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By *requent_Ferryers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)

It has always confused me (yes I know I am female) but why would you post a profile without photos of yourself?

Yes I know the FAB Police will be on my tail as soon as this appears, but, think about it?... You are on a swingers site yes? You hope to attract other swingers yes? then why on earth would you be so coy as to not post at least a photo of your ass?

Sorry... Mr & Mrs FAB Police... I just wanted to let loose a little! xx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

They can see my arse (and a lot more besides) once we've chatted enough for them to be added to my friends list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has always confused me (yes I know I am female) but why would you post a profile without photos of yourself?

Yes I know the FAB Police will be on my tail as soon as this appears, but, think about it?... You are on a swingers site yes? You hope to attract other swingers yes? then why on earth would you be so coy as to not post at least a photo of your ass?

Sorry... Mr & Mrs FAB Police... I just wanted to let loose a little! xx

"

Because they are fake, perchance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's pretty hairy, not something you would want to see. I'm doing everyone a favour, trust me

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By *requent_Ferryers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)


"They can see my arse (and a lot more besides) once we've chatted enough for them to be added to my friends list. "

But why would they want to chat with you in the first place if you do not have a photo to "allure" them?

And "No" I have not looked at your profile!! lol

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

Perhaps they just dont want to?

It's not compulsory .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shy or repressed? Well I used to be lol

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By *requent_Ferryers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)


"It has always confused me (yes I know I am female) but why would you post a profile without photos of yourself?

Yes I know the FAB Police will be on my tail as soon as this appears, but, think about it?... You are on a swingers site yes? You hope to attract other swingers yes? then why on earth would you be so coy as to not post at least a photo of your ass?

Sorry... Mr & Mrs FAB Police... I just wanted to let loose a little! xx

Because they are fake, perchance? "

Well, That was my first position... However I have met with some gorgeous peeps who do not have a photo on their profile! My question is always and extant... "Why not?".

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By *requent_Ferryers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)


"Perhaps they just dont want to?

It's not compulsory ."

Yawn... Yes... "Civil Liberties" Yes... Yawn

It is a swinging site FGS!

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"They can see my arse (and a lot more besides) once we've chatted enough for them to be added to my friends list. "

Can I see your arse?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"They can see my arse (and a lot more besides) once we've chatted enough for them to be added to my friends list.

But why would they want to chat with you in the first place if you do not have a photo to "allure" them?

And "No" I have not looked at your profile!! lol

"

I'm female.

Seriously though, I have no idea. I have one profile pic and the least erotic profile text on here, yet I have just cleared 11 messages out of my inbox. Perhaps men are more likely to take a chance on someone.

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By *requent_Ferryers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)


"They can see my arse (and a lot more besides) once we've chatted enough for them to be added to my friends list.

But why would they want to chat with you in the first place if you do not have a photo to "allure" them?

And "No" I have not looked at your profile!! lol

I'm female.

Seriously though, I have no idea. I have one profile pic and the least erotic profile text on here, yet I have just cleared 11 messages out of my inbox. Perhaps men are more likely to take a chance on someone."

Yes they are!! xx Go Girl!

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France

I am more interested, at first, in what the person has to say;

Pictures are irrelevant at that point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand that either. Especially for men. There is so much competition for a woman's attention.... Women just have to have female on their profile, and it guarantees a cluster of messages haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A load of photos just tends to allure the wrong head from messaging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has always confused me (yes I know I am female) but why would you post a profile without photos of yourself?

Yes I know the FAB Police will be on my tail as soon as this appears, but, think about it?... You are on a swingers site yes? You hope to attract other swingers yes? then why on earth would you be so coy as to not post at least a photo of your ass?

Sorry... Mr & Mrs FAB Police... I just wanted to let loose a little! xx

Because they are fake, perchance?

Well, That was my first position... However I have met with some gorgeous peeps who do not have a photo on their profile! My question is always and extant... "Why not?"."

maybe not wishing to be recognised...

although I don't know what kind of job ppl do if theycan be recognised by their arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the only reason I initially became a gold site supporter was because of the 150 pics allowance...I love posting new ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the only reason I initially became a gold site supporter was because of the 150 pics allowance...I love posting new ones "

They are lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"the only reason I initially became a gold site supporter was because of the 150 pics allowance...I love posting new ones

They are lovely "

Thankyou kindly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The body part jigsaw approach to pictures is one i find bizarre.

20 extreme close ups of random larts of the body

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"It has always confused me (yes I know I am female) but why would you post a profile without photos of yourself?

Yes I know the FAB Police will be on my tail as soon as this appears, but, think about it?... You are on a swingers site yes? You hope to attract other swingers yes? then why on earth would you be so coy as to not post at least a photo of your ass?

Sorry... Mr & Mrs FAB Police... I just wanted to let loose a little! xx

"

Because I'm private.

That's me. Like it or not, no pics of me are going up. Period.

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By *onny bigMan
over a year ago

london harrow

It's a swingers site, not blind date so personally don't understand why someone wouldn't at least show somthing of themselves.

It's strange if you ask me, i wouldn't meet anyone without at least seeing a picture first

That's my 2 pence

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By *onny bigMan
over a year ago

london harrow


"the only reason I initially became a gold site supporter was because of the 150 pics allowance...I love posting new ones

They are lovely "

So are yours knitter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's pretty hairy, not something you would want to see. I'm doing everyone a favour, trust me "

Ur not that hairy

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

An exercise in futility.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has always confused me (yes I know I am female) but why would you post a profile without photos of yourself?

Yes I know the FAB Police will be on my tail as soon as this appears, but, think about it?... You are on a swingers site yes? You hope to attract other swingers yes? then why on earth would you be so coy as to not post at least a photo of your ass?

Sorry... Mr & Mrs FAB Police... I just wanted to let loose a little! xx

Because I'm private.

That's me. Like it or not, no pics of me are going up. Period. "

But you're not here to swing, according to your profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP .... You're a MF couple wth no photos of the M? So I guess it's for the same reasons as you have?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I am ugly and don't want to scare people

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By *requent_Ferryers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)


"the only reason I initially became a gold site supporter was because of the 150 pics allowance...I love posting new ones "

Yes they are lovely photos!! xx

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By *requent_Ferryers OP   Couple
over a year ago

Norwich to Great Yarmouth (by river)


"OP .... You're a MF couple wth no photos of the M? So I guess it's for the same reasons as you have? "

Erm... I do not have a cock, so I guess the photo of the cock hanging out must be... Wait for it... My hubby? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just don't need to put pictures up, if people want to see them they can ask me? My friends can see my ugly mug, and if I go to socials or clubs then I rely on my social skills and whatever physical appearance I am deemed to have.

If I don't typically ever meet in the traditional sense, then why would I need to put pics up, that's my view?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP .... You're a MF couple wth no photos of the M? So I guess it's for the same reasons as you have?

Erm... I do not have a cock, so I guess the photo of the cock hanging out must be... Wait for it... My hubby? lol "

It is almost ironic though isn't it, and often the case of a couple's pics where there are almost purely all pics of the lady. If someone questioned that, would you really feel the need to justify yourself - it's your profile, so do as you see fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has always confused me (yes I know I am female) but why would you post a profile without photos of yourself?

Yes I know the FAB Police will be on my tail as soon as this appears, but, think about it?... You are on a swingers site yes? You hope to attract other swingers yes? then why on earth would you be so coy as to not post at least a photo of your ass?

Sorry... Mr & Mrs FAB Police... I just wanted to let loose a little! xx

Because they are fake, perchance? "

Ive decided to stop meeting, after 7 years, so decided to remove my pics as they attract guys who dont read my profile 1st and then they get arsey when i point out im not meeting... oh and im not a fake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to agree with you OP.

I don't bother with such profiles, probably fake in my opinion. I too like to know who I'm meeting or chatting with check if there is an attraction only fair I think

Worse when they send random F-invites just to perv more on ur other pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP .... You're a MF couple wth no photos of the M? So I guess it's for the same reasons as you have?

Erm... I do not have a cock, so I guess the photo of the cock hanging out must be... Wait for it... My hubby? lol "

A here just catching up on V's postings

I had to look twice to find it

I think the point is still valid. Guys should feature more... not 50/50 as I know the girls are so much more fun to perv and have more photo opportunities in their different outfits and let's face it they are the main profile sellers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand that either. Especially for men. There is so much competition for a woman's attention.... Women just have to have female on their profile, and it guarantees a cluster of messages haha. "

Damn it Dark Angel, I don't usually get involved in these particular photo threads. Your post made me laugh so here it goes...

I will take this opportunity to combine pictures and not accomodating at home seen as they share similar backlash haha... I do love reading these topics in the forums

Could the following be possible:

Someone who chooses not to upload pictures or not accomodate be a real single person, not be called fake, not have children, simply chooses not to... and does not feel the need to justify or provide reasons as to why!?

It appears this is not allowed or accepted by most people. Yes there is 'competition' to a certain level on here... but the people who get caught up in all that malarky generally speaking don't get what they joined the site for.

It is very tempting and can easily be distracted on here with other people's strong views... the rule 'no means no' applies to everyone. You have a conversation and if the answer to your question is no and not acceptable simply move on... that would mean we live in a perfect world, we don't so as you were... love these threads.

Oh btw...

For those 100s of genuine swingers who simply choose not to do certain things, disregard the backlash, my oh my... how you lot have been having soo much fun!

How dare you figure out there are many different methods and pictures are not the only or the best way to get someones's attention...

Tut tut bad swingers

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Initially ... im not too bothered what u look like .... the fact that you are a polite articulate individual is of more importance to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love posting pics , and even have plenty of face pics too .

Different meets , different types of pics which give the viewer a fair idea of what we look like and what we like to get up to .

Like the op we don't understand why anyone would not put any pics up if they are looking to meet .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally only use fab sparingly, when I'm out of a relationship, or lacking a, shall we say competent fuck buddy.

With that in mind, why would I want to make it known to people that I swing in my spare time? Let's be fair, swinging is not typically seen as a normal or sociably acceptable hobbie in general; unfortunately.

As for just having my arse as my profile picture. I just don't see myself taking a picture of my arse in this lifetime, while I still have any self-respect anyway.

I'm also happy to get my cock out and send a picture. But I don't think women generally like it or that it actually does anything for them.

I suppose it's like they say: "someone who has plenty to show doesn't have much to offer."

I could be wrong

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Lots of people on here with no pictures, usually because they are married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It has always confused me (yes I know I am female) but why would you post a profile without photos of yourself?

Yes I know the FAB Police will be on my tail as soon as this appears, but, think about it?... You are on a swingers site yes? You hope to attract other swingers yes? then why on earth would you be so coy as to not post at least a photo of your ass?

Sorry... Mr & Mrs FAB Police... I just wanted to let loose a little! xx

Because I'm private.

That's me. Like it or not, no pics of me are going up. Period.

But you're not here to swing, according to your profile? "

Where on Mr & Mrs FF's profile does it say that they are not here to swing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP .... You're a MF couple wth no photos of the M? So I guess it's for the same reasons as you have?

Erm... I do not have a cock, so I guess the photo of the cock hanging out must be... Wait for it... My hubby? lol

A here just catching up on V's postings

I had to look twice to find it

I think the point is still valid. Guys should feature more... not 50/50 as I know the girls are so much more fun to perv and have more photo opportunities in their different outfits and let's face it they are the main profile sellers"

And, to be fair, if a photo of a cock is the sole representation of the chap in a relationship.... V xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to find the profiles with no pictures are either hiding something or just fantasists

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By *aturelover2016Man
over a year ago

London

It's the ones with just a torso that really annoy me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any public pics up but I'm quite happy to send pictures in private to people I enjoy chatting with. I still get tons of messages so it doesn't put anyone off. I'm a real person, not married but just don't want to show my face to everyone.

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By *uerido55Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"It has always confused me (yes I know I am female) but why would you post a profile without photos of yourself?

Yes I know the FAB Police will be on my tail as soon as this appears, but, think about it?... You are on a swingers site yes? You hope to attract other swingers yes? then why on earth would you be so coy as to not post at least a photo of your ass?

Sorry... Mr & Mrs FAB Police... I just wanted to let loose a little! xx

Because they are fake, perchance? "

But when they have been photo verified by the site does that still make them fake?

I'd much more like to know why people on a swinging site are permitted to (and would want to) hide their profiles from view!

Genuine or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because this is 'my' private place and I get to choose who sees my pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We feel a little put off if there are no pictures, it's nice to see if somebody has the body type you are attracted to. Shallow I know but it helps to reduce wasting your time on somebody your not attracted to.

What happens if you've been chatting for a while and they send pics that put you off them.

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

I'm not photogenic at all , I hate taking selfies , and having my pic taken , usually the only pics of me worth having , have been taken when I'm unaware

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love hairy men , can I see?

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By *enard ArgenteMan
over a year ago

London and France


"It has always confused me (yes I know I am female) but why would you post a profile without photos of yourself?

Yes I know the FAB Police will be on my tail as soon as this appears, but, think about it?... You are on a swingers site yes? You hope to attract other swingers yes? then why on earth would you be so coy as to not post at least a photo of your ass?

Sorry... Mr & Mrs FAB Police... I just wanted to let loose a little! xx

Because they are fake, perchance?

But when they have been photo verified by the site does that still make them fake?

I'd much more like to know why people on a swinging site are permitted to (and would want to) hide their profiles from view!

Genuine or not."

Because some people are in professions where they need to be discreet about what they do in their spare time.

There are cases of teachers, for instance, who have been hounded out of their jobs because they have been "outed" as swingers.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I keep my pics in private. I send them when appropriate but don't put them up on my profile.

Yes I know this is a swingers site but I'm still a private person. I don't have to share anything with the whole site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just read your profile your one kinky bitch

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Couple of reasons.

1. I'm an ugly mare and

2. I know people don't accept this answer but I'm in a job where you're held to a code which includes your personal life and anything that can be used against you. Whilst some people are happy to be known in this lifestyle, I'm not quite there yet :/

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

I don't have pics, because I only meet out of the chat rooms (where I am usually on cam, and my profile is unhidden).

Same answer, to the person who asks why people hide their profile. I hide my profile when I'm not in the chat rooms because I don't want to appear on people's searches. I only meet people out of the chat rooms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I keep my pics in private. I send them when appropriate but don't put them up on my profile.

Yes I know this is a swingers site but I'm still a private person. I don't have to share anything with the whole site. "

Same for me.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Perhaps they just dont want to?

It's not compulsory ."

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"I keep my pics in private. I send them when appropriate but don't put them up on my profile.

Yes I know this is a swingers site but I'm still a private person. I don't have to share anything with the whole site.

Same for me. "

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville


"Couple of reasons.

1. I'm an ugly mare and

2. I know people don't accept this answer but I'm in a job where you're held to a code which includes your personal life and anything that can be used against you. Whilst some people are happy to be known in this lifestyle, I'm not quite there yet :/"

Likewise. The Code is not optional.

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