FabSwingers.com forum: Do you enjoy being restrained and how?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

At times I really enjoy being restrained during sex.

Today I had my hands buckled with a leather belt behind my back. It does things to my mind! I love it.

Are you a fellow participator and what do you use? Or do you do the restraining?

Sarah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife absolutely loves being restrained. I would like her to enjoy trying it with someone else

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

I use silk ties , they don't mark , are very strong and the straining noise of the taut silk under great tension makes an unmistakeable sensual sound . Especially when the lady is blindfolded and her other senses are hightened .

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

"My wife absolutely loves being restrained. I would like her to enjoy trying it with someone else "
She can try it with me , I am a short boat ride away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Partner loves it she goes wild !

But better when it's blindfold and you use different methods to excite ie ?

Hot and cold

Different textures ?

Or even a spank your touch when they are not expecting it ?

Have used hand cuffs ! Rope and silk or even just used my hands to stop her moving ?

Hope you enjoy

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My wife absolutely loves being restrained. I would like her to enjoy trying it with someone else She can try it with me , I am a short boat ride away.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Partner loves it she goes wild !

But better when it's blindfold and you use different methods to excite ie ?

Hot and cold

Different textures ?

Or even a spank your touch when they are not expecting it ?

Have used hand cuffs ! Rope and silk or even just used my hands to stop her moving ?

Hope you enjoy "

I enjoy a blindfold, hot & cold, leather handcuffs that clip together and rope. Not all at the same time though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cayley absolutely loves being restrained by pretty much anything

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By *otwifeSizeQueenWoman
over a year ago

city centre

I love getting restrained by a guy holding my throat as his throat fucks me until the point I'm gagging, which usually in turn means at the same time when a guys fucking me the force of chocking pushes his cock out. Oops was that to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love being restrained, even more when I've got my hood on and I don't know what's coming next. Teasing and sucking and at Billy's mercy.

We generally use under bed restraints.

Poppy x

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I love the feeling of being restrained. Someone tried their rope skills out on me not so long ago and it was amazing. Cuffs are good but sometimes you can't beat a strong pair of hands holding you tight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to be but my lover is too restrained!

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

I really enjoy being restrained. Mostly use either leather cuffs or metal handcuffs.

Have been spread-eagled and tied with rope & blindfolded at a party, that was an amazing evening.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I want to be but my lover is too restrained!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I really enjoy being restrained. Mostly use either leather cuffs or metal handcuffs.

Have been spread-eagled and tied with rope & blindfolded at a party, that was an amazing evening.

Sounds like it was. I forgot to say I've not met a man on here yet that will let me tie them up

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

Rope, cuffs, hands, collar and lead, verbal instructions (when I get back upstairs I expect you to be in such a position. Don't you dare move or look at me when you hear me come in. Until I tell you to. Lush!). I once had my hands tied behind my back to my own laceup dress. Excellent improvisation. My absolute favourite is a belt though. Can be used in all sorts of ways...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I really enjoy being restrained. Mostly use either leather cuffs or metal handcuffs.

Have been spread-eagled and tied with rope & blindfolded at a party, that was an amazing evening.

Sounds like it was. I forgot to say I've not met a man on here yet that will let me tie them up

I bet your in box will be full of willing guys now.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I want to be but my lover is too restrained!

You're on a roll today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes please love being tied up and fucked the last session me and my master had he tied me up and cut all my clothes off me used my body and then sent me home with me just wearing a coat

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By *aid AndreaTV/TS
over a year ago

yorkshire

i would love to be bound to a medical style chair with my legs fastened in stirrups and panties off for full access, oh and gagged too.

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

Much prefer to be the one restraining than being restrained although to be fair I've been restrained on more than one occasion. Silk scarves, his silk tie, a pair of leather cuffs, a blindfold and headphones.... endless fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Rope, cuffs, hands, collar and lead, verbal instructions (when I get back upstairs I expect you to be in such a position. Don't you dare move or look at me when you hear me come in. Until I tell you to. Lush!). I once had my hands tied behind my back to my own laceup dress. Excellent improvisation. My absolute favourite is a belt though. Can be used in all sorts of ways..."

Sounds great and I agree verbal instructions are definitely hot at times.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Much prefer to be the one restraining than being restrained although to be fair I've been restrained on more than one occasion. Silk scarves, his silk tie, a pair of leather cuffs, a blindfold and headphones.... endless fun

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Never thought of headphones. Good idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never thought of headphones. Good idea! "

Blindfolded and headphones in is an amazing experience.. lost in the music, not knowing then the touch is coming...

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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago

Lichfield

Oh yes. We love it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it makes me feel safe. I use the seat belt provided.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Partner loves it she goes wild !

But better when it's blindfold and you use different methods to excite ie ?

Hot and cold

Different textures ?

Or even a spank your touch when they are not expecting it ?

Have used hand cuffs ! Rope and silk or even just used my hands to stop her moving ?

Hope you enjoy "
this is what I enjoy to light but very restricting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it. Handcuffs. Silk scarves. Blindfolds. Underbed restraints...

I love the abandonment of control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really enjoy being restrained. Mostly use either leather cuffs or metal handcuffs.

Have been spread-eagled and tied with rope & blindfolded at a party, that was an amazing evening.

Sounds like it was. I forgot to say I've not met a man on here yet that will let me tie them up

I bet your in box will be full of willing guys now.

Haha, I wanted to but I'm too young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use silk ties , they don't mark , are very strong and the straining noise of the taut silk under great tension makes an unmistakeable sensual sound . Especially when the lady is blindfolded and her other senses are hightened .

I've silk ties with ostrich feather ends ..plus silk blindfold to match...I like your style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like to be restrained/tied up.

I do have a bad habit of breaking them though. Im a struggler

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By *ouble_The_DelightCouple
over a year ago

Wakefield

i love being restrained in rope bondage, either on the bed, floor or having sex whilst suspended from the ceiling in our playroom, lots of fun to be had.

karen

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By *asokittyWoman
over a year ago

Nr Worksop

Restrained, beaten choked and fucked. ...yes please!

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By *obwithkiltMan
over a year ago

Belton

I once had a lost weekend where I was introduced to various things

one was my hands being tied up with a silk scarf and blindfolded then 'tortured' for ages...then we swapped

ahhh it was amazing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is something very primal and carnal about a belt or just hands

Ropes are good and beeng a sailor i have a few

It depends on your mood...rough and hard or gentle and sensual.

You cant 'beat' a bit of spanking to go with it

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By *ightboy69Man
over a year ago

Torquay

Just bought a spreader bar and anal hook , this should be fun

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By *ecretlyASoftieWoman
over a year ago

Hull but travel regularly

Love being restrained, rope is great but some strong hands and arms...yum

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By *ali 69Man
over a year ago

jersey

I've silk ties with ostrich feather ends ..plus silk blindfold to match...I like your style

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once secured and blindfolded , I like to preceed to my exquisite torture of her clit with my tongue . Once she has come her clit is beautifully sensitive and then I can really go to work . Each stroke of my tongue on her very tender clit feels ( I have been told ) light lightening shooting straight through her . I am begged to stop and the noise of straining silk and screams fills the room and it is music to my ears . I ignore her cries and carry on feasting .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love doing clingfilm or pallet wrap mummification. Add a blindfold and headphones or a nice hood and it is a beautiful headspace for the recipient. It also means that when you later expose nipples or other sensitive parts and play with them it can be deliciously intense.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago

Lichfield

"Love being restrained, rope is great but some strong hands and arms...yum

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Tie or be tied love it all have loads of real leather gear gags chastity cage.

Hood in leather

Hoods in latex

Cuffs

Shackles

Floggers

Paddles

Spare room looks like a back street sex shop

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

Restrained and blindfolded then edged til I beg

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

Frisky has a rubber collar and cuffs. She likes to have her hands strapped to the collar, a blindfold and a nose clip.

Sometimes we add an anal hook tied to her hair or the collar.

Then I bend her over a full bath and hold her head under.

Then add a dildo or vibrator. It would make it easier to have a helper, so one of us can control Frisky and the other use the toys, whips etc...but obviously that is a big trust issue...

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By *onbons_xxMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Restrainer and restrainee

Rope, ties, leather belts and cuffs, all have different feels, textures and uses

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By *odramafunCouple
over a year ago

Derbyshire/staffordshire

Love to be restrained, happy to try anything but particularly liked using cable ties

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

The common 'tied to the bed' is good.

Hubby made the leg spreaders we use, I love them

Hubby chains my ankles and wrists together behind me which is excellent. I can't move at all and hubby can do what he wants which is a turn on for us both.

Blindfolded, leg spreaders, ballgag and neck brace and I'm in heaven

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once tried this when I visited a mature 67yr old Gentleman. After a pleasant cup of tea and chat he asked me if I was ready. Much to my surprise he produced a blindfold and leather/chain wrist restraints. I was very nervous but took the risk and found myself blindfolded and restrained.

He slowly led me upstairs and took me to a room where he untied my wrists which reassured and told me to strip, which I did. He then assisted me still blindfolded to lay on my back on a bed. He informed me he was going to secure my wrists and ankles to the bed. The heavy sound of the chain restraints was both exciting and frightening, by the time my wrists and ankles were secure my cock was so hard I wished I could have seen it.

The next hour the very clever old man did some incredible things to my body. All I can say it was an amazing experience.

Followed by tea and a tour of his lovely garden. I visited another three times after that and was treated to similar scenarios each time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just bought a spreader bar and anal hook , this should be fun "

Oh they are! Tie the anal hook to a rope - then the rope to the ladies hair! When she moves her head she'll get a little surprise!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just bought a spreader bar and anal hook , this should be fun

Oh they are! Tie the anal hook to a rope - then the rope to the ladies hair! When she moves her head she'll get a little surprise!

That should have been a happy smile face! Doh! X

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

this..fave is rope or mix of rope and leather though x

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By *enninemarkMan
over a year ago

huddersfield/manchester

I love being restrained. Only tried spreadeagled on a bed so far. Would love to try other variations. Can't beat being tied and teased, with a bit of moderate pain skilfully thrown in. Also love to be face sat.

Would love a fem or couple to help me explore further!

I'd also like to join a sub Dom couple and help the Master with his tied sub!

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By *ave mesmersMan
over a year ago

dudley

My gf likes being held or pinned down by other females whilst shes being fucked

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

Neil tied me up last night - wrists bound to ankles, ass in the air, and he fucked my ass till he came. I love being tied up, not being able to control how he fucks me, drives me nuts!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My gf likes being held or pinned down by other females whilst shes being fucked"

That is particularly hot

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By *ave mesmersMan
over a year ago

dudley

"My gf likes being held or pinned down by other females whilst shes being fucked

That is particularly hot

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It is especially if the fem calls her names or encourages her to cum it usually makes her go into multiple orgasms . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it and I have a favourite pair of cuffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love it, we have cuffs of varying sorts, silk ties and under the bed restrains. Once it warms up outside will be using the zip ties for convenience too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and a spreader bar, can't wait to get one of those sorted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there any one near me who wants restraining?

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

No I don't like the idea of being restrained,I want to be free to move

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By *onah10Man
over a year ago

birmingham

any form of restraint always adds to the intensity in the mind of a play session combined with lots of other implements of pleasure and pain of course

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By *atexpvcTV/TS
over a year ago

chester/Merseyside

I find it so erotic being slowly restrained.collared..and then maybe a hood to take away the sense of sight complete darkness wondering what will happen next..the mind working overtime.will they or won't they???

The caressing of my skin begins no way back now???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the idea, its something i would never do though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I absolutely love being restrained, even more when I've got my hood on and I don't know what's coming next. Teasing and sucking and at Billy's mercy.

We generally use under bed restraints.

Poppy x"

Could you recommend some that won't break the bank

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

Not really, no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being restrained by Mr SnT, I was tied to the bed and a chair last night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be restrained yet to find a woman that will do it to me though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes with someone I trust, enjoy being restrained just with force or with cuffs/ tape/rope etc. Doesn't really matter how it's the intense feeling when it's happening

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can buy them from lovehoney and you'd get a discount using the link from here, we just tend to use rope. We did get some ankle and wrist restraints as well which are good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Yes.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Jayne loves it, started off just improvising, using old stockings etc, but soon graduated to cuffs, so many different variations can be achieved, she loves to be hog-tied.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Oh, and btw, if you are going to use tights or stockings, always have a stout pair of scissors (or, even better, some paramedics scissors, made for the removal of clothes etc!) to cut them off with, for when your mother calls round unexpectedly and you are erm.... playing in the living room!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being restrained in different ways, cuffs, rope, being pinned to the bed to having a cock shoved down my throat till I can't breath, it's the loss of control, being told what to do, total escapism, it's great

I have restrained a couple of different men, I find it quite a turn on to do too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love having my hands restrained behind my back. My. Feet 2. Face down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. I have some underbed ankle and wrist Velcro ones that have seen a lot of use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tying and being tied. Lush.

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By *ice rideMan
over a year ago

solihull

"I'd love to be restrained yet to find a woman that will do it to me though

The restrained bit is not always the sexual bit. It's the loss of movement and teased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love having my hands restrained behind my back. My. Feet 2. Face down

I'd love to do that to you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cable tied one of my friends. Both hands together and both feet together then cable tied hands to feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it but only with someone I trust. I like a guy to be in control of me, telling me what to do etc. Being restrained and blindfolded does things to my mind and being teased is a very horny experience. I've just bought a Hitachi Belt... Utter Torture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love restraints, cable ties, rope, scarf, cuffs. Ropes being my favourite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love restraints, cable ties, rope, scarf, cuffs. Ropes being my favourite

Good you like cable ties as not a lot of people like them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it but only with someone I trust. I like a guy to be in control of me, telling me what to do etc. Being restrained and blindfolded does things to my mind and being teased is a very horny experience. I've just bought a Hitachi Belt... Utter Torture

What's a hitachi belt? Off to google!!

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

That belt looks good...

Had Frisky tied to a car park fence last weekend. Invited a trusted friend but didn'the tell her I had also invited another guy.

Being tied up and blind folded when the new guy took her to her limits of comfort as she thought he was just a random guy that had stumbled across us...

The next day she said she wished she had been braver and more adventurous...lol

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