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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You get to the stage where you think you have contacted all the women and couples within your chosen area, chosen criteria and yet you find yourself back to square one?

Do I broaden my criteria, expand my search radius or give up and say this isn't for me? lol

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I'm being totally honest here. Has anyone else felt the same or is it just me?

What does one do?

Thanks Peter xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

What do YOU want to do? If you broaden your search criteria what would you compromise on, do you want to give up?

There are always new people joining stick around your ideal meet might be about to sign up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always new people joining

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By *aul DeUther-OneMan
over a year ago

Sussex

Why not try organising a social. - Lots of giid meetings come after a no strings night in a pub or club

Good luck

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales


"Why not try organising a social. - Lots of giid meetings come after a no strings night in a pub or club

Good luck"

Seconded!

On fab you're a profile amongst thousands and have all the disadvantages that that brings. You could be a timewaster or just have fake pics, from a prospective meet's point of view, so more of a potential risk. In a social or a club, you're a walking talking human with a good body so can be sussed out immediately.

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By *rnortholtMan
over a year ago

Waveney Valley

Move to another county/country?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You get to the stage where you think you have contacted all the women and couples within your chosen area, chosen criteria and yet you find yourself back to square one?

Do I broaden my criteria, expand my search radius or give up and say this isn't for me? lol

.

I'm being totally honest here. Has anyone else felt the same or is it just me?

What does one do?

Thanks Peter xx "

why not think about broadening your horizons by extending your search area by 100 miles?

or change your criteria....are you too fussy?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm gonna assume you've changed your mind about meeting when I next visit then. Shame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a similar situation OP, I simply started meeting people further away. I couldn't buy a meet within my 30 mile radius but outside of that its fine.

Ultimately its up to you, change your approach or give up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I don't travel far, usually under 5 miles. I always check out the new ones who have joined

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By *aeriequeenWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

There's always newbies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you feel like doing?

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I can't understand why you are having problems OP. You can accommodate, you are tall, you come across as a lovely guy and your pics are

I think you should stick around. Like people have said organise a social, visit a club or check out the new people joining in your area.

I think your hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You get to the stage where you think you have contacted all the women and couples within your chosen area, chosen criteria and yet you find yourself back to square one?

Do I broaden my criteria, expand my search radius or give up and say this isn't for me? lol

.

NO.... You come and fuck me! Please message me.

I'm being totally honest here. Has anyone else felt the same or is it just me?

What does one do?

Thanks Peter xx "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

There's no doubt that I will stay around as the site definitely has its merits other than just meets.

Changing my distance is something I will look into but I was curious to see if others have encountered the same thing.

I feel uncomfortable messaging profiles that have not expressed interest in the past.

Thanks you all for the comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no doubt that I will stay around as the site definitely has its merits other than just meets.

Changing my distance is something I will look into but I was curious to see if others have encountered the same thing.

I feel uncomfortable messaging profiles that have not expressed interest in the past.

Thanks you all for the comments "

so a glorified 'look at me' post?

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By *r_Lucky1Man
over a year ago

bordon

you must be unlucky ,i find its easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't understand why you are having problems OP. You can accommodate, you are tall, you come across as a lovely guy and your pics are

I think you should stick around. Like people have said organise a social, visit a club or check out the new people joining in your area.

I think your hot "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's no doubt that I will stay around as the site definitely has its merits other than just meets.

Changing my distance is something I will look into but I was curious to see if others have encountered the same thing.

I feel uncomfortable messaging profiles that have not expressed interest in the past.

Thanks you all for the comments

so a glorified 'look at me' post?

"

No! Not at all. I just feel rather stumped right now and wanted to see if others had experienced a similar situation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a good profile & great pictures , just takes time ... And all good things come to those that wait

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said there are always new people joining, it's all very fluid coming / going wise.

Expand search, socials, clubs may produce a bigger network of people too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You get to the stage where you think you have contacted all the women and couples within your chosen area, chosen criteria and yet you find yourself back to square one?

Do I broaden my criteria, expand my search radius or give up and say this isn't for me? lol

.

I'm being totally honest here. Has anyone else felt the same or is it just me?

What does one do?

Thanks Peter xx "

I was afraid that this may be the case for me so I only now message for meet once every 2-3 days , the results can be noted from my profile

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