FabSwingers.com forum: How young is too young to start?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The first time I had a MMF was when I was well into my 30s. I've noticed so many young 20 year old couples on here and wonder if by the time they turn 30+ they run out of things to do sexually.

To say it another way, is it too young to start swinging in a relationship in your 20s?

Just for the record, I'm not criticizing, just curious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its totally down to that person within themselves. For me I was in my mid-teens. I have always been polyamorous and all bar one of my romantic partners have at least tested the waters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The first time I had a MMF was when I was well into my 30s. I've noticed so many young 20 year old couples on here and wonder if by the time they turn 30+ they run out of things to do sexually.

To say it another way, is it too young to start swinging in a relationship in your 20s?

Just for the record, I'm not criticizing, just curious. "

I'm going to take this as a genuine question, otherwise It comes across as somewhat narrow minded.

The whole point of swinging is variety, the only way you will "run out of things to do" is if you shag the entire swinging population of the planet and even then you could go around for seconds (or thirds or fourths...)

If all this is to some people is a chance to 'tick boxes' then yes you will eventually run out of new things to try but in our opinion that completely defeats the whole basis of being a swinger and finding new people to socialise with and enjoy the company of.

Me and Millie have been together for 10 years and still I find her completely iresistible and we are still suprising each other daily, I can't see how it could ever become a problem with people you are potentially only meeting for a single night!

Mike

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We both had our first group-sex in our late teens, it wasn't called swinging then, just having a good time! Can assure you we've never run out of things to do sexually since then. We have been into serious swinging as a couple for 12 years now, since we met, and think it's a great way to have variety and also have a steady relationship. While the basics are the same, everyone has sex in their own way and finding how new people do it is always fun, so is sharing with good friends.

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I had my first group experience at an age I can't mention on fab! If I'd have known about fab in my early 20s I would've been on it and going to clubs

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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Think it simply comes down to the couple and the strength of their relationship really. We were in our 20s getting into the scene, had a fantastic time with no regards and looking forward to the future. XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my first 3some at 17, always been a swinger at heart, and I've not run out of things to do at 51.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's awesome- it wasn't a question and as Mike indicated, was probably a narrow minded assumption.

Personally- I love it and would love to find a lady to enter into a relationship with who was also into it.

Enjoy it while you've got it and play safe.

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By *htcMan
over a year ago

its never too young to start, there isnt much i havent done by the time i was about 12. and im not bored of any of it.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I've been on the swinging scene since I was 21 I have no regrets and plenty of new ideas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The first time I had a MMF was when I was well into my 30s. I've noticed so many young 20 year old couples on here and wonder if by the time they turn 30+ they run out of things to do sexually.

To say it another way, is it too young to start swinging in a relationship in your 20s?

Just for the record, I'm not criticizing, just curious. "

Yes

Should be married at least 30yrs, with a couple of kids. Bored of fucking each other then join a swingers site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in my early 20s, I did a number of MMF threesomes with my boyfriend at the time. I was not aware of the term 'swinging' nearly twenty years, and too be quite honest I didn't really get it. Personally I feel I was too young, and I didn't have the life skills to deal with it. But that's just personal to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was in my very early 20's when I had my first MFM. I didn't know it was called that.

A year or so later I had an unspecified number of guys in a room in an army block.

It's something I think didn't do again for a long time.

I don't think there's any right or wrong, as long as it's your decision and you aren't coerced into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

has anyone else noticed their posts disappearing off some threads ? x

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Late bloomer here, only started swinging at 26 after my divorce (from the only man I'd ever shagged - yes, long story). Have made up for lost time (I think) but nearly 8 years of loads and loads of sex, I still love having sex and have definitely not "run out" of or gotten bored with it. Can't say if that'll be the case at 50 but I'm pretty sure I'll still be at it.

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

I don't think age is relevant. It's down to personality.

I also don't think it's possible to run out of things to do. Especially with BDSM. So many things to explore. So many ways to do each other and things to do to each other.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

"The first time I had a MMF was when I was well into my 30s. I've noticed so many young 20 year old couples on here and wonder if by the time they turn 30+ they run out of things to do sexually.

To say it another way, is it too young to start swinging in a relationship in your 20s?

Just for the record, I'm not criticizing, just curious. "

I had my first FFM at 19. I have been exploring my sexual boundaries ever since. Sometimes step away from it and have a break, however, have always come back to it. There are things I have yet to explore and things I like to revisit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"has anyone else noticed their posts disappearing off some threads ? x"

Nope, not mine. Maybe cos mine are speshal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 29 and not run out of things to do, just love being able to have plenty of options and opportunities available to me. Ive spent far too long worrying what others think. We are very much a live life to the max kinda couple, and try whatever we fancy doing and have a great time doing it

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

"The first time I had a MMF was when I was well into my 30s. I've noticed so many young 20 year old couples on here and wonder if by the time they turn 30+ they run out of things to do sexually.

To say it another way, is it too young to start swinging in a relationship in your 20s?

Just for the record, I'm not criticizing, just curious. "

My wife had her first MFF at 18.

Lots of young adults experiment sexually.

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