FabSwingers.com forum: Anybody else think this site should be split into two ?

By *oppy40 OP Woman
over a year ago

Exeter

I mean by this half the site for people who want to chat/swap pics/talk/and get off on cam and then those who want to meet and get naughty with a real person ? Make it so much easier or is it just me as a single red blooded woman who has trouble finding meets ! Maybe some pointers anyone xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't help but agree. Then when ready to meet you get the option to "swing across" and meet like minded folk

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"I mean by this half the site for people who want to chat/swap pics/talk/and get off on cam and then those who want to meet and get naughty with a real person ? Make it so much easier or is it just me as a single red blooded woman who has trouble finding meets ! Maybe some pointers anyone xx"

I never had much of that problem on here? I wonder if you are selecting the wrong people somehow?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't make any difference lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this sites big enough for everybody to be doing their own things and get what they want

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

No...I've never had any problems with the site as it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to chat, swap pics and then meet at some point.

I have found a lot of "single" guys (an awful lot) on here who want to meet suddenly get an attack of conscience and refuse a meet at the last minute.

Or can't get away. I think the real problem is there aren't many genuinely single guys on here. Or anywhere?

Equally I've been out on the pull in local nightclubs recently for a bit of fun.

Pulled 5 guys in five consecutive weeks.

Every single one has said he has a girlfriend. I only find out because I say I'm married, and then they blurt out that they have a girlfriend, before I say that I my husband knows and is happy that I play.

Im like you, I won't play with attached guys either. The single ones are very, very difficult to find.

Well, the single ones who can string a sentence together, are sexy, nice looking, and fairly intelligent aren't single anyway. And why would they be?

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Good point.. but am sure still would get "why cant i meet on the meeting section" forums.

Normally I ask this type of question early on.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I never had much of that problem on here? I wonder if you are selecting the wrong people somehow? "

this.... its way too easy to in effect blame the site.... but if you are the one doing the picking and choosing then surely some of your woes have to lay at your feet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps re_iew your profile text.

Do's, don'ts, no, no, no....

Your location is going to have you in the middle of a military exercise constantly just as up here.

As a bi-sexual female you should be swimming in both but tbh - I wouldn't meet you reading your profile even if your pics are great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think there should be more filters available to choose from. As for changing the concept of the website and splitting it into 2, I just don't see that working.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure a lot have been put off after ur profile as it sets u out as quite a aggressive me me me type of person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Split in to two yes, but not the way you suggest it.

One part should be for people who go to Swingers' parties, go to clubs, and for couples who arrange the good, old "wife swaps".

The other part for everyone else: illusionists, sex-daters, online daters, chronic forumites, and the I-would-never-leave-my-keyboard types.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it works fine as it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why fix what aint broken - you have the choice to do whatever you want just let people know with by chatting or via your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

how about one half for those who do meet up with others from the site and other half for those who simply dream about it ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps re_iew your profile text.

Do's, don'ts, no, no, no....

Your location is going to have you in the middle of a military exercise constantly just as up here.

As a bi-sexual female you should be swimming in both but tbh - I wouldn't meet you reading your profile even if your pics are great.

Mx"

As the OP didn't ask for a profile critique maybe you should have concentrated on the actual question she did ask?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We like don't doing all of the above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to chat, swap pics and then meet at some point.

I have found a lot of "single" guys (an awful lot) on here who want to meet suddenly get an attack of conscience and refuse a meet at the last minute.

Or can't get away. I think the real problem is there aren't many genuinely single guys on here. Or anywhere?

Equally I've been out on the pull in local nightclubs recently for a bit of fun.

Pulled 5 guys in five consecutive weeks.

Im like you, I won't play with attached guys either. The single ones are very, very difficult to find.

Well, the single ones who can string a sentence together, are sexy, nice looking, and fairly intelligent aren't single anyway. And why would they be?"

If only we lived closer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps re_iew your profile text.

Do's, don'ts, no, no, no....

Your location is going to have you in the middle of a military exercise constantly just as up here.

As a bi-sexual female you should be swimming in both but tbh - I wouldn't meet you reading your profile even if your pics are great.

As the OP didn't ask for a profile critique maybe you should have concentrated on the actual question she did ask? "

She asked why she wasn't getting any meets

Asked for pointers.

We did answer her question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly didn't think women had a problem finding meets. I know us single males do but women seem to be able to pick and choose.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you mean dividing this site between 'real' swingers and dreamers/fantacists, I'm not sure that would work. Would a) the latter admit that they are what they are, and b) would the latter be happy to only occupy a site that was full of dreamers and fantacists. I suspect for this category of Fab members, the pull would be to enjoy the pictures and stories etc of those who do play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Perhaps re_iew your profile text.

Do's, don'ts, no, no, no....

Your location is going to have you in the middle of a military exercise constantly just as up here.

As a bi-sexual female you should be swimming in both but tbh - I wouldn't meet you reading your profile even if your pics are great.

As the OP didn't ask for a profile critique maybe you should have concentrated on the actual question she did ask?

She asked why she wasn't getting any meets

Asked for pointers.

We did answer her question."

I disagree..

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Well, the single ones who can string a sentence together, are sexy, nice looking, and fairly intelligent aren't single anyway. And why would they be?"

Because some of us are very fussy about what we want and will stay single until the right person comes along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Well, the single ones who can string a sentence together, are sexy, nice looking, and fairly intelligent aren't single anyway. And why would they be?

Because some of us are very fussy about what we want and will stay single until the right person comes along

True, I had to turn down a couple who wanted a last minute meet but would not give me face pics and let me phone them. Like I would let a stranger into my house, it could have been thugs! Verifications can be faked.

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