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It's only fair isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That if guy's ask the lady in their lives or encourage them to have some bi fun.

Then guy's should be prepared to do the same, surely?

But ultimately if the lady does its because she wants to and not doing it for him.

And vice versa?

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By *epper123Woman
over a year ago

London

I swing alone and with my partner. Most of our bi swinging we do alone .... and for ourselves, not for each other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how 'encouraging' the gentleman has been. No one should be pushed out of their comfort zone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never meet a women who has been asked by their to have some bi fun I, I'd want them to make their own mind up as to whether they want to or not, not be there under pressure, and the same would swing for a male in the same position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Marc has never asked me to play with women. I have sex with women because I find them sexually attractive. In that same light I would never ask Marc to play with men. He isn't into it, and I respect that. I'll watch it on porn, instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That if guy's ask the lady in their lives or encourage them to have some bi fun.

Then guy's should be prepared to do the same, surely?

But ultimately if the lady does its because she wants to and not doing it for him.

And vice versa?

"

Yes and yes and yes again

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's good when both halves of the couple are bisexual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's good for the gander. I think all men should have a male lover at least once in their lives.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's good when both halves of the couple are bisexual "

Well watch this space,we are both going to be experimenting soon

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"It's good when both halves of the couple are bisexual

Well watch this space,we are both going to be experimenting soon "

You can experiment with me (but no tubes or insertions or probes or psychological tests)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone need help? We even have some probes

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

We'll I think it fair I know I'm straight but this lady asked me if she let me watch her would I let her watch me with a guy . I said IDE try but she liked being with ladies n was not a bodar to her but me it would b my first time .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its respect x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's good when both halves of the couple are bisexual

Well watch this space,we are both going to be experimenting soon "

What? Really?

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

It wouldnt make me go bi ,you have to do what you want ,rather than what you think pleases someine else.miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the wife likes playing with other ladies but i have no interest in other guys and thats how its going to stay

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Why?

Some people have a natural attraction to the same sex, while others have a natural revulsion sexually - it's totally unreasonable that one member of a couple should do something they don't like simply to match what the other is doing. Swinging is about enjoyment not endurance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why?

Some people have a natural attraction to the same sex, while others have a natural revulsion sexually - it's totally unreasonable that one member of a couple should do something they don't like simply to match what the other is doing. Swinging is about enjoyment not endurance. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why?

Some people have a natural attraction to the same sex, while others have a natural revulsion sexually - it's totally unreasonable that one member of a couple should do something they don't like simply to match what the other is doing. Swinging is about enjoyment not endurance. "

Well until recently I never knew that I liked humus, now I love it.

Point being, until you try something how do you know that you won't like it?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Why?

Some people have a natural attraction to the same sex, while others have a natural revulsion sexually - it's totally unreasonable that one member of a couple should do something they don't like simply to match what the other is doing. Swinging is about enjoyment not endurance.

Well until recently I never knew that I liked humus, now I love it.

Point being, until you try something how do you know that you won't like it? "

Humus is a matter of taste. Sex is about attraction. Some people are turned on by the thought of sex with same sex, others find the thought a total turn off. Why should they "try it to see if they like it" for the sake of it when the very idea revolts them? Were you revolted by the idea of humus? I guess not because you tried it. Would you feel the same about trying, say, a live slug? Probably not because most people find just the thought revolting

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By *andA84Couple
over a year ago

Weeley

I've got no inclination to do anything with another man, Amy only plays with other girls because she enjoys it...

I wouldn't share her with another man either... And i didn't particularly want to be shared, it is Amy's kink to watch me with another girl (I wasn't comfortable with that idea initially, yeah yeah, tell me how I shouldn't moan and feel blessed and lucky, but not something I'd ever done before)

But I wouldn't get off with another guy just cause she gets off with girls, that's her free will and choice...

Xx P

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why?

Some people have a natural attraction to the same sex, while others have a natural revulsion sexually - it's totally unreasonable that one member of a couple should do something they don't like simply to match what the other is doing. Swinging is about enjoyment not endurance.

Well until recently I never knew that I liked humus, now I love it.

Point being, until you try something how do you know that you won't like it?

Humus is a matter of taste. Sex is about attraction. Some people are turned on by the thought of sex with same sex, others find the thought a total turn off. Why should they "try it to see if they like it" for the sake of it when the very idea revolts them? Were you revolted by the idea of humus? I guess not because you tried it. Would you feel the same about trying, say, a live slug? Probably not because most people find just the thought revolting "

Well that's just fine then.

Don't go eating any slugs!

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