FabSwingers.com forum: Club advice for a single male

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all I'm thinking of attending a club which is something I have never done before, so my questions are

what should I expect?

What should I wear?

How should I act?

And what do I do once there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear a pair of yfronts then have sex it's must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jan ur a card!!!

most clubs have websites, have a look, dress code and etiquete will be on there

xxx

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By *icksfocusMan
over a year ago

Pontefract

depends which club you are going to, have a look at clubs tab as that tells you a lot. whatever you do, dont think that fun is guarenteed. dont just sit there talk to people introduce your self and dont go following people to play rooms unless invited. may take you a couple of visits to get lucky but non pushy males are the most popular. good luck

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Whatever you are comfortable in...

Relax..

Only involve yourself in play if invited.

Don't follow fems/ couples around... looks desperate.

No means No.

Steer clear of alchohol.

Have fun...... and a great time

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Ps... Introduce yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be yourself and relax and have fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the advice, most admit I'm a bit nervous about it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its a normal swing club smart never old jeans ... love men in really nice shurts like all black can be sexy like white can be too under club lights and maybe black jeans .. if its a swing club like chams you have to be in towel or boxers ... just relax and go with the flow of the evening and have fun xx Good fun meeting new people xx

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"Thanks for the advice, most admit I'm a bit nervous about it lol"

everyone was their 1st time....

if play happens it happens... soak up the atmosphere & network... and get yourself known.

good luck dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when i was single years ago and i used to go to clubs on my own i would just make sure i was well groomed and and decent sexy underwear

and like some have said dont be pushy and dont follow as thats soooooo annoying for cpls and wont get you nowhere

i used to go to clube where the dress coad was just underwear or towel

so i was happy as i loooooovvvvvveee to get naked xxxxx

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!

As everyone else has said plus ... don`t expect anything to happen! If it does then it`s a bonus!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me personally, if a gent touches me first without so much a hi and some form of conversation, then it is a no no for me.

Therefore, I would advise striking up a conversation first to break the ice, and then go with the flow.

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By *ortheastcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

easington were the sun dont shine

what should I expect? = place full of swingers

What should I wear?= man u top and wellys

How should I act? = tap dance and sing song

And what do I do once there?= stay away from strapons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And check with the club before hand some have waiting lists foe single guys or get on the guest list for party night fems got one coming up 1st May

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By *eighleedsMan
over a year ago

leeds

and in addition if you happen to be looking to play with part of a couple, talk to the other half as well, niot just the one you are interested in,

that goes a long long way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just treat it as you would a normal club night mate, be chatty and sociable and take it from there. If any fun happens all the better, but if it doesn't its still possible to have a good night!

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By *unlovers2009Couple
over a year ago

chester

"and in addition if you happen to be looking to play with part of a couple, talk to the other half as well, niot just the one you are interested in,

that goes a long long way"

Totally agree with this ... remember the guys has as much of a say about who does his mrs as the mrs!!

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By *ohnsusCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

"and in addition if you happen to be looking to play with part of a couple, talk to the other half as well, niot just the one you are interested in,

that goes a long long way

Totally agree with this ... remember the guys has as much of a say about who does his mrs as the mrs!!"

Would definitely agree that you should talk to both in the couple not just the one. It's not about having a say about who plays with mrs as ultimately its her decision, but more about feeling they see you as a couple not just the one with tits plus one !

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By *rs WhiteCouple
over a year ago

South

"depends which club you are going to, have a look at clubs tab as that tells you a lot. whatever you do, dont think that fun is guarenteed. dont just sit there talk to people introduce your self and dont go following people to play rooms unless invited. may take you a couple of visits to get lucky but non pushy males are the most popular. good luck"

Speaking for ourselves only, we agree with this advice. Don't follow us about with a look of defeat on your face, give us a chance to get into it before trying to "jump in" and you'll be fine.

also, again, talk to us in a social environment and you stand more chance when we start playing. good luck!

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