FabSwingers.com forum: Female celebacy at 47!

By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I think maybe swinging actually knocks my self esteem....

I feel I am destined for a celebate life now! At 47!!!!

Yes this is a self pity post lol.... but I can't turn myself into a supermodel! I am stuck with the body and looks I have....

I don't know how some people get so much sex lol! It's usually guys who write these moany posts but as a woman I find it equally difficult!

OK I shall shut up whinging now

Sorry!; (

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By *ustCurious9966Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Unless the camera lies... there are lots of guys who'd like to be "stuck with the body you have". Me amongst them.

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

You would be surprised!

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By *ustCurious9966Man
over a year ago

cambridge

Very surprised. Love the line in your profile about sharing you at a club

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

So would we! Looks fine from here. Maybe you are looking in the wrong places. Have you tried taking it to a decent club like The Vanilla alternative? On the 30th for example... lol

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By *ustCurious9966Man
over a year ago

cambridge

"So would we! Looks fine from here. Maybe you are looking in the wrong places. Have you tried taking it to a decent club like The Vanilla alternative? On the 30th for example... lol

Xx"

Let me know if you need a chaperone to VA -I'd be happy to share...

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

I think i am hit by the ugly stick lol.... been to clubs. ... but lost my mojo now. People play in their couples and groups or as a single woman you get followed around by weirdos lol....

The future is dim! Lol

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By *ustCurious9966Man
over a year ago

cambridge

"I think i am hit by the ugly stick lol.... been to clubs. ... but lost my mojo now. People play in their couples and groups or as a single woman you get followed around by weirdos lol....

The future is dim! Lol"

Mojo can soon return... Secret I believe is to take your own weirdo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK let's get this ball rolling. I am throwing my hat into the ring too. I would meet you and definitely share you too. Let's see how many more offers you get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a period of involuntary celibacy at the moment.

From the pictures, you have a great body.

Reading your profile, you seem very selective, which is a good thing, you know what you want, you just haven't found it.

I'd say to anyone, don't let Fab knock your self-esteem, don't let internet strangers affect you, you're more than that.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"I think i am hit by the ugly stick lol.... been to clubs. ... but lost my mojo now. People play in their couples and groups or as a single woman you get followed around by weirdos lol....

The future is dim! Lol"

You're going to the wrong clubs

lol

You need a fun night out with loads of laughs to find your mojo...

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Ok... maybe I am having a low day.

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By *issy NickersWoman
over a year ago

Manchester

You look great girl. If you don't want to play then don't but don't feel low about it x

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Ok... maybe I am having a low day. "

We all have them. No plans for something to cheer you up?

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

"Ok... maybe I am having a low day. "

Subby, I haven't got the best body and have a passable face but what I do have is confidence and I think that makes a huge difference. If you feel good about yourself it shows and is as attractive as the most perfect body and face.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Ok... maybe I am having a low day.

definitely a certain amount of confidence is sexy! You got what you got, may aswell be happy about it and have as much fun as you can. It's out there just got to look in the right places.

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Ok... maybe I am having a low day.

You look lovely to me. But you are right about confidence.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

"Ok... maybe I am having a low day.

You look lovely to me. But you are right about confidence. "

Communication is 70% non verbal. If you feel negative about yourself people can read that on a subconscious level and react to it.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

"Ok... maybe I am having a low day.

You look lovely to me. But you are right about confidence.

Communication is 70% non verbal. If you feel negative about yourself people can read that on a subconscious level and react to it. "

ps I'd love to have a figure like yours Subby.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Are you genuinely struggling to find people to play with? You must get a fair few msgs with a profile like you have?

I'm going to guess and say it's meeting the type of people that you want to play with that you are struggling with. Mainly because those people are a damn sight rarer lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your pictures are beautiful... Think you're looking in the wrong mirrors and hanging out in the wrong clubs.

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By *ts artMan
over a year ago

Londonderry

Nothing wrong with you from your pics if you aren't getting meets I can't see why and them turning you down if thats happening ots their loss

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By *ts artMan
over a year ago

Londonderry

"Are you genuinely struggling to find people to play with? You must get a fair few msgs with a profile like you have?

I'm going to guess and say it's meeting the type of people that you want to play with that you are struggling with. Mainly because those people are a damn sight rarer lol."

Got to agree with this

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Well it's true I have my personal preference. After all we have to fancy someone!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with celibacy. You get used to it

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Nothing wrong with celibacy. You get used to it

I don't want to get used to it!!!!

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Well it's true I have my personal preference. After all we have to fancy someone! "

Absolutely. Then your lack of sex is through your own choice, not down to the way you look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nothing wrong with celibacy. You get used to it

I don't want to get used to it!!!!"

Nor did I

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By *ohnyorkMan
over a year ago

york

"I think maybe swinging actually knocks my self esteem....

I feel I am destined for a celebate life now! At 47!!!!

Yes this is a self pity post lol.... but I can't turn myself into a supermodel! I am stuck with the body and looks I have....

I don't know how some people get so much sex lol! It's usually guys who write these moany posts but as a woman I find it equally difficult!

OK I shall shut up whinging now

Sorry!; (

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try lowering your age target a bit i bet you would fet a lot more sex

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By *unknSoulCouple
over a year ago

dumfries-ish

Don't worry we been on here 6 years and still shite at it

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By *obloodyhornyMan
over a year ago

East Lothian

There's absolutely nothing wrong with your body! Actually pretty hot

I could Defford stroke one out looking at u

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your body at least is cracking..

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I think maybe swinging actually knocks my self esteem....

I feel I am destined for a celebate life now! At 47!!!!

Yes this is a self pity post lol.... but I can't turn myself into a supermodel! I am stuck with the body and looks I have....

I don't know how some people get so much sex lol! It's usually guys who write these moany posts but as a woman I find it equally difficult!

OK I shall shut up whinging now

Sorry!; (

try lowering your age target a bit i bet you would fet a lot more sex

I set an age range of mid 30s to early 50. I thinks fair. I don't want younger

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Well it's true I have my personal preference. After all we have to fancy someone!

Absolutely. Then your lack of sex is through your own choice, not down to the way you look

Thankyou for your 'kind' comment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think maybe swinging actually knocks my self esteem....

I feel I am destined for a celebate life now! At 47!!!!

Yes this is a self pity post lol.... but I can't turn myself into a supermodel! I am stuck with the body and looks I have....

I don't know how some people get so much sex lol! It's usually guys who write these moany posts but as a woman I find it equally difficult!

OK I shall shut up whinging now

Sorry!; (

Uv got an amazing body hun very nice indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've a better body than some ladies my own age! I find if you're struggling have a wee break, don't be put off of using fab and maybe hide your profile, once you're ready, come back and try again. You've a well written profile and it's surely just a matter of looking for the right man. If you weren't straight and so far away I'd chuck our hats into the ring too! Goodluck and I hope you sort it out

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By *ubbykitten OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

People say i am too fussy. But I don't want to play with a young guy! I am 47! I have my physical type like many on here do. My problem is there are plenty of guys who match what i seek but they live the other end of the country! !! ; (

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