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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lately I've had rather a lot of messages along the lines of.... 'hi how are you? Do you have kik/whatsapp' ... when I reply that I feel fab is a perfectly adequate form of communication... no reply... which of course is fine but I'm left wondering if I'm missing something???

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By *lue-eyed italianMan
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Personally I find kik or whatsapp a faster more reliable way of contact, but I'd never ask for someone's number on the first message. Always communicate through here first because giving your number out can be a big thing right?

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

I find that they can only send pictures via WhatsApp/kik.

What's wrong with having then privately on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have (kik and whatsapp).

If any women are interested? lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's still safer to have none on here at all if you really want the security.

Kik is great, no number required and you can quickly enough verify.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a waste of time. All my meets have come from the site. Any that i added to kik etc just wanna chat. I can do that here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to use kik and a private Twitter account to chat as it's easier to chat and send pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find that they can only send pictures via WhatsApp/kik.

What's wrong with having then privately on here.

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A good way for them to bombard you 24/7

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lately I've had rather a lot of messages along the lines of.... 'hi how are you? Do you have kik/whatsapp' ... when I reply that I feel fab is a perfectly adequate form of communication... no reply... which of course is fine but I'm left wondering if I'm missing something???"

I'm not a fan of what's app but I find kik quite useful if you have been chatting on here for a while and want to move things on a bit...

You don't have to exchange numbers to access profiles and if it all goes tits up you can block the other person...

I use it mainly to stay in touch with people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that they can only send pictures via WhatsApp/kik.

What's wrong with having then privately on here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find that they can only send pictures via WhatsApp/kik.

What's wrong with having then privately on here.

A good way for them to bombard you 24/7 "

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside


"Lately I've had rather a lot of messages along the lines of.... 'hi how are you? Do you have kik/whatsapp' ... when I reply that I feel fab is a perfectly adequate form of communication... no reply... which of course is fine but I'm left wondering if I'm missing something???"
i get this too. i keep to here i dont have either. i assume they want a bedtime/ anytime story x

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By *ristol_MTB_cplCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

The messaging function on the site leave a lot to be desired, it's so much easier to chat on a dedicated messaging app. We normally exchange a few messages on here then move to kik. No problem if the other petson doesn't want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lately I've had rather a lot of messages along the lines of.... 'hi how are you? Do you have kik/whatsapp' ... when I reply that I feel fab is a perfectly adequate form of communication... no reply... which of course is fine but I'm left wondering if I'm missing something???

I'm not a fan of what's app but I find kik quite useful if you have been chatting on here for a while and want to move things on a bit...

You don't have to exchange numbers to access profiles and if it all goes tits up you can block the other person...

I use it mainly to stay in touch with people"

Exactly this, I find it a more reliable and faster messaging platform, you can have actual conversations on there without the fuss of going in and out of your inbox

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I prefer kik purely because I don't have to give my number out and I get an alert when someone sends me a message. That means a better response and faster more fluid chat

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"The messaging function on the site leave a lot to be desired, it's so much easier to chat on a dedicated messaging app. We normally exchange a few messages on here then move to kik. No problem if the other petson doesn't want to. "

Absolutely agree with you on that one. Of all the not so good features on fab, the one that is in desperate need of an overhaul is the message system.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if that's their first message from them then they want sex chat and pic swaps.

you're not missing anything unless you like that sort of thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lately I've had rather a lot of messages along the lines of.... 'hi how are you? Do you have kik/whatsapp' ... when I reply that I feel fab is a perfectly adequate form of communication... no reply... which of course is fine but I'm left wondering if I'm missing something???"

Fabs is awful for holding conversations tbh

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By *ohnyorkMan
over a year ago

york

What tends to happen is im guessing ladies get a lot more messages from men on here so its easier for a guy to message on kik or whatsapp than get his messgae lost in your inbox just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're missing the wonderful opportunity to have cock pics sent 24/7

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By *eadonistCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne


"Lately I've had rather a lot of messages along the lines of.... 'hi how are you? Do you have kik/whatsapp' ... when I reply that I feel fab is a perfectly adequate form of communication... no reply... which of course is fine but I'm left wondering if I'm missing something???"

Kik is a really handy tool for messaging. Primarily you don't have to give out a phone number so it's much better than whatsapp.

And being a couple you can set up a group chat so you can both respond even when your not together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't use Kik, but find using a 'group chat' on WhatsApp a great tool once we've established a connection. With group chat everyone gets to see and reply to the messages and it's really fun and above all inclusive. Would agree with only messaging on here until things are looking good. We all have our own way of doing things and you shouldn't feel awkward in any way for doing what feels right for you. If people aren't prepared to respect that then chances are they weren't for you anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At first we thought kik was great fluid easy chat and pic swap .. Then we started getting morning noon and night messages and pics ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm happy to chat anywhere on here or on any of those

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not on fab 24/7 and getting a notification that o have a message is a lot quicker and easier to reply to than going online.

We don't REQUIRE kik but it's definitely handy. We never use what's app tho, don't like giving out our numbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like kik for discretion as you do not need to dwap numbers, and you can use it in public easier than fab. Additionally you can group chat which you cannot fo here.

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By *radleywigginsMan
over a year ago

northwest

And... I think it's the discretion element. I'll be asking for your number early in a conversation. I use whatsapp at work to communicate, so having it on and checking messages is a little more "SFW"..

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By *iceguymkMan
over a year ago

aylesbury

Has anyone tried kik roulette ..... When you search for a member on it start with the word HORNY..... Then add someone's name ....

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