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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough

Have been reading a lot of rather scary statistics on here lately regarding oral transmission of sexually transmitted diseases. We always use condoms for penetration but am now wondering if we should insist on them for oral as well. How common is that practice in the lifestyle?

Certainly I prefer the feel and taste of a naked cock in my mouth, and I'm sure it feels better for the guy, but I value my health more - how many of you forumites insist on condoms (and/or mouth dams) for oral? ~Kate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use condoms for oral with any non-longterm partners.

Some people won't agree to that, which is fine - we just don't do oral together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is what your looking for

http://m.ebay.co.uk/itm/272193411374

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn't even consider condoms or dams for oral . It's down to personal choice , we wouldn't judge those who insist on using them , but we wouldn't meet them

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

There's nothing like lots of pleasurable oral sex n just luv going down on a lady but rarely get pleasured bye d ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

always Use them for oral. No cover no oral!

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"always Use them for oral. No cover no oral! "

Do you get much protest from that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always Use them for oral. No cover no oral!

Do you get much protest from that? "

I/we (myself and my partner) are always up front before meeting. We have the occasional person who thinks they can talk us round (they can't), but mostly it's fine. They either decide they want oral and so use a condom, or they decide they're not that bothered and we don't do oral.

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By *exyFusionCouple
over a year ago

Near to you


"always Use them for oral. No cover no oral!

Do you get much protest from that?

I/we (myself and my partner) are always up front before meeting. We have the occasional person who thinks they can talk us round (they can't), but mostly it's fine. They either decide they want oral and so use a condom, or they decide they're not that bothered and we don't do oral."

Yeah at the end of the day, I would think having one's cock sucked whilst wrapped would be better than not being sucked at all, but maybe they're sticking to their unwrapped principles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought that even with a condom, there might be a danger of snagging it on teeth??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always Use them for oral. No cover no oral!

Do you get much protest from that?

I/we (myself and my partner) are always up front before meeting. We have the occasional person who thinks they can talk us round (they can't), but mostly it's fine. They either decide they want oral and so use a condom, or they decide they're not that bothered and we don't do oral.

Yeah at the end of the day, I would think having one's cock sucked whilst wrapped would be better than not being sucked at all, but maybe they're sticking to their unwrapped principles "

We would have to disagree with this .

Sabrina wouldn't suck a cock with a condom on , any more than eat a chocolate bar with the wrapper on .

And I would rather have a wank than have my cock sucked with a condom on .

As I said before , it's down to preference .

We do say on our profile we only play bare for oral

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"always Use them for oral. No cover no oral!

Do you get much protest from that?

I/we (myself and my partner) are always up front before meeting. We have the occasional person who thinks they can talk us round (they can't), but mostly it's fine. They either decide they want oral and so use a condom, or they decide they're not that bothered and we don't do oral.

Yeah at the end of the day, I would think having one's cock sucked whilst wrapped would be better than not being sucked at all, but maybe they're sticking to their unwrapped principles

We would have to disagree with this .

Sabrina wouldn't suck a cock with a condom on , any more than eat a chocolate bar with the wrapper on .

And I would rather have a wank than have my cock sucked with a condom on .

As I said before , it's down to preference .

We do say on our profile we only play bare for oral "

Yes I know you only do oral bare, you've stated it numerous times. But I asked the question of and was actually interested in feedback from the minority of people that insist on condoms for oral.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"always Use them for oral. No cover no oral!

Do you get much protest from that?

I/we (myself and my partner) are always up front before meeting. We have the occasional person who thinks they can talk us round (they can't), but mostly it's fine. They either decide they want oral and so use a condom, or they decide they're not that bothered and we don't do oral.

Yeah at the end of the day, I would think having one's cock sucked whilst wrapped would be better than not being sucked at all, but maybe they're sticking to their unwrapped principles

We would have to disagree with this .

Sabrina wouldn't suck a cock with a condom on , any more than eat a chocolate bar with the wrapper on .

And I would rather have a wank than have my cock sucked with a condom on .

As I said before , it's down to preference .

We do say on our profile we only play bare for oral

Yes I know you only do oral bare, you've stated it numerous times. But I asked the question of and was actually interested in feedback from the minority of people that insist on condoms for oral."

So no licking pussy then either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No condoms for sex is reasonable & acceptable but if a woman told me "has happened before" that I'd need to wear a condom for a bj I wouldn't waste my time meeting her.

It's pointless

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"No condoms for sex is reasonable & acceptable but if a woman told me "has happened before" that I'd need to wear a condom for a bj I wouldn't waste my time meeting her.

It's pointless"

In line with the question posed, so is your answer

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough

Thanks Wasphunter and Bawtryforest for your helpful responses xx

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

I won't give oral to a bloke wearing a condom, they smell and taste nasty. I know there is a small risk of STIs through oral, my choice to not use them. If he insists on wearing a condom for a BJ, then no BJ.

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"Yes I know you only do oral bare, you've stated it numerous times. But I asked the question of and was actually interested in feedback from the minority of people that insist on condoms for oral."

This is the question you asked.
"How common is that practice in the lifestyle?"

Surely you need answers from people who won't use condoms for oral as well as those who do to find out how common it is. If you only rely on the 2 people that use condoms then it's 100% for condom use and that clearly isn't the case.

We use condoms for penetration, and oral without condoms, knowing that there is a risk of infection but somewhat lower than bare penetrative sex, but how others go about giving oral should be immaterial to what you are prepared to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes I know you only do oral bare, you've stated it numerous times. But I asked the question of and was actually interested in feedback from the minority of people that insist on condoms for oral.

This is the question you asked.How common is that practice in the lifestyle?

Surely you need answers from people who won't use condoms for oral as well as those who do to find out how common it is. If you only rely on the 2 people that use condoms then it's 100% for condom use and that clearly isn't the case.

We use condoms for penetration, and oral without condoms, knowing that there is a risk of infection but somewhat lower than bare penetrative sex, but how others go about giving oral should be immaterial to what you are prepared to do."

At the risk of further incurring the wrath of the op , we felt the same way , hence our response .

But since it's not what the op is wanting to hear I fear you have wasted your time too

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By *exyFusionCouple
over a year ago

Near to you

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"Yes I know you only do oral bare, you've stated it numerous times. But I asked the question of and was actually interested in feedback from the minority of people that insist on condoms for oral.

This is the question you asked.How common is that practice in the lifestyle?

Surely you need answers from people who won't use condoms for oral as well as those who do to find out how common it is. If you only rely on the 2 people that use condoms then it's 100% for condom use and that clearly isn't the case.

We use condoms for penetration, and oral without condoms, knowing that there is a risk of infection but somewhat lower than bare penetrative sex, but how others go about giving oral should be immaterial to what you are prepared to do."

Yes - and it is completely immaterial to what I am prepared to do. I am just curious and gathering information about the experiences of people that do insist on condoms for oral, how it works for them, and thanks to a few people who answered the question, I am finding out.

PS. wrath? me? nah.

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"Yes I know you only do oral bare, you've stated it numerous times. But I asked the question of and was actually interested in feedback from the minority of people that insist on condoms for oral.

This is the question you asked.How common is that practice in the lifestyle?

Surely you need answers from people who won't use condoms for oral as well as those who do to find out how common it is. If you only rely on the 2 people that use condoms then it's 100% for condom use and that clearly isn't the case.

We use condoms for penetration, and oral without condoms, knowing that there is a risk of infection but somewhat lower than bare penetrative sex, but how others go about giving oral should be immaterial to what you are prepared to do.

At the risk of further incurring the wrath of the op , we felt the same way , hence our response .

But since it's not what the op is wanting to hear I fear you have wasted your time too "

You are so wrong about this actually - I really don't want to ever have to use condoms for oral - I hate the taste and feel of it and don't think it can feel that great for the guy either. I know that the vast majority of people don't use condoms for oral - myself included - which is why I am interested in the views of those that DO use them. I didn't think that the question was all that difficult to understand but hey ho, carry on LOL.

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton

This is a good post and yes condoms for oral but if you know someone really well then that could be different but one off`s if they don`t like condoms for oral then it just does not happen as it`s a two way thing

Has to be respect from both sides.

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By *he Hobbit And MeCouple
over a year ago

southampton


"I think this is what your looking for

http://m.ebay.co.uk/itm/272193411374"

Haha

I may invest in one of these for a fetish night

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By *ws101Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Ive had my cock sucked by soooo many people including strangers at the manzfield spa... its a hit and miss... thankfully ive always had misses... but at the end of the day.. if your doing this.. its like crossing the road.. think.. look both sides... and walk... if anything happens its your fault... you didnt have to cross before the ribbed and spotted crossing (condoms i use) lol

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"Yes - and it is completely immaterial to what I am prepared to do. I am just curious and gathering information about the experiences of people that do insist on condoms for oral, how it works for them, and thanks to a few people who answered the question, I am finding out.

PS. wrath? me? nah."

But you asked 2 questions and only 2 people answered the second one. You appeared to get a bit vexed with people that answered the first one.

As an extra to the first question, we have never seen a condom being used for oral sex in a club and never seen a dental dam at all.

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By *ws101Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Oh and last year statistically we should all be better off in the economy lol. Oh and ukip would get more seats... oh and the nhs should have more funding lol use common sence as polls solve nothing just influence behaviour

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"

... But you asked 2 questions and only 2 people answered the second one. You appeared to get a bit vexed with people that answered the first one.

As an extra to the first question, we have never seen a condom being used for oral sex in a club and never seen a dental dam at all. "

Yes I did ask two questions: My first question was "how common is it in the lifestyle for people to insist on using condoms for oral. And no one answered the how common (e.g. frequency) question. Or did I miss that? All the answers were a litany of "we would never" blah blah blah - yeah I know they would never - but how often have they had people request/insist on it??

I've never seen a dental dam either but it sounds nasty and plasticky. Nor have I ever seen condoms used for oral in a club. Nor have we ever been asked to use condoms for oral. Hence my solicitation of comments from people that HAVE been asked or from people that DO ask.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes - and it is completely immaterial to what I am prepared to do. I am just curious and gathering information about the experiences of people that do insist on condoms for oral, how it works for them, and thanks to a few people who answered the question, I am finding out.

PS. wrath? me? nah.

But you asked 2 questions and only 2 people answered the second one. You appeared to get a bit vexed with people that answered the first one.

As an extra to the first question, we have never seen a condom being used for oral sex in a club and never seen a dental dam at all. "

A few years ago we went to room in a club with a couple . Sabrina started sucking him off , and his wife and I were happily watching when she pulled out a condom and proceeded to put it on my cock . A bit hasty I thought and said as much . She said oh its ok I just want to suck you for a bit , and began . Well I was not impressed , especially as her fella was getting the full experience bare next to me , and I was struggling to stay hard . I reached down to take it off and she said she wouldn't suck me without it . I told her that's fine , I'd rather you didn't then , and carried in with a wank which was infinitely better than the bj with a condom .

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By *razedcatMan
over a year ago

London / Herts

In my opinion, and on balance, the pleasure gained from unprotected oral sex outweighs the risk posed by unprotected oral sex.

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

I'll do either, but the condom must be latex free. I know the risks if I choose not to use a condom, so I get tested regularly, so always ask for throat swabs if you don't usually get them offered to you. My clinic know me well, so u get the whole lot done.

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By *azz26Woman
over a year ago

wrexham

I've just started to insist on condoms for oral. Agree it takes away the feeling etc but common sense prevails I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would put us both off by giving or receiving oral with condoms. I believe the risk is very low especially if you make sure you don't participate if you have any mouth sores, ulcers or cut gums etc. Maybe someone more qualified than me could give out the risk data for unprotected oral sex?

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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago

Newcastle

I was once in a very horny situation with a lady when she announced that there would be no oral in either direction without protection. Neither of us had an oral dam so we improvised and used cling film - giving was just as awful and unfeeling as receiving never again!

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By *herryhott1Man
over a year ago

Cork

OP - In general I think a lot of people wud think ur weird, however I'm with u, the additional pleasure isn't worth the extra risk and wish it was similar to attitude around penetration.

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I've had requests from guys to suck them with a condom and I've refused. One guy refused to meet me because of it. In the same way, I'd refuse to meet a guy who insisted on using a dental dam on me.

P x

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By *orthwest_cplCouple
over a year ago

Stretford


"Yes I did ask two questions: My first question was "how common is it in the lifestyle for people to insist on using condoms for oral. And no one answered the how common (e.g. frequency) question. Or did I miss that? All the answers were a litany of "we would never" blah blah blah - yeah I know they would never - but how often have they had people request/insist on it?? "

You asked how common it was in the lifestyle. The people saying they would never use a condom blah blah blah are answering the question - for them it is uncommon. Maybe word your questions better and you will get the answers you want - you didn't originally ask if people who didn't use condoms were asked to which now appears to be what you want to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wife used to insist on me rubbering up if giving me oral. Needless to say that's one of reasons she became the ex wife. I used to suck and lick her pussy for hours and hours, hoping one day she would return the favour but noooooooo.

Then one day she popped round to see me in my batchelor pad. Aye aye, what's going on here. She sucked me like a good un and no rubber. Someone had been teaching her no doubt. She became much more of a naughty girl in the bedroom. Very pleased for her to have found that pleasure, just a pity it took separation and then divorce. C'est la vie.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle

All depends on your risk appetite. All forms of unprotected sexual acts are risky, some worse than others.

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Wouldn't even bother if a woman insisted on me wearing a Johnny for a BJ, I'd just walk out, no point in it, next thing we will be asked to wear gloves for touching and masks if want to kiss

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford


"All depends on your risk appetite. All forms of unprotected sexual acts are risky, some worse than others. "

Anyone know the risk statistics for unprotected oral? Figure it must be very low or folk on here are very reluctant to admit catching something...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always without condoms on dick on meets as you can feel it better in her mouth

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"... You asked how common it was in the lifestyle. ... "

I asked the following: am now wondering if we should insist on them for oral as well. How common is that practice in the lifestyle?

The "practice" I was referring to was the insistence on a condom. But you are right - it is evident that I do need to word things more clearly - In the future I'll try to do better hitting the lowest common denominator when asking a question.

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"Wouldn't even bother if a woman insisted on me wearing a Johnny for a BJ, I'd just walk out, no point in it...D"

Have you ever been asked?

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"My ex wife used to insist on me rubbering up if giving me oral. Needless to say that's one of reasons she became the ex wife. I used to suck and lick her pussy for hours and hours, hoping one day she would return the favour but noooooooo.

Then one day she popped round to see me in my batchelor pad. Aye aye, what's going on here. She sucked me like a good un and no rubber. Someone had been teaching her no doubt. She became much more of a naughty girl in the bedroom. Very pleased for her to have found that pleasure, just a pity it took separation and then divorce. C'est la vie."

LOLOL - this is hilarious! OMG - your own wife made you wear a condom!?? Dear god. I can't even fathom it.

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"I've had requests from guys to suck them with a condom and I've refused. One guy refused to meet me because of it. In the same way, I'd refuse to meet a guy who insisted on using a dental dam on me.

P x"

Ta xx

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"I was once in a very horny situation with a lady when she announced that there would be no oral in either direction without protection. Neither of us had an oral dam so we improvised and used cling film - giving was just as awful and unfeeling as receiving never again!"

I really must google this oral damn and see what it looks like!

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By *uperock99Man
over a year ago

Milton Keynes


"Wouldn't even bother if a woman insisted on me wearing a Johnny for a BJ, I'd just walk out, no point in it...D

Have you ever been asked?"
No but if they did that is what I won't do

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"In my opinion, and on balance, the pleasure gained from unprotected oral sex outweighs the risk posed by unprotected oral sex."

This has always been our philosophy as well - doing our best to choose partners carefully as possible.

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By *xoticloverMan
over a year ago

newcastle


"I was once in a very horny situation with a lady when she announced that there would be no oral in either direction without protection. Neither of us had an oral dam so we improvised and used cling film - giving was just as awful and unfeeling as receiving never again!

I really must google this oral damn and see what it looks like!"

No good, kills the charm...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see some would use condoms on a bj here, but do women expect some men to want them to wear it to the female version?

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"I was once in a very horny situation with a lady when she announced that there would be no oral in either direction without protection. Neither of us had an oral dam so we improvised and used cling film - giving was just as awful and unfeeling as receiving never again!"

Ta xx

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"I've just started to insist on condoms for oral. Agree it takes away the feeling etc but common sense prevails I guess"

Thanks for the response - may I ask what it was that tipped it over the edge for you to now insist on condoms for oral?

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"I'll do either, but the condom must be latex free. I know the risks if I choose not to use a condom, so I get tested regularly, so always ask for throat swabs if you don't usually get them offered to you. My clinic know me well, so u get the whole lot done."

Yes I think the throat swabs thing is something that is frequently overlooked

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By *reenEyedWife OP   Couple
over a year ago

Market Harborough


"...A few years ago we went to room in a club with a couple . Sabrina started sucking him off , and his wife and I were happily watching when she pulled out a condom and proceeded to put it on my cock . A bit hasty I thought and said as much . She said oh its ok I just want to suck you for a bit , and began . Well I was not impressed , especially as her fella was getting the full experience bare next to me , and I was struggling to stay hard . I reached down to take it off and she said she wouldn't suck me without it . I told her that's fine , I'd rather you didn't then , and carried in with a wank which was infinitely better than the bj with a condom . "

Bingo! LOL - thank-you x

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By *azz26Woman
over a year ago

wrexham


"I've just started to insist on condoms for oral. Agree it takes away the feeling etc but common sense prevails I guess

Thanks for the response - may I ask what it was that tipped it over the edge for you to now insist on condoms for oral?"

I had a close call on a recent health check but it turned out to be a contaminated swab but made me think whilst 2nd sample was being checked x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *azz26Woman
over a year ago

wrexham


"I see some would use condoms on a bj here, but do women expect some men to want them to wear it to the female version?"

Yes protection both for giving and receiving for me. As I said it is not the same but health is paramount for all parties. This is purely for any one off or infrequent meet

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it would put us both off by giving or receiving oral with condoms. I believe the risk is very low especially if you make sure you don't participate if you have any mouth sores, ulcers or cut gums etc. Maybe someone more qualified than me could give out the risk data for unprotected oral sex? "

Almost 50% of the adult population have periodontitis. That can mean that you have tiny cuts on your gums, or sore bits, or inflammation.

I insist on condom usage for oral because I have periodontitis which has resulted in bleeding from my gums regularly. I decided that because I have cuts on my gums *all the time* that I prefer not to indulge in activities that involve fluid swapping and my mouth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see some would use condoms on a bj here, but do women expect some men to want them to wear it to the female version?"

If a man wants to use a dental dam for oral sex then that's totally find by me. I respect the wishes of the people that I go to bed with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see some would use condoms on a bj here, but do women expect some men to want them to wear it to the female version?

Yes protection both for giving and receiving for me. As I said it is not the same but health is paramount for all parties. This is purely for any one off or infrequent meet"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see some would use condoms on a bj here, but do women expect some men to want them to wear it to the female version?

If a man wants to use a dental dam for oral sex then that's totally find by me. I respect the wishes of the people that I go to bed with."

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I'd never use condoms for oral.. a mouthful of jack Daniel's act's as a good disinfectant i find..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd never use condoms for oral.. a mouthful of jack Daniel's act's as a good disinfectant i find.. "

I know you're saying it in jest - but just in case anyone takes your post as advice it's best to write that alcohol doesn't kill all STD's.

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

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"I'd never use condoms for oral.. a mouthful of jack Daniel's act's as a good disinfectant i find..

I know you're saying it in jest - but just in case anyone takes your post as advice it's best to write that alcohol doesn't kill all STD's."

what me.. say something in jest.. ohh you know me too well

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

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"Have been reading a lot of rather scary statistics on here lately regarding oral transmission of sexually transmitted diseases. We always use condoms for penetration but am now wondering if we should insist on them for oral as well. How common is that practice in the lifestyle?

Certainly I prefer the feel and taste of a naked cock in my mouth, and I'm sure it feels better for the guy, but I value my health more - how many of you forumites insist on condoms (and/or mouth dams) for oral? ~Kate"

No because I find it very unpleasant to give, I would simply decline and not mind if he did too.

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