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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Hi all... we have a question based upon our observations & experiences. Please don't jump on the fact that we have no veris atm! We are a returning couple to fabs & have extensive fet play experience in the past.

So what we are asking is that on a swingers site, it appears that fet play is becoming more predominant.However, our notion of swinging is that of intermingled sexual encounters with others, whatever the dynamics are, MMF, MFF, MMMF etc.... but there is a lot of fet orientated profiles about, from flogging, toilet slaves and what appears to be a mixture of both lifestyles, ie "she will be blindfolded and our gentlemen guests can come in to play with her, as it turns the two of them on",

Each to their own, please don't get us wrong!!! However, it just makes it off putting to those that are looking for the swinging sixties type of swinging experiences rather than extreme practices of the fet scene. So is there a more dedicated site to true swingers, akin to those that you would find for Naturists?

Kind & Kinky Regards,

Z & A

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As there's literally tens of thousands of Fab members, then surely you can find someone who's more into what you're into?

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

"As there's literally tens of thousands of Fab members, then surely you can find someone who's more into what you're into?"

Understood, however, if we went to a Naturist camp and tried to swing lol we would get escorted off the campsite (please see other forum discussions on this) So surely Naturists have dedicated sites!!! So are there any for swingers, instead of fetish partakers?.... only asking lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As there's literally tens of thousands of Fab members, then surely you can find someone who's more into what you're into?

If there was, who would determine what was too kinky?

It's quite easy I would think to determine sexual activity, ie not appropriate for naturists. But wouldn't your too kinky be slightly or massively different to someone else's? How or who would draw that line?

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"As there's literally tens of thousands of Fab members, then surely you can find someone who's more into what you're into?

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loads here who do what you like i have the opposite difficulty, find people who are used to fet play x good luck with your new avenue of exploration xx

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

"As there's literally tens of thousands of Fab members, then surely you can find someone who's more into what you're into?

If there was, who would determine what was too kinky?

Only asking guys, clearly there isn't & people don't actually see a deviding distinction between the two, unlike Naturism...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people on here into lots of different things...your profile should be an advert for what you are looking for to attract who you are hoping to play with.

Personally think you cannot put any similarities to how naturists live their lives and how swingers do. Totally different sides of a coin.?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As there's literally tens of thousands of Fab members, then surely you can find someone who's more into what you're into?

If there was, who would determine what was too kinky?

Only asking guys, clearly there isn't & people don't actually see a deviding distinction between the two, unlike Naturism..."

To answer your original question. I have no idea but I understand the forum doesn't allow for directing to other swinging websites.

I think you would struggle to have any place unclouded as there is such a close cross over, eg lots of clubs have dungeons, events etc. Lots of toys can be used more and more kinky. Lots of people's outlooks are different on the matter, eg you talked about the blindfold scenario, I would not think of that as fetish as it's only a similar scenario to a dark room and I would think swinging.

I would have thought other websites are like to have different characteristics for regular users but then your experience of fab and mine vary as I rarely see kinky profiles.

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Just find it bizarre that ppl want the site to make a distinction between TV's & TS's, but the same is not requested of actual swingers from Fet lifestyles. After all its a far cry from having one's scrotum stappled over your penis, too having sexual intercourse with another person/couple

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

"A lot of people on here into lots of different things...your profile should be an advert for what you are looking for to attract who you are hoping to play with.

Personally think you cannot put any similarities to how naturists live their lives and how swingers do. Totally different sides of a coin.?

You have just stated exactly my point, which I was making. There's a massive difference to each lifestyle, naturist, fetish and swingers (certainly different sides of a coin)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just find it bizarre that ppl want the site to make a distinction between TV's & TS's, but the same is not requested of actual swingers from Fet lifestyles. After all its a far cry from having one's scrotum stappled over your penis, too having sexual intercourse with another person/couple

From someone saying they have fet experience I thought you would know it's a broad spectrum.

But hey, let's just summarise it in a sensationalist way. Stapling scrotum

When you can get a group of people to agree what a 'proper swinger' is then do let me know. It's not us btw... but we also aren't into staples so we mustn't be kinky either.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

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seriously they are two worlds..completely different ..the rules of BDSM dont apply...its a matter of ask for what you want and look for similar..its not as cut and dried as that scene...drop what you expect and start from scratch..i went into the fet scene and found it to be far too tame for me on most levels regarding sex and 'playing' i was quite shocked at just 'fet' play..does nothing for me x

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Guess we all have different experiences, we just find/like to meet ppl which value sexy fun not those that require being pissed or shat soon... is it not swinging to simply enjoy the freedom of intimacy with others, outside of your relationship, whilst enjoying a social connection. The rest must surely equate to fet behaviour????

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By *ay BrowerMan
over a year ago

Oldham

Perhaps you should reconsider your notion of swinging.

Fet life is a lifestyle anyone can embrace, as is swinging. They're not mutually exclusive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all... we have a question based upon our observations & experiences. Please don't jump on the fact that we have no veris atm! We are a returning couple to fabs & have extensive fet play experience in the past.

Kind & Kinky Regards,

Z & A

There will be plenty of people on here that have no interest in kink.

Surely like any other profile where you don;t match what they want you just move on.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"As there's literally tens of thousands of Fab members, then surely you can find someone who's more into what you're into?

Imteresting. I seet his as a predominantly swingers site, with occasional fetishists. I can think of a few other fet sites, that are much more about that scene than fabs....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Guess we all have different experiences, we just find/like to meet ppl which value sexy fun not those that require being pissed or shat soon... is it not swinging to simply enjoy the freedom of intimacy with others, outside of your relationship, whilst enjoying a social connection. The rest must surely equate to fet behaviour????"

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of people on here into lots of different things...your profile should be an advert for what you are looking for to attract who you are hoping to play with.

Personally think you cannot put any similarities to how naturists live their lives and how swingers do. Totally different sides of a coin.?

You have just stated exactly my point, which I was making. There's a massive difference to each lifestyle, naturist, fetish and swingers (certainly different sides of a coin)"

And there is also a crossover between them all.

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

from my experience fab and swinging is all about what you want to find...cocks pussies and moresomes..thats the majority of users here and most of the people at clubs and socials...xx im saying you seem to have understandably the fet life rules and boxes in your mind...it doesnt work like that in swinging, each couple and single is an individual unit and really wants to be seen for them and what they want in any given situation ..its very fluid so ive found xx hope this other perspective helps x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We consider ourselves very much true swingers. I mean we attend adult parties regularly where we do couple swaps, and we meet single guys for MMF threesomes. However we also enjoy a bit of BDSM from time to time. But that doesn't stop us being swingers.

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

We was merely asking of there was a site dedicated souly to the morals of swinging, in the same way that Naturists sites/camps are. Our notion of swinging is rather healthy thank you guys...

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

"We consider ourselves very much true swingers. I mean we attend adult parties regularly where we do couple swaps, and we meet single guys for MMF threesomes. However we also enjoy a bit of BDSM from time to time. But that doesn't stop us being swingers."

However, you guys clearly understand that there is a distinction between the two.... no disrespect intended.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Met quite a few from here and at clubs now. Hardly any of them were into Kink.

Certainly have never met anyone into being shat on as you put it, don't think we've met anyone into watersports either as far as we know.

Generally we just ask people what they enjoy and what they are looking for, if it doesn't mark tchaikovsky with what we are looking for we don't play with them.

Don't really see a need for a bigger division between the two scenes to be honest.

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"We was merely asking of there was a site dedicated souly to the morals of swinging, in the same way that Naturists sites/camps are. Our notion of swinging is rather healthy thank you guys... "

it might be..however being elitist wont help you here, youll just keep moaning about all us singles etc etc and noone will listen to what you want..as i said id drop the insistence there are rules they will only hinder you in your search of experiences..and we cant mention other sites on here..its not the 'done' thing

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

"Met quite a few from here and at clubs now. Hardly any of them were into Kink.

Certainly have never met anyone into being shat on as you put it, don't think we've met anyone into watersports either as far as we know.

Generally we just ask people what they enjoy and what they are looking for, if it doesn't mark tchaikovsky with what we are looking for we don't play with them.

Don't really see a need for a bigger division between the two scenes to be honest."

Far point, we understand that and our post was just trying to see if a more dedicated site percifically aimed at swingers was out there... Thank you for your comment though x

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

"Met quite a few from here and at clubs now. Hardly any of them were into Kink.

Certainly have never met anyone into being shat on as you put it, don't think we've met anyone into watersports either as far as we know.

Generally we just ask people what they enjoy and what they are looking for, if it doesn't mark tchaikovsky with what we are looking for we don't play with them.

Don't really see a need for a bigger division between the two scenes to be honest.

Fair point, we understand that and our post was just trying to see if a more dedicated site percifically aimed at swingers was out there... Thank you for your comment though x"

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Met quite a few from here and at clubs now. Hardly any of them were into Kink.

Certainly have never met anyone into being shat on as you put it, don't think we've met anyone into watersports either as far as we know.

Generally we just ask people what they enjoy and what they are looking for, if it doesn't mark tchaikovsky with what we are looking for we don't play with them.

Don't really see a need for a bigger division between the two scenes to be honest.

Far point, we understand that and our post was just trying to see if a more dedicated site percifically aimed at swingers was out there... Thank you for your comment though x"

This *is* a swingers site. There just happen to be fetishists here..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

Watersports, I'm sure you have. But how many? As a percentage?

And you know what fella, I have been to dozens of fet events and never emcountered either. I've also been to a nudist club and encountered swinging and kink.

You seem to have chosen the most extreme thing you can think of and using them to have a rant about the kink scene, when neither are even that prevalent on there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a cliché but if everyone liked the same stuff wouldn't it make it boring? If you are an mf couple and all you want to do is meet another mf couple and just swap partners during an evening of passionless missionary sex then good for you. If you like to meet up and instead of doing that you may experiment with doggy position and start doing a little spanking and hair pulling, then again good for you. If you want to meet up and you decide between you that two of the partners will be tied up, face down then flogged, whipped, gagged, spat on, punched and then used to be fucked sensless and then blah blah blah then again good for you. I know what I prefer

But isn't that what is ace about this site? The diversity of interests that people like. Like many have said before there are thousands of singles and couples who like nothing kinky at all. If that's who you're looking for, you'll find them and they'll find you. Sex like food, some like it cold and bland, some like it hot and spicy. He he he.

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

"We was merely asking of there was a site dedicated souly to the morals of swinging, in the same way that Naturists sites/camps are. Our notion of swinging is rather healthy thank you guys...

We wasn't moaning about you singlesv

just asking about dedicated swinging sites. Simples. .. nothing more & nothing less!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However, you guys clearly understand that there is a distinction between the two.... no disrespect intended."

Yes I suppose there is a distinction. Hadn't really thought about it, because it's so interchangeable for us. We'll do both at the same party. Or or sometimes we'll do one or the other depending on our mood. I would hate to have to keep the two separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We was merely asking of there was a site dedicated souly to the morals of swinging, in the same way that Naturists sites/camps are. Our notion of swinging is rather healthy thank you guys... "

What you are asking for is a site which stops anyone who wants to experience anything other than a straight swap with simple straightforward sex ?

Maybe get a hot tub time machine and set it to go back to the sixties !

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?"

Dude only wants to be used as a private toilet.... he's been about 2on this site for over three years.... normally pisses ppl off in the chat rooms. So toilet play don't consist of skat play??? Come on!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"As there's literally tens of thousands of Fab members, then surely you can find someone who's more into what you're into?

Ooh I know of a few naturist clubs where swinging goes on. They even have profiles on this site, even though officially there are for naturists only.

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I would say the vast majority of people here are looking for sex with others, not really kink, BDSM, fet etc. Is that what you mean by "real swingers"? We have never been bound, or gagged, or whipped or beaten on any of our meets. No one has ever even suggested it.

I would say that there is no reason why they nees to be mutually exclusive though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am guessing that what you are looking for may be out there, but won't this scene be continually evolving? Years ago, I understand that people met via adverts in magazines etc and waited for a response. It is much more instant now. I am guessing, people experiment more too, as the internet has opened up that side of things too. The fetish side is less hidden.

We practice both sides, fetish and swinging. We don't expect others we meet here, to be into the BDSM side necessarily. I am sure you can find others who aren't into it anyway. They probably outnumber the ones who are.

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

I haven't come across that profile, but if someone did message me with such suggestions, I would report as offensive.

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Ok fuck it we give up..... bring on the strap & Kinky shot and a bit of swinging too, we don't mind

Seriously though guys, thank you for the opinions.... x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?"

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play..."

Can you stop calling me fella please.

Your lack of knowledge of what fet actually is increasingly obvious. To be honest it just looks like everything that you don't like or that doesn't fit with your narrow view of what swinging is is in your mind fet and therefore bad.

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play...

Can you stop calling me fella please.

No problem, fella... Each to their own. Enjoy your prolapses

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play..."

I am by no means an expert on either scene but I would say there is as much chance of getting prolapse from lots of sex as there is with the fet scene. Feta scene doesn't have to involve penetrative sex after all. People who indulge in watersports could also be interested in the social side of the scene. You do seem to be very anti what you think the fet scene is, op ... from my neutral opinion

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

Again, we have only been swinging for about 18 months, but we have never come across any prolapses.

I think you might be getting a misunderstanding of the site OP.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Again, we have only been swinging for about 18 months, but we have never come across any prolapses.

I think you might be getting a misunderstanding of the site OP. "

Agreed, my partner has been on the fet scene for over twenty years and hasn't either ... we have seen a couple of pictures on here though, but I dont think they are indicative of either scene.

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play...

We merely enquired as to whether there was any dedicated sites to swinging, akin to sites for naturists. X

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

"Again, we have only been swinging for about 18 months, but we have never come across any prolapses.

I think you might be getting a misunderstanding of the site OP.

Agreed, my partner has been on the fet scene for over twenty years and hasn't either ... we have seen a couple of pictures on here though, but I dont think they are indicative of either scene. "

All due respect guys, we may have been looking at different pictures/profiles x

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Again, we have only been swinging for about 18 months, but we have never come across any prolapses.

I think you might be getting a misunderstanding of the site OP.

Agreed, my partner has been on the fet scene for over twenty years and hasn't either ... we have seen a couple of pictures on here though, but I dont think they are indicative of either scene.

All due respect guys, we may have been looking at different pictures/profiles x"

Clearly.

Whilst I know people on here who are fetishists/into BDSM, it is not the focus of the site. The place is literally chock-full of the types of people that you want to meet, so why aren't you meeting them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Again, we have only been swinging for about 18 months, but we have never come across any prolapses.

I think you might be getting a misunderstanding of the site OP.

Agreed, my partner has been on the fet scene for over twenty years and hasn't either ... we have seen a couple of pictures on here though, but I dont think they are indicative of either scene.

All due respect guys, we may have been looking at different pictures/profiles x

Clearly.

I can guess why.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"Again, we have only been swinging for about 18 months, but we have never come across any prolapses.

I think you might be getting a misunderstanding of the site OP.

Agreed, my partner has been on the fet scene for over twenty years and hasn't either ... we have seen a couple of pictures on here though, but I dont think they are indicative of either scene.

All due respect guys, we may have been looking at different pictures/profiles x

Clearly.

I can guess why."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play...

Can you stop calling me fella please.

No problem, fella... Each to their own. Enjoy your prolapses

Okay, I'll humour you. My kinks in the main revolve around, floggers, paddles, spanking, retraints. So what makes you think I am likely to suffer a prolapse? Or do you actually think that every straight bloke at a fet club is going to get fisted at some point?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play...

Can you stop calling me fella please.

No problem, fella... Each to their own. Enjoy your prolapses

Do you think you'll get your prolapse before or after you have your scrotum stapled?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play...

Can you stop calling me fella please.

No problem, fella... Each to their own. Enjoy your prolapses

So you are fetish orientated, this us a swingers site. Why not join fetlife instead??? Only point we was making, separation of fet & swinging, akin to what naturists do!"

I'm on the site that you can't name on here. I go to kink and fet evemts. I have many friends on the fet scene. I go to swingers clubs. I've been on the swinging scene for several years. I've met many of the people on this forum.

So why shouldn't I be on here?

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play...

Can you stop calling me fella please.

No problem, fella... Each to their own. Enjoy your prolapses

So you are fetish orientated, this us a swingers site. Why not join fetlife instead??? Only point we was making, separation of fet & swinging, akin to what naturists do!

So why shouldn't I be on here?

No one is saying you shouldn't be on here, we was only asking if there was a dedicated site for swingers solely... Because this site is a complete mixture which can put individuals off of swinging. Seeing prolapsed bits & bobs lol along with the local toilet slave etc

Each to their own and all that, but if ppk feel that the site should accommodate a distinction between a TV & TS, then surely, by the sheer implied aspect of this being "Fabswingers". The fetish lovers and their extreme pictures and play choices should not be condoned on this site, akin to naturist sites that wont allow sexually explicit acts etc......

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over a year ago

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play...

Can you stop calling me fella please.

No problem, fella... Each to their own. Enjoy your prolapses

So you are fetish orientated, this us a swingers site. Why not join fetlife instead??? Only point we was making, separation of fet & swinging, akin to what naturists do!

So why shouldn't I be on here?

Yiu just quite clearly told me I should be on a fet site instead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play...

Can you stop calling me fella please.

No problem, fella... Each to their own. Enjoy your prolapses

So you are fetish orientated, this us a swingers site. Why not join fetlife instead??? Only point we was making, separation of fet & swinging, akin to what naturists do!

So why shouldn't I be on here?

Your choice of word when you say condone is interesting?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play...

Can you stop calling me fella please.

No problem, fella... Each to their own. Enjoy your prolapses

So you are fetish orientated, this us a swingers site. Why not join fetlife instead??? Only point we was making, separation of fet & swinging, akin to what naturists do!

So why shouldn't I be on here?

They don't allow extreme pictures on her, for example watersports are not allowed ... what you see isn't fet, its just less vanilla swinging than you like or prefer.

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By *oredShitlessxxx OP Couple
over a year ago

luton

Considering one of those kinks isn;t allowed to be discussed on here I really don;t believe for one minute you are encountering it on many profiles.

Trust us, we have fella...

I don't think we've ever come across anyone who is into scat as a kink. Maybe a fake profile?

So 1 profile. ONE profile. Out of how many 10s of thousands?

This isn't the only example fella... We have come across prolapsed anuses & vaginas on this site, which we know don't come from general swinging fun. That's extreme play, more akin to fet play...

Can you stop calling me fella please.

No problem, fella... Each to their own. Enjoy your prolapses

So you are fetish orientated, this us a swingers site. Why not join fetlife instead??? Only point we was making, separation of fet & swinging, akin to what naturists do!

So why shouldn't I be on here?

They don't allow extreme pictures on her, for example watersports are not allowed ... what you see isn't fet, its just less vanilla swinging than you like or prefer."

Damn right... Prolapsed arses and vaginas (massive, huge, dildo's used to do so) is certainly less vanilla swinging than what we are used too lol

completely happy to admit that, infact isn't that called stretching on the fet scene????

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Toilet slaves - just report them. Same for any extreme pics.

24,000 people online just now so theres a fair chance that there is someone for everyone.

You can make contact with people looking for the same thing as you and ignore the ones that arent.

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