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A few drinks before a hotel meet...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Definitely for me! I like to feel totally relaxed and ready to let myself go....what do other folk think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely for me! I like to feel totally relaxed and ready to let myself go....what do other folk think?"

I prefer to stay sober for sex, just a personal preference. I don't mind if my partner drinks though.

Once you start kissing and touching all the nerves disappear anyway and nature kicks in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A civilised glass of something nice shared with a like minded person or people is a nice preamble, although neither of us would drink until we were half cut!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, meets in the past, successful ones have involved alcohol...I'm now, rightly or wrongly only messaging profilers who do drink

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

A drink isn't an essential part of a meet for me but one to take the edge off and relax you in a social setting is always a nice start to the meet

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax


"A civilised glass of something nice shared with a like minded person or people is a nice preamble, although neither of us would drink until we were half cut! "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a glass of wine or two makes me feel more relaxed and less nervous

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

North West

A drink and chat not essentially alcoholic before progressing is always good. If in a hotel then the bar is fine, going direct to a room can make some uneasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Diet for me please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do have a couple of drinks sometimes. I get too nervous beforehand. Not enough to get tipsy.. Just a bit of dutch courage.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Using alcohol to calm nerves, increase confidence, drop inhibitions is a recipe for disaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer being sober and the person I meet to be as well. Can always have a drink during or afterwards.

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By *lice_in_BlunderlandWoman
over a year ago

Staffordshire

It's not an essential. But I have enjoyed the flirting over a glass of wine when I've been nervous.

Not to say I haven't enjoyed nerves over a decent cup or tea

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Personally I wouldn't want to meet someone who needed alcohol for Dutch courage prior to a meet. I don't like the taste, smell of alcohol on others so kissing would be unpleasant.

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By *ipswingCouple
over a year ago

portrush

getting the balance right, is the hard bit..

there an hours worth of drink in the system,waiting to cum through, before we feel the ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Using alcohol to calm nerves, increase confidence, drop inhibitions is a recipe for disaster."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer not to drink but if the occasion lends itself to a drink then I will. I don't need it to loosen me up or dutch courage. I'm fine as I am...............arguably!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not unless we're sharing a cheeky wee glass of wine. Rather be sober to enjoy the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a robot or a machine and I like to connect at least a little with my partner before playing, the alcohol isn't important, the chat is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely for me! I like to feel totally relaxed and ready to let myself go....what do other folk think?"

Yip. I concur.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

There's a big difference between necking a bottle of wine to numb the doubt and chatting for an hour or so while sipping a glass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's a big difference between necking a bottle of wine to numb the doubt and chatting for an hour or so while sipping a glass."

Or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll drink, but it doesn't bother me if they do or don't, just as long as neither party gets d*unk.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"A drink isn't an essential part of a meet for me but one to take the edge off and relax you in a social setting is always a nice start to the meet "

Me too

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