all the lengthy benefits they bring! " Bless her heheh | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"i think it is more interesting that the OP was actually the first person to use the word "fetish" in the thread.... he opened that particular door.... no one else!!!! am i happy to be seen as someones fetish... hell no!!!! but if he happy to be demeaned in that manner..... thats on him..... i like to think i am more self respect than that.. but heck... anything for a legover!!! right????" well said!!! since when did skin colour become a fetish? | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"How about white men for black girls or black girls for white men? I had an interesting chat with a black girl who thought black guys are more in to white women, although not a rule. I think the fact that because there is a lot more Men on fab you will always find BBC threads/appreciation more common then the other way around Agreed!!! Nothing nothing wrong with exploring the other way round!! Like other guy said start a thread and see what happened I appear to be getting more inboxed as we speak lol " To be honest I have no interest in starting a thread like that, I like Women of all colours, I do like to watch BBC with white Women in porn though | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"How about white men for black girls or black girls for white men? I had an interesting chat with a black girl who thought black guys are more in to white women, although not a rule. I think the fact that because there is a lot more Men on fab you will always find BBC threads/appreciation more common then the other way around Agreed!!! Nothing nothing wrong with exploring the other way round!! Like other guy said start a thread and see what happened I appear to be getting more inboxed as we speak lol " not got one inbox maybe i should start one of these threads lol | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"How about white men for black girls or black girls for white men? I had an interesting chat with a black girl who thought black guys are more in to white women, although not a rule. I think the fact that because there is a lot more Men on fab you will always find BBC threads/appreciation more common then the other way around Agreed!!! Nothing nothing wrong with exploring the other way round!! Like other guy said start a thread and see what happened I appear to be getting more inboxed as we speak lol not got one inbox maybe i should start one of these threads lol " start a fuck suck chuck thread | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"How about white men for black girls or black girls for white men? I had an interesting chat with a black girl who thought black guys are more in to white women, although not a rule. I think the fact that because there is a lot more Men on fab you will always find BBC threads/appreciation more common then the other way around Agreed!!! Nothing nothing wrong with exploring the other way round!! Like other guy said start a thread and see what happened I appear to be getting more inboxed as we speak lol not got one inbox maybe i should start one of these threads lol start a fuck suck chuck thread " oh i'm not brave enough for that would be too worried about the horrible replies See not everyone is as lovely as you in forums | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"This is to all, this post was intended to share fetishes of course there is gonna be difference in a opinion. Why does there's have to be a debate there this is concern it's just friendly talk about people who like the same things I didn't ask for this. So in gonna carry sharing with those who want to say positive things Glad you no longer feel attacked OP. I'm just carrying and ignoring whatever further things you have to say I no longer have interest " | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up " I am interested OP in the fact that you are okay with meeting people who see you as a fetish ad not as a person. I have been to parties where this takes place, and it truly is fascinating. Speaking as a woman who has relationships as well as meets with black men .... It's not taboo ... It's just down right weird that you should look upon another human being like that, and that the the object of the fetish should downplay their individuality to that point just to get a fuck. Out of interested, OP, do you date white women, or are they some type of fetish for black men? | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Definitely have an appreciation of interracial relationships (my marriage is one!), but it's definitely not a fetish. " Now I am intrigued .... Those of us who are in an interracial relationship, can we sit comfortably aside those who fetishise interracial sex? Because to me these things are completely the opposite as one values and appreciates the person and the other does not, indeed demeans that person and anyone with their skin color .... I don't think they can be brought together. I do love a good discussion, though and would be happily persuaded otherwise | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up I am interested OP in the fact that you are okay with meeting people who see you as a fetish ad not as a person. I have been to parties where this takes place, and it truly is fascinating. Speaking as a woman who has relationships as well as meets with black men .... It's not taboo ... It's just down right weird that you should look upon another human being like that, and that the the object of the fetish should downplay their individuality to that point just to get a fuck. Out of interested, OP, do you date white women, or are they some type of fetish for black men?" | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Definitely have an appreciation of interracial relationships (my marriage is one!), but it's definitely not a fetish. Now I am intrigued .... Those of us who are in an interracial relationship, can we sit comfortably aside those who fetishise interracial sex? Because to me these things are completely the opposite as one values and appreciates the person and the other does not, indeed demeans that person and anyone with their skin color .... I don't think they can be brought together. I do love a good discussion, though and would be happily persuaded otherwise" You raise an interesting point we've had meets before where it was their first time playing with an Asian lady, however we met because we clicked and got on. Anyone messaging us saying "would love to try brown pussy" or similar would have the message deleted. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"I think the op perhaps didn't choose his words with that much thought ...chill out a bit folks xx " It's not a matter of chilling out, its a matter of having a discussion, no-one here is 'unchilled' just interested in him as a person with an opinion. I have found in the past when I have tried to open a discussion on the BBC phenomenon a bit of resistance to discussion, thus endorsing the idea that no brains are needed. Is it the case that black men are looking for white women who are docile and not feisty? Or who dont have an opinion? I am asking this tongue in cheek here, but BBC may not be the only stereotypes such searches are guilty of perpetrating .... BBC in interracial poon for sure, but what is the image of the white female in such porn? Are any of us, as women, guilty of pandering to it? | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Definitely have an appreciation of interracial relationships (my marriage is one!), but it's definitely not a fetish. Now I am intrigued .... Those of us who are in an interracial relationship, can we sit comfortably aside those who fetishise interracial sex? Because to me these things are completely the opposite as one values and appreciates the person and the other does not, indeed demeans that person and anyone with their skin color .... I don't think they can be brought together. I do love a good discussion, though and would be happily persuaded otherwise You raise an interesting point we've had meets before where it was their first time playing with an Asian lady, however we met because we clicked and got on. Anyone messaging us saying "would love to try brown pussy" or similar would have the message deleted. " | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Definitely have an appreciation of interracial relationships (my marriage is one!), but it's definitely not a fetish. Now I am intrigued .... Those of us who are in an interracial relationship, can we sit comfortably aside those who fetishise interracial sex? Because to me these things are completely the opposite as one values and appreciates the person and the other does not, indeed demeans that person and anyone with their skin color .... I don't think they can be brought together. I do love a good discussion, though and would be happily persuaded otherwise" Don't you see it as fantasy though? Is it any more "demeaning" than couples promoting the "hot wife" or women naming themselves dirtycumslut4u? | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"I'm often tainted by friends about my preference for black skin, but I look at this way. It's just the same as men preferring blondes, brunettes etc,and no one questions that. " That's kind of the point I'm making. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Definitely have an appreciation of interracial relationships (my marriage is one!), but it's definitely not a fetish. Now I am intrigued .... Those of us who are in an interracial relationship, can we sit comfortably aside those who fetishise interracial sex? Because to me these things are completely the opposite as one values and appreciates the person and the other does not, indeed demeans that person and anyone with their skin color .... I don't think they can be brought together. I do love a good discussion, though and would be happily persuaded otherwise Don't you see it as fantasy though? Is it any more "demeaning" than couples promoting the "hot wife" or women naming themselves dirtycumslut4u? " Its not a fantasy for me as I have three mixed race kids and have had relationships with black men from before they were born. I do find hot wife and women being called sluts also demeaning, yes. It's all part of the same thing for me. If I want something and I like it (ie black men) I would not be in a relationship with a white man. Other women in my peer group are married to white guys, and generally unholy and unfulfilled. They used to say they were jealous because I had a younger black boyfriend .... if that's the case, I would tell them, then do something about it. But also with the proviso that they had a lot of things I didn't, security, a house or whatever they had worked for (I was a single parent at that stage). I an the sort of person who lives by my principles and is true to myself, I don't live a life I don't really want and get fulfilled by having fantasies, I would prefer them to be a reality. Not sure if that males sense. Some thing I find unpalatable, with is demeaning another person. I don't find it attractive in any form. I guess I would have to say though that my real life and my swinging life are the same and I am the same person in both ... although I dont swing too often these days. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Definitely have an appreciation of interracial relationships (my marriage is one!), but it's definitely not a fetish. Now I am intrigued .... Those of us who are in an interracial relationship, can we sit comfortably aside those who fetishise interracial sex? Because to me these things are completely the opposite as one values and appreciates the person and the other does not, indeed demeans that person and anyone with their skin color .... I don't think they can be brought together. I do love a good discussion, though and would be happily persuaded otherwise Don't you see it as fantasy though? Is it any more "demeaning" than couples promoting the "hot wife" or women naming themselves dirtycumslut4u? Its not a fantasy for me as I have three mixed race kids and have had relationships with black men from before they were born. I do find hot wife and women being called sluts also demeaning, yes. It's all part of the same thing for me. If I want something and I like it (ie black men) I would not be in a relationship with a white man. Other women in my peer group are married to white guys, and generally unholy and unfulfilled. They used to say they were jealous because I had a younger black boyfriend .... if that's the case, I would tell them, then do something about it. But also with the proviso that they had a lot of things I didn't, security, a house or whatever they had worked for (I was a single parent at that stage). I an the sort of person who lives by my principles and is true to myself, I don't live a life I don't really want and get fulfilled by having fantasies, I would prefer them to be a reality. Not sure if that males sense. Some thing I find unpalatable, with is demeaning another person. I don't find it attractive in any form. I guess I would have to say though that my real life and my swinging life are the same and I am the same person in both ... although I dont swing too often these days." I know what I mean in my head, I don't always articulate it. I was married for 24 years to a wonderful black man: he's the father of my children. We broke up after our son died and we didn't grieve together. Fast forward ten years and I'm in a relationship with a white man, we're together because we clicked. My eldest is married to a white man and my grandsons dual heritage. I suppose, although it's not for me, I don't see consenting adults playing out their fantasies as demeaning. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Definitely have an appreciation of interracial relationships (my marriage is one!), but it's definitely not a fetish. Now I am intrigued .... Those of us who are in an interracial relationship, can we sit comfortably aside those who fetishise interracial sex? Because to me these things are completely the opposite as one values and appreciates the person and the other does not, indeed demeans that person and anyone with their skin color .... I don't think they can be brought together. I do love a good discussion, though and would be happily persuaded otherwise Don't you see it as fantasy though? Is it any more "demeaning" than couples promoting the "hot wife" or women naming themselves dirtycumslut4u? Its not a fantasy for me as I have three mixed race kids and have had relationships with black men from before they were born. I do find hot wife and women being called sluts also demeaning, yes. It's all part of the same thing for me. If I want something and I like it (ie black men) I would not be in a relationship with a white man. Other women in my peer group are married to white guys, and generally unholy and unfulfilled. They used to say they were jealous because I had a younger black boyfriend .... if that's the case, I would tell them, then do something about it. But also with the proviso that they had a lot of things I didn't, security, a house or whatever they had worked for (I was a single parent at that stage). I an the sort of person who lives by my principles and is true to myself, I don't live a life I don't really want and get fulfilled by having fantasies, I would prefer them to be a reality. Not sure if that males sense. Some thing I find unpalatable, with is demeaning another person. I don't find it attractive in any form. I guess I would have to say though that my real life and my swinging life are the same and I am the same person in both ... although I dont swing too often these days. I know what I mean in my head, I don't always articulate it. I was married for 24 years to a wonderful black man: he's the father of my children. We broke up after our son died and we didn't grieve together. Fast forward ten years and I'm in a relationship with a white man, we're together because we clicked. My eldest is married to a white man and my grandsons dual heritage. I suppose, although it's not for me, I don't see consenting adults playing out their fantasies as demeaning." I think for me though there are two things ... is really the fantasy of the demeaned? Should anyone condone such fantasies ... where would you (in the general sense, not personally) draw the line? Can I wear a KKK hood? Where does one draw the line with these things? I suspect mine is in a different place to many others .... | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"I'm often tainted by friends about my preference for black skin, but I look at this way. It's just the same as men preferring blondes, brunettes etc,and no one questions that. " Yep. I just find black and Asian men more attractive generally. Not sure why it has to be a problem. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Oh goodness ask why are people making a big deal of it simple thing is if you don't like the thread piss off somewhere else. " People love turning everything into a political debate. They need to chill | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
" Just thought I'd pop in and see if the usual offended parties on behalf of all black guys were out in force....yep...seems that way... " It's shocking!!! Why by offended no one hurting you. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
" Just thought I'd pop in and see if the usual offended parties on behalf of all black guys were out in force....yep...seems that way... " hahaha your post always bring a smile to my face | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"I'm often tainted by friends about my preference for black skin, but I look at this way. It's just the same as men preferring blondes, brunettes etc,and no one questions that. " exactly and I do really have a thing for white woman loving BBC. But I do also love certain blondes,brunettes and am partial too black and Asian woman also. But yes I do get of on interracial sex. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"i think it is more interesting that the OP was actually the first person to use the word "fetish" in the thread.... he opened that particular door.... no one else!!!! am i happy to be seen as someones fetish... hell no!!!! but if he happy to be demeaned in that manner..... thats on him..... i like to think i am more self respect than that.. but heck... anything for a legover!!! right????" Well said that man | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Can the Ladies tell the difference in colour once it is inside ????? " No...but i can tell if I'm attracted to the guy still... so if I'm attracted to a black guys looks, then I'm going to be really excited when his penis is inside me! | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Good morning, just wanted to bring together those who have a fetish and appreciation of interracial relationships and those to love black men. Big yourselves up pfff Is there a problem?!? Fetishsing skin colour is something that's a little crass. You're promoting it as something that's never seen or done, never tried or even taboo. I don't like inequalities yet you are actively promoting it - for your own ends. I thought we had moved past this. Great thinking OP and good luck. Judging by the thread responses, no doubt you'll get a lot out of it. With all due respect I have always been brought up by respecting people of all races regardless of skin colour. People have preference and fantasies and I'm just one to share those view with whoever I like. I believe everyone as an opinion whether rightly or constructive however I feel your opinion is not. Feels like an attack in which is not welcomed. If you haven't got something positive to say then may I suggest you don't say it and keep your personal opinions to yourself. Thank you " | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Can the Ladies tell the difference in colour once it is inside ????? " Yes. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Oh goodness ask why are people making a big deal of it simple thing is if you don't like the thread piss off somewhere else. " I love this type of thread and the debate, sadly they are always dumbed down by certain elements. don't worry though, op, you'll see soon enough who they are .... | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Can the Ladies tell the difference in colour once it is inside ????? Yes." I'll go with yes,simply because there's a man attached to it and black men feel different. It may all be in my head though. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Would like to see what all the fuss is about " | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Completely random observation by me here ...aren't there some gorgeous fuck able guys on this thread " This thread has helped few people... , please feel free to approach them. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Completely random observation by me here ...aren't there some gorgeous fuck able guys on this thread This thread has helped few people... , please feel free to approach them. " believe me I will and have lol xx | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Completely random observation by me here ...aren't there some gorgeous fuck able guys on this thread This thread has helped few people... , please feel free to approach them. believe me I will and have lol xx " All the best | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
" Omg this thread wasn't even that deep think personal issues about the terms used are driving these frankly ridiculous over the top attitude towards a thread that was basically a bit of fun for those fans of interracial fun but this is fab i suppose always gonna be someone offended or taking issue " God bless them,they just saw interracial,fetish,BBC and just couldn't help themselves. Never mind the fact the op wanted to bring people together.why let the facts get in the way of a good whinge. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
" Omg this thread wasn't even that deep think personal issues about the terms used are driving these frankly ridiculous over the top attitude towards a thread that was basically a bit of fun for those fans of interracial fun but this is fab i suppose always gonna be someone offended or taking issue God bless them,they just saw interracial,fetish,BBC and just couldn't help themselves. Never mind the fact the op wanted to bring people together.why let the facts get in the way of a good whinge." Some people will do anything for a fuck, and need to go to great lengths .... others live in the real world. | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
" Omg this thread wasn't even that deep think personal issues about the terms used are driving these frankly ridiculous over the top attitude towards a thread that was basically a bit of fun for those fans of interracial fun but this is fab i suppose always gonna be someone offended or taking issue God bless them,they just saw interracial,fetish,BBC and just couldn't help themselves. Never mind the fact the op wanted to bring people together.why let the facts get in the way of a good whinge." If you have heard the phrase living up to a stereotype. This is what to a certain extent offended me by the initial post in using the word 'fetish' in relation to race. The OP has cleared this up by explaining later on that his choice of words could have been phrased better. What you are not realising that skin colour isn't a whinge or a whine. It is not something you have as and when, and then put back in a cupboard like it should be something unseen. And FYI, simply because "they" on this thread are as opposed to the term, doesn't mean they don't have their hands up to fuck the OP | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Oh goodness ask why are people making a big deal of it simple thing is if you don't like the thread piss off somewhere else. " In response to the previous post ..... Here's the quote from the OP who told people who didn't agree with him to piss off. Am I allowed to say I feel attacked now? Of course not, because I can't be the victim here .... been to MBFC, enjoyed the evening .... so, we aren't that far away ... difference is, I am interested in people as people. I wouldn't want to start any thread here as I am just not on the forums long enough to sustain it ... | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
| |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
"Oh goodness ask why are people making a big deal of it simple thing is if you don't like the thread piss off somewhere else. In response to the previous post ..... Here's the quote from the OP who told people who didn't agree with him to piss off. Am I allowed to say I feel attacked now? Of course not, because I can't be the victim here .... been to MBFC, enjoyed the evening .... so, we aren't that far away ... difference is, I am interested in people as people. I wouldn't want to start any thread here as I am just not on the forums long enough to sustain it ..." well i'm big enough to say i stand corrected about that comment apologies but if anyone should feel attacked it's the OP i get that your interested in people but if you're not interested in starting you own thread doesn't mean you should high jack the OP'S and make it a race issue when it was just a bit of fun | |||
(thread closed by moderator) |
Reply privately |
back to top |