FabSwingers.com forum: It's Official..... I'm totally Rubbish at Fabswingers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some people have it and some people don't.

I'm no oil painting, I'm not well hung, I'm not necessarily fit either.

I'm usually very polite but probably boring as a consequence too.

I have no idea how to write an "Exciting" message or one that "Stands Out" to get attention.

This isn't a rant, nor a moan even.

After 10 months, you get kinda used to the fact that some people, like me are simply no good at this.

Doesn't stop me from trying and having a chuckle along the way though. It's rather funny actually lol....

Anyone else rubbish at Fab, or is it just me? Lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Hey, I'd meet you but you were away when I was in London last time. Your face pic is hot, and you're amusing.

I'm rubbish at fab too. My one on one meets rarely happen, and I seem to attract the type of people who don't attract me.

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By *tarbeckCouple
over a year ago

york

"Some people have it and some people don't.

I'm no oil painting, I'm not well hung, I'm not necessarily fit either.

I'm usually very polite but probably boring as a consequence too.

I have no idea how to write an "Exciting" message or one that "Stands Out" to get attention.

This isn't a rant, nor a moan even.

After 10 months, you get kinda used to the fact that some people, like me are simply no good at this.

Doesn't stop me from trying and having a chuckle along the way though. It's rather funny actually lol....

Anyone else rubbish at Fab, or is it just me? Lol

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shame your so far away

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

You're not rubbish at fab for heaven's sake,I don't know what's going on...

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By *ntandchantCouple
over a year ago

Spalding

Well from your post, you sound a perfect gentleman which is exactly what I would look for in a man!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I'd do ya, Peter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what i can see, you look pretty fit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The profile and the pics are very good. I'd meet you if I was meeting and you were nearer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, I totally suck at this too. Just when it seems like I might be getting somewhere, it dies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The profile and the pics are very good. I'd meet you if I was meeting and you were nearer

AND I'm just in your age range! Whew

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You seriously can't be as bad as me. I must have the worst luck ever on here

I stay because I find the forums amusing but that's about it tbh

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You seriously can't be as bad as me. I must have the worst luck ever on here

I stay because I find the forums amusing but that's about it tbh

I find certain things very amusing, surprising and also read a lot of fairy tale Bullshit too which really makes me chuckle. I don't believe half the things I read on here. It's amusing though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd do ya, Peter

Cheers Steve

but I don't bat for the other team lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You seriously can't be as bad as me. I must have the worst luck ever on here

I stay because I find the forums amusing but that's about it tbh

I find certain things very amusing, surprising and also read a lot of fairy tale Bullshit too which really makes me chuckle. I don't believe half the things I read on here. It's amusing though

We need a special "worst fabber's club"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ohh I'm rubbish at fab

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By *ock2screwUMan
over a year ago

abingdon

I feel your pain my man...seems like finally get somewer..then....its gone again. Think lot of people on here get ioff on windin stringin people up&along..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You seriously can't be as bad as me. I must have the worst luck ever on here

I stay because I find the forums amusing but that's about it tbh

I find certain things very amusing, surprising and also read a lot of fairy tale Bullshit too which really makes me chuckle. I don't believe half the things I read on here. It's amusing though

We need a special "worst fabber's club" "

So how do we work that one out? Do we nominate ourselves? And how do you win I'd you only get one vote each? See we seem to be rubbish at that award too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make a club... then we all have to say why we deserve the overall crown of worst fabber. Bit like the last brownie scene in love actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've decided we're rubbish at this too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Woo hoo!!! In a Homer Simpson style voice,,,, looks like I'm not the only one

There are more of us out there LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was totally rubbish at fab, but started organising parties, now I'm brilliant.

we each give in and take out what we need and want from this wonderful site.

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Rubbish too. Struggling to find genuine women here.....

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By *eanut Butter CupWoman
over a year ago

B & M Bargains

I'm rubbish too! Can't remember the last time I had a meet arranged off here rather than at a club! Although that may be because I'm shocking at replying to messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm rubbish too! Can't remember the last time I had a meet arranged off here rather than at a club! Although that may be because I'm shocking at replying to messages

Sucky McFucktown.... That's funny lol

. You're location that is not you're message x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We struggle to find another woman for myself and or Mr S. Typically they want to meet me but not the Mr.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You're not rubbish at fab for heaven's sake,I don't know what's going on..."

Enlighten me Dr! What's going wrong then?

I know I'm rubbish at this because the same applies to Tinder and POF. I've been on those sites for overy 3 years and I haven't had one single meet yet lol. I'm not kidding and before you ask, I have checked my filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really put in any effort. I just use the forum, it is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't really put in any effort. I just use the forum, it is comedy gold

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We struggle to find another woman for myself and or Mr S. Typically they want to meet me but not the Mr.

That's a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ivemeyoursoulWoman
over a year ago

Easter just around the corner!

"You're not rubbish at fab for heaven's sake,I don't know what's going on...

Enlighten me Dr! What's going wrong then?

I don't know Peter I'm at a loss

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

I've gotta be in the running for worst fabber.

I've rewritten my profile sooo many times according to what women and couples have said to me would make them consider meeting somebody. When I write messages its always polite, I try to tailor messages to the profile I am contacting with nothing but polite and friendly words making an effort to reread profiles to hit points they state. I don't consider myself arrogant or self loathing but I wouldn't say I'm that photogenic or exactly ugly.

Yet finding a meet on this site in the last year has been next to impossible (I say the last year as that's when I moved to the north).

I can't pretend it doesn't get me down at times but I still use the site and chatrooms as otherwise I'm stuck with being the single guy in a club (swingers or traditional) and at least rejection on a screen is less of a downer than face to face rejection.

Rambled on there lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've gotta be in the running for worst fabber.

Yet finding a meet on this site in the last year has been next to impossible (I say the last year as that's when I moved to the north).

Rambled on there lol

You've had 13 meets though. Hardly poor going tbh.

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By *piritfingersMan
over a year ago

Isle of wight

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

You've had 13 meets though. Hardly poor going tbh.

Only 1 in the past 12 months the rest were in my hometown down south where I knew most of them prior to fab

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By *piritfingersMan
over a year ago

Isle of wight

I reakon im closing in if not already claimed first spot..........!!! One on one meets seem impossible lately,unless theres something im clearly missing!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry we are rubbish at fabs too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've gotta be in the running for worst fabber.

Yet finding a meet on this site in the last year has been next to impossible (I say the last year as that's when I moved to the north).

Rambled on there lol

I feel your pain OP

. Some things really do suck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I reakon im closing in if not already claimed first spot..........!!! One on one meets seem impossible lately,unless theres something im clearly missing!!!

Well when you find that thing that's clearly missing, please share it because it seems we are all missing it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't worry we are rubbish at fabs too

Yeahy

Another Rubbish couple lol. I'm sorry..... I didn't really mean that; just made me feel a little better though

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By *piritfingersMan
over a year ago

Isle of wight

Yep, I will share for sure if find it.......looks like we all could do with what ever "it" is.......same for everbody else,chuck it my way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry we are rubbish at fabs too

Yeahy

Another Rubbish couple lol. I'm sorry..... I didn't really mean that; just made me feel a little better though

Trust us its not a bed of roses for couples either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't worry we are rubbish at fabs too

Yeahy

Another Rubbish couple lol. I'm sorry..... I didn't really mean that; just made me feel a little better though

Trust us its not a bed of roses for couples either"

See I find that hard to believe based on the stories and experiences I've read on here from other couples. It makes for great bedtime reading, thats for sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think in having a rubbish day to be fair

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By *ettyboop61Woman
over a year ago

St Neots

"Some people have it and some people don't.

I'm no oil painting, I'm not well hung, I'm not necessarily fit either.

I'm usually very polite but probably boring as a consequence too.

I have no idea how to write an "Exciting" message or one that "Stands Out" to get attention.

This isn't a rant, nor a moan even.

After 10 months, you get kinda used to the fact that some people, like me are simply no good at this.

Doesn't stop me from trying and having a chuckle along the way though. It's rather funny actually lol....

Anyone else rubbish at Fab, or is it just me? Lol

I winked at you

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By *ecretDaddy1Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Some people have it and some people don't.

I'm no oil painting, I'm not well hung, I'm not necessarily fit either.

I'm usually very polite but probably boring as a consequence too.

I have no idea how to write an "Exciting" message or one that "Stands Out" to get attention.

This isn't a rant, nor a moan even.

After 10 months, you get kinda used to the fact that some people, like me are simply no good at this.

Doesn't stop me from trying and having a chuckle along the way though. It's rather funny actually lol....

Anyone else rubbish at Fab, or is it just me? Lol

I have only been on a few weeks but got to say that I am rubbish too. I want to know if it is my profile that is bad (I have seen some pages that say that a rubbish profile can be a turn off)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't worry we are rubbish at fabs too

Yeahy

Another Rubbish couple lol. I'm sorry..... I didn't really mean that; just made me feel a little better though

Trust us its not a bed of roses for couples either

See I find that hard to believe based on the stories and experiences I've read on here from other couples. It makes for great bedtime reading, thats for sure

Well stories are stories. We have often been ignored or not had any replies when we are looking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have it and some people don't.

I'm no oil painting, I'm not well hung, I'm not necessarily fit either.

I'm usually very polite but probably boring as a consequence too.

I have no idea how to write an "Exciting" message or one that "Stands Out" to get attention.

This isn't a rant, nor a moan even.

After 10 months, you get kinda used to the fact that some people, like me are simply no good at this.

Doesn't stop me from trying and having a chuckle along the way though. It's rather funny actually lol....

Anyone else rubbish at Fab, or is it just me? Lol

I know the feeling im exactly the same!! Lol

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

"Some people have it and some people don't.

I'm no oil painting, I'm not well hung, I'm not necessarily fit either.

I'm usually very polite but probably boring as a consequence too.

I have no idea how to write an "Exciting" message or one that "Stands Out" to get attention.

This isn't a rant, nor a moan even.

After 10 months, you get kinda used to the fact that some people, like me are simply no good at this.

Doesn't stop me from trying and having a chuckle along the way though. It's rather funny actually lol....

Anyone else rubbish at Fab, or is it just me? Lol

I know the feeling im exactly the same!! Lol "

You've only been here 8 weeks. Give it time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this post, calls all the worst fabbers for another forum orgy

I want to reserve my ticket!

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By *ittall2020Man
over a year ago

Norwich

Well stories are stories. We have often been ignored or not had any replies when we are looking to meet. "

your profile looks kinda demanding! lack of location must work against you too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Join the club. There is a club, isn't there? There should be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well stories are stories. We have often been ignored or not had any replies when we are looking to meet.

your profile looks kinda demanding! lack of location must work against you too

Demanding. If you say so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you're right - Sorry but I ain't gonna blow wind up your arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this post, calls all the worst fabbers for another forum orgy

I want to reserve my ticket!"

Face it ... We'd even be rubbish at that. Probably end up having a game of scrabble

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

"I think this post, calls all the worst fabbers for another forum orgy

I want to reserve my ticket!

Face it ... We'd even be rubbish at that. Probably end up having a game of scrabble

Monopoly.... I can go for hours lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this post, calls all the worst fabbers for another forum orgy

I want to reserve my ticket!

Face it ... We'd even be rubbish at that. Probably end up having a game of scrabble

Nah, naked twister or strip poker the very least. Who knows, if we get d*unk enough we may just end up having some fun too

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By *piritfingersMan
over a year ago

Isle of wight

"I think this post, calls all the worst fabbers for another forum orgy

I want to reserve my ticket!

Face it ... We'd even be rubbish at that. Probably end up having a game of scrabble

Yeah im in.......I can play that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep completely shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a feeling OP that you will be getting a meet very soon. (Probably from this) Your profile looks good and you have a nice attitude. Be proactive and if it still doesn't happen get to a club. Good luck.

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By *iscean MaleMan
over a year ago

Darlaston

Looks personality messges people can do something about.

Am in a huge lake seeking the same and the restricted further amore...... oh well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think this post, calls all the worst fabbers for another forum orgy

I want to reserve my ticket!

Face it ... We'd even be rubbish at that. Probably end up having a game of scrabble

Well the size of my lexicon would probably impress more than the size of... other things. So scrabble works for me.

I seem to have stumbled upon a holy grail on Fab in that for a younger man I seem to only attract (for lack of a better term) older women. It's usually to tell me my hair is pretty though.

I'm awful at fab, I rarely send messages and do spend most of my time on the forums making fairly ridiculous comments.

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

That is some pretty hair though

i have long hair but nowhere near that nice haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That is some pretty hair though

i have long hair but nowhere near that nice haha"

Aww thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody can be as bad as me even my Mrs wouldn't meet me when I messaged her using my singles profile as a trial run

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

"Nobody can be as bad as me even my Mrs wouldn't meet me when I messaged her using my singles profile as a trial run

Haha yep your in the club, pick up your welcome pack on the left and make sure you wear your lanyard at all meetings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have it and some people don't.

I'm no oil painting, I'm not well hung, I'm not necessarily fit either.

I'm usually very polite but probably boring as a consequence too.

I have no idea how to write an "Exciting" message or one that "Stands Out" to get attention.

This isn't a rant, nor a moan even.

After 10 months, you get kinda used to the fact that some people, like me are simply no good at this.

Doesn't stop me from trying and having a chuckle along the way though. It's rather funny actually lol....

Anyone else rubbish at Fab, or is it just me? Lol

I think you're hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm wondering whether this is the site for me I'm not hot also average size good tongue and been on here for months now and no meets is it worth it ??

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

"Well I'm wondering whether this is the site for me I'm not hot also average size good tongue and been on here for months now and no meets is it worth it ??"

Only you can answer if its worth it to you. But even without meets you can build a social circle on here which is why I still use the site as I moved 400 miles from home and at least get to chat to people on my area without having to goto a pub ect considering I don't drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the same boat! Been on n off here for months,been messed around a couple of times but that's about it Chances are il give it til my membership runs out then call it a day on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I was in a relationship, I'd be a shit swinger.

Does that get me into the club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I said I would .... I just didn't get a chance this time round (due to everything that happened as u know) but I still would lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hey mate arent all single guys feeling same way women rule the roost on fab they can pick who they want when they want but i know where your coming from so come on turn that frown upside down youve had a good couple of comments man up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think this post, calls all the worst fabbers for another forum orgy

I want to reserve my ticket!"

LOL

I like your thinking, turning a negative into a positive

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well stories are stories. We have often been ignored or not had any replies when we are looking to meet.

your profile looks kinda demanding! lack of location must work against you too

Demanding. If you say so lol"

I found that rather funny too, even at 6am

.... Maybe its sarcasm lol.

Made me chuckle anyway

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nobody can be as bad as me even my Mrs wouldn't meet me when I messaged her using my singles profile as a trial run

Now that is something I have never heard of before. If there was an award for worst member, you definitely be the front runner

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Join the club. There is a club, isn't there? There should be."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the award for the best 'look at me' thread goes to...... Good one fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the award for the best 'look at me' thread goes to...... Good one fella!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And the award for the best 'look at me' thread goes to...... Good one fella!

LOL!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it's the getting a verification which is the problem. People are not interested without at least one. It's a bit of a catch 22 situation

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"And the award for the best 'look at me' thread goes to...... Good one fella!

LOL!!!

That was never the intention... The post replies clearly show that I'm not alone in this. If anything, it adds a bit comedy value

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nah, I'm pretty rubbish at it too. I just find it hard to meet people here with similar interests.

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I'd say it's about quality not quantity x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if nearer and looking for single men youd be exactly the kind id like - good body and appear to be well mannered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not sure why you'd struggle Pete, your profile looks OK, you've got more than just a cock pic on there, and you seem pretty intelligent. You're a bit far away for us but you'd be on our hotlist if we'd seen you having a nosey at us.

What kind of messages are you sending to people? Are you taking the time to read their profiles in full and tailoring your message to it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have they got any nice Swingers' Clubs near Woking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody can be as bad as me even my Mrs wouldn't meet me when I messaged her using my singles profile as a trial run

Now that is something I have never heard of before. If there was an award for worst member, you definitely be the front runner

Hooray leading the pack for once

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have they got any nice Swingers' Clubs near Woking?"

There are at least 2 that I know of but like many though, I don't feel comfortable nor have i the confidence to rock up to one of these clubs as an individual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have they got any nice Swingers' Clubs near Woking?

There are at least 2 that I know of but like many though, I don't feel comfortable nor have i the confidence to rock up to one of these clubs as an individual

maybe keep an eye out on here for a social night - or put up a thread and see how much interest there is - a few drinks and some banter with a group of like minded people is a great way to make fab friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have they got any nice Swingers' Clubs near Woking?

There are at least 2 that I know of but like many though, I don't feel comfortable nor have i the confidence to rock up to one of these clubs as an individual

Sounds very grown up and sensible and though it works for some people, I can say that I've been there and tried it but to no evail.

Will keep plugging away, continue doing what I'm doing. Based on the law of averages, my luck has to change lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have they got any nice Swingers' Clubs near Woking?

There are at least 2 that I know of but like many though, I don't feel comfortable nor have i the confidence to rock up to one of these clubs as an individual

Sounds very grown up and sensible and though it works for some people, I can say that I've been there and tried it but to no evail.

Will keep plugging away, continue doing what I'm doing. Based on the law of averages, my luck has to change lol "

I wonder if it's your approach and attitude that is meaning you don't have much luck. On another thread you said that you thought people were 'greedy' if they had more than one partner. Perhaps that's coming across in your messages to women?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have they got any nice Swingers' Clubs near Woking?

There are at least 2 that I know of but like many though, I don't feel comfortable nor have i the confidence to rock up to one of these clubs as an individual

Sounds very grown up and sensible and though it works for some people, I can say that I've been there and tried it but to no evail.

Will keep plugging away, continue doing what I'm doing. Based on the law of averages, my luck has to change lol

I see where you are coming from and I know which post you are also referring too.

My messages to women and couples are always polite and direct and I always read their profile before engaging conversation.

A lot of my comments on other posts are usually down to banter than anything else. My comment about greed was meant to be a laugh but I guess i can see how people can easily read it differently

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By *ustinCredible.Man
over a year ago

whitecross/sankey valley

I read the greedy thing as sarcasm towards the fact the woman was looking for a faithful 2nd partner while not being faithful to her 1st partner by having a 2nd relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I read the greedy thing as sarcasm towards the fact the woman was looking for a faithful 2nd partner while not being faithful to her 1st partner by having a 2nd relationship.

Exactly that

. Thank you very much OP. We are on the same wavelength.

Believe me, if I was having a moan, my choice of words will be completely different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know exactly what you mean. Do you go down the 'Im an easy going, friendly guy'route, or the 'lets meet, and heres a pic of my cock' way. I think just use the same type of language that the person in the profile your approaching uses, if abrupt and direct then use the same and if its about their personality then go down that route. Ideally be yourself then if do do meet your not trying to be someone youre not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody can be as bad as me even my Mrs wouldn't meet me when I messaged her using my singles profile as a trial run

Haha yep your in the club, pick up your welcome pack on the left and make sure you wear your lanyard at all meetings"

Ooh we get a lanyard???

We're so joining this club!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I read the greedy thing as sarcasm towards the fact the woman was looking for a faithful 2nd partner while not being faithful to her 1st partner by having a 2nd relationship.

Exactly that

. Thank you very much OP. We are on the same wavelength.

Believe me, if I was having a moan, my choice of words will be completely different "

SIGH, here's to confusion...

I give up, good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nobody can be as bad as me even my Mrs wouldn't meet me when I messaged her using my singles profile as a trial run

Haha yep your in the club, pick up your welcome pack on the left and make sure you wear your lanyard at all meetings

Ooh we get a lanyard???

We're so joining this club! "

It would probably be the worst lanyard in the world though, fall apart after the first usage lol. That would sum it all up rather nicely

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

Well I think it all come's down to weather we are a glass is half empty or half full type of person

I'm having a good time here on the forums and the chat rooms conversing with people. So life's all good

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

"I've gotta be in the running for worst fabber.

Yet finding a meet on this site in the last year has been next to impossible (I say the last year as that's when I moved to the north).

Rambled on there lol

I feel your pain OP

. Some things really do suck"
I'd get your bum over to kestrels one lovely sunny summer day .. Get your kit off and join the fun... Try to be amusing in threads .. And btw You are the OP on this thread.. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im rubbish at fabswingers too

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

From the little I can see on your profile I think you look good and sound like a nice guy. If you were closer I'd love to get my hands on you. Did you join in with that thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you look this to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not you Peter I think all of us blokes are in the same boat. The problem is there are just so many men on here so the girls have so much choice. There is also the verification trap. A lot of girls wont meet unless youre verified but you cant get verified without meeting. On average I get 1 message every 2 weeks despite my best efforts. Maybe its a good job that I'm a very patient person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm rubbish at fab to just lately so your not on your own

You seem like a very nice gentleman which is rare in here these days

If only you was closer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am rubbish at fab too, great at picnics, rubbish at fab.

Don't you worry OP, it's all good, chin up and on your way to fabland where the girls get shitty (something like that).

I am sure you will get some offers and turn this downturn to an upturn (I am now just literally typing shit in an effort to say, "c'mon fella, be happy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey, I'd meet you but you were away when I was in London last time. Your face pic is hot, and you're amusing.

I'm rubbish at fab too. My one on one meets rarely happen, and I seem to attract the type of people who don't attract me."

Ditto on the meets!

At least 70% of them suddenly realise, on the day, that they're actually in a relationship they forgot about, or they simply haven't got the balls to meet me (coz I'm obviously really fierce and unapproachable!

)

If it wasn't for the forums and club/party information, and my current phase as a photo-tart - I'd be long gone!

From a purely meeting point of view, if you have any specific preferences (ie not just any cock or fanny will suffice) then I'm guessing fab is harder work than many 'dating ' sites out there! X

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By *km45Man
over a year ago

UTTOXETER

Fab seems so hard at the moment. Got to the stage where I'm happy to just chat and use the forums. So many nice people on here. If anything more happens then all good if not so be it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab seems so hard at the moment. Got to the stage where I'm happy to just chat and use the forums. So many nice people on here. If anything more happens then all good if not so be it. "

That's the great thing about fab. If you take away the expectations it's actually an entertaining site.

Were else can you perv on pics, have a laugh, stumble across profiles of people living on cuckoo land and read utter Bullshit all on one site?

It's great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab seems so hard at the moment. Got to the stage where I'm happy to just chat and use the forums. So many nice people on here. If anything more happens then all good if not so be it.

That's the great thing about fab. If you take away the expectations it's actually an entertaining site.

Were else can you perv on pics, have a laugh, stumble across profiles of people living on cuckoo land and read utter Bullshit all on one site?

It's great

Everyone goes through peaks and troughs, just take it as it comes and enjoy yourself. Personally I'm having a bit of a green streak but I know that can change at any time. Just enjoy the company that fab affords, it will try around. If its really getting you down either look at your approach or leave for a bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You seriously can't be as bad as me. I must have the worst luck ever on here

I stay because I find the forums amusing but that's about it tbh

I find certain things very amusing, surprising and also read a lot of fairy tale Bullshit too which really makes me chuckle. I don't believe half the things I read on here. It's amusing though

We need a special "worst fabber's club" "

i'd be one of those members too. Just cant get along with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think I'm before you in list I been here over year and half no luck but don't give up hope can always have laugh on forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in

do we a starter pack? Maybe some nice t-shirts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the worst fabbers group

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For the worst fabbers group

Now that would be pretty cool t shirt

lol.

I'm a shite Fabswinger

Some of these comments really make me chuckle and before anyone asks I do have a very good sense of humour and do enjoy the banter on the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had four meets since I been on this site. Three of them came within two months of each other then nothing for over a year. Just got to keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are the only reason why i stay on the site. Atleast people message you & you can have a laugh without being blocked

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By *ifuwMan
over a year ago

Hull

I completely understand where your coming from. The verification business is a catch 22 but once you can get verified in person things should get easier. I never com across right on this site or take very good photos.

So I'm trying social club meets organised on fab to meet members and if we hit it off you could get verified that way. But i can also see how easy my wife finds it. we both together but we also play solo and all i hear is her phone going off from prospective partners lol.

I like to make a joke out of it . But also it's frustrating because she has been on here same time as me and is already verified in person too. while I'm only photo verified . But I'm hopeful and in time it will all come together with a lot or hard work . But also i have to admit it sounds like a cool i'm rubbish at fab club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people have it and some people don't.

I'm no oil painting, I'm not well hung, I'm not necessarily fit either.

I'm usually very polite but probably boring as a consequence too.

I have no idea how to write an "Exciting" message or one that "Stands Out" to get attention.

This isn't a rant, nor a moan even.

After 10 months, you get kinda used to the fact that some people, like me are simply no good at this.

Doesn't stop me from trying and having a chuckle along the way though. It's rather funny actually lol....

Anyone else rubbish at Fab, or is it just me? Lol

Well by the looks of this post you're not that rubbish, I on the other hand, awful, truly awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't look or sound like someone who would be 'rubbish' at Fab but I do wonder why after so many months your profile is still not verified. A green tick does inspire a little more confidence that a profile is genuine but it is not a guarantee of success. Remain polite, be patient and, after this forum entry, I'm sure you'll soon be verified and having fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Catch 22 isn't it, no veri no meet, no meet no veri!

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By *iamondjoeMan
over a year ago

Glastonbury

"Some people have it and some people don't.

I'm no oil painting, I'm not well hung, I'm not necessarily fit either.

I'm usually very polite but probably boring as a consequence too.

I have no idea how to write an "Exciting" message or one that "Stands Out" to get attention.

This isn't a rant, nor a moan even.

After 10 months, you get kinda used to the fact that some people, like me are simply no good at this.

Doesn't stop me from trying and having a chuckle along the way though. It's rather funny actually lol....

Anyone else rubbish at Fab, or is it just me? Lol"

Awww

*strokes OP's head*

There, there.

I'd fuck ya gently like I means it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I can second I'm exactly the same but have no luck. No one seems to be attracted to me for some unknown reason. I'm no oil painting either but I do my bit. Just end up with deleted messages lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people have it and some people don't.

I'm no oil painting, I'm not well hung, I'm not necessarily fit either.

I'm usually very polite but probably boring as a consequence too.

I have no idea how to write an "Exciting" message or one that "Stands Out" to get attention.

This isn't a rant, nor a moan even.

After 10 months, you get kinda used to the fact that some people, like me are simply no good at this.

Doesn't stop me from trying and having a chuckle along the way though. It's rather funny actually lol....

Anyone else rubbish at Fab, or is it just me? Lol

Awww

*strokes OP's head*

There, there.

I'd fuck ya gently like I means it

Stop it! LOL! Reading that had me in stitches... funny guy

See that's what's great about the fab community, people make you laugh

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By *onbonjonMan
over a year ago

S/Warks

Hey all x

mate seriously, ive gotta be the worst Fabber

i have no luck whatsoever, just want a sexy lady to use me,abuse me and then tell me to fuck off lol, after not before

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