FabSwingers.com forum: Banter or Crass???

By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

What's your opinion of the first message from someone being along the lines of destroying your genitalia or smashing back door ?

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By *etter the devil you knowWoman
over a year ago

Lyndhurst

I know some women would like that, but not me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an instant delete from me. Totally crass and shows very little effort being made.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I see it as just plain rude tbh...definitely not my style

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By *heBakeOLiteGirlWoman
over a year ago

62 West Wallaby Street (not real address)

Makes me cringe especially if it comes from an older person.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

I would find it to be a very strange opening message, and wouldn't want that person to contact me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant delete from me too and has received far too many e mails like it

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By *rightonfranceMan
over a year ago

brighton - chalais france

theyre welcome to smash my door,its old made of wood and leads into a barn.. not much to find in there anyway.

Why someone would want to smash my back door in in the middle of nowhere is beyond me.. genitals on the other hand..

sounds rude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your opinion of the first message from someone being along the lines of destroying your genitalia or smashing back door ?

I find it pretty hateful actually. Some guys are clearly being pretty misogynistic with that kind of message too.

I usually ask them if they think permanent deformities are funny, or if they think sexual assault if a good chat up line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your opinion of the first message from someone being along the lines of destroying your genitalia or smashing back door ?

But you already know the answer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete the messege and block them without bothering to reply to such an awful messege.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some might like it but not for me and W doesnt like that kind of chat aimed at me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's rude, crass and usually a jolly reliable indicator of someone either not reading my profile at all or being incapable of judging what may or may not illicit a response.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what mood I'm in. If I'm tired I say no thank you,if I'm having a mental day I'll play along. Quite often we end up having a funny conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm intrigued to know what % of women like messages like that and would reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant delete and block from us.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

In what world is that "banter"?

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

I like that it helps normal guys (like me and a lot others) stand out from the meanderthal types

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"In what world is that "banter"?"

Yes, I though that too.

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"In what world is that "banter"?

Yes, I though that too."

Lol sorry banter is a Scots term ... joke ,jest ,playful repartee

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

"In what world is that "banter"?

Yes, I though that too.

Lol sorry banter is a Scots term ... joke ,jest ,playful repartee "

I know what banter means.....

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"What's your opinion of the first message from someone being along the lines of destroying your genitalia or smashing back door ?

But you already know the answer..."

No actually I don't. I know my feelings towards it .But as said some may enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on my mood! Most of the time just raise an eyebrow and delete (like most of my messages) or if I'm up for it, I'll retaliate with something equally as crass!!

Had a message convo with someone like that before. We started off normal chit chat and when I said I wasn't really interested he sent me a torrent of abuse, calling me all sorts. I was bored so took it as a challenge and the "banter" ensued. It was brilliant!! He was gobsmaked. We had a good laugh but decided not meet!!

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By *ensual temptress OP Woman
over a year ago

Southampton

"In what world is that "banter"?

Yes, I though that too.

Lol sorry banter is a Scots term ... joke ,jest ,playful repartee

I know what banter means.....

Lol sorry I clearly need more caffeine lol!!

It's certainly not in my world but they have meets so must of worked lol.

I'd just hope a guy would not assume what's going to interested me and that type of approach will get a gals gusset gushing lol . Suss us out ..we are individuals Thankful there are lovely guys who do realise that .

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Misogynist, porn obsessed loner with violent tendencies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your opinion of the first message from someone being along the lines of destroying your genitalia or smashing back door ?

Crass, ignorant and indicative of the type of person we wouldn't want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are all sorts in this world, personally I prefer Seduction to destruction. So would view them as crass threat type messages, but others may enjoy them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them. I think they're funny.

Some people are far too serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant delete from me, those kind of messages are up there with the organised fun messages, you know the ones where they say I'm gonna stick my massive throbbing dick in your pussy and tweak on them nipples and clap on them cheeks! Or words to that effect. Hate organised fun messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But I like my genitalia!! I don't want them destroyed

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Makes me cringe especially if it comes from an older person. "

Makes me cringe whatever their age.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

Block button would be used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the automatic presumption that i'm up for a meet with them is what puts me off.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I would be a bit

reply thanks but no thanks and ignore any subsequent messages. It does amaze me that some guys actually meet women off the back of these types of message!

But each to there own if course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant delete then block 'em. It's the only way!

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By *exysuzi and Mr.SCouple
over a year ago

CONISTON .Stoke Suburbia. Staffs. BARMOUTH. The Lakes (Monthly)

I wouldnt even open the message, but just ignore it.

It's their time and energy they are wasting not mine xxxx Suzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I reckon very few women would welcome that sort of message as an opener.

It almost pains me to say this but I, on this rare occasion, find myself in agreement with Wasp Hunter.

It's conception is more likely from hate and misogyny than anything else.

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By *lighty1Woman
over a year ago

You Dont Need to Know, right now

"Misogynist, porn obsessed loner with violent tendencies

This

Instant delete and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What's your opinion of the first message from someone being along the lines of destroying your genitalia or smashing back door ?

Banter is with friends not strangers.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I can't even bring myself to say something like that without feeling ridiculous...

"I'm gonna smash your garage door in with my massive Transit, baby........yeah..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who in their right mind would meet someone who wrote such a message

. Massive red flag to me. Delete and ignore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who in their right mind would meet someone who wrote such a message

. Massive red flag to me. Delete and ignore. "

I am convinced guys who write these sorts of messages are not actually bothered if they get rejected.

The knowledge that their vile message to a woman has actually been read gives them their sexual thrill. The pathetic wretches likely see it as a bigger success if they feel they have offended somebody enough to be blocked.

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By *erfectman122Man
over a year ago

from somewhere nice

It's a block from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Who in their right mind would meet someone who wrote such a message

. Massive red flag to me. Delete and ignore.

I am convinced guys who write these sorts of messages are not actually bothered if they get rejected.

Can only imagine what their sad little lives are like

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Instant delete and block from us."

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Crass and block xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've often wondered if they should be reported as abusive, as opposed to blocked.

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By *outhernchappieMan
over a year ago

brighton

From a man to a woman....Crass

From a woman to a man.....refreshing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wish I would get a filthy message out of the blue from a woman wanting to destroy my genitalia..well at least fucking use it well haha

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