FabSwingers.com forum: is it me? making the next move.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There have been times where I have actually had a message back from a female or couples but after a few messages the conversation seems to fizzles out. Sometime I think it might be me as I am not experienced I may have miss things, maybe they were waiting for me to make the first move.

If a single male were messaging a female or a couple and they chattered for awhile and have talked about what they would like to do, then who should take it further and discuss whether they should meet up for fun? Should the single male take the lead?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't ask, you don't get. Just don't be pushy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If you don't ask, you don't get. Just don't be pushy

Good advice, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had women where the spark just has not been there. Though I find a LOT of the women I have talked to are just plain lazy dending one liners back and not picking up the conversation. One even had the nerve to have a go about wm"her wasted effort" when I got bored and didn't bother replying to her "haha yeah" (thats all she put) to my well thought out, saucy message laced with a few questions. Dont sweat it pql!

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By *LUFFER200Man
over a year ago

North Devon

There are an awful lot of timewasters on here, persistence pays off but you have to put up with the wasters to get through to the real fun people.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

i'm still trying to work this out myself. esp. the one-line replies...

i suspect women just seek out whoever they want to........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another good example just now. Conversation flowing, send a face pic with a longish message, convo dies flat. Then another message complimenting her pics and a couple of questions... reply is "ha ty" - can't win them all. Or any of them...

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

If they're interested enough it won't fizzle out but also they may be playing it cool not to look too eager, rubbish technique I think, I just say what I mean

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another good example just now. Conversation flowing, send a face pic with a longish message, convo dies flat. Then another message complimenting her pics and a couple of questions... reply is "ha ty" - can't win them all. Or any of them...

They're being polite.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Definitely just being polite. We've been messaged before by guys who, despite being told in our first reply that we won't be meeting them, continue to push for either a meet or for private pics. And if we don't reply, we'll usually get a few more messages along the lines of 'did you get my last message? Hello?'

Also - if you message them and they stop replying then you're the one wasting your time, not them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're being polite."

WHOOSH! Point went over your head there huh..?

My point was, sometimes things fizzle out, when the conversation drops off, it drops off, and to not worry about it. Yes I know they are being polite, thank you for the clarification. But a lack of interest is exactly that, for whatever reason. As per my first post

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