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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Does anyone else find a great personality extremely attractive? Or is it now a lucky dip after selection based on looks? I know it's not really a suitable medium of which to cover this topic on a swingers site as its clearly not a primary judgement used to select playmates. However I'm talking generally as I feel in the whole it's falling down the pecking order.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can change your personality

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes a great personality is attractive in a social way and for friends but when it comes to casual sex I like a partner to be physically attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does anyone else find a great personality extremely attractive? Or is it now a lucky dip after selection based on looks? I know it's not really a suitable medium of which to cover this topic on a swingers site as its clearly not a primary judgement used to select playmates. However I'm talking generally as I feel in the whole it's falling down the pecking order. "

personality is always a primary judgement for me..

there is no point going ga ga over the size of someones cock if you cant have a conversation about it before getting down to business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there is no point going ga ga over the size of someones cock if you cant have a conversation about it before getting down to business "

Hard to talk with your mouth full.

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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A nice personality is good when chatting and it can be a turn on, but physical attraction needs to be there also; and on occasion we don't want any chat so its all about the physical. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I absolutely understand the need/importance of aesthetic beauty. However I feel that physical attraction should only be a tool to get your foot in the door. . & personality should kick the door off it's hinges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a good personality would make me want to met someone i wasn't sure about on looks alone.

same as a crap personality would put me off someone good looking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately. It is very difficult to make a decision based on personality alone on a site such as this. Occasionally a badly composed profile can indicate a personality trait that can put you off. However, pictures are there for all to see.

Personally, I believe that personality, similar intelligence levels and a mutual physical attraction are all important ingredients for mutually satisfying times

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

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By *MaleMan
over a year ago

A shit personality can certainly make someone's beautiful looks irrelevant.

Body off Baywatch, personality off Crimewatch is on the rise.

I suppose it it makes the rare & truly gorgeous personalities that back up a gorgeous body even more gorgeous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it doesnt matter, as it is nsa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personality is my best feature.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A shit personality can certainly make someone's beautiful looks irrelevant.

Body off Baywatch, personality off Crimewatch is on the rise.

I suppose it it makes the rare & truly gorgeous personalities that back up a gorgeous body even more gorgeous."

This is true, but I still wouldn't fuck Susan Boyle.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull


"Does anyone else find a great personality extremely attractive? Or is it now a lucky dip after selection based on looks? I know it's not really a suitable medium of which to cover this topic on a swingers site as its clearly not a primary judgement used to select playmates. However I'm talking generally as I feel in the whole it's falling down the pecking order.

personality is always a primary judgement for me..

there is no point going ga ga over the size of someones cock if you cant have a conversation about it before getting down to business "

Get your coat you've pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope personality dies count...because I'm a pretty ordinary looking guy with an average kinda body..... Sonething worked previously when I wanted it as I had plenty fun on here....and yes! I was drawn tinkers amity myself...but some great bids went with some of those personalities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*great bods

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me cynical but I look at profile pictures first.

Attraction is paramount before connection is made.

I'm sorry but I can't have sex with someone who i don't physically find attractive.

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