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Are single males welcome to clubs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've never been to a swingers club but I'd like to check one out, just to get a taste of things. I'm a 23 year old single male, looking for somewhere in the Swindon/Wiltshire area x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes, high revenue

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

Yes - I certainly enjoy having single men at a club - but only if they are polite and not pushy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I most likely wouldn't even do anything for my first visit, I'd just like to check it out and see how things go

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.


"I most likely wouldn't even do anything for my first visit, I'd just like to check it out and see how things go"

That's a good approach to have. Just in case your unaware, most clubs require you to be a member and also only allow single men in on certain nights. So just don't turn up and expect to get in. Do your research before hand before hand by checking out the clubs website.

It probably might be an idea to start off by going to a social that's being held at a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes, high revenue"

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Yes, just be polite, sociable and don't stand in the corner wanking. Make an effort to chat to people and have fun and you'll be fine

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Yes...just check that it's not a couples only night.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Yes, just be polite, sociable and don't stand in the corner wanking. Make an effort to chat to people and have fun and you'll be fine"

I would go as a single female - can I stand and wank ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course, I won't attend a club unless single guys are welcome as well. Not saying I will play with them but I like inclusivity so prefer all are welcome. As said above some clubs only allow single men on certain nights , and who are members or booked in so find a.club you would like to try and message them first to find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single male attending a club (well I was until the Mrs wanted to join me! Haha) all I can say is go with no intention to do anything, it can be a frightening place first time round!

Do your homework, find out about what you want from a club and if they allow single men in (most do) also speak to people, make friends and just be yourself.

Treat the experience as a nightclub with some sexy differences, you may see some ladies/couples/men in their underwear or even naked, but that does not give you the go ahead to do anything, ALWAYS ask first, and if you get a polite 'no thanks' respect the person and leave them be.

Don't drink too much either, you want to remember the experience

Have fun in whatever you do, and good luck in choosing the right club for you.

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By *adyboy-DaddyCouple
over a year ago

Andover

Your in the right area.

Touch Sauna in Swindon is a gay Sauna in Swindon that holds an event on the first and third Friday if the month called Remix.

It's a swingers meeting open to everyone.

Relaxed atmosphere and a lounge you can chill out in and see how you get on.

Google touch sauna remix for info.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London


"Yes, just be polite, sociable and don't stand in the corner wanking. Make an effort to chat to people and have fun and you'll be fine

I would go as a single female - can I stand and wank ? "

Only if your happy to attract an even bigger crowd of wankers...

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