FabSwingers.com forum: Couples and single guys

By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago

Munster

Do couples on here actually meet single guys?

I have noticed that most (not all) rarely reply to messages or just block guys altogether!!!

Just a question!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes....

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohhhhh yes

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By *obb2upCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Yes they do...and we always answer even if it is a polite no thanks....although we get abuse from some

most appreciate the reply.

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By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago

Munster

Ok that was quick!!

The follow on to that is...

How do i approach the couple?

I am genuine, I am not a time waster. I am not a freak!! At least i hope not haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you asking for help on your profile and advice?

This is my own disclaimer incase I offend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we usually reply but we are not really looking for single guys (not in our profile)

many guys do not even try to sell themselves or enclose a facial photo so they are not likely to succeed if a couple are really looking for singles

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By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago

Munster

Advice more than anything i rekon!!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Ok that was quick!!

The follow on to that is...

How do i approach the couple?

I am genuine, I am not a time waster. I am not a freak!! At least i hope not haha!"

check to see if they are seeking single guys, craft a message to them that matches what THEY are looking for ( providing you match their criteria ).

Sell yourself and what your unique selling point is..

send message and leave it there.

if they reply....... great.

if they don't ... move on.

pushy is never good.

good luck

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By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago

Munster

Thanks View xx

I will try that.

Or maybe they will approach me haha!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Advice more than anything i rekon!!"

I like your profile maybe a few more pics but your profile comes across as friendly I like that!

But one point it says your looking for tv/cd you may have ticked that by mistake x

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Advice more than anything i rekon!!"

yes i would say that and make you mind up what your looking for are you a bull or not are you saying there are know cuck cpls

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By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago

Munster

Too good tips there. Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We play with singles, but on our terms. We will do the prospecting as and when we want to meet.

Too many guys can't take the "no thanks" reply, even the ones who ask you to reply that way rather than to ignore them.

That's why the blocks on

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

good tip there jack if only a few more would listen they may have the sucess i have it all about respect

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By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago

Munster

Thanks Jack

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By *herokee18Couple
over a year ago

Carlisle

Single guys are there own worst enemies in the main.

From experience they have fun but do not have the courtesy to drop a line saying thanks or reciprocate on a verification. This then has made us bitter towards single guys and treat them all the same - on our terms. They need to be less selfish and look at the woman's needs and not just the fact they want a shag and orgasm and stuff everyone else's needs.

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

oh yes

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Met a wonderful single bloke at the weekend. Did karen proud, he could cum and then withing 5 minutes was hard enough to go again, a real duracell bunny of a man

He was still getting hard ons after 5 cums and Karen having to call it a night because she began to get sore!

If single guys contact us we always reply, it might not be what they want to hear but we always reply.

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By *r-MissCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

There are couples out there who do look for single guys (like us), however a lot of single guys seem to send silly or pointless messages.

We do tend to reply to most messages from single guys, but the messages that impress us are from single guys who have read our profile and do understand what we are looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are couples out there who do look for single guys (like us), however a lot of single guys seem to send silly or pointless messages.

We do tend to reply to most messages from single guys, but the messages that impress us are from single guys who have read our profile and do understand what we are looking for."

EXACTLY!! We are only looking to meet single guys, but SO SO many of them quite obviously have not read our profile! it doesn't make you want to reply to them. We don't block them immediately, but if its obvious that they have just sent a 'copy and paste' message without even reading what we have written, then sometimes we don't reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here actually meet single guys?

I have noticed that most (not all) rarely reply to messages or just block guys altogether!!!

Just a question!!"

don't worry hun, it;s not just the couples that ignore the majority of single men on here.

it's an equal opportunities site, we all get a chance to ignore them at will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We look for single guys too but the single guy as to rock our boat and be happy to meet us as a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met several absolutely lovely, sexy couples recently, and there are a couple of couples I have yet to meet but I have really enjoyed "talking" to. I try and make a point of addressing my messages to both partners, the equivalent of not talking to the woman's breasts as you chat over a drink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's the trouble most want to talk to the girl not both of the couples as we play as a couple they need to know that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I still lived in carbis Bay I would definitely be addressing my message to you both!

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Yes we do but you have to stand out from the crowd

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By *thyorksCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

Yes----- If they have read all the profile, & undertand what we are looking for...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

Yes,if you are blocked its because they didnt like your pm,at least that;s how we use it.

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By *rT30 OP Man
over a year ago

Munster

Hi again xx

I am the OP i just wanted to say thanks for all the replys. I genuinely did not expect it.

I will take all the advice on board. Especially the pushy part and also reading the profiles.

There is hope for me yet lmao!!

Thanks again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do couples on here actually meet single guys?

I have noticed that most (not all) rarely reply to messages or just block guys altogether!!!

Just a question!!"

im not a couple or a single male so i have no idea lol

im sure some must tho

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By *b430Man
over a year ago

Tayside

Yes

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By *stwoCouple
over a year ago

anywhere

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

occasionally, but we have a reserve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We play with singles, but on our terms. We will do the prospecting as and when we want to meet.

Too many guys can't take the "no thanks" reply, even the ones who ask you to reply that way rather than to ignore them.

That's why the blocks on

If we are going to Chams we sometimes arrange to meet there. We would have a look at guy profiles local to the club, and after a few messages and pic exchanges, which we instigate, we will make our decision whether or not to take it further.

If we are looking to play local to where we live, we follow the same procedure.

However, even after following our "carefull" selection process, the last 5 guys, yes 5, have either cancelled at last minute or not shown.

Two of the guys who cancelled might get another chance, but the other three can go and "swivel on this" (pointy finger icon)

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"Do couples on here actually meet single guys?

I have noticed that most (not all) rarely reply to messages or just block guys altogether!!!

Just a question!!"

Yes.

Half my meets to date have been couples.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

"occasionally, but we have a reserve."

*sigh*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we meet single guys, however, there are many on here (and couples aren't exempt from this either) that do not read our profile properly, and just send friends invites without having the decency to send a message first. We clearly state that if this happens, they will be deleted, yet they (and couples} still do it!

It doesn't do you any favours, manners don't cost anything (yet} so all it takes is a few carefully written lines to avoid deletion, it doesn't guarantee you a meet, but its a start.....hope that helps a little?

T&A x

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By *picyMan
over a year ago

dublin/kildare

def yes if we feel da person is up 4 a laugh nt 2 serious an wants 2 get 2 no, an not so pushy

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