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What's wrong with my profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK, i give in. I have tried to get my profile right but it doesn't seem to work.

I have swinging experience from years back but nothing since then and i would really like to have some fun with a couple.

Can anyone suggest ways in which i could improve my profile because i'm clearly doing something (or lots of things) wrong.

Thanks in advance.

V

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having just one pic on show which is of your cock is off-putting.

Also, anyone who says I will be very satisfied if I meet them I would give a wide berth to.

You cannot guarantee that you will satisfy me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

LOadsa time wasters on here fella don't think too much bout it..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK made some changes, anything else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your cock is shoved in a recipients face every time you message them, it puts many women off. I personally don't even click on profiles with cock profile pics, nice torso shot or face gets my attention to look further.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

There are countless threads offering generic profile advice in the archives, they all say the same things,

Only you can personalise it.

Happy reading

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By *ampara2Woman
over a year ago

biggleswade


"Your cock is shoved in a recipients face every time you message them, it puts many women off. I personally don't even click on profiles with cock profile pics, nice torso shot or face gets my attention to look further."
and hairy cock pics aint attractive yuck

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Profile pic is a cock shot, wouldn't click further

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

OK changed the pics now as well.

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

So I saw your avatar (a couple) then realised you were a single man.

Wouldn't even look as far as your profile because of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And Put the toilet seat down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You also have a previous meet in one of your pics which some find off putting for discretion reasons thinking is she aware a pic of her is on here and if I met this guy would pics of our meet appear on his profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OK, i give in. I have tried to get my profile right but it doesn't seem to work.

I have swinging experience from years back but nothing since then and i would really like to have some fun with a couple.

Can anyone suggest ways in which i could improve my profile because i'm clearly doing something (or lots of things) wrong.

Thanks in advance.

V

x"

The text is reasonable. It is not awful but doesn't really show any personality or stand out from the (large) crowd. You do refer twice to a big endowment which is not a great tactic (or evidenced).

Your photos do need to be revised. A hairy cock will not be for everyone. A toilet in the background will be for no one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd hate to ask about mine lol ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd hate to ask about mine lol ??

"

Don't then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Changes being made! lol

This is nothing like years ago when contact mags were used to place and respond to profiles.

Writing all those letters, buying all those stamps for those self addressed envelopes.

Mind you, back then if you weren't serious you didn't do it so results were a bit better than in the internet age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

any better now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sort the pics for a start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

best advice is to sort the problem your self and not ask advice after all your profile is about you and none of us know you as for people saying ditch the cock pics just remember there are as many people on here who like cock pics as there are that don't ..you'll never win simple as....

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

I don't think your profile text does anything to make you stand out. I appreciate that you have already taken on board what others have already said and changed your pics but the woman in your avatar picture looks like she is trying to escape your clutches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

profile pic has someone else in it...and seeing as you have no verifications...its obviously not someone you met on here.. confusing

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Hi OP, I haven't looked but just as a tip. Be wary of modelling your profile so much to what you think people are looking for that you end up describing someone that isn't you.

If the outcome is you, great, but don't feel you have to confirm to some standard to fit in. If everyone did that we'd end up with practically the same genric profile.

As weird as it may seem, people out there like different things so there's bound to be a couple if people you appeal to. Re trick is finding them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi OP, I haven't looked but just as a tip. Be wary of modelling your profile so much to what you think people are looking for that you end up describing someone that isn't you.

If the outcome is you, great, but don't feel you have to confirm to some standard to fit in. If everyone did that we'd end up with practically the same genric profile.

As weird as it may seem, people out there like different things so there's bound to be a couple if people you appeal to. Re trick is finding them."

well said

swinging is for all not just the clicky few

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it hard to say what i like in my profile because there are so many things i like!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have no pics now, it's a waiting game for single guys, you turn may come, be patient fella

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"any better now?"

Compare your profile and success rate with Ahabs above and learn. (Ahabs, we are not attracted to you by the way, but understand why you are successful).

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok changed my profile now.

Do you think i should mention that i love giving facials and girls who make it messy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe not to you. Each to their own. - Hair is natural and very masculine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok changed my profile now.

Do you think i should mention that i love giving facials and girls who make it messy?"

Change your face photo back to a cock photo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like the fact that someone thinks hair is masculine. I have to admit i prefer a hairy pussy to a bald one anyday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Change my face photo back to a cock photo? I messaged you when i had a cock photo and it got me nowhere! I just can't win can i? lol

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