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"Often I get a reply from someone on here and they seem genuinely interested. I reply to them answering a question normally but never hear from them again. What is going on? i don't think that what I replied with is the issue." They realised you're a banker. | |||
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"Depends what the replies are, a hot young man messaged me this week and all I got was one and two word replies, I thought if he can't make the effort neither can I " I got exactly this, messaged a woman, she said she found me attractive etc and it was like pulling teeth getting any conversation from her, so I pulled the plug on it, either she's a boring bugger or she wasn't that into me, either way no point continuing. OP it depends what you're saying really, hard to say where you're going wrong without any kind of example...but maybe have a look at what you put and imagine you'd received it along with about 50 other messages in the last hour. Is it worth taking the time to respond? | |||
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"Often I get a reply from someone on here and they seem genuinely interested. I reply to them answering a question normally ...." If ALL you're doing in your second message is answering a question, this isn't a good thing. You need to say something more open-ended, to keep the conversation going. As you're writing your second message, ask yourself what reply you're hoping to get to that message. I find that too many men treat Fab like a bad job interview, only answering the question, not volunteering any information ... basically waiting to be 'accepted' or 'rejected'. I fear that some of them are actually afraid to let their personality shine through, in case they inadvertently say something that is a turn-off. So they err on the side of saying nothing. But this gives the recipient no 'hook' to keep the conversation going, it's easier to just let the correspondence fade away. | |||
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"Are they couples? Because one might like you, and the other might not. " | |||
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"Often I get a reply from someone on here and they seem genuinely interested. I reply to them answering a question normally but never hear from them again. What is going on? i don't think that what I replied with is the issue." Happens to everyone fish and chip newspaper has a longer lifespan | |||
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"Believe me I do try hard but not too hard to appear pushy. I think a lot of females on here are just browsing with no real interest in actually meeting " That's funny because that's what a couple in a thread on here this evening have said about single men | |||
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"Believe me I do try hard but not too hard to appear pushy. I think a lot of females on here are just browsing with no real interest in actually meeting " That's probably true to a point, but not in the way you think. In a year and a half we've only met 6 men privately. With repeat meets and parties that we like to go to, that's more than enough to be getting on with. So yes, we are on the whole only browsing, with no real interest in meeting. But we are active swingers, who do meet new men from time to time, so nobody can say we are no using Fab as it is intended. | |||
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"Often I get a reply from someone on here and they seem genuinely interested. I reply to them answering a question normally but never hear from them again. What is going on? i don't think that what I replied with is the issue." Change banker to baker and offers will flood in | |||
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"Believe me I do try hard but not too hard to appear pushy. I think a lot of females on here are just browsing with no real interest in actually meeting " it may be to do with your profile but as you haven't asked for help with it I cant comment | |||
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"Believe me I do try hard but not too hard to appear pushy. I think a lot of females on here are just browsing with no real interest in actually meeting it may be to do with your profile but as you haven't asked for help with it I cant comment " You just did comment.... | |||
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