FabSwingers.com forum: "Not looking for single guy"

By *havedbear OP Man
over a year ago

What is it with people who post that we are not looking for a single guy, then they go looking at single men profiles. Rather a conflict of interests isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably to avoid getting loads of messages from guys they're not interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with people who post that we are not looking for a single guy, then they go looking at single men profiles. Rather a conflict of interests isn't it?"

Just perving I guess, I like the one's say that then have ten meets with single man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not ask them, then you'll have your answer??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people will have that, and also block single men messaging and then search themselves for what they want, saves having to wade through 100's of emails that don't meet what the are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't say theres much wrong with it....I mean...I look at women who are perhaps 20 something...I don't expect to meet any that age...

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

"What is it with people who post that we are not looking for a single guy, then they go looking at single men profiles. Rather a conflict of interests isn't it?"

I don't have a problem with that. To me it mean that they will choose the single guys that they wish to meet

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I'm not looking to move house but I still have a guilty pleasure of watching property shows

Window shopping can always be nice. Take it as a compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We aren't looking for single guys, but that doesn't stop me looking

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We look because we can, one might take our fancy and then we will approach him.

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By *havedbear OP Man
over a year ago

"Why not ask them, then you'll have your answer??

You can't message them as they block everyone from your sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they are just checking out the competition?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not ask them, then you'll have your answer??

You can't message them as they block everyone from your sex"

Apologies my lovely, your post said not looking for single guys, didn't realised you meant blocked. Well in that case, don't stress about it, its their profile, they're running it how it suits them.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"What is it with people who post that we are not looking for a single guy, then they go looking at single men profiles. Rather a conflict of interests isn't it?"

No not at all. Just means they are being proactive and will look for the types of guys they want .Saves wading through tonnes of random mails .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not looking for single guys but doesn't stop me perving especially when they have hot bodies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it amusing and at there loss for example I'm shown as a single guy but i have a fellow female hii sex driven individual who wants 3sums ect yet I'm shown single so basically don't judge a book by the cover as you/use have no idea what's hidden but avaliable

happy fabbin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why not ask them, then you'll have your answer??

You can't message them as they block everyone from your sex"

No need to ask them,you got the answers here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it amusing and at there loss for example I'm shown as a single guy but i have a fellow female hii sex driven individual who wants 3sums ect yet I'm shown single so basically don't judge a book by the cover as you/use have no idea what's hidden but avaliable

happy fabbin

Open a couples profile then, you can have a couples profile and a single man's profile,

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By *awtynNiceCouple
over a year ago

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Guess it depends why they are looking really, we often have a look at peeps posting in forums simply out of curiosity rather than desire; guess we are just a little nosey though

Some will also have a look at someone they like and then view the people who have verified that person, this could also lead them to you.

Just various reasons I guess. Have a nice weekend X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with people who post that we are not looking for a single guy, then they go looking at single men profiles. Rather a conflict of interests isn't it?"

it means that they don;t want messages from them.

It's the site's terminology not theirs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Window shopping

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happy fabbin

Open a couples profile then, you can have a couples profile and a single man's profile,"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happy fabbin

Open a couples profile then, you can have a couples profile and a single man's profile,"

Exactly this. Most people would assume the only thing available on a single guys profile, is a single guy, go figure??!

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

I hope you're not one of those guys who messages everyone to say "I saw you looked at me".

You looked at them too! Are people not allowed to browse/perve on other profiles at all? This is why we use stealth mode.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I don't worry about those things, I move on to profiles that interest me and I can contact.

Lot less stressful..

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By *AA123Couple
over a year ago

Lichfield

Their own rules.

They make and break them to suit them, not to suit the single guy.

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By *irty130Couple
over a year ago

Bristol Area

"Guess it depends why they are looking really, we often have a look at peeps posting in forums simply out of curiosity rather than desire; guess we are just a little nosey though

Some will also have a look at someone they like and then view the people who have verified that person, this could also lead them to you.

Just various reasons I guess. Have a nice weekend X "

^^^ THIS.

I bet you've had a ton of people look at your profile today now!

A lot of them in stealth mode too. and a lot of them will be men, it's just that they don't show up at all in L-A-M if you're not looking for them. Don't worry, you won't catch the ghey if they just look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea a could do that but i have more than enough apps ect pouring with notifications so another profile isn't happening unless she was to make the account

so basically all am saying is yea I agree I see a lot of gals saying no single men ect please and if we was to mail we get blocked anyway ahaa (didn't want to make a couple profile when we are fukk buddies and didn't want to give a false statement if you get Me)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happy fabbin

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....I really don't think people are going to hunt through single guy profiles, looking to see foes he have a female friend. ....There are hundreds of cpls profiles out there already, so why should they bother?

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By *ivilizedkinkCouple
over a year ago

harrow

Because they can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't bother me. I just check another profile that interests me and can contact

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you turn all your filters on to stop messages from single men it will say "not looking for single men" on the profile, it doesn't mean they aren't looking it just means they don't want messages from anyone and will do the messaging themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happy fabbin

Are you really suggesting that we should assume that single men's profiles might actually couples?

That;s a new one on me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We aren't looking for single guys, but that doesn't stop me looking

Keep my curtains open in future then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they might be looking for a guy and prefer to do it that way. They have passed you by so why attempt to message them?

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

Why are you so concerned about how other people choose to run their profiles?

You've had many cogent responses above, so I'd suggest you just take note and concentrate on how you run your own profile.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

Maybe they don't want to be mailed by men who don't fit what they are looking for and choose to do the searching for themselves.

Maybe they are just being nosey.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"What is it with people who post that we are not looking for a single guy, then they go looking at single men profiles. Rather a conflict of interests isn't it?"

No...

We prefer to search and find single men that we might be interested in ourselves.

Plus I'm nosey and like reading profiles, so I look at lots of people that we wouldn't be compatible with.

Not that people would generally know unless we can pics or message them as we view in stealth mode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we look at people in america but not going to ever play with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it with people who post that we are not looking for a single guy, then they go looking at single men profiles. Rather a conflict of interests isn't it?"

Could possibly be the male half checking the profiles. Maybe he's secretly bi and is looking to find another guy for some discreet fun

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