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"I've been on here a long time, and it's not my first profile. I always consider the messages I send polite, and never go OTT. As a guy I expect not to get a reply to most messages as I am experienced enough to know ladies, and couples, get a lot of interest. But, there seems to be a trend now, especially among newer members, to reply in a pretty nasty fashion. Why bother? If you can't politely say no, why bother being rude or nasty to someone...just don't reply....I don't get it." I really hope I wasn't rude. If I was, I'm very sorry and can only think I'd had enough of rude first messages that day. You see, it's not only replies that are rude, but introductory messages often are too. | |||
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" I really hope I wasn't rude. If I was, I'm very sorry and can only think I'd had enough of rude first messages that day. You see, it's not only replies that are rude, but introductory messages often are too. " Exactly. There's only so much shit one can shovel. | |||
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"I'm never rude...at least I genuinely hope not. Suggestive maybe lol...is that rude though? lol" Suggestive, depending on the recipient, can be anything from welcomed to an outright turn-off. There's no formula, though. You have to play it by ear with what you've read on their profile and how they respond (if they respond). | |||
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"I've been on here a long time, and it's not my first profile. I always consider the messages I send polite, and never go OTT. As a guy I expect not to get a reply to most messages as I am experienced enough to know ladies, and couples, get a lot of interest. But, there seems to be a trend now, especially among newer members, to reply in a pretty nasty fashion. Why bother? If you can't politely say no, why bother being rude or nasty to someone...just don't reply....I don't get it." From a fairly new couples prospective, most of the messages we receive have cock pics attached, and are crude in the way they post the messages to us. Now if they read our profile first, they will understand why they haven't got a reply, or the ones that we do reply to tend to be just as rude as the ones they send us. Guys don't read profiles, that's the main problem, they type blind, and never a respectable message to start a conversation. Or are we just the unlucky ones that attract the morons? | |||
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" From a fairly new couples prospective, most of the messages we receive have cock pics attached, and are crude in the way they post the messages to us. Now if they read our profile first, they will understand why they haven't got a reply, or the ones that we do reply to tend to be just as rude as the ones they send us. Guys don't read profiles, that's the main problem, they type blind, and never a respectable message to start a conversation. Or are we just the unlucky ones that attract the morons? " Oh no. You're not the only ones. There are thousands of forum posts and many more statuses devoted to complaining about messages from people who haven't read the profile. | |||
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