FabSwingers.com forum: Blocked - rightly or wrongly

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, I've just a message to someone (below). The reply I got from them was "Blocked", that's it. It seems harsh to me as I think it wasn't rude (to them) and pretty complimentary... Thought I'd get the thoughts of the forum though. Where do you think I went wrong?!?

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I saw your boobs (wow) and then I saw your lips (OH WOW). Both look soooo good!

I'm straight but can imagine they look good wrapped round a cock (or two)...

I'm easy going, love lots of playing - touching, teasing, kissing - and love seeing the girl as the centre of attention.

I work in London (it's telling me you're 2 miles away) so good for drinks after work or meeting up somewhere.

I'd love to chat, if you're up for a bit of fun then say hello. I've also got a very hot FB who's bi and she would like the look of both of you. So if that's something you're up for let me know...

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

The Doors "People Are Strange"

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRAr354usf8

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

They're probably just not interested. Save them having to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rude to discuss pms and just move on

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I block people for a reason. Only rarely (twice in the past few months) did I unblock them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You came on too strong.... Why are you talking about what you wanna do with your cock on th first message? Just because she's female it doesn't mean you can send her messages like that straight away. I can see why you're blocked

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By *ediraMan
over a year ago

Reigate

Rightly blocked.

Cut the first two lines and the last one and you might have had a little more luck.

Would you go up to a girl in a bar and talk to her like that??

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By *ivnwcplCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

"So, I've just a message to someone (below). The reply I got from them was "Blocked", that's it. It seems harsh to me as I think it wasn't rude (to them) and pretty complimentary... Thought I'd get the thoughts of the forum though. Where do you think I went wrong?!?

The message...

I saw your boobs (wow) and then I saw your lips (OH WOW). Both look soooo good!

I'm straight but can imagine they look good wrapped round a cock (or two)...

I'm easy going, love lots of playing - touching, teasing, kissing - and love seeing the girl as the centre of attention.

I work in London (it's telling me you're 2 miles away) so good for drinks after work or meeting up somewhere.

I'd love to chat, if you're up for a bit of fun then say hello. I've also got a very hot FB who's bi and she would like the look of both of you. So if that's something you're up for let me know..."

Maybe they felt you had come on a bit strong for a first message, or maybe they felt you where a bit too close for comfort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The message...

I saw your boobs (wow) and then I saw your lips (OH WOW). Both look soooo good!

I'm straight but can imagine they look good wrapped round a cock (or two)...

I'm easy going, love lots of playing - touching, teasing, kissing - and love seeing the girl as the centre of attention.

I work in London (it's telling me you're 2 miles away) so good for drinks after work or meeting up somewhere.

I'd love to chat, if you're up for a bit of fun then say hello. I've also got a very hot FB who's bi and she would like the look of both of you. So if that's something you're up for let me know..."

Was it to a single male? He may not have liked the fact you liked his boobs

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Rightly, the person who blocked had their reasons the one who's been blocked doesn't get to decide if it's right or wrong neither do other forum users.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, blocking is not an insult. She was/they were not interested in you and did not want further contact.

We would have done the same, especially in light of the FB comment.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I wouldn't block for that message, but I would delete it without answering.

It is crass and dull.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You sent a message saying your straight but youd like thier lips wrapped around your cock?

Then you brought up a random bi female you could bring along.

From the girl center bit i cant work out if youve messages a mf couple asking tbe man to suck your cock or a ts/male couple or soemthing.

Eother way the first 3 lines were ao cringy you killed it before you got into the weird atuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I better change my approach lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably just didn't fancy you, your message was quite verbose so maybe they thought you would not take no for an answer so was less hassle just to nip it in the bud.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Yeap I would have blocked ad well

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

"You came on too strong.... Why are you talking about what you wanna do with your cock on th first message? Just because she's female it doesn't mean you can send her messages like that straight away. I can see why you're blocked"

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Presumptuous, rude, vague.. yep would have blocked too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would delete the message it's makes no sense, it's cringy, horrid and just odd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sent polite nice first messages and have had the same response. I just put it down to experience although me being a gentleman will always reply whatever the outcome

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Surely it could've been a lot worse?

(I am taking in all the feedback before anyone says well don't ask for feedback if you don't want it lol)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete n move on ive blocked guys after msgs just got to bloody annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just blocked someone and I didn't even tell them I was going to do it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely it could've been a lot worse?

(I am taking in all the feedback before anyone says well don't ask for feedback if you don't want it lol)"

Oh, it could certainly have been worse. It wasn't good though.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"Surely it could've been a lot worse?

Could have been. Those ones get reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you send it to an MF couple?

They could be getting annoyed at you just talking to the woman and it could be the guy picking up all the messages?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Personally I'd save the message so tired know not to have anything to do with you.. It's way too full on for a first message

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'd

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So who was the fuy you were asking to suck hou?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm straight but can imagine they look good wrapped round a cock"

Or did the woman get annoyed you called her a man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are all your first messages like this one op ?

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

As I don't know the profile content of the person you messaged, it's not possible to say if your message was appropriate or not.

However, if I had received such a crude message you would have received a 'no thanks' reply then block to avoid the usual questioning of why not.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Did you attach a cock pic to the message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not full on for an introduction

No need to block tho

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By *teve197_ukMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

It's a bit of a forward message Imo, but to be honest there a lot of " up their own arse" people on here,I've met some lovely people at singles clubs who don't require you to meet tons of criteria to meet up.

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

The message...

I saw your boobs (wow) and then I saw your lips (OH WOW). Both look soooo good!

I'm straight but can imagine they look good wrapped round a cock (or two)...

I'm easy going, love lots of playing - touching, teasing, kissing - and love seeing the girl as the centre of attention.

I work in London (it's telling me you're 2 miles away) so good for drinks after work or meeting up somewhere.

I'd love to chat, if you're up for a bit of fun then say hello. I've also got a very hot FB who's bi and she would like the look of both of you. So if that's something you're up for let me know..."

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

Well as you took the time to write a long message I would of just said thanks but youre not really my type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well as you took the time to write a long message I would of just said thanks but youre not really my type.

But is he really not your type is the ultimate question lol

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

Welcome to the wonderful world of blocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a bit of a forward message Imo, but to be honest there a lot of " up their own arse" people on here,I've met some lovely people at singles clubs who don't require you to meet tons of criteria to meet up. "
I love how people are up their own arse because they have preferences

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are all your first messages like this one op ? "

Luckily not!! I try to tailor to each person. Pick something most of their profile and build on that.

This was a bad one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are all your first messages like this one op ?

Luckily not!! I try to tailor to each person. Pick something most of their profile and build on that.

This was a bad one lol"
bad that's one word lol I didn't understand it who did you send it to ? A couple, tv, male, female ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The message shows your personality. Some will find it crass. Some will like it. Focus on those who like it, forget those who don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sorry but I literally laughed out loud reading that opening message.

It's a sad fact that most men on this site view that as normal behaviour. It's the same men who start "why can't I get meet" posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We shag every person who sends us a message, just to avoid being "up our own arses" . It's only fair, but a bit exhausting

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

You got to love these Monday threads after a weekend of rejection lol. Just grow a pair and move on. Shiiish !!!

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By *horehouseCouple
over a year ago

dissatisfied

We block anybody we are unlikely to meet it saves time in not tripping over profiles that are unsuitable ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where do I think you went wrong message wise? The whole content from the opening paragraph to the closing one mentioning the bi friend.

Doesn't really matter what I think though as you have the answer from the person you sent it to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We block anybody we are unlikely to meet it saves time in not tripping over profiles that are unsuitable .."

And any football fans right?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

There's nothing in that message that would offend us.

Maybe they just found it a bit presumptuous. Who knows!

Doesn't really matter what we all think. They've chosen to block you, forget about it and move on.

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

We shag every person who sends us a message, just to avoid being "up our own arses" . It's only fair, but a bit exhausting

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I wouldn't have blocked you for that, but I wouldn't have replied. I don't like men assuming that my mouth is only good for wrapping around cocks, or that I am bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have blocked you for that, but I wouldn't have replied. I don't like men assuming that my mouth is only good for wrapping around cocks, or that I am bi."

Yes, not replying I'm expecting most of the time lol.

She put herself down as bi, so not assuming that... The wrapping round cock bit yes I assumed she liked it lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have blocked you for that, but I wouldn't have replied. I don't like men assuming that my mouth is only good for wrapping around cocks, or that I am bi.

Yes, not replying I'm expecting most of the time lol.

She put herself down as bi, so not assuming that... The wrapping round cock bit yes I assumed she liked it lol. "

If it was a she why did you start with "I'm straight but"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The message...

I saw your boobs (wow) and then I saw your lips (OH WOW). Both look soooo good!

I'm straight but can imagine they look good wrapped round a cock (or two)...

I'm easy going, love lots of playing - touching, teasing, kissing - and love seeing the girl as the centre of attention.

I work in London (it's telling me you're 2 miles away) so good for drinks after work or meeting up somewhere.

I'd love to chat, if you're up for a bit of fun then say hello. I've also got a very hot FB who's bi and she would like the look of both of you. So if that's something you're up for let me know..."

Flattery will get you nowhere apparently sweetheart!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We block anybody we are unlikely to meet it saves time in not tripping over profiles that are unsuitable .."

I guess a polite," No thanks, you are not for us" is too much courtesy to ask then....

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I wouldn't have blocked you for that, but I wouldn't have replied. I don't like men assuming that my mouth is only good for wrapping around cocks, or that I am bi.

Yes, not replying I'm expecting most of the time lol.

She put herself down as bi, so not assuming that... The wrapping round cock bit yes I assumed she liked it lol.

If it was a she why did you start with "I'm straight but""

I assumed it was to a couple but I could be wrong. (Not that it happens very often!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have blocked you for that, but I wouldn't have replied. I don't like men assuming that my mouth is only good for wrapping around cocks, or that I am bi.

Yes, not replying I'm expecting most of the time lol.

She put herself down as bi, so not assuming that... The wrapping round cock bit yes I assumed she liked it lol.

If it was a she why did you start with "I'm straight but"

I assumed it was to a couple but I could be wrong. (Not that it happens very often!)

Lol, it was to a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess a polite," No thanks, you are not for us" is too much courtesy to ask then...."

Have a look on a single female profile one time. When you get to the 53rd "up to much?" and the 148th "Free now?" message of the day you see how likely you are to give a 'polite reply'.

FAQ says view no reply as no thanks. My wife has got messages faster than one a second at busy times, if everyone got an answer she'd be literally doing nothing other than answering questions.

You get upset with no reply? Easy solution is not to send a message in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get upset with no reply? Easy solution is not to send a message in the first place."

this

great advice for the moaners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You got to love these Monday threads after a weekend of rejection lol. Just grow a pair and move on. Shiiish !!!"

knob

he is asking for opinion not to be slagged off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just move on and not worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have blocked you for that, but I wouldn't have replied. I don't like men assuming that my mouth is only good for wrapping around cocks, or that I am bi.

Yes, not replying I'm expecting most of the time lol.

She put herself down as bi, so not assuming that... The wrapping round cock bit yes I assumed she liked it lol.

If it was a she why did you start with "I'm straight but"

I assumed it was to a couple but I could be wrong. (Not that it happens very often!)

Lol, it was to a couple"

Well here's your problem, you spoke only to the female, a couple is two people and it annoys some people when the single lads forget that...better luck next time

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

There's so much about that message that would make me sigh if I received it, and not in a good way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You got to love these Monday threads after a weekend of rejection lol. Just grow a pair and move on. Shiiish !!!

knob

he is asking for opinion not to be slagged off"

Cheers dude lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Far far far too crass for a first message imo, I'd probably block you too!

BTW - as it was to a couple, why did you seemingly address the whole message - apart from the bi fem fb comment - to the female half?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Far far far too crass for a first message imo, I'd probably block you too!

BTW - as it was to a couple, why did you seemingly address the whole message - apart from the bi fem fb comment - to the female half?"

I was blinkered by her big boobs and lips lmao. Next time I'll take couple of deep breathes before I start writing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Far far far too crass for a first message imo, I'd probably block you too!

BTW - as it was to a couple, why did you seemingly address the whole message - apart from the bi fem fb comment - to the female half?

I was blinkered by her big boobs and lips lmao. Next time I'll take couple of deep breathes before I start writing!!!"

Just so you know, the male half of a couple is just as likely to be the one that opens your message, and if he feels you're disrespecting him or his wife you are not going to get anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a parody, right?

You lot are answering without irony...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I wouldn't block for that message, but I would delete it without answering.

It is crass and dull."

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Far far far too crass for a first message imo, I'd probably block you too!

BTW - as it was to a couple, why did you seemingly address the whole message - apart from the bi fem fb comment - to the female half?

I was blinkered by her big boobs and lips lmao. Next time I'll take couple of deep breathes before I start writing!!!"

My only reaction can only be

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"This is a parody, right?

You lot are answering without irony... "

I've had messages like the OP sent. Nothing parodic about them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Far far far too crass for a first message imo, I'd probably block you too!

BTW - as it was to a couple, why did you seemingly address the whole message - apart from the bi fem fb comment - to the female half?

I was blinkered by her big boobs and lips lmao. Next time I'll take couple of deep breathes before I start writing!!!

My only reaction can only be

Least it's not a block lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have blocked you for that, but I wouldn't have replied. I don't like men assuming that my mouth is only good for wrapping around cocks, or that I am bi.

Yes, not replying I'm expecting most of the time lol.

She put herself down as bi, so not assuming that... The wrapping round cock bit yes I assumed she liked it lol.

If it was a she why did you start with "I'm straight but"

I assumed it was to a couple but I could be wrong. (Not that it happens very often!)

Lol, it was to a couple"

So you were asking the guy to suck you?

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Far far far too crass for a first message imo, I'd probably block you too!

BTW - as it was to a couple, why did you seemingly address the whole message - apart from the bi fem fb comment - to the female half?

I was blinkered by her big boobs and lips lmao. Next time I'll take couple of deep breathes before I start writing!!!

My only reaction can only be

Indeed...blimey!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Far far far too crass for a first message imo, I'd probably block you too!

BTW - as it was to a couple, why did you seemingly address the whole message - apart from the bi fem fb comment - to the female half?

I was blinkered by her big boobs and lips lmao. Next time I'll take couple of deep breathes before I start writing!!!"

Just out of interest but were there any pics of him on their profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have blocked you for that, but I wouldn't have replied. I don't like men assuming that my mouth is only good for wrapping around cocks, or that I am bi.

Yes, not replying I'm expecting most of the time lol.

She put herself down as bi, so not assuming that... The wrapping round cock bit yes I assumed she liked it lol.

If it was a she why did you start with "I'm straight but"

I assumed it was to a couple but I could be wrong. (Not that it happens very often!)

Lol, it was to a couple

So you were asking the guy to suck you?"

Haha, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We block anybody we are unlikely to meet it saves time in not tripping over profiles that are unsuitable ..

I guess a polite," No thanks, you are not for us" is too much courtesy to ask then...."

Yes it is too much to ask when your dealing with close to triple figures. Read the FAQs it says in there take a delete and no reply as a no thank you.

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

I'm sure a few lessons have been learned

I got blocked after responding to a face pic request, I'm fine with it but have taken down all the mirrors in the flat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have blocked you for that, but I wouldn't have replied. I don't like men assuming that my mouth is only good for wrapping around cocks, or that I am bi.

Yes, not replying I'm expecting most of the time lol.

She put herself down as bi, so not assuming that... The wrapping round cock bit yes I assumed she liked it lol.

If it was a she why did you start with "I'm straight but""

You assumed a lot didn't you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I wouldn't have blocked you for that, but I wouldn't have replied. I don't like men assuming that my mouth is only good for wrapping around cocks, or that I am bi.

Yes, not replying I'm expecting most of the time lol.

She put herself down as bi, so not assuming that... The wrapping round cock bit yes I assumed she liked it lol.

If it was a she why did you start with "I'm straight but"

You assumed a lot didn't you "

Well one thing... But boy did it backfire lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The message...

I saw your boobs (wow) and then I saw your lips (OH WOW). Both look soooo good!

I'm straight but can imagine they look good wrapped round a cock (or two)...

I'm easy going, love lots of playing - touching, teasing, kissing - and love seeing the girl as the centre of attention.

I work in London (it's telling me you're 2 miles away) so good for drinks after work or meeting up somewhere.

I'd love to chat, if you're up for a bit of fun then say hello. I've also got a very hot FB who's bi and she would like the look of both of you. So if that's something you're up for let me know..."

You messaged a couple, ignored the male half, commented on the females pics, told her you wanted her to suck your cock made no reference to their profile and then mentioned the FB you would hopefully meet them with.

And you wonder why you were blocked?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

The message...

I saw your boobs (wow) and then I saw your lips (OH WOW). Both look soooo good!

I'm straight but can imagine they look good wrapped round a cock (or two)...

I'm easy going, love lots of playing - touching, teasing, kissing - and love seeing the girl as the centre of attention.

I work in London (it's telling me you're 2 miles away) so good for drinks after work or meeting up somewhere.

I'd love to chat, if you're up for a bit of fun then say hello. I've also got a very hot FB who's bi and she would like the look of both of you. So if that's something you're up for let me know...

And you wonder why you were blocked?"

Go figure eh?

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By *ovemenotWoman
over a year ago

yeovil

Yes it could have been but what you did write was just crass and rude . Then pointing out you have a FB you would like to bring with you . Come on you can't really be shocked you got blocked . Try talking to people the same why you would if you met them in person .

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

The message...

I saw your boobs (wow) and then I saw your lips (OH WOW). Both look soooo good!

I'm straight but can imagine they look good wrapped round a cock (or two)...

I'm easy going, love lots of playing - touching, teasing, kissing - and love seeing the girl as the centre of attention.

I work in London (it's telling me you're 2 miles away) so good for drinks after work or meeting up somewhere.

I'd love to chat, if you're up for a bit of fun then say hello. I've also got a very hot FB who's bi and she would like the look of both of you. So if that's something you're up for let me know..."

Getting a message from someone saying they are two miles away .... instant block and put the dog out in the front garden, just in case .... what are they supposed to do ... drop their life and wait for you to arrive? Seriously scary ...

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

"I better change my approach lol"

Approach attitude and whole outlook.

Reading that in our messages = unread + Blocked

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By *iercedItMan
over a year ago

North West

It sometimes irks me when I get blocked like that, if my message is read but not replied to, I wouldnt message again, but I do understand some "nice guys" become proper dick heads when told no thanks, so balance really.

I can't blame them after seeing with my own eyes what happens, the 100s of messages, the guys who turn dickheads, the guys who message every 30 minutes, the guys who won't take no, etc. But still ducks.

As why it irks me, coz some people take really hot pics, I can look but not touch :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion it's offputting for two reasons

In a first message you've gone straight for sex talk with the 'wrapped around a cock or two' line.

Secondly, and this,really annoys me when I get similar messages, is the 'I can bring someone else' line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes it could have been but what you did write was just crass and rude . Then pointing out you have a FB you would like to bring with you . Come on you can't really be shocked you got blocked . Try talking to people the same why you would if you met them in person . "

Exactly this. The presumption that as swingers all we want to talk about is sex and bring along your friends who we would happily shag too! Because obviously we can't get enough of sex...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Presumptuous, rude, vague.. yep would have blocked too "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Everyone seems to be presuming that I'm sending these people countless messages after they've said no. I'm not.

If someone doesn't reply, I get the message and move on. I was just interested in canvassing opinion on this one to help meet new people... Though clearly no one from this thread lol.

I get it was a shit message lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone seems to be presuming that I'm sending these people countless messages after they've said no. I'm not.

If someone doesn't reply, I get the message and move on. I was just interested in canvassing opinion on this one to help meet new people... Though clearly no one from this thread lol.

I get it was a shit message lol. "

I don't think people think you are sending them "countless messages", more that this is a common opening message you send people...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everyone seems to be presuming that I'm sending these people countless messages after they've said no. I'm not.

If someone doesn't reply, I get the message and move on. I was just interested in canvassing opinion on this one to help meet new people... Though clearly no one from this thread lol.

I get it was a shit message lol.

I don't think people think you are sending them "countless messages", more that this is a common opening message you send people..."

Luckily it's not!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone seems to be presuming that I'm sending these people countless messages after they've said no. I'm not.

If someone doesn't reply, I get the message and move on. I was just interested in canvassing opinion on this one to help meet new people... Though clearly no one from this thread lol.

I get it was a shit message lol.

I don't think people think you are sending them "countless messages", more that this is a common opening message you send people...

Luckily it's not!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Far far far too crass for a first message imo, I'd probably block you too!

BTW - as it was to a couple, why did you seemingly address the whole message - apart from the bi fem fb comment - to the female half?

I was blinkered by her big boobs and lips lmao. Next time I'll take couple of deep breathes before I start writing!!!

Just so you know, the male half of a couple is just as likely to be the one that opens your message, and if he feels you're disrespecting him or his wife you are not going to get anywhere."

Ive opened alot of message directed at mrs A some of them are just rude and get blocked

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

It's a tool the site provides some use it others don't..

I had a reply to a message saying no ta

. I deleted the message ..I then found another message from the ladye shortly after saying something like fast delete fast block..

I considered that a lucky escape.

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