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By *etter the devil you know OP Woman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Do men ever get jealous if the other man they meet is better looking or do wives or partners worry that they might.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men ever get jealous if the other man they meet is better looking or do wives or partners worry that they might."

Isn't that the idea? I want my wife to enjoy being fucked by someone she finds attractive.

So to answer the question, no there's no jealousy.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Good question OP, Mrs became a little jealous after our first FFM.... Guess every couple would of had this type of emotion at some point??

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll if ur going to get jelous of each other this ain't d place to b is it . I gave a lady friend a 3 sum n I was so turned on watching her suck him off that I fucked her so much after he left . Never ever was so turned on in my life .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the man is more open to it to see his wife enjoy another one. Although I think the woman would be more jealous if he saw the man having fun with another one.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I think women feel different n can get jelous morso than guys . Now I could b wrong but if both r here as a couple u should not get jelous in anyway of each other cos it's all about having fun ,

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I see we both agree without seeing each other

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

"We'll if ur going to get jelous of each other this ain't d place to b is it . I gave a lady friend a 3 sum n I was so turned on watching her suck him off that I fucked her so much after he left . Never ever was so turned on in my life . "

Isn't it a little bit different between a lady/man friend and a husband/wife? Jealousy is a human emotion which may not be the most attractive of emotions, it is one of them that just materialised, sometimes without the person even realising it.

Swinging can actually be a great way of working through such behaviour... Well that's what we have found to be the case!

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Do men ever get jealous if the other man they meet is better looking or do wives or partners worry that they might."

Nope, cos never met one who is..

joking aside like anything its all about communication, before to go through the what you both want and expect, may feel watching each other etc

being true to what you have both set as guidelines when meeting others and also being open and honest with each other after..

when people don't talk about this aspect and all it may involve being a part of their lives then that is bound to cause some angst with some..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men ever get jealous if the other man they meet is better looking or do wives or partners worry that they might."

Nope, not at all, I love watching my wife with another fella and she'd have to fancy him to fuck him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging can actually be a great way of working through such behaviour... Well that's what we have found to be the case!

Isn't a bit of jealousy supposed to be healthy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is not the place to come and swing if your going to get jealous .. As it will kill your marriage and you will end up hating each other.

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By *etter the devil you know OP Woman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

My husband doesn't get jealous, he doesn't meet the men I meet though so that's a bit different. He only ever got annoyed when they kept texting me, being too pushy. Only once I was seeing a man who brought his friend round to see me and afterwards he said that I preferred his friend although I don't remember if I did, maybe I enjoyed it because it was two men instead of one or that I felt more comfortable with his friend, his friend wasn't any better looking so it couldn't of been that. Anyway I seen the first man again once and it didn't go well and I havnt heard from his friend either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both play with other people. And we both get pleasure out of each other's enjoyment. No need for jealously - And if there is, that emotion can be converted to sexual excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging can actually be a great way of working through such behaviour... Well that's what we have found to be the case!

Isn't a bit of jealousy supposed to be healthy??

I don't think cuckoldry would work if i didn't feel jealous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mrs Still tends to get jealous when she sees me with another woman. (the thing is sometimes she is ok and other times she is not...)

So we tend to go for hotwife/greedy girl experiences now.

No jealousy hence more fun. (Jealousy ruins the night for everyone).

I suppose it is about finding out what works best for you as a couple.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

"We both play with other people. And we both get pleasure out of each other's enjoyment. No need for jealously -"

This

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Nope dosnt bother me at all, I'm an uggly bugger, but I'm the one she married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both play with other people. And we both get pleasure out of each other's enjoyment. No need for jealously"

I think this true for most couples who enjoy "traditional swinging" i.e. couples meeting couples.

Through swinging we have found that Mrs having sex with one or more men and being the centre of attention works best for us.

This is in part how we manage Mrs Jealous trait.

When you look at how many couple are only looking for males I do not think we are alone.

From my point of view I am more than happy.

I get most pleasure when I am in a situation where Mrs is relaxed and having fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No , jealousy has no part to play for either of us .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've not done full swap and did start out saying it was something we'd never do BUT we've met some lovely couples, couples who obviously love each other and have great sex between them. I now see it as an opportunity to learn from others and maybe they learn from us too. I dare say there would be a little jealousy at first but I'm sure the overpowering feeling of being with other couples and everyone having a good time will far outweigh any issues. As long as we all have the attraction between us then that'll be just fine, anything that goes beyond our initial boundaries will be because we are all happy. We are looking forward to sharing our sexy times.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

"We both play with other people. And we both get pleasure out of each other's enjoyment. No need for jealously - And if there is, that emotion can be converted to sexual excitement."

this one x

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By *he horny kinkstersCouple
over a year ago

North West

If we waited for MissK to find a bloke less attractive than me we would be here for an extremely long time...

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No, it's only sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No jealousy here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure some do, whether they admit it or not on here is another matter.

I would imagine it would be extremely hard to swing & be jealous (excl cuckold)

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By *b coupleCouple
over a year ago

southampton

"Do men ever get jealous if the other man they meet is better looking or do wives or partners worry that they might."

If jealousy is involved then swinging ain't for you.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Jealous...no...no time for jealousy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not at all, if anything I like to see her with a hot looking guy...or two...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men ever get jealous if the other man they meet is better looking or do wives or partners worry that they might."

Def not, hence this profile.

My husband loves seeing me with other guys and going out to meet other guys and hearing all the details afterwards

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By *andB6969Couple
over a year ago

Well worth a visit, East Coast, Norfolk

If you're going to get envious and cause problems in your relationship you shouldn't be swinging, it's not worth the hassle.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I don't know if jealousy is something that a person either feels or doesn't feel. For example if Mr N was emotionally involved with another woman I would be angry and hurt but I don't know if I would be jealous...fortunately I've never had occasion to find out. If I see him flirting and being sexual with another woman I just feel glad that he's enjoying himself I know she's never going to share the same intimacy we do or sit at the traffic lights laughing because we were talking so much we've driven miles in the wrong direction and not noticed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough I used to be a very jealous person before we got into swinging. Now I look at my husband with another woman and I love it when I can see him enjoying himself. It really turns me on. Don't know why anybody would be on here if they're jealous.

Millie

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

"Funnily enough I used to be a very jealous person before we got into swinging. Now I look at my husband with another woman and I love it when I can see him enjoying himself. It really turns me on. Don't know why anybody would be on here if they're jealous.

Millie"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

weve always gone for good looking guys as i want my wife to fancy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a number of situations involving MMF threesomes, the majority of the time the male partner likes to watch.

Speaking to one couple the husband liked to be in the same room and watch his wife play. He did not like seperate room play. The wife was happy for the husband to play but did not want to see him doing it. The compromise was that husband watched in the room and played with his wife from time to time. I assume that if a couple are in love and have a succesful relationship they find what works for them.

Given that if the female partner does not play hubby is not going to get much in the way of play as he will join the ranks of single men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never compare other people against each other in terms of attractiveness; as our love for each other is stronger than the attraction in a fleeting encounter with others, but I suppose (and I don't mean it in a big headed way) but I guess we don't see others as being better than us just different - if that makes sense?

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Agree with some above, no, it's just sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We never compare other people against each other in terms of attractiveness; as our love for each other is stronger than the attraction in a fleeting encounter with others, but I suppose (and I don't mean it in a big headed way) but I guess we don't see others as being better than us just different - if that makes sense? "

I absolutely agree with your last sentence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging can actually be a great way of working through such behaviour... Well that's what we have found to be the case!

Isn't a bit of jealousy supposed to be healthy??

I don't think cuckoldry would work if i didn't feel jealous."

Jealousy isn't necessarily a bad thing.

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By *ustCurious9966Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Swinging can actually be a great way of working through such behaviour... Well that's what we have found to be the case!

I like this answer as it gives the question a proper probing. Jealously may well be in there somewhere but hats off to you lucky couples who work through it and genuinely find each other the hottest.

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By *oredShitlessxxxCouple
over a year ago

luton

Swinging can actually be a great way of working through such behaviour... Well that's what we have found to be the case!

I like this answer as it gives the question a proper probing. Jealously may well be in there somewhere but hats off to you lucky couples who work through it and genuinely find each other the hottest. "

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Never experienced jealousy. I just enjoy the lustful look in my wife's eyes when a nice man or two chats to her....and enjoy knowing she is having a great time.

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I'll add that we have both seen each other with many partners. What's good for the goose is good for the gander, so to speak.

I believe jealousy can be worked through but it is not something I personally feel.

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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This is something we chatted about before coming into the scene, but in nine years it's never been an issue for us. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do men ever get jealous if the other man they meet is better looking or do wives or partners worry that they might."

Hubby has the final say,he says he wouldnt want to watch me in action with an ugly bloke suts me wouldn't want to either

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