FabSwingers.com forum: how to start a conversation

By *ovvz OP Man
over a year ago

trimdon

How do people start theres

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Hello

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By *ovvz OP Man
over a year ago

trimdon

I like that made me chuckle lol

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By *uriousc88Woman
over a year ago

Reading

"Hello"

Is it me you're looking for...?

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"Hello"

Yep..works for me... If I know the other person, (name) then my question or pleasantry.

social skills ain't what they used to be.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Depends on your mood at the time and after you read their profile which is the best approach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aye up buggerlugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi hows u?

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By *ovvz OP Man
over a year ago

trimdon

I never seem to get many replies this is why im asling would any of u lovely fabbers like a conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You haven't asked for profile advice so I can't give any.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

"I never seem to get many replies this is why im asling would any of u lovely fabbers like a conversation"

You could write the best message ever and if the other folk don't fancy you they're unlikely to chat to you.. you might receive a thanks but no thanks message.

Find those that do fancy you.

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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Make certain you have read people's profile and you are what they are looking for; make certain your profile is the best it can be and be polite. There is nothing more you can do. Have fun out there X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello

Is it me you're looking for...?"

Read the profile!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really doesn't matter even if you read thier profile. If they are not interested then you won't get a reply simples

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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"It really doesn't matter even if you read thier profile. If they are not interested then you won't get a reply simples

You would from us, it's only polite. X

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By *imetobenaughtyCouple
over a year ago

croydon

"It really doesn't matter even if you read thier profile. If they are not interested then you won't get a reply simples

You would from us, it's only polite. X"

We have come to not expect replies really when we do get them even if it's a no we still say thanks for replying lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It really doesn't matter even if you read thier profile. If they are not interested then you won't get a reply simples

I always reply to messages, even if it is to say no thanks.... its common courtesy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It really doesn't matter even if you read thier profile. If they are not interested then you won't get a reply simples

You would from us, it's only polite. X"

thats very kind of you but believe me I have tried every which way to chat to people and 95% of the time h get nothing. Although that is better than getting told to bugger off lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It really doesn't matter even if you read thier profile. If they are not interested then you won't get a reply simples

I always reply to messages, even if it is to say no thanks.... its common courtesy"

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By *ovvz OP Man
over a year ago

trimdon

Nice to know someone has manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It really doesn't matter even if you read thier profile. If they are not interested then you won't get a reply simples

I always reply to messages, even if it is to say no thanks.... its common courtesy"

It's also common courtesy to read a profile before sending a message to see if you're actually what that person is looking for but that rarely happens.

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By *andbCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"It really doesn't matter even if you read thier profile. If they are not interested then you won't get a reply simples

I always reply to messages, even if it is to say no thanks.... its common courtesy

It's also common courtesy to read a profile before sending a message to see if you're actually what that person is looking for but that rarely happens."

We always read the profile before sending a message. How else would you know whether they /he / she is what you are wanting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you were local i would chat to you off your pics alone coz you are my type.

dunno how you start chatting, you just do it. you send a non-threatening, friendly mail.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"It really doesn't matter even if you read thier profile. If they are not interested then you won't get a reply simples

I always reply to messages, even if it is to say no thanks.... its common courtesy

It's also common courtesy to read a profile before sending a message to see if you're actually what that person is looking for but that rarely happens."

I've just had a message from a married guy who's cheating,I think I've made it clear on my profile regarding this subject,but he still messaged. I advised it was a good idea to read profiles first and he said why what did I miss. I didnt respond!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, how are you?

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By *heoralexpertMan
over a year ago

Middlesbrough/Helmsley NY

I can see it in your eyes can u see it in my smile lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see it in your eyes can u see it in my smile lol x

your penis is not smiling...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do people start theres"

You just have

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By *uriousc88Woman
over a year ago

Reading

"Hello

Is it me you're looking for...?

Read the profile!!!

Not a Lionel Richie fan then...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can talk the back legs off a donkey in every day situation's, I have no problem talking and starting a conversation off, if it's somebody I fancy and I'm trying to get their attention I'm shit, I just can't do it, I'm the only single women who can't get laid in a swingers club because I just freeze up if somebody I like comes near me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or I suppose it could be because I'm just a ugly cunt

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It all depends on the situation, the other day I started talking to someone about balloons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How would you chat to a girl in a pub x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello"

"Dont send me a hi, or hello message I'll just delete it put some fucking effort in"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello

"Dont send me a hi, or hello message I'll just delete it put some fucking effort in"

Can you remember what my first ever message to you was, not these profiles our old ones?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello

"Dont send me a hi, or hello message I'll just delete it put some fucking effort in"

Can you remember what my first ever message to you was, not these profiles our old ones?"

I honestly can't.

But knowing you something bizzare :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello

"Dont send me a hi, or hello message I'll just delete it put some fucking effort in"

Can you remember what my first ever message to you was, not these profiles our old ones?

I honestly can't.

But knowing you something bizzare :p"

I said Hi, fancy sending me some more penis please?

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By *ezjez369Man
over a year ago

london

Wasssssssssssssssssssssssssuuuuuup

Used to work for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hello

"Dont send me a hi, or hello message I'll just delete it put some fucking effort in"

Can you remember what my first ever message to you was, not these profiles our old ones?

I honestly can't.

But knowing you something bizzare :p

I said Hi, fancy sending me some more penis please?"

Hahah

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By *illyjohnyCouple
over a year ago

brighton

"How do people start theres"
Most we get start like this

Hello Jill I am so horny and really want to use you here's some cock pics attached

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi hows u?

This is a sure fire way to get an instant delete. Speak English.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do people start theres"

You could always start by mentioning your cock size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do people start theres

You could always start by mentioning your cock size

Haha how meanie we are !

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

What lunatic brought this back to life?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What lunatic brought this back to life?"

Have a guess haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How do people start theres

You could always start by mentioning your cock size

10 week bump for that?

Poor.

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"What lunatic brought this back to life?

Have a guess haha "

Strangely not you this time,you're slacking man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What lunatic brought this back to life?

Have a guess haha

Strangely not you this time,you're slacking man!

Haha yes I feel down today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to have something to say in your message. Couples and women's profiles are inundated with random men, all its very similar profiles, all saying things like how are you. Read their profile first, and if you are a good match introduce yourself and say a boy a bout yourself, maybe what you have to offer. Make reference to there profile so they know you're read it. I have to warn you though, if you don't have a profile that is appealing to women then it doesn't matter his good your message is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always message guys asking for a face and willy picture and they always reply with a face and willy picture. Conversation starts after that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can see it in your eyes can u see it in my smile lol x

Are you somewhere feeling lonely or is someone loving you? Tell me how to win your heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to just use any information in their profile that I can to strike up an initial message, shows you have taken the time to read the profile

seems to get a reply most times!!

Oh and sending a couple of pics with the message also helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make the message personal, including something from their profile to show that you have read it. If there is something in yours that goes against theirs like a small age difference or distance then mention it, as after it it is a guideline and you might get lucky. but at least they know you are sincere and not a chancer spamming cut and paste messages.

Just remember still most likely wont work but will give you more of a chance as you will stand out from the crowd. does not have to be an essay but more than one sentence helps.

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By *nimaltamerMan
over a year ago

Ask me, Texas

Where have you been? I been waiting a while! Lol

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