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"deffo wudnt meet without seeing a face pic and I'm even thinking of requesting a phone call too without withheld number and if all too much for the guys then we simply not going to meet x " I think you can tell a lot from someone when you speak to them. Nothing is cast iron guaranteed of course. Even people in longterm relationships have had partners become violent later on. But you make a judgement as best you can. Safety first. | |||
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"There's no way I would meet up with anyone who doesn't send me a photo. I need to know that I'm attracted to them and I would expect to be asked for a face pic after messaging for sometime, but men just don't seem to be worried they already like what they see, strange my face is far prettier than my body x" Then you must be stunning because you have a beautiful body too! | |||
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"I'd also add the whole privacy thing is a bit mute. I'm very well known in my job so resisted for ages, but once it was up I realised no one actually cares as we are all here for the same thing! " I still prefer to keep my face photos private. You just never know where these photos can end up. | |||
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"Face pic on open profile; 1. Not married 2. No kids 3. If work colleagues see, well its "you are on Fab too? great lets hook up" I get more messages since having a face pic on open than at any other time (logged in to 20 yesterday!! woot woot, okay so they were all insulting me, but, come on peeps, its progress!!)" LOL. ...well it's your choice whether you make your face pics private or public but the point I make is.... I won't meet someone without seeing a face pic first. I might not even fancy him! I am too busy to waste time running all the place meeting random faceless strangers!!!! | |||
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"Totally agree OP, and my approach to meeting is the same as your three steps. Don't be persuaded, like you say it's our safety first! Xx" ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Totally agree OP, and my approach to meeting is the same as your three steps. Don't be persuaded, like you say it's our safety first! Xx ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Totally agree OP, and my approach to meeting is the same as your three steps. Don't be persuaded, like you say it's our safety first! Xx ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Surious? ??? No I am not Surious. ... unless that's a good thing?? ![]() | |||
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"Totally agree OP, and my approach to meeting is the same as your three steps. Don't be persuaded, like you say it's our safety first! Xx ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() curious damm fat fingers and phones. | |||
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"I'm a fan of social meets first, there has to be a physical and mental attraction. And this was confirmed to me recently when I met someone for a drink who clearly was sending out a very old pic of himself!! Needless to say we didn't arrange another meet. So stick with what you feel comfortable with. If others don't like it then too bad! Xx " That happened to me... my first ever FAB meet for coffee. I didn't even recognise him! He had posted a photo of a much younger guy with a ripped body. The guy that turned up ....... wasn't! !!! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I'm a fan of social meets first, there has to be a physical and mental attraction. And this was confirmed to me recently when I met someone for a drink who clearly was sending out a very old pic of himself!! Needless to say we didn't arrange another meet. So stick with what you feel comfortable with. If others don't like it then too bad! Xx That happened to me... my first ever FAB meet for coffee. I didn't even recognise him! He had posted a photo of a much younger guy with a ripped body. The guy that turned up ....... wasn't! !!! ![]() ![]() ![]() How do you get out of that at that point? Do you say "But.. you're old! And fat?" Or is that considered impolite? | |||
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"I'm a fan of social meets first, there has to be a physical and mental attraction. And this was confirmed to me recently when I met someone for a drink who clearly was sending out a very old pic of himself!! Needless to say we didn't arrange another meet. So stick with what you feel comfortable with. If others don't like it then too bad! Xx That happened to me... my first ever FAB meet for coffee. I didn't even recognise him! He had posted a photo of a much younger guy with a ripped body. The guy that turned up ....... wasn't! !!! ![]() ![]() ![]() LOL. .no.... I couldn't bring myself to be rude so I had a coffee with him then made my excuses. To be honest he was a nice man. Polite etc... so he was harmless and fortunately I met him somewhere local so I hadn't gone out of my way. But I learnt my lesson! | |||
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"I'm a fan of social meets first, there has to be a physical and mental attraction. And this was confirmed to me recently when I met someone for a drink who clearly was sending out a very old pic of himself!! Needless to say we didn't arrange another meet. So stick with what you feel comfortable with. If others don't like it then too bad! Xx That happened to me... my first ever FAB meet for coffee. I didn't even recognise him! He had posted a photo of a much younger guy with a ripped body. The guy that turned up ....... wasn't! !!! ![]() ![]() ![]() I should of said "Blimey your nothing like your photo" But I'm not like that... So yes had a drink and chatted. Nice guy but wasn't for me. Funny how as adults we can't seem to be more honest with one another. | |||
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" My rules, my safety; 1) Face pic privately by whatever preferred means 2) Social meet = Coffee /drink/public place to see if there is attraction and chemistry. 3) Make further arrangements thereafter ![]() I think your rules are spot on. That's what we do too. | |||
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"We never send out face pic's and we never ask for them from other couples. Been rejected lots of times but we live with that. On a few occasions we have run into couple's that have turned us down usually run into them at parties most of them have asked to play. But the way we see it is if you wouldn't meet us for a social why should we play with you and never have and never will" How do you know it's them and vice versa if you don't know what each other looks like? With my eyesight I struggle to recognise meets when I have seen their face pics. I would never arrange a meet with someone if I don't know what they look like. | |||
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