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"As a couple we don't need a club buddy and the singles we have met there didn't need them either...not really sure why it would be necessary?" As a couple you've got your built in buddies...so I get that...but what about meeting a couple who had just busied up? | |||
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"As a couple we don't need a club buddy and the singles we have met there didn't need them either...not really sure why it would be necessary?" Lovely set of photos btw -I had to take a good look. Congrats to photographer and model -some of those shots must have been a lot of fun to line up. Clearly a labour of love | |||
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"As a couple we don't need a club buddy and the singles we have met there didn't need them either...not really sure why it would be necessary? As a couple you've got your built in buddies...so I get that...but what about meeting a couple who had just busied up?" As we play with singles too there's no need from our point of view. | |||
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"As a couple we don't need a club buddy and the singles we have met there didn't need them either...not really sure why it would be necessary? As a couple you've got your built in buddies...so I get that...but what about meeting a couple who had just busied up? As we play with singles too there's no need from our point of view." What do other couples or singles think? | |||
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"I've not tried a club ..but it's funny in my mind as a single female I've spoke to a few people and they've said better to buddy up as such ..just in case any issues ? I think that for me I may do that but really interested in this thread now and everyone's view x " As a single female you really don't need to buddy up with a club buddy. Unless you know them really well. A single man will be doing it for his own reasons which will be to either get in cheaper, use you as bait to get other women or coupled, or because he doesn't have the balls to go alone. None of these are attractive for a single fem. Add into that that people will assume you are a couple so all his behaviour will be seen as 'yours' as well, if he's a dick you are stuck with him all night. Just go alone and tell staff it's your first time or find a few decent fem friends to hang out with. Enjoy x | |||
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"I've not tried a club ..but it's funny in my mind as a single female I've spoke to a few people and they've said better to buddy up as such ..just in case any issues ? I think that for me I may do that but really interested in this thread now and everyone's view x " I get that and a club buddie just seems a step on from what your profile says about always wanting socials and seeking a FB too. | |||
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"Does it work for single ladies and couples? " It might, but it's rare as gold dust. The first club and party buddy I had worked for a few months, then it just faded out, eventually. But it worked, boundaries were clear and we had the same intentions of loads of shared fun. We met in a club. The next one I met through Swinging friends. We had to get over the hurdle that he asked my other swinging friends if I might be interested in dating him, they knew that was not where I was on life at that time, but reluctantly passed the message. Luckily he had a 'love at first sight' moment with another fellow swinger at the next party we went to and they are happily married today! So, for me that's one and a half swinging buddy in 6 years. | |||
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"Does it work for single ladies and couples? It might, but it's rare as gold dust. The first club and party buddy I had worked for a few months, then it just faded out, eventually. But it worked, boundaries were clear and we had the same intentions of loads of shared fun. We met in a club. The next one I met through Swinging friends. We had to get over the hurdle that he asked my other swinging friends if I might be interested in dating him, they knew that was not where I was on life at that time, but reluctantly passed the message. Luckily he had a 'love at first sight' moment with another fellow swinger at the next party we went to and they are happily married today! So, for me that's one and a half swinging buddy in 6 years." The first one sounded like it gave you both a good time...the second just complicated | |||
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"When I was a single fem I didn't see the point of having a club buddy. I was more than capable of going it alone, finding people to socialise with when I got there. I did what I wanted, when I wanted and with whomever I wanted. That was just how I liked it" It's sounding like there's not a lot of benefit to single ladies either as you're in demand. I was just thinking it might be more sociable and certainly more engaging for a single bloke. Plus I like the idea of a fuck buddy with extra benefits...  | |||
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"As a single female you really don't need to buddy up with a club buddy. Unless you know them really well. A single man will be doing it for his own reasons which will be to either get in cheaper, use you as bait to get other women or coupled, or because he doesn't have the balls to go alone. None of these are attractive for a single fem. Add into that that people will assume you are a couple so all his behaviour will be seen as 'yours' as well, if he's a dick you are stuck with him all night. " ^^^ This, for me. I've lost count of the number of times men have asked me to take them to a club, and I have always (and will always) say no. Why would I go with a man who might (at best) cramp my style, and at worst, be using me for a discount /'guaranteed' sex with me / 'bait' to get sex with other people that I'm not interested in. There is no reason for a single woman to need a club buddy, as single women are 'in demand' from other members, and staff members will ensure our safety. | |||
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"I can see the thrill and benefits of finding a club buddie -sharing the prinking and the preening, easy access (to the club at least!), shared adventures and stories, pairing and sharing with couples... But maybe it just works for single guys. Does it work for single ladies and couples? " ive had some pretty bad experiences with going to clubs with guys, i have found they have no interest in me at all and just want a woman to get them in a club either because its cheaper splitting the cost as a couple or they couldn't get male membership, but once inside i have found one of two things usually happen either they ignor me all night as soon as they have gotten in or they just want me to use as an offering so they can shag some guys mrs i find it work better going alone, because A it's cheaper and B i can just do what i like | |||
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"I can see the thrill and benefits of finding a club buddie -sharing the prinking and the preening, easy access (to the club at least!), shared adventures and stories, pairing and sharing with couples... But maybe it just works for single guys. Does it work for single ladies and couples? ive had some pretty bad experiences with going to clubs with guys, i have found they have no interest in me at all and just want a woman to get them in a club either because its cheaper splitting the cost as a couple or they couldn't get male membership, but once inside i have found one of two things usually happen either they ignor me all night as soon as they have gotten in or they just want me to use as an offering so they can shag some guys mrs i find it work better going alone, because A it's cheaper and B i can just do what i like" I was thinking it would be best to get to know a club buddy socially and sexually first before clubbing together. That way there's a bond and an understanding. The buddies can enjoy exploring each other and others... But maybe single girls can enjoy the freedom and attention better alone... | |||
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"A man should not need a club buddy. He should just man up, stump up the cash and go on his own. " That's clear. In fact everybody so far has been crystal clear. It's a pretty big no for club buddying! | |||
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"A man should not need a club buddy. He should just man up, stump up the cash and go on his own. That's clear. In fact everybody so far has been crystal clear. It's a pretty big no for club buddying!" Only for men asking. When women ask for club buddies they get fawned over. 
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" Only for men asking. When women ask for club buddies they get fawned over." LOL! And true! | |||
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"I can see the thrill and benefits of finding a club buddie -sharing the prinking and the preening, easy access (to the club at least!), shared adventures and stories, pairing and sharing with couples... But maybe it just works for single guys. Does it work for single ladies and couples? " I took a female friend to a club she just wanted to see what I was raving about took her just as friends had a great night she really enjoyed it and got on with every one says she wants to go again | |||
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