FabSwingers.com forum: Low confident

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all fabbers

My wife she is beatiful and love her more than anything. We started swinging few months ago met some nice single guys and couples. now she is saying don't want to swing anymore coz of her saggy boobs which I personally love them. I just have took some pics and uploaded them for you guys to see what you think. Please be honest to comment and we will take any criticism.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very brave

They look fine to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all fabbers

She has lovely breasts, and what is more you personally love them, but did you ask her permission before posting? If she is self-conscious about them, that might not have been the greatest plan..

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Why is her confidence low and what is she doing to improve it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Nothing wrong there (.)(.)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saggy boobs = sign of womanhood in my humble opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your wifes breasts are spectacular!!! Mrs A x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think they look great. If I had boobs like that I'd always be showing them off

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

She has lovely breast and far from saggy, mine are.

She need something to build her confidence.. Work out what that could be and go from there.

But most of all respect her wishes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they look great. If I had boobs like that I'd always be showing them off

I'd play with them all day and never leave the house

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Hi all fabbers

How is asking for any criticism going to help someone with confidence issues?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they look great. If I had boobs like that I'd always be showing them off

I'd play with them all day and never leave the house "
I'm trying to play with my boobs now it's just not the same

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Doesn't matter how many people tell her on here they are a great she won't believe it and accept them until she's ready to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys for the feedback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her I said to stfu - they are lovely. End of.

Even the most busted tittehz is nice tittehz. FACT.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those breasts are magnificant!

hope you had permission from her to post

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Hi all fabbers

While I'm sure that you did this thread with the best intentions. Im not sure it was a good idea, asking for honest comments and criticism could led her to feel worse or more self conscious.

Most of us have bits that we don't like or are conscious of. I know we both do.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"Doesn't matter how many people tell her on here they are a great she won't believe it and accept them until she's ready to. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she doesn't want to swing, she doesn't want to.

Also, I really hope you asked her permission before posting those photos. Personally, I'd be pretty ticked off if someone posted photos of me on the internet if I was insecure about the photos they were posting.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

They look perfectly fine to me, more than fine infact

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Those breasts are magnificant!

hope you had permission from her to post"

I never do anything without her permission.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If she doesn't want to swing, she doesn't want to.

I did have her permission. The only reason for not wanting to play is coz of her breast.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Doesn't matter how many people tell her on here they are a great she won't believe it and accept them until she's ready to. "

This

I do hope you asked her if it was OK to post the pictures

Are you sure it's just about her boobs..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they look fabulous - id be more concernedd that you are posting this here especially as shes saying no longer interested

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"If she doesn't want to swing, she doesn't want to.

I did have her permission. The only reason for not wanting to play is coz of her breast. "

Maybe step back from asking people to comment on your partners breasts and have a long chat with each other about how you can work on her confidence together then have another think about swinging. Good luck to you both.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

%100 is her breast she doesn't like. Otherwise we won't be here if she didn't want to swing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish I had big full breasts like that!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

She looks great

just take your time and go with the flow

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"%100 is her breast she doesn't like. Otherwise we won't be here if she didn't want to swing."

Fine! I'm out...

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"%100 is her breast she doesn't like. Otherwise we won't be here if she didn't want to swing."

You want to hope so this "I hate my breasts" issue could really be "swinging isn't/is no longer for me and this gives me a good excuse not to meet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another look at my boobs post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another look at my boobs post "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow wish I had her boobs there boobalicious xxx

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By *ifuwMan
over a year ago

Hull

There stunning. Let me play with boobs like that any day

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Another look at my boobs post "

When was your first one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love big boobs....and very big ones and hers look absolutely great....seen a lot...and they are very fine....love to cream all over them.....lol...and it wouldn't take long...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my fabbs will give you some clue of what I think of them but there is absolutely nothing wrong with them!

They're gorgeous, so get of the forums and keep telling your wife that until she thinks the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing as her opinion on them is the only one that matters then I'd have to agree with her.

I'm frankly surprised she hates them that much, and has let you post pics of them and ask for comments from strangers about them. There are bits of me i hate. I don't have pics of them and don't draw attention to them. Just odd.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

"Seeing as her opinion on them is the only one that matters then I'd have to agree with her.

The cynic in me is now starting to believe this was more of a please play to our ego by saying nice things thread for that very reason

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your wifes breasts are spectacular!!! Mrs A x"

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Think the op has a different agenda really, but its just my opinion.........dont think I would be happy about somebody posting something about me , if I was feeling down about certain things, and drawing more attention to the problem I had.

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By *arney n BettyCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

Absolutely perfect....all natural and gorgeous

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

If it genuinely is her boobs she's embarrassed about - if she genuinely wishes she could still swing - some nice underwear might help. My boobs aren't as pert as they used to be, so I got some lovely chemises from Love Honey. They have a bra top, which keeps my boobs in a lovely shape, then figure-skimming flimsy fabric, which reaches down to just past my bum. Split at the front, and easy-lifting from the rear means I can wear them during sex, and I feel almost naked (but much more confident) when wearing them.

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Hi all fabbers

Interesting post, ended with 'we will take any criticism' ... Why would you care or invite it.? What difference should or could it make what others think? Are you saying if your wife was persuaded that she didn't have 'saggy boobs' she would swing? Mrs ... Are you really that suggestible? D it for yourself and not based on what others think ...

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

Do wives actually ask their hubs to put pics of them up on swingers/naughty websites and then use the feedback to improve their confidence ?

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By *awandOrderCouple
over a year ago

SW London

"Do wives actually ask their hubs to put pics of them up on swingers/naughty websites and then use the feedback to improve their confidence ?

I know I don't. I am fully aware of what century we are in ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There not saggy there just big , very big

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