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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Given that Anglo-Indians make up about 2% of the UK population and swinging itself is a niche activity; I can't help but guess that more than 2% of swingers seem to have some Indian origins.

I'm just curious whether people who know more about the subject think there's anything about Indian culture that makes swinging easier to accept or get into?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting...

There's a few Indian swingers on here.

But being a single guy of Indian origin I haven't met with any as yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Interesting...

There's a few Indian swingers on here.

But being a single guy of Indian origin I haven't met with any as yet "

Any thoughts / guesses on cultural traits?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting...

There's a few Indian swingers on here.

But being a single guy of Indian origin I haven't met with any as yet

Any thoughts / guesses on cultural traits?"

Speaking for myself, I think it's a integration and amalgamation of east and west cultures amongst the present and emerging generations whereby they have a lot more independence and freedom to explore fantasies without the repression and judgement that previous generations may have faced

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Indian and have seen loads of Indian couples and females on here and endless Indian guys.

I have seen couples and females from 18-45 on here so many Indians swing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm Indian and have seen loads of Indian couples and females on here and endless Indian guys.

I have seen couples and females from 18-45 on here so many Indians swing "

Why do you suppose it is so?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm Indian and have seen loads of Indian couples and females on here and endless Indian guys.

I have seen couples and females from 18-45 on here so many Indians swing

Why do you suppose it is so? "

Swinging is not a race thing it's a preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm Indian and have seen loads of Indian couples and females on here and endless Indian guys.

I have seen couples and females from 18-45 on here so many Indians swing

Why do you suppose it is so?

Swinging is not a race thing it's a preference "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm Indian and have seen loads of Indian couples and females on here and endless Indian guys.

I have seen couples and females from 18-45 on here so many Indians swing

Why do you suppose it is so?

Swinging is not a race thing it's a preference "

So we can't hypothesise why some races seem to have or explore that preference more than others?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm Indian and have seen loads of Indian couples and females on here and endless Indian guys.

I have seen couples and females from 18-45 on here so many Indians swing

Why do you suppose it is so?

Swinging is not a race thing it's a preference

So we can't hypothesise why some races seem to have or explore that preference more than others? "

Which race/races would that be then?

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Ive not seen many Asian men or women in clubs, a few black guys (no women) and I've never seen oriental men or women. Not that I've been to hundreds... Maybe it's different in London.

I've sometimes wondered why. But not dwelt on it over much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess they have exactly the same desires and wants as every one else, but maybe they stand out more in the profiles due to being less common

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive not seen many Asian men or women in clubs, a few black guys (no women) and I've never seen oriental men or women. Not that I've been to hundreds... Maybe it's different in London.

I've sometimes wondered why. But not dwelt on it over much

There are usually a few couples with an oriental female at AbFabs but I'd guess more oriental people live in and around London.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being new to this I have only had a couple of meets, but one of those was with an Indian couple and it was a lovely experience

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Being new to this I have only had a couple of meets, but one of those was with an Indian couple and it was a lovely experience"

Sure it was, I'm just interested in any cultural differences really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's quite a long and expansive subject...

Hard to answer via forum txts

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's quite a long and expansive subject...

Hard to answer via forum txts "

I enjoyed your earlier insights...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I wish there were more in Brighton.

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By *eMontresMan
over a year ago

Halesowen

Plenty of cowboys on here though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's quite a long and expansive subject...

Hard to answer via forum txts

I enjoyed your earlier insights... "

Happy to discuss privately x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This question needs to be answered by someone from the Anglo Asian community really, not me

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Given that Anglo-Indians make up about 2% of the UK population and swinging itself is a niche activity; I can't help but guess that more than 2% of swingers seem to have some Indian origins.

I'm just curious whether people who know more about the subject think there's anything about Indian culture that makes swinging easier to accept or get into? "

In short no, not really, if anything it’s probably a bit more difficult.

The south East Asian culture in this country is somewhat stuck in a time bubble. Although this is changing slowly as we the younger generations, for want of a better phrase become more like you and less like them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Given that Anglo-Indians make up about 2% of the UK population and swinging itself is a niche activity; I can't help but guess that more than 2% of swingers seem to have some Indian origins.

I'm just curious whether people who know more about the subject think there's anything about Indian culture that makes swinging easier to accept or get into?

In short no, not really, if anything it’s probably a bit more difficult.

Do you think there are a higher proportion of Anglo-Indian swingers than in the population generally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dunno but I think Indian women are sexy as fuck. Would LOVE to give ships shitty one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shilpa shetty lol...fucking predictive text

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Given that Anglo-Indians make up about 2% of the UK population and swinging itself is a niche activity; I can't help but guess that more than 2% of swingers seem to have some Indian origins.

I'm just curious whether people who know more about the subject think there's anything about Indian culture that makes swinging easier to accept or get into?

In short no, not really, if anything it’s probably a bit more difficult.

Do you think there are a higher proportion of Anglo-Indian swingers than in the population generally? "

I would have said no, we are probably rare but stand out breed which gives that impression. But I don’t have all the statistical data to hand to make an informed decision. Just how many of that 2/3.5 % are swingers?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Given that Anglo-Indians make up about 2% of the UK population and swinging itself is a niche activity; I can't help but guess that more than 2% of swingers seem to have some Indian origins.

I'm just curious whether people who know more about the subject think there's anything about Indian culture that makes swinging easier to accept or get into?

In short no, not really, if anything it’s probably a bit more difficult.

Do you think there are a higher proportion of Anglo-Indian swingers than in the population generally?

No idea, I was just implying that more than 2% of AbFabs or Chameleons members seem to be Anglo-Indian and I think it's a good thing...

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"Given that Anglo-Indians make up about 2% of the UK population and swinging itself is a niche activity; I can't help but guess that more than 2% of swingers seem to have some Indian origins.

I'm just curious whether people who know more about the subject think there's anything about Indian culture that makes swinging easier to accept or get into?

In short no, not really, if anything it’s probably a bit more difficult.

Do you think there are a higher proportion of Anglo-Indian swingers than in the population generally?

No idea, I was just implying that more than 2% of AbFabs or Chameleons members seem to be Anglo-Indian and I think it's a good thing... "

I wasn't suggesting you were saying it was a bad thing

. It's possible that those clubs might be in areas where the % of south East Asian’s is higher than general. It could be that it’s the same 5 faces that turn up every week, I don’t really know

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By *r BigbullMan
over a year ago

Leicester

Indian couple are very shy , to play . They love couple to couple .

I would there is much more than 2% some night at a fans its 20% Anglo Indian ..

Indian couple do you like Indian mens? or bored of them ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Indian not a lot of Indians chat on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm Indian and have seen loads of Indian couples and females on here and endless Indian guys.

I have seen couples and females from 18-45 on here so many Indians swing "

Maybe the ladies would like to reveal themselves to their admirers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met an Indian couple in Xtasia. Very nice they were too. Nothing more than touching, fingers and FF kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having been to a few clubs in London (mainly abfab) there are plenty of indian/Pakistani couples, what I have noticed a vast majority stick to other Indian/Pakistani couples, so agree with a previous comments about being shy. I have seen loads of single indian/Pakistani men, while some are quiet and reserved others are very pushy.

I wished more came to clubs would live to play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do clubs but attended a few private parties and swing socials.

Only e 're seen one indan couple .

Had a few replies from Indian couples .

What I've found is at a recent party were a few guys with younger Philippine or T wives and a few eastern European couples which all adds to fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been searching, no result at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't do clubs but attended a few private parties and swing socials.

Only e 're seen one indan couple .

Had a few replies from Indian couples .

What I've found is at a recent party were a few guys with younger Philippine or T wives and a few eastern European couples which all adds to fun"

I read a statistic in an east Berlin museum that upto 1/3 of eastern berliners engaged in nudism when the wall was up, apparently it was a popular form of passive resistance. That could be a factor in eastern europeans being more liberal than prudish western europeans...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm Indian and have seen loads of Indian couples and females on here and endless Indian guys.

I have seen couples and females from 18-45 on here so many Indians swing

Why do you suppose it is so?

Swinging is not a race thing it's a preference "

Bloody good answere mate. It is a life style not a vultural thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Given that Anglo-Indians make up about 2% of the UK population and swinging itself is a niche activity; I can't help but guess that more than 2% of swingers seem to have some Indian origins.

I'm just curious whether people who know more about the subject think there's anything about Indian culture that makes swinging easier to accept or get into? "

I work with so many indian professionals. Also the post code I live is full of professionals though I have no luck to find anyone so far.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm Indian and have seen loads of Indian couples and females on here and endless Indian guys.

I have seen couples and females from 18-45 on here so many Indians swing

Why do you suppose it is so?

Swinging is not a race thing it's a preference

Bloody good answere mate. It is a life style not a vultural thing."

And in your head those two things are mutually exclusive?

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By *LCCCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

I wouldn't know from personal experience, but I have heard that swinging is very popular amongst young couples in the more metropolitan areas of India, and that affairs are also rife for both men and women.

As others avove have spoken about nudity in west Germany, and India being quite conservative. Perhaps there might be a colleration between conservative cultures, and sexual deviancy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swinging is definitely over-represented in the Asian population.

It's a combination of multi-cultural society as you develop a mentality where you can compartmentalise eg separate home/origin culture and the local customs yet exist between both.

It's also a desire to be different.

Finally, polygamy is often an excepted cultural aspect, making swinging more 'natural' to us.

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By *omethingSoGoodAboutSofiaWoman
over a year ago

Blackburn/Preston

I'm not sure I'm adding anything to this thread but I'm a British Pakistani and absolutely love the scene...although I do have to live two completely separate lives which sometimes can be hard work! In all honesty I've been to a few clubs up north and I don't see many couples, single men, yes but not a huge deal of couples...a few have started going to a club I regularly go to and I don't know why or what it is but they look at me in a very judgemental, not very nice way, I'm possibly being overly conscious but that's honestly how I feel...there's an awful lot of judgement, double standard gender bullshit and hypocritical views amongst my culture so I tend to stay away!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Swinging is definitely over-represented in the Asian population.

It's a combination of multi-cultural society as you develop a mentality where you can compartmentalise eg separate home/origin culture and the local customs yet exist between both.

Do you think that applies equally to second or third generation immigrants?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm not sure I'm adding anything to this thread but I'm a British Pakistani and absolutely love the scene...although I do have to live two completely separate lives which sometimes can be hard work! In all honesty I've been to a few clubs up north and I don't see many couples, single men, yes but not a huge deal of couples...a few have started going to a club I regularly go to and I don't know why or what it is but they look at me in a very judgemental, not very nice way, I'm possibly being overly conscious but that's honestly how I feel...there's an awful lot of judgement, double standard gender bullshit and hypocritical views amongst my culture so I tend to stay away! "

Are you saying it's other British-Pakistani men who appear to be judgmental as opposed to all members of the club?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Swinging is definitely over-represented in the Asian population. "

Long may it last

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging is definitely over-represented in the Asian population.

Long may it last

..And grow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Swinging is definitely over-represented in the Asian population.

It's a combination of multi-cultural society as you develop a mentality where you can compartmentalise eg separate home/origin culture and the local customs yet exist between both.

Do you think that applies equally to second or third generation immigrants? "

More so in second generation diaspora where there is a mix of culture.

Unfortunately I think as the future generations come along, the overall pattern will become similar to the overall statistics due to similar local cultural influences, which is a shame.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Swinging is definitely over-represented in the Asian population.

Long may it last

..And grow"

May it live long and prosper

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Vulcan Salute*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Swinging is definitely over-represented in the Asian population.

It's a combination of multi-cultural society as you develop a mentality where you can compartmentalise eg separate home/origin culture and the local customs yet exist between both.

Do you think that applies equally to second or third generation immigrants?

More so in second generation diaspora where there is a mix of culture.

Unfortunately I think as the future generations come along, the overall pattern will become similar to the overall statistics due to similar local cultural influences, which is a shame."

Hmmm I think the local culture will improve its attitude towards swinging over time. I mean you'd be hard pressed to make the arguement that conventional monogamy is turning out particularly successful here! The only thing slowing the divorce rate is that more and more couples just don't bother to get married in the first place!

It probably will never been mainstream but could have more acceptance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe cultural habits will change finding concepts such as 5 to 7 relationships, as in France, much more acceptable. That should be on the Pro-EU teams top ten reasons to stay in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you saying it's other British-Pakistani men who appear to be judgmental as opposed to all members of the club? "

That's EXACTLY what she just said in her last sentence and just confirms what the formbook has been telling us for two decades! Why, when there's a dearth of single women on the club scene anyway what accusation did you want to pin on the rest of us single white male club-goers?

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By *hav02Man
over a year ago

Glasgow/London

Think you'll find the swinging rates are higher in couples where one is Caucasian and the other is south Asian.

A westernisation of Eastern culture is what is changing the dynamics.

As far as i know, swinging doesn't exist in Indian culture.

And even on here, most couples profiles that i see say "no Asians please"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How narrow minded

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"there's an awful lot of judgement, double standard gender bullshit and hypocritical views amongst my culture so I tend to stay away! "

Isn't that the case in all cultures to a lesser or greater extent?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"there's an awful lot of judgement, double standard gender bullshit and hypocritical views amongst my culture so I tend to stay away!

Isn't that the case in all cultures to a lesser or greater extent?

I miss the days when Britain was a Roman colony and orgies were the natural way to get to know your neighbours

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

"there's an awful lot of judgement, double standard gender bullshit and hypocritical views amongst my culture so I tend to stay away!

Isn't that the case in all cultures to a lesser or greater extent?

I miss the days when Britain was a Roman colony and orgies were the natural way to get to know your neighbours"

Gosh the quickening's kept you looking amazingly well.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"there's an awful lot of judgement, double standard gender bullshit and hypocritical views amongst my culture so I tend to stay away!

Isn't that the case in all cultures to a lesser or greater extent?

I miss the days when Britain was a Roman colony and orgies were the natural way to get to know your neighbours

Gosh the quickening's kept you looking amazingly well.

Reincarnation

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By *akedninjaMan
over a year ago

edinburgh

Geronimo!

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By *r OreoMan
over a year ago

Croydon

Im part of a mixed race couple - were both single on here, been together as a couple for 5 yrs.

Weve been to many clubs, and dont see many asian couples but see a few. I cant recall ever seeing a single asian lady however. Our trips are predominantly southern based though, so it may well (and i expect it would) vary from area to area as the % of the local population varies.

As said above tho, swinging is a lifestyle choice not a skin colour based one.

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