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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss" I used to have that on my profile. I'm looking to play with people as a single, but I'm also looking to play with people as a couple. I think it's ok to make people aware that you also have the option of playing as a couple on your singles profile. You're just... enhancing the menu as it were. | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss" I'd be really gleeful if I was offered sex by a lady and she said she had a male friend to join in | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss" Would you find it just as annoying if she had a cheeky little " looking for someone to play with me and my bi female friend " on her profile ? | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss Would you find it just as annoying if she had a cheeky little " looking for someone to play with me and my bi female friend " on her profile ? " Sigh | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss Would you find it just as annoying if she had a cheeky little " looking for someone to play with me and my bi female friend " on her profile ? Sigh" It's a reasonable question ..... | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss Would you find it just as annoying if she had a cheeky little " looking for someone to play with me and my bi female friend " on her profile ? Sigh It's a reasonable question ....." I am curious to know his response to this. | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss Would you find it just as annoying if she had a cheeky little " looking for someone to play with me and my bi female friend " on her profile ? Sigh It's a reasonable question ....." and how often does that happen?? | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss Would you find it just as annoying if she had a cheeky little " looking for someone to play with me and my bi female friend " on her profile ? " But that would make it a female/remale profile not a female/male there is a big differance | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss Would you find it just as annoying if she had a cheeky little " looking for someone to play with me and my bi female friend " on her profile ? Sigh It's a reasonable question ..... and how often does that happen??" It's happened twice for us , and the last time we said no as her friend wasn't our type . The reason for asking was to ascertain if you have a swinging type of mind . We see the scene as an opportunity to experience all sorts of fun , with a variety of people . If the profile says they have a partner , you can choose whether or not it would work for you . Nothing is covert so to speak when it says on the profile .... | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss Would you find it just as annoying if she had a cheeky little " looking for someone to play with me and my bi female friend " on her profile ? Sigh It's a reasonable question ..... and how often does that happen?? It's happened twice for us , and the last time we said no as her friend wasn't our type . The reason for asking was to ascertain if you have a swinging type of mind . We see the scene as an opportunity to experience all sorts of fun , with a variety of people . If the profile says they have a partner , you can choose whether or not it would work for you . Nothing is covert so to speak when it says on the profile ...." totally agree however my choice might be to look for a single fem i would browse single fem profile if i wanted to meet a couple i would browse a couples profile i am completly open to all experiences i also have no issue with single people having regular friends to make a couple i have i would discuss with an individual if they might be interested in joing up not a blanket statement saying i want someone to play with us gosh sorry bit waffly hope that makes sense | |||
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"Assume it did. Would you be equally annoyed?" no i wouldnt but thats not the point i am making is it | |||
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"To me it suggest that the lady has a boyfriend who sometimes plays but often meets alone. Cant see anything wrong with it myself" That situation we can understand and completely accept. However, we are also "irritated" by the single female profile that starts out with "Me and my Boyfriend/FB/Hubby are looking for a single fem to join us for FFM fun"... or... "My boyfriend/FB/Hubby will always be in attendance, but not join in unless invited"... A "couple" should use a couples profile, a "single fem" a single fem profile! Simple really!! | |||
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"You could always just report the profile OP and let admin decide " what???? who rattled your cage?? | |||
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"You could always just report the profile OP and let admin decide what???? who rattled your cage??" Its a forum I,m allowed to have an opinion as for my cage I,m not in one | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss Would you find it just as annoying if she had a cheeky little " looking for someone to play with me and my bi female friend " on her profile ? " | |||
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"You could always just report the profile OP and let admin decide what???? who rattled your cage?? Its a forum I,m allowed to have an opinion as for my cage I,m not in one well you should be why pop up saying i should be reported fool" If you read my post correctly you will see I said "YOU could report the profile to admin and let them decide" now who,s a fool? | |||
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"You could always just report the profile OP and let admin decide what???? who rattled your cage?? Its a forum I,m allowed to have an opinion as for my cage I,m not in one well you should be why pop up saying i should be reported fool" That's not what he's saying, re read his post | |||
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"many apologies i misread sorreeeeeeeee" Thank you carry on people | |||
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"You could always just report the profile OP and let admin decide what???? who rattled your cage?? Its a forum I,m allowed to have an opinion as for my cage I,m not in one well you should be why pop up saying i should be reported fool That's not what he's saying, re read his post" i have and apoloised | |||
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"You could always just report the profile OP and let admin decide what???? who rattled your cage?? Its a forum I,m allowed to have an opinion as for my cage I,m not in one well you should be why pop up saying i should be reported fool" Not you...The single female profile... | |||
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"To me it suggest that the lady has a boyfriend who sometimes plays but often meets alone. Cant see anything wrong with it myself That situation we can understand and completely accept. However, we are also "irritated" by the single female profile that starts out with "Me and my Boyfriend/FB/Hubby are looking for a single fem to join us for FFM fun"... or... "My boyfriend/FB/Hubby will always be in attendance, but not join in unless invited"... A "couple" should use a couples profile, a "single fem" a single fem profile! Simple really!! " | |||
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"If a single profile states they will only play with their partner present, report them and admin will sort it out. If it states they sometimes play with their partner present then discuss that with them before meeting. Not worth getting upset about." I'M NOT UPSET JUST THOUGHT IT WAS A DISCUSSION TOPIC | |||
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"We have this couples profile that we use day to day and singles profiles that we use specifically if we are meeting as singles. The terms Couple and Single are about how you are meeting, not your actual relationship status. To suggest reporting someone for saying they are single when they are not is just ridiculous. Half the people on here are in relationships but playing alone! We sometimes mention in our singles profiles that we are part of a couple to offer the opportunity for people to say "great, better still if OH wants to play" Where do you drawer the line? Stop people saying they are single of they have a regular fuck buddy? The only people I can imagine having an issue with his are singletons seeking singletons in which case "plenty of fish" is that-a-way, you've inadvertently joined a swingers site! " That's exactly what I was trying to say , the only issue as I see it , is if the single only says at the last minute that he/ she wants to bring a partner along to an arranged meet . | |||
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"If a single profile states they will only play with their partner present, report them and admin will sort it out. If it states they sometimes play with their partner present then discuss that with them before meeting. Not worth getting upset about. I'M NOT UPSET JUST THOUGHT IT WAS A DISCUSSION TOPIC" It is a discussion topic OP but some people think only their opinion is right | |||
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"Cut the bull.... It's wrong for a couple to advertise as a single lady with something along the lines of "my partner always attends my meets, will join in it asked" etc etc 1. It's deceitful 2. It smacks of attention seeking 3. It should be a couple profile Same goes for single guy profiles with a male/female partner or single girl with a male/female partner..... On the flip side, to those that advertise in this deceitful way at least they know you've read the profile! " Perfectly put!! | |||
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"Cut the bull.... It's wrong for a couple to advertise as a single lady with something along the lines of "my partner always attends my meets, will join in it asked" etc etc 1. It's deceitful 2. It smacks of attention seeking 3. It should be a couple profile Same goes for single guy profiles with a male/female partner or single girl with a male/female partner..... On the flip side, to those that advertise in this deceitful way at least they know you've read the profile! " | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss I used to have that on my profile. I'm looking to play with people as a single, but I'm also looking to play with people as a couple. I think it's ok to make people aware that you also have the option of playing as a couple on your singles profile. You're just... enhancing the menu as it were." But, with a couples profile you at least get some idea of what the guy is like so you are able to make some sort of judgement as to whether you'd fancy meeting them. | |||
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"It's not just the fems that do this. I've come across countless men who state they want someone to join him and his existing fuck buddy Errr it's a pass from me " Finally Someone gets what I'm saying I love you x | |||
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" I'M NOT UPSET JUST THOUGHT IT WAS A DISCUSSION TOPIC" Are you sure your not upset? You sound upset. Don't get upset. | |||
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" I'M NOT UPSET JUST THOUGHT IT WAS A DISCUSSION TOPIC Are you sure your not upset? You sound upset. Don't get upset. " Your about an hour late with your post | |||
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" I'M NOT UPSET JUST THOUGHT IT WAS A DISCUSSION TOPIC Are you sure your not upset? You sound upset. Don't get upset. Your about an hour late with your post " I know but in trying not to GET UPSET ABOUT IT!!! | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss I used to have that on my profile. I'm looking to play with people as a single, but I'm also looking to play with people as a couple. I think it's ok to make people aware that you also have the option of playing as a couple on your singles profile. You're just... enhancing the menu as it were." Site rules state you should have a single and a couple profile then | |||
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"I think it fair to say that if someone uses a single profile but only ever meet as as a couple then they need to change to a couple profile, but you can't dictate to people who want to meet as a single that they are not allowed a single profile if at any time they may meet as a couple. And if they are meeting as a single what's the harm in mentioning that they have a partner. We are all adults. We sometimes stay in a hotel if I am working away and my oh might meet someone as a single. So she mentions me as otherwise the guy is wonder what the hell the blokes clothes are doing hanging up in the room. It also gives her the added security of being able to say her oh is not far away. " Do you have a singles profile? | |||
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". Do you have a singles profile?" Yes, we each have a singles profile if we are meeting alone and this one if we are meeting as a couple and for general chat. | |||
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"i am finding more and more that "single" fem profiles have a hidden extra. the profile has a cheeky little "looking for someone to play with me and my boyfriend" i happen to find this really annoying should it be a couple profile? i think so please if you disagree just be ok with it and not the usual your wrong i'm right stuff. discuss" I agree with the OP but from a bifem point of view... I do occasionally look to see if there are any single women near me who are looking to meet other single women, but guess what, you look on the profile and its a married woman looking for a 'playmate'.... | |||
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"Some guys on here need to get a grip and leave there dummies in there mouth lol if a woman has a single profile but wants here partner to watch or be there for her safety as long as she says before the meet why not this is a free swingers site not match.com there is a lot of wierd single guys on here and the rest of the forum police really need a reality check " don't hold back will ya | |||
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" see how many forum police jump on that lol" by forum police do you mean people who have a different opinion to you? | |||
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"Some guys on here need to get a grip and leave there dummies in there mouth lol if a woman has a single profile but wants here partner to watch or be there for her safety as long as she says before the meet why not this is a free swingers site not match.com there is a lot of wierd single guys on here and the rest of the forum police really need a reality check " You called? I'll refer you to my previous post as to the rules set by Admin. | |||
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"No couldn't care less about others opinions they moralise on a free swingers site lol it's about having fun that's all if I meet a single girl off here and she wants her partner to turn up who cares lol" But then in essence it's a cpl so should have a couples profile, regardless of if the person that's aforementioned on said profile joins in or not..... And yes it might be free to the masses but also a lot of people pay for membership so it's not then free.... | |||
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"Some guys on here need to get a grip and leave there dummies in there mouth lol if a woman has a single profile but wants here partner to watch or be there for her safety as long as she says before the meet why not this is a free swingers site not match.com there is a lot of wierd single guys on here and the rest of the forum police really need a reality check " this, and then some. | |||
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" see how many forum police jump on that lol" I wouldn't be happy if I arranged to meet a man and his girlfriend came to watch. If I wanted 3 somes with a friend of mine and another man I would set up a couple's profile. If I wanted two strangers I would put it on my profile,or look for mm couples. If I wanted a man and a woman I would search for couples. | |||
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"Some guys on here need to get a grip and leave there dummies in there mouth lol if a woman has a single profile but wants here partner to watch or be there for her safety as long as she says before the meet why not this is a free swingers site not match.com there is a lot of wierd single guys on here and the rest of the forum police really need a reality check this, and then some. " | |||
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"Some guys on here need to get a grip and leave there dummies in there mouth lol if a woman has a single profile but wants here partner to watch or be there for her safety as long as she says before the meet why not this is a free swingers site not match.com there is a lot of wierd single guys on here and the rest of the forum police really need a reality check " If her partner is a prerequisite to her attending the meeting then there will be two people turning up... Therefore a "couple" of people? So her (their) suggestion that she is a single female is at best disingenuous? | |||
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"When I meet as a single, my partner doesn't turn up too. The definition of single for meets is alone. Similarly for him, on his single profile, he meets alone. On our couple profile, we meet together, or go to a party or a club together, but most often play apart .... hence some crazy clubs don't see us as a couple, even though we live together ... " A lady who seizes the point!! xxx Oh my I could kiss you right now!! xx | |||
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