FabSwingers.com forum: Toppers fatigue

By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

I've always been pretty active in the rumpy pumpy department, give as much as I take etc. But tend to find myself being the top more often.

I love it but would be nice to take a break and lie there like a sack of spuds.

Anyone else get this?

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By *kexpat81Man
over a year ago

Aldgate

I assume this is more aimed at women mistress?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that. It's hard work being a dom.

Much easier to take what an evil mind can dish out.

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

No everyone. Men are as spud like as women (talking vanilla here, not kink)

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"I've always been pretty active in the rumpy pumpy department, give as much as I take etc. But tend to find myself being the top more often.

I love it but would be nice to take a break and lie there like a sack of spuds.

Anyone else get this? "

Yes, may be you tired of being a mistress and need a break

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I've always been pretty active in the rumpy pumpy department, give as much as I take etc. But tend to find myself being the top more often.

I love it but would be nice to take a break and lie there like a sack of spuds.

Anyone else get this?

Yes, may be you tired of being a mistress and need a break

I should have clarified myself better. Topping as a Domme, no problem, love it. But topping in vanilla sex (it's not all whips and chains round here) can be a tad tiresome

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

"I've always been pretty active in the rumpy pumpy department, give as much as I take etc. But tend to find myself being the top more often.

I love it but would be nice to take a break and lie there like a sack of spuds.

Anyone else get this?

Yes, may be you tired of being a mistress and need a break

I should have clarified myself better. Topping as a Domme, no problem, love it. But topping in vanilla sex (it's not all whips and chains round here) can be a tad tiresome"

I find vanilla sex tiring topper or no topper...may be just a phase of life for you... Is this what you have been getting lately when it comes to vanilla sex?

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"I've always been pretty active in the rumpy pumpy department, give as much as I take etc. But tend to find myself being the top more often.

I love it but would be nice to take a break and lie there like a sack of spuds.

Anyone else get this?

Yes, may be you tired of being a mistress and need a break

I should have clarified myself better. Topping as a Domme, no problem, love it. But topping in vanilla sex (it's not all whips and chains round here) can be a tad tiresome

I find vanilla sex tiring topper or no topper...may be just a phase of life for you... Is this what you have been getting lately when it comes to vanilla sex? "

I've had 2 periods of no sex, no desire, no wanking for 18 months before and definitely not in that phase. Enjoying vanilla very much so.

Would be nice to be spoilt sexualy once in a while I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I try to give as good as I get when it comes to vanilla. When with someone more dominant being submissive to someone can be very demanding.

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By *iSTARess OP Woman
over a year ago

London

"Well I try to give as good as I get when it comes to vanilla. When with someone more dominant being submissive to someone can be very demanding."

Subs get the best of it! Don't have to think and have all the nice naughty stuff done to them. Tried it myself, alas pretty hard wired as a Domme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've always been pretty active in the rumpy pumpy department, give as much as I take etc. But tend to find myself being the top more often.

I love it but would be nice to take a break and lie there like a sack of spuds.

Anyone else get this?

Yes, may be you tired of being a mistress and need a break

I should have clarified myself better. Topping as a Domme, no problem, love it. But topping in vanilla sex (it's not all whips and chains round here) can be a tad tiresome"

Agree. Thankfully (so far) I seem to do ok finding people that accept my changeable dynamic.

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