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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey fabbers,

I'm finding it hard keeping in touch with some people I chat to on here. We message back and forth and are getting on great, then the person goes offline.

After that because ladies get a lot of messages, you get lost in the flood of new ones and the convo dies. Then new messages that get sent are also lost, plus don't wanna pester all the time with new messages as it's annoying.

Is there any tips on getting round this? I use kik and what's app but can't really ask for those in the first couple of messages!

Help!

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

If they wanted to keep in touch I'm sure they would make the effort.

Set your messages free like a dove, If it comes back to you, then it was meant to be. If it doesn't, it never was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As the poster above said, if someone was interested they would keep the conversation going. Don't stress about it my lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if they go offline then make sure to message them again when they're online. just the once is fine, if it pisses them off they can block you or tell you so.

it could be they don't want to keep in touch but if they're like me then they could be chatting to loads of guys and it's hard to keep track of everyone - so not messaging back is not always a sign of no interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just realised you said new messages get lost also...if you sent them when they was online then you either weren't memorable to them or they don't wanna chat yeah. oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the exact same case with 1 or 2 ladies. I sent a new one when they were back online but they didn't answer the strange thing is that she did accept a friend invite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happens. But as people have already stated; if they are interested then they will make an effort to stay in touch

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