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That time of month

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why isit I'm at my horniest at that time of month you can't (or personally wouldn't) go meeting!! So frustrating !!! Grrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's always someone who finds it fun

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By *ex.IncCouple
over a year ago

Castleford

Its generally the case with us. When we had a meet arranged the day before Liz would start spotting.

Inconvenient, but nothing you can do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought this was about pay day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wait till you hit the change and they are no longer regular, they can be late, extremely late or early and catch you on the hop, planning meets for me now is a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wait till you hit the change and they are no longer regular, they can be late, extremely late or early and catch you on the hop, planning meets for me now is a nightmare "

What you changing into?

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By *nkednkinky_bbwWoman
over a year ago

cannock


"Just wait till you hit the change and they are no longer regular, they can be late, extremely late or early and catch you on the hop, planning meets for me now is a nightmare "

i'm like that without being on the change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the rod implanted last September and not had a 'time of the month' since

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This isnt a problem for me as i cant bear to be touched at that time of the month, but i have found my body likes to scupper meets, once i came on 10 DAYS early !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I had the rod implanted last September and not had a 'time of the month' since "

I was on a pill that stopped time of the month, trouble is killed my sex drive too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats a rod implant ?

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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago

Dudley/Telford


"Why isit I'm at my horniest at that time of month you can't (or personally wouldn't) go meeting!! So frustrating !!! Grrrrr"

so annoying and im sure some men think its an excuse to cancel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This isnt a problem for me as i cant bear to be touched at that time of the month, but i have found my body likes to scupper meets, once i came on 10 DAYS early !"

I know this feeling too well, any time I'm tempted I'm wary that I'm coming on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the rod implanted last September and not had a 'time of the month' since "

Haven't seen Rod for ages, wonder why he hadn't been down the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the rod implanted last September and not had a 'time of the month' since

I was on a pill that stopped time of the month, trouble is killed my sex drive too "

I've just gone back on the pill (3 months ago) after 12 years to control things.... sex drive has gone through the roof!!! Get your doc to change your prescription if you can... mine allows 'the time of month' but at least I can plan around it

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By *nkednkinky_bbwWoman
over a year ago

cannock


"I had the rod implanted last September and not had a 'time of the month' since

I was on a pill that stopped time of the month, trouble is killed my sex drive too "

i had the injection and it did the same, 13 weeks it lasted by then i'd lost my mojo completely!

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By *lirty and dirtyCouple
over a year ago

ashford


"whats a rod implant ? "

its a contraceptive implant you have put under the skin in the arm...luckily for the OP it stopped her bleeding but for me the time inbetween got shorter and shorte til i was bleeding every 9 days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have the depo injection and get no bleeds either x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading back I started my injections last sept and I must admit my sex drive hasn't be as high as usual but I can't take the pill x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have the implant as well, and fantasic it is too, not come on in months lol and if I do it is only for a few hours so all good here lol Just need to find someone though...every up has it's downs!! (no pun intended)

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I had some meets scuppered by irregular periods - grr! I also tried the mirena coil - no periods, yes - but no damn libido either!!

A (major-ish) op solved all of that for me - no more problems!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got the copper coil (can't have hormonal contraceptives).

My sex drive is exactly the same but my sex life is upside down - sometimes 6 week cycles, sometimes 2 week cycles!

We certainly cant plan in advance but I am adjusting to it... at least i know when its coming as I seem to get a nesting/cleaning boost through the day and a rampant desire at night... and then it starts, boo hoo

Every sympathy to the OP xxx

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By *iteskinMan
over a year ago

Cardiff/Newport/Bristol/M4

natural sponge

problem solved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you use a cap/diaphragm - a friend of mine who's a family planning nurse said these are popular with escorts who need to be able to work all month round...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd rather be sterilised- but they won't let me ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thought this was about pay day "

So did I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather be sterilised- but they won't let me ......"

Doesn't stop periods! They only agreed to sterilise me because I was married and I was having my third caesarian. They thought 30 was too young!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fem here had hysterectomy years ago after last child .......best thing ever !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather be sterilised- but they won't let me ......

Doesn't stop periods! They only agreed to sterilise me because I was married and I was having my third caesarian. They thought 30 was too young! "
I want the wole lot gone- but at 34, I'm apparently too young to know what I want.....

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

am now 52 doc told me to come off the pill in jan was due last week but nothing this is the first month without a period maybe just maybe am on the change...............its getting hot again or is it just me

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By *istress-MazikeenWoman
over a year ago

bolton


"Just wait till you hit the change and they are no longer regular, they can be late, extremely late or early and catch you on the hop, planning meets for me now is a nightmare "

Tell me about it! I know exactly what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine are so light noone would notice!!! (got the coil)

Hell even I dont notice sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No longer an issue for me as I have a Mirena coil.

I have always had coils as I cannot tolerate hormonal contraceptions.

The amount of hormone delivered by the Mirena coil is very small and localised. It took 3 months to settle though.

The success rate is comparable to sterilisation, however, it may not suit everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never have periods so dosent bother me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

iv had the implant for about 2 yrs now and never had any probs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the rod implanted last September and not had a 'time of the month' since "

I had a balloon ablation (completely removes lining of uterus) and can't bleed now but still have the delights of horny ovulation time. Hormonal contraception has a lot to answer for by decreasing libido as it supresses ovulation. I have never been hornier since this little procedure I wish I had it years ago. You can still get pregnant theoretically but extremely rare and nothing for egg to nourish into, so condoms safe enough now.

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By *LBishCouple
over a year ago

near bury st edmunds

I have the marina coil fitted not had a time of the month for 8 years now, god i so dont miss it. let them try and take it away from me and i would kill them. I can enjoy sex any time and day any month yehhhhhhhh xx Although i sometimes get other symptoms like sore boobies, but i can still have sex so still GREAT xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have the marina coil fitted not had a time of the month for 8 years now, god i so dont miss it. let them try and take it away from me and i would kill them. I can enjoy sex any time and day any month yehhhhhhhh xx Although i sometimes get other symptoms like sore boobies, but i can still have sex so still GREAT xxxx"

I had one prior to the ablation and it was because of the sore boobs that I asked for another solution. They used to swell up and go really hot for days on end.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is only a brave Pirate who sails the red sea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

an old soldier don't mind blood on his bayonet

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

10 years without a period for me. You got to bless the good old mirena coil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10 years without a period for me. You got to bless the good old mirena coil "

15 yrs for Kate.

She had her gearbox removed when she was 31

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"10 years without a period for me. You got to bless the good old mirena coil "

Could not have it if I wanted it.. lol Coils and me do not mix.. dont you find they get dislodged during sex??

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just wait till you hit the change and they are no longer regular, they can be late, extremely late or early and catch you on the hop, planning meets for me now is a nightmare "

I know it was awful kept having to cancel meets but Ive come throught it and can play anytime now

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By *ummy mummyWoman
over a year ago

southampton-ish


"I had the rod implanted last September and not had a 'time of the month' since "

same as me..will be 2 years in may

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

through the change so no periods and sex anytime. hurrah for getting older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the rod implanted last September and not had a 'time of the month' since

same as me..will be 2 years in may "

lucky you.. I am now on the pill as well as the implant as without it I end up on every other day.. not fun..

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm on the pill and go back to back on my packets every other month.

I never feel particularly turned on when I'm on. It irritates me when guys try to insist on coming over to play anyway - "oh go on, you can give me a blowjob." What fun for me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One major advantage of the medication I'm on - no periods, unfortunately there's a major disadvanatge - horrible hot flushes! Oh well, you can't have it all...

Mrs R

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does anyone else find it extremely embarrasing to have to discuss with a meet about your menstrual cycle?

I sometimes come up with other excuses for cancelling, as i cant be bothered to discuss my internal workings!!

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"does anyone else find it extremely embarrasing to have to discuss with a meet about your menstrual cycle?

I sometimes come up with other excuses for cancelling, as i cant be bothered to discuss my internal workings!!

xxx"

Yeah, I often think how odd it is to have to basically tell someone I've never met before when I'd not even mention it to my mates.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

I would have hoped most blokes would be intelligent enough to realise why a meet was being postponed with just the slightest of hints, thereby avoiding those embarrassing conversations. I'm guessing by your posts that this isn't the case...?

Personally I don't have a problem talking about menstruation, but I can understand why someone would want to avoid discussing it wherever possible. Just seems funny feeling embarrassing considering you're going to be doing some very intimate things with that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would have hoped most blokes would be intelligent enough to realise why a meet was being postponed with just the slightest of hints, thereby avoiding those embarrassing conversations. I'm guessing by your posts that this isn't the case...?

Personally I don't have a problem talking about menstruation, but I can understand why someone would want to avoid discussing it wherever possible. Just seems funny feeling embarrassing considering you're going to be doing some very intimate things with that person."

Not embarrassing as such to say you can't play in a particular week. But what is embarassing is when you get a guy who's on and on at you saying well can't I come round for a blowjob and goes on and on so you have to start saying look you have no idea how crappy I feel and it becomes this big issue...Grrr

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Ahhh... gotcha. Yeah, sounds like blokes being twattish again.

After getting a few slaps from Mrs ex-Carambar I learnt a long time ago not to say such stupid stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ahhh... gotcha. Yeah, sounds like blokes being twattish again.

After getting a few slaps from Mrs ex-Carambar I learnt a long time ago not to say such stupid stuff."

It's different in a relationship but on a meet, it's a big no for me certainly.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"Ahhh... gotcha. Yeah, sounds like blokes being twattish again.

After getting a few slaps from Mrs ex-Carambar I learnt a long time ago not to say such stupid stuff.

It's different in a relationship but on a meet, it's a big no for me certainly. "

Understandably. I'd imagine it would be for most women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldnt swing whilst on a period, I wouldnt feel comfortable, would worry constantly, feel dirty, worry in case I tasted metallic, worry in case I didnt smell good, no definitely not.

Not that I have to worry about it though, as I have the Mirena coil and I havent had a period for nearly 6 months, yippeee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I couldnt swing whilst on a period, I wouldnt feel comfortable, would worry constantly, feel dirty, worry in case I tasted metallic, worry in case I didnt smell good, no definitely not.

Not that I have to worry about it though, as I have the Mirena coil and I havent had a period for nearly 6 months, yippeee"

happy it worked for you ive been on a period for 3 months since i had my mirena coil fitted been told it can take up to 6 months wasnt told this when they fitted it ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"through the change so no periods and sex anytime. hurrah for getting older. "

Same here

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By *unlovers2009Couple
over a year ago

chester

I had an op last year which means I dont get them anymore!!

No shag breaks here!!! Woooooo hooooooooo!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmmm - I have a girlfriend who loves it when I go down on her at that time.... very intimate and sexy!

Fortunately I'm now past those monthly visits myself... thank goodness....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd rather be sterilised- but they won't let me ......

Doesn't stop periods! They only agreed to sterilise me because I was married and I was having my third caesarian. They thought 30 was too young! I want the wole lot gone- but at 34, I'm apparently too young to know what I want....."
......oh i was 29 when i asked to be sterilised and the doctors made appoinments at the hospital for me to go to .... things changed so it never happened .... but i dont no if they let me do it cause i had 4 kids and didnt want anymore xx

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