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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Hi all

Me and my FWB have been thinking of the idea of letting the other have complete control. It really is something that gets us both hot and bothered.

She wants to take cuff me and use a strap on and i'm up for it

I want to tie her and make her cum with out penetration so she incredibly sensitive when i do

We have cuffs, vibe, strap on, blind fold, massage oils etc but im struggling with finding rope and an intimate way of tying someone without hurting them. I have seen some at hardware stores (cotton rope) & obviously at adult shops but wonder what others would recommend?

Also i need help in tying her up. Any advice or guidance would be apprecaited xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look up "under bed restraints".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look up "under bed restraints". "

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"Look up "under bed restraints". "

Have seen them and they do look a good idea but i have cuffs and want to make the effort with rope. Think it would be a lot more erotic and intimate slowly tying her

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By *ilacWoman
over a year ago

Cheshire

it can be as simple or as complex as you want it to be. I have various rope from sex shops, fetish markets and from hardware stores. Makes no odds. Last time I tied someone up, I used my stockings. There are various tutorial videos you can watch of simple tying techniques. Just play about and see what you find fun.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

2 knotty boys. And soft rope. Get a much longer length than you think you'll need. I've not used bondage tape but that might be a good start?

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By *ubik cubeMan
over a year ago

Near Liverpool

I learnt my techniques by viewing rope play on you tube, a great resource for tutorial films

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Thanks all for the posts and PMs. Got a few more ideas now and thoughts of where to look.

Didn't about everyday household stuff. I will not look at clothes pegs in the same way again

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester

If I may add to some previously helpful posts. Soft rope is okay but the yarns are loose and after a short time start to fray. If you're keen to start correctly, order 2-3 bundles of 6mm Jute. It's what we currently use and is excellent quality. Don't forget your cutting sheers, time to practice and have fun. -M

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By *ncutgemMan
over a year ago

Bath ish

3 peices of advice

safety shears

safety scissors

saftey safty

I hire a small studio in Bristol if you would like some hands on advice ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jute rope every time! But it takes some preparation, boiling, oiling and drying. The smell of the role is amazing x

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Try to find a ropework group and go to a few workshops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't overthink it all to be honest.

Start off slowly and simply. It can be a real turn off for both of you if one of you is fiddling with knots you're not comfortable with.

If your cuffs have a D ring or something similar, just get some everyday rope from B&Q, cut a long length and feed it under the mattress, then you can just pull out the ends, tie to the D-ring and hey presto... Not a bad way to start.

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By *eKoopleCouple
over a year ago

Germany / Manchester


"Jute rope every time! But it takes some preparation, boiling, oiling and drying. The smell of the role is amazing x"

You can purchase Jute ready to use, no need to purchase the raw product unless you're really keen to do so. -M

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm a very lazy Domme, never had patience with rope. Just strap them down/up and crack on!

Try searching for shibari rope bondage in your area. Workshops are pretty popular at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you are a newbie l would recommend cotton rope which you can get on ebay or amazon. I would avoid the Knotty Boys for sex play. Instead check out Chantra Rose's book Bondage for Sex. I would highly recommend it if you are limiting yourself to bedroom restraint. Also look at the crotch rope tie on youtube. Good luck!

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

Thanks again for the ideas all.

In the end i didnt get rope for our first try but did use cuffs and my belt as an inpromptu whip and tie-down.

We both ended up drained and satisfied and i've been promised a kinky massage for my efforts

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By *tephanie19631TV/TS
over a year ago

oxford

Lots of soft velcro type cuffs on the web for quick release

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

loads of rope on the internet,many different types although when i asked about the standard is 8mm cotton , people use other types for different effects.. get lots of it it doesnt go very far..there is lots to learn. and the knotty boys, u tube vids and books are available..or get yourself along to a munch, where people will be happy to show you the ropes with some easy knots. happy rigging x

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By *igSuki81 OP   Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village


"loads of rope on the internet,many different types although when i asked about the standard is 8mm cotton , people use other types for different effects.. get lots of it it doesnt go very far..there is lots to learn. and the knotty boys, u tube vids and books are available..or get yourself along to a munch, where people will be happy to show you the ropes with some easy knots. happy rigging x"

Thanks for the advice. Got under bed restraints which work good but tbh we have been making do with what ever was there at the time. Leggings, belt, tie but most fun was clearing the garage and finding some rope which led to an inpromptu session and me being tied to the rafters and at her naughty mercy

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By *G LanaTV/TS
over a year ago

Gosport

I tend to use dyneema SK75 rope as I have it hanging around from hammock camping for the bits of self bondage I've tried. It is a hollow core braided synthetic rope with very high static load to weight ratio.

Whoopie slings especially make it easier as they can be rigged so I can set things to the right tension without being easy to release. Can be interesting especially when coupled with an ice lock system but you do need to have thought through your emergency plan when playing like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look up "under bed restraints".

Have seen them and they do look a good idea but i have cuffs and want to make the effort with rope. Think it would be a lot more erotic and intimate slowly tying her "

Lots of great vids on you tube

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Look up "under bed restraints". "

And trap the ends between a door and its surround.... Tightly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Look up "under bed restraints".

And trap the ends between a door and its surround.... Tightly "

Brilliant idea.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

Dom I knew used rope that had been used in theatres as they renew it regularly. Nice thick black rope.

Try the fet website for workshops and help.

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