FabSwingers.com forum: How Far Is Too Far

By *redAndWilma69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I've lost count of the number of messages we get stating "shame you're so far away".

I'm biased but I would have thought Wilma was worth a train, plane or automobile journey

Got me wondering. What's the furthest anyone has had someone travel to meet with them. And was that "blind", as in no Skype beforehand, just messaging and the pictures on here?

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

Wow. She does look like a bit of a wee goddess indeed.

Sycophancy aside(..!), my furthest was from Paington. We hadn't Skyped, just chatted for ages via text.

Apart from that, there was one lady from just north of Stoke.

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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We never meet blind so always chat and do social meets first, but we did once meet someone in a social gathering who a few weeks later flew over from Italy, otherwise it's been the usual hour or so. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don't really like guys to travel more than 40 miles to me, takes them way too long to get here.

have had a few guys offer to travel 150+ miles but i lose interest in them because i know i won't see them regular and get nervous about them making all that effort for me also. well seems a big deal to me anyway.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's more of a time issue for me rather than the distance per se.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"[Removed by poster at 16/04/16 21:42:38]"

DISGUSTING!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled to brent in north london, it is 18miles with the tube. I did see her pictures before I met her.

It is too far as I usually want to keep it within few miles, but it depends who you will meet, in that case the same city.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's more of a time issue for me rather than the distance per se. "

Yep! Same here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 16/04/16 21:42:38]

DISGUSTING!!!!!!

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lol typo there

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"[Removed by poster at 16/04/16 21:42:38]

DISGUSTING!!!!!!

lol typo there

Haha! Always good for a laugh.

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By *llie RoseWoman
over a year ago

By the seaside

The further they have to travel the more likely they are to want to stay over. Yes I accommodate but that means the meet not that I run a bed & breakfast

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

The furthest we've travelled is right the other side of London. Which in miles isn't far but takes frigging forever driving and in traffic.

We're often limited by time, so now only meet those an hour away max.

Did have a meet with a couple from Newcastle and a man from Ireland but they didn't travel just to see us, they combined meeting us with other things.

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By *ickstributerMan
over a year ago

Ocala/Belleview/

Trying to get my favorite fish to come over to the AMERICA'S,even offering to cover half the cost or better! This old trout prefers to stay in her "tin-can" than head upstream to be eaten/& spawned

! Time to change the bait? Or take the pan off the fire..? I'm too devoted/tenacious to quit, or just daft & stupid...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trying to get my favorite fish to come over to the AMERICA'S,even offering to cover half the cost or better! This old trout prefers to stay in her "tin-can" than head upstream to be eaten/& spawned

! Time to change the bait? Or take the pan off the fire..? I'm too devoted/tenacious to quit, or just daft & stupid...!

definitely daft, i often look forward to your statuses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've put up the odd 'meet today' really late at night as a spur of the moment kind of thing and always been surprised at how far people claim they would drive at midnight!

The furthest we've had is a bloke from Liverpool (but that was planned before) and the furthest for a last minute 'meet tonight' was about 90 mins. He must have had a nice clear road driving back though

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've travelled to Liverpool and Nottingham and the furthest a guy has travelled to see me is from Coventry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer on travel and have gone over 100 miles for a meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wilma Is Definitely worth It - yet You haven't asked Me to!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"[Removed by poster at 16/04/16 21:42:38]

DISGUSTING!!!!!!

lol typo there

Haha! Always good for a laugh. "
That is right, it is fun too lol

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

ha ha.. I had a shame you're so far away message not long ago.. when I mentioned I had a friend I sometimes stay with not to far away from them.. they went a very quiet..

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By *man91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I never had anyone travel to come and meet me, so my answer is technically 0 miles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40 miles I think is the furthest I've driven. There have been some wonderful meets where the gentleman has travelled much further

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I'm based central to th m56 / the m6 and the m62 x

For me I'd travel to Leeds or Liverpool in the m62

I'd go to Chester or Stockport on th m56

And Lancaster or Stoke on the m6 x

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By *adeDragonMan
over a year ago

Guildford

"40 miles I think is the furthest I've driven. There have been some wonderful meets where the gentleman has travelled much further "

Once met in Scotland, but was there for work, normally an hour away max unless travelling for other reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would walk five hundred miles
"I've lost count of the number of messages we get stating "shame you're so far away".

I'm biased but I would have thought Wilma was worth a train, plane or automobile journey

Got me wondering. What's the furthest anyone has had someone travel to meet with them. And was that "blind", as in no Skype beforehand, just messaging and the pictures on here?

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

When someone travelled 200 miles to meet me first I returned the favour but I like meets within the hour normally, less if possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooooooo youre not too far away at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The furthest someone has traveled to see me was from Devon but I've have guys come from all over.. Someone came up from Milton Keynes just for a social so it was a round trip!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All depends who the person is ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going blind, I've gone from Plymouth to Bristol. Though once traveling from Burnley (Near Manchester for those of you not sure) to Portsmouth I made a detour through all of Wales to Cardiff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Going blind, I've gone from Plymouth to Bristol. Though once traveling from Burnley (Near Manchester for those of you not sure) to Portsmouth I made a detour through all of Wales to Cardiff "

Going in not blind, I'll add, from here in Rosyth just north of Edinburgh, to Plymouth (on a 10 hour train on a good day).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We can't guarantee we'd manage so within 30miles(an hours driving) family and such could be awkward and we like a social first to calm nerves. Any further than that is a no go unless we're on a weekend away and can meet elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I travelled to Manchester to meet someone...I was going to deliver a car further south so it wasn't as if it was entirely wasted journey...we clicked.. Had a Chinese.meal then went back to the hotel he booked for mind blowing fun!

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By *exy_HornyCouple
over a year ago

Leigh

"I'm biased but I would have thought Wilma was worth a train, plane or automobile journey

About an hour is our limit unless we are going for another reason. In the past we have gone as far as Skegness just for a meet!

It appears we are less than an hour away from you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've lost count of the number of messages we get stating "shame you're so far away".

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There are two blokes respectively in Derby and Birmingham I would love to meet in a club, but so far I can't be bothered driving any further than Swindon, Manchester.

Does Derby even have a Swingers' Club?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless I feel that they're very special, I'd say an hour's drive maximum, for them or for me (not both!).

If we meet and then I don't fancy them for any reason (or them not fancy me), then I want to feel free to say "No Thanks" without feeling guilty about how far they've travelled...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyway - what is this "Shame you're too far away" business...?

I'm right here, where I want to be - it's them that's too far away, not me....!!!

Why moan to me about it..???

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

For me every other weekend I am In Manchester which confuses people as my profile says I am in London

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've lost count of the number of messages we get stating "shame you're so far away".

I'm biased but I would have thought Wilma was worth a train, plane or automobile journey

Got me wondering. What's the furthest anyone has had someone travel to meet with them. And was that "blind", as in no Skype beforehand, just messaging and the pictures on here?

I would travel to manchester to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me every other weekend I am In Manchester which confuses people as my profile says I am in London

If and when I go home I just change the postcode and town back to my hometown address.

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