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How many verifications are too many?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What do you think is the optimum number of verifications on a profile or does it make no difference at least you know they turn up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel that the number of veris isn't so important, but rather how frequent they are. If there's one by meet every other day, or every other week, I'm thinking "yeah, right... You definitely left enough time to get tested, didn't you..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30. Any more than that and you're immediately blacklisted

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've seen people with none and some people with 200+

Makes no difference to me. Except for the none one.

7 seems like a good number. Or 85 depending on how long one has been on here.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"30. Any more than that and you're immediately blacklisted "

Pfft! Anymore than 1 and we block.

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By *retty womanWoman
over a year ago

Near Bournemouth


"30. Any more than that and you're immediately blacklisted "

What if someone has been on this site for a number of years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30. Any more than that and you're immediately blacklisted

Pfft! Anymore than 1 and we block. "

Pssst.....you forgot to block me

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

I need more. Many more.

I'll let you know how many is too many somewhere down the line..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't care how many people have as I never read them anyway...

verifications have to be one of the more sycophantic aspects of this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"30. Any more than that and you're immediately blacklisted

What if someone has been on this site for a number of years?

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It's not quite the same when i have to explain my jokes....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't bother me how many folks have got ...I only show a few ...I'm a right slapper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know how many verifications somebody had? All you know is what they want you to know

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you know how many verifications somebody had? All you know is what they want you to know "

That's very true. Assuming everyone is honest

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By *at69driveMan
over a year ago

Hertford


"What do you think is the optimum number of verifications on a profile or does it make no difference at least you know they turn up? "
. I just ignore them as they are completely meaningless .What matters to me is a well written profile .

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"30. Any more than that and you're immediately blacklisted

Pfft! Anymore than 1 and we block.

Pssst.....you forgot to block me "

Thanks, I've rectified that now.

Shame as I liked admiring your pics but rules are rules.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know how many verifications somebody had? All you know is what they want you to know

That's very true. Assuming everyone is honest "

So if you choose not to show all your verifications that means your not honest?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I don't get is why everyone seems to write them in Victorian English... "This woman will amuse and delight you..." No one speaks like that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate verifications, I'll never ever display any and won't leave any for fear of being lumped amongst buzzards.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I like to see 10 or 12, I find too many daunting and offputting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Anyway, what if some poor sod got a veri that said he was a shit shag?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What do you think is the optimum number of verifications on a profile or does it make no difference at least you know they turn up? "

three is enough.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think 31 is fine. Absolute maximum.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you know how many verifications somebody had? All you know is what they want you to know

That's very true. Assuming everyone is honest

So if you choose not to show all your verifications that means your not honest?"

Let's say keeping their cards close to their chest - kind of makes sense. As long as your genuine and reliable that's the main thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get put off by too many verifications and by that I mean 35 and over ish, but then it also depends on if it was webcam, social meet etc..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

64 or 65 if you ask me tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What I don't get is why everyone seems to write them in Victorian English... "This woman will amuse and delight you..." No one speaks like that lol"

Hehe. They all read the same

Sucked like a Dyson

Don't pass he/she by

Treat with respect

Could carry on all night but I won't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think 31 is fine. Absolute maximum. "

I got in first with that

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax


"What I don't get is why everyone seems to write them in Victorian English... "This woman will amuse and delight you..." No one speaks like that lol

Hehe. They all read the same

Sucked like a Dyson

Don't pass he/she by

Treat with respect

Could carry on all night but I won't

"

So they CAN'T carry on all night..? Tut.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think 31 is fine. Absolute maximum.

I got in first with that "

You did so I'm blacklisted that's no good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you know how many verifications somebody had? All you know is what they want you to know

That's very true. Assuming everyone is honest

So if you choose not to show all your verifications that means your not honest?

Let's say keeping their cards close to their chest - kind of makes sense. As long as your genuine and reliable that's the main thing."

I don't show all my verifications for the simple fact that some guys write shit verifications, I don't want people to know how my last meet rated my blow job, how many times we fucked or if he made me cum, I also don't show verification that have my real name in them, its not that I'm ashamed of how many meets I've had I'm just embarrassed by the contents of some

Some some guys may look and think oh she's been on here years and only had 20 meets that's OK when I'm reality I may have 500 hidden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think 31 is fine. Absolute maximum.

I got in first with that "

Should've checked

at least he doubly knows now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think 31 is fine. Absolute maximum.

I got in first with that

Should've checked

at least he doubly knows now. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9 is ideal...10 would be perfect

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not put off by lots of verifications - why would I be? We are no longer willing to meet someone unless they have a few verifications that reflect they are experienced and comfortable with playing with an MF couple like ourselves - we've been burnt too many times to take that risk. If there is up to 10 verifications I will read them all and this usually gives me a greater insight into the person. Unlikely to read much more than 10 though, but I will certainly skim them to see if we know anybody they know, as it gives me additional comfort if someone I know has met them. I don't see the point in displaying verifications that reflect a brief chat at a party, but it doesn't bother me if people do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyway, what if some poor sod got a veri that said he was a shit shag? "

ive given a few of those

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

At least verifications mean people are prepared to go through with what they say they are. I'm sure a good webcam session could generate hundreds so a the total is pretty meaningless

Often people prefer not to verify anyway. I think it's not far from becoming a rating like tripadvisor. Though, as I type this, a hygiene rating may not be a bad idea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

42

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains


"42"

Dammit I was just about to say that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long is a piece of string

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