FabSwingers.com forum: Floppy Cock Syndrome

By *it of fun cpl OP Couple
over a year ago

village between York and Hull

Have many of you had meets where the male (not just single males) suffers floppy cock??

Of late we have had a few meets on here and at clubs where guys are up for it then.... it just does not happen!

MrH has had it happen to him in the past and cant give a reason why.. The female could be stunning and everything is perfect them ..Flop!

Could it be the pressure to perform??

Glad I am not a man... Sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fair to say this has happened to me when i met a couple an the same went for the fella ! Just think its one of those things it happens to fellas

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Have many of you had meets where the male (not just single males) suffers floppy cock??

Of late we have had a few meets on here and at clubs where guys are up for it then.... it just does not happen!

MrH has had it happen to him in the past and cant give a reason why.. The female could be stunning and everything is perfect them ..Flop!

Could it be the pressure to perform??

Glad I am not a man... Sometimes

it happens just a case of stage fright, nerves with all been there

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By *eaboMan
over a year ago

marden

i think if guys are honest it has happened to all of us at some stage. Is a fact of life the same as toast landing butter side down.

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By *andy muncherMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I say have back up strategy get some viagra or kamagra sure you will have a good night then

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

happens to us all once in a while i think

of course there are other body parst we can use to make sure the lady still has a pleasurable time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a lot are floppy cock condom syndrome as soon as the condom goes on it goes floppy lol and they try for bareback I just up and leave any tips on staying hard with a condom on.

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

"I find a lot are floppy cock condom syndrome as soon as the condom goes on it goes floppy lol and they try for bareback I just up and leave any tips on staying hard with a condom on."

personally i would not try for that as teh reason would be something else not the use of a condom,

i would ask if we could have some soft as they call it fun, fingers mouth, tounge toys whatever, just to make sur eyou still had soem fun an not a wated evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It will happen now and again. We just take a break and get back to things later. We did have one guy who went through 4 condoms by going soft in them but he got there in the end so you just relax and it will cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes it just happens and there's nothing that you can do about it, even in the most sexy of situations.

I always think that it's a good idea to show your considerate side, perhaps by offering to help out with some DIY or housework.

Strangely, I never seem to be asked back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think it happens to all men in swinging at some point

Ive met a few whos had problems, some over come it and carry on to having great night, some done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens

Usually when im too busy looking round at everyone else ta concentrate pmsl xx

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By *ansue35Couple
over a year ago

yorkshire

"Have many of you had meets where the male (not just single males) suffers floppy cock??

Of late we have had a few meets on here and at clubs where guys are up for it then.... it just does not happen!

MrH has had it happen to him in the past and cant give a reason why.. The female could be stunning and everything is perfect them ..Flop!

Could it be the pressure to perform??

Glad I am not a man... Sometimes

We had this, Ian comes up with two things, once in partners it was the porn playing on the tv in the couples room.

Secondly medication he is on.

My self its just old age

Been tired is a problem has well I think.

Sue

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton

It is nice to know that it happens to a lot of men, as my partner, thought there was something wrong with him on Sunday. I wanted to see him part of a gangbang, but did not happen, got home and well, lets just say.....he could keep it up. So perhaps it is the situation your in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a lot of men I have had this happen. There was this lady (who is on here) who I really fantasised about (always a bad idea to put anyone on a pedestle). Anyway I was very shy around her and never got a look in. Onr night at the club, we got together and .. yep nowt happening aaggghhh! Just had to turn around and please other ways.

BUT months later at one of there parties, I had no problem. The lady in question said something to me that made me have trouble getting my head through the doors. She said that She liked going with me as I put the lady first and cared about the lady!!!

Now I will never know if she just said it to boost my ego or if she really meant it. It did the trick lol

I floated a foot off the ground all evening lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have had it too though thank god not for a long time...looking back it was usually if I was (a) tired with lack of sleep (b) about to get a cold (c) under a lot of pressure to perform in an artificial siuation.

If cpl are friendly and relaxed it helps an awful lot as does being in bed rather than on a cold laminate floor lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me on our very first play meet, but first time nerves and alcohol was almost certainly the cause.

In three years since, it hasn't happened again, although I haven't had any alcohol on a meet since that first time, but I still get the nerves though.

Kate has met three guys who have had the problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its happened to us with a few single guys we have met. Sometimes its hard (or not as the case may be) to get naked and play with another mans partner whilst the guy is standing there buck naked. I can completely understand it. If in a hotel then Chris tends to go to the bathroom and sit in there for a few minutes, and usually the guy is ok once its just me and him. Then when Chris comes out its been ok.

It must be really scary for a guy and I think once you start worrying about whether it will happen, then its sure to

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

Its happened to me once or twice, usually at party's where you probably have others watching you while they take a time out.

With just a couple or a mmf I have no problems at all. But knowing you are being watched, maybe even by the woman's husband while you are doing it doesn't help to keep the old boy stiff.

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By *inky24big35Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

its happened a few times for us and to a couple who went with us, i think it is nerves and probably the whole situation,especially if its new to u,sometimes the man can feel strange with another man there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup, i've had it, not ashamed to say it!

stage fright can be a playtime killer for me, i've only got to think that i hope it's not going to happen and that's it.. evil seed planted in my head...

it all started on our first couple meet, the other woman said that she hoped i performed better than most of her playmates as all hers suffered it..

that was it.. planted in my head, all i could think about - and it happened!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find a lot are floppy cock condom syndrome as soon as the condom goes on it goes floppy lol and they try for bareback I just up and leave any tips on staying hard with a condom on."

they could probs solve with with a bit of practice. that's what we did, but I think many can't be doing with it and just try their luck, bit selfish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just one of those things....

Had to reassure a few men lol

Doesnt bother me....its all about having a good night.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just one of those things....

Had to reassure a few men lol

Doesnt bother me....its all about having a good night.....

blimey, you are nice

I wouldn't let it show but would be disappointed if I did not get a good hard cock up me.

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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

Fuck that, never had the problem, check the profile. Cat couldn't scratch it. Worse case scenario? takes me an hour to cum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

had it a few times with men, nerves i think def condom fear but play with there balls stroke there cock with nails sharp rise again he he

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